= Relationship Help = [Male-Male]

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

Hey guys,

Here is what I'd like help with.

I'm 16 and bisexual and I have no problem with that, I'm mostly out (meaning everyone that needs to know, knows.) of course there is more to me then that but it's unnecessary at the moment.

Now I've met this wonderful guy that over the course of this year, we have fell inlove, now my issue is he's 13.

Now before anyone calls me a monster or a freak or anything along those lines hear me out.


I have never liked a guy out of my age group, except for him.

I truly do love him, doubt me if you wish, but I do.

I'd NEVER hurt him, or pressure him into ANYTHING!

Our Relationship is purely EMOTIONALLY there is no word of sex, and I'm not bringing it up unless he does.

Also it is all perfectly LEGAL there are just moral issues within the public.


Now I have a few questions:


Do you consider me a bad person?
Do you believe me it is love?
Do you find it wrong/disgusting? If yes, why?
Anything you wish to tell me?


Now all feedback is appreciated, granted many of you will insult me, but I'm hoping someone will be willing to help me.

Note: If referring to this lovely guy call him umm.. Frank. (Lame alias I know.)

- Jack

[The_Narwhal]

Hmm. As long as its love in my opinion its okay. But remember if your 16 im sure in your country having sex with someone under 16 is illegal. So while there may have not been any mention of the subject, be careful and if you do decide to do anything make sure your both ready and try to make sure hes legal.

I wish you two the best of luck :)

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

Oh the sex is legal, surprisingly, but I have no interest in it.

[The_Narwhal]

Okay. I hope you two have a great and lasting realationship.

Good luck :D

[Donkey]

1. Nope

2. Who knows? Your definition of love may be different to mine - if it is love for you, it must be love :)

3. Nope. Just respect him as you would anyone else and remember he might have less life experience than you.

4. Be careful. People think things sometimes; I'm very liberal. Age shouldn't get in your way as long as he understands the relationship as you do and you have a close bond with each other. Don't be thinking about age. Judge by the content of somebody's character always

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

1. Nope

2. Who knows? Your definition of love may be different to mine - if it is love for you, it must be love :)

3. Nope. Just respect him as you would anyone else and remember he might have less life experience than you.

4. Be careful. People think things sometimes; I'm very liberal. Age shouldn't get in your way as long as he understands the relationship as you do and you have a close bond with each other. Don't be thinking about age. Judge by the content of somebody's character always

Thank you!

And the point "Don't be thinking about age. Judge by the content of somebody's character always"

That is something I strongly believe, Thank you,

But I'd still like to hear other opinions.

[Tannerbolton]

If you really love him go for it!! Im bisexual, and very liberal, and I think that if you have strong feelings for him, who can judge you for that?? I know I cant! PM me if you ever need to talk man, I will be here for ya!

[scott757]

Suppose theres nothing wrong. Tbh I'm not an expert on gay relationships (being straight myself) big I guess it must be that bit more difficult to find someone else. I would say go for it, don't let the chance slip you while it's here. Good luck!

[ashdyn]

We can't tell you if you're in love or not. If you really are in love then you're in love.

If it's all legal and consensual then I see no problem at all...even if things do get physical as long as it's what you both want. Date him. Be happy. I mean people grow and change and you have to expect that but who knows he might grow into someone you end up loving even more lol

People will look at you and will judge you, but screw them. You're in love and happy.