Hello everyone. i really need help here.

[ericyou517]

Hi I'm 14 year old. im a guy, organized, funny, straight, nice, sweet,
smells good, naughty :P, dresses nice, medium muscle, but mean sometimes.
(those are things that i heard from my friends.)
umm..im almost 6ft. im 5.95ft right now, i have little fat. (so.not skinny but not fat) and i have a girl in my mind. shes reallyy beautiful, nice, funny, tall, skinny.shes just perfect in my eyes. i liked her for 2 years and i still like her.
Becuz i like her so much, i bothered her with txting, emailing, chatting, made her embarrased by giving her a diamond(of course not real..) heart-shaped necklace. lied alot to impress her. yeh, she acts like she doesnt like me and thinks im annoying, but still she keeps looking at me acts different then other guys.
I CANT FIGURE OUT SHE LIKES ME OR NOT.
AND WHAT DO I DO KNOW?
I NEED GIRLS TO ANSWER THIS :(:( plleeaase i want her really bad.

[Patchy]

Heres the thing you're doing wrong:

lied alot to impress her

Don't do that! Worst thing you can do! Be yourself cause if she does end up liking you through you lying she won't what to go out with you when she realises its not true. Just be yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not worth it.

Be yourself :) and you will eventually find someone

[music is my soul]

Don't do that! Worst thing you can do! Be yourself cause if she does end up liking you through you lying she won't what to go out with you when she realises its not true. Just be yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not worth it.

Be yourself :) and you will eventually find someone

I hav to agree nd maybe back off a little for a few days. Dont stop talking to her or anything just lay back on a the txting nd the emailing nd all that.

[anonymous53]

You lied a lot. Sorry dude, she's just not that into you. Time to back off.

Giving fake diamonds is also a way to annoy females :P

Like Patchy said, be yourself and the right girl will come along. This just isn't her :)
Yes, I know I'm not a girl.

[chillaxman]

i bothered her with txting, emailing, chatting, made her embarrased by giving her a diamond(of course not real..) heart-shaped necklace. lied alot to impress her. yeh, she acts like she doesnt like me and thinks im annoying, but still she keeps looking at me acts different then other guys.


I'm going to be honest. Bothering anyone with all of that(I mean actually bothering them) is going to make them annoyed, or so I would believe. Also giving her a diamond necklace was just a huge no-no. The fact that it was fake just makes it worse. And lying to impress ANYONE is just horrible. If I were you, I'd either give up, or confess your lies AND/OR your feelings. At the current state, it seems your chances of a relationship with her are shot, so coming clean bears you nothing to lose.

[brittanykiss]

well def dont lie. we're smart and can figure that out

[ericyou517]

umm..im 14. i cant afford real diamonds lol...its just middle school relation ship...
not a marriage dating...

[anonymous53]

umm..im 14. i cant afford real diamonds lol...its just middle school relation ship...
not a marriage dating...

Listen, it's not a relationship. Relationships take two people mutually.
I'm not trying to be harsh, but the way she looks at you differently? It's because she probably thinks you're being creepy. You need to back off before you get that reputation as "that weird kid who acts like a stalker"


Also as to the real diamond thing, I've bought 1/4 carrot diamond necklaces from stores for 30 dollars before.

[AmusedDJ]

ask her out

[Kujiro]

There is obviously some issue with the presentation here, its a taboo to building to impress anyone.
Anyone would always prefer someone to come out clean and honest, and if she is to like you, im sure you would want her to like you for who you really are.

What you have done, can be considered scary and generally obsessed.
You should start by taking it eazy, being yourself and all out honest is the way to go.

If anyone be it friend or girlfriend, whos unable to accept you for the way you are, i doubt she was the right one from the beginning.
Such things do take time and its never wise to rush them. Take it a step at a time, im sure in due time the answers would be clearer.

Good luck
*smile*

[CuriousO_oDude]

Just try and be yourself some more, and not to pop your bubble or anything, but your friends might give a warped view of your personality, sorry..

And then there is all of the 'nice' things you've done..
In my mind, any girl who wasn't annoyed with all the things you have done, would be yours already, so on that note,
She. No. Like. You.

Sorry :)
Good luck, try find someone new..............