why do i feel so bad? (plzz i need help)(OPEN!)

[aryadorable]

im not quite sure if this belongs in this fourm but im writing it any way.

okay, so for the past month this boy that i really liked had been leading me on telling me that he likes me alot and that im absolutly perfect..and yada yda yda but i fell for him hard...we had sex and did some stuff and when he left for spring break he messaged me saying he wished hed asked me out before he left, and wanted to know if i'd wait until he came back so he could do it in person because i really ment somthing to him...and of course i said yes.....well i found out that over spring break he asked out another girl over the phone...hah...and that he had been fooling arond with her the same time he was with mee....that put me over the edge.

now he keeps telling me that im so easy and that no one likes me and im such a loser to think he actualy really liked mee....and hes spreading nasty rumours around about mee...and its really sick...all of ittt..

i feel like strangling him or somthingg...
i dont know what to do to get all this hate out of my system seeing as i have never truly disliked someone this much before....


can someone give me some advide???????????????????????????:(

[Mirataku]

After the discovery of betrayal, your emotions will be intense. The anger, hurt, bewilderment, betrayal, and numbing shock are almost overwhelming. What you want is medium to ventilate your rage.
Anger is never pleasant but it is not only OK to say it with intensity and force, but it is absolutely necessary for true recovery to occur. As bottling up emotions causes phychological strees. People do not get better until they get mad. But express this anger through a medium such as paintballing or another physical activity.

[Hyper]

And you are.. 13? Sry I don't realy remember

But to be honest, atleast you'l know better next time -.-

[Fiending_the_freedom]

beat his ass! :P i'll come down there and help you;)

[ThatCanadianGuy]

(Warning: Language)


That Son of a Bitch!!!! It's guys like him that hurt girls and keep them from meeting the "good guys" like me!!! That guy deserves a swift kick in the nuts, courtesy of a toque-wearing, hockey-playing, "eh" saying Canadian!

I just hope you can get through this and meet a guy that truly loves you. Forget this guy's sorry ass! I hope he dies as lonely as you feel right now!

Um... yeah... take care of yourself.

From the Frozen North,

ThatCanadianGuy

[Antares]

um...wooo
well how old are you (dont have to answer if you dont want)
i think my advice depends on it but. yah just do a physical activity and then go out and say you never wanted him after you saw his small dick and THEN go kick his sorry ass and pants him and make his A LIVING HELL!!

[Hyper]

(Warning: Language)


That Son of a Bitch!!!! It's guys like him that hurt girls and keep them from meeting the "good guys" like me!!! That guy deserves a swift kick in the nuts, courtesy of a toque-wearing, hockey-playing, "eh" saying Canadian!

I just hope you can get through this and meet a guy that truly loves you. Forget this guy's sorry ass! I hope he dies as lonely as you feel right now!

Um... yeah... take care of yourself.

From the Frozen North,

ThatCanadianGuy


Intresting though.. WHy do the girls always go for the dumbfucks? Hmmhm

And I am quite sure she was 13

[Fiending_the_freedom]

because a lot of girls like bad boys :P

[gothboy]

yeah being lied to sucks i know, theres nothing you can do about it execpt learn...so dont rush into things no matter how much you think you 'love' them and all take it slow and be carefull youll get it right someday =)

[Hyper]

Most people never learn and I think people deserve what they willingly take on themselves

[timisawesome]

at this point its gonna be really hard to fix the problems u too have so the only choice is......REVENGE...start spreading rumors about him tell all the girls what he did to you so no girl will ever believe what he says

[Gumleaf]

sounds like a real bastard to me!