I'm 15, why do I want to lose my virginity?

[BreeJazz]

I've been wearing a purity ring for about 3 years. I think I'm too young to have sex and I don't even have a boyfriend! I'm 15, I have my whole life to have sex. And I know the consequences, what if I got pregnant, etc etc. But somehow, I feel emotionally and psychically ready to have sex. It's not just that I'm horny but I actually feel like I am ready to have sex. I'm not going to have sex for a while tho ^^
Yea... so does anyone feel this way? How old are you and are you a virgin or not? Do you regret losing your virginity or ever wished you had waited longer?

[Kevinlegit15]

I feel the same way too, I just feel like I should wait for the right person though too.

[aperson444]

Eh I'm the same age.... Still a virgin, but I want to lose it. It's not just for the blind ambition of it, I just feel like it's innate and all humans want to have sex. I feel that the only real set in stone reason we're here is: to have sex. Make more people. I personally would avoid those kind of fucked up situations that stir up a lot of drama and stupid shit, that's the only real problem with it -- the social stigma. But since I don't have the means or the motivation to go seek out sex, I'd probably end up staying a virgin.

Regardless, anyone between 13-21 is going to start feelin like they want to have sex, because it's what our body was built for. As we mature, we have to fit that single all-important function: to have sex. Kind of a gloomy look on life, but hey it's biology.

[Rawrgasm]

And, i feel the same way.. im 14 and i have had many opportunities to loose it, but i think that if something bad happens, which is rare it would completely ruin my life, and its not worth it ;D

[brittanykiss]

its a normal thought. when i was 15 alot of my friends and i were talking about it. dont rush though! make sure its a guy who will treat you well and someone you want to be with

[Electra Heart]

Hormones... I know what you mean

[Eclipsical]

Hormones, yo...we want secks...lol

[Jupiter]

anyway, yeah, like everyone else, im just gonna say its hormones.

[Axxe_Man]

You may feel like you want to give yourself to someone but that someone has to be spacial to you. Meaning, you would have to be ready to commit to that person. I have friends that tell me that they felt like they were ready for sex but it ended up hurtin them when the girl found out the guy was using the girl. That's why have to wait till there is that one guy that will make you feel wonderfull and that will treat you right. :)

[HaydenM]

Briana, please explain the idiotic male cast who can't keep their dick in their pants. Personally I don't believe in the whole 'Purity ring' thing, if you want to have sex and you meet someone that you want to have sex with and you are as safe as possible about it why not. The only meaning of sex is what we put onto it, if you want it to be something special that you wait until marriage for then that is your choice, if you wish for it to be a part of a relationship with whomever you choose to do it with then, once again, your choice.

On the questions, i am 16 and a virgin. I have been (as bad as this sounds) horny, just like any other guy, but i have never really had the urge to actually have sex with anybody, but then again i have never been in the position to do so.

[jimmy-magic]

Might be a bit of peer pressure, i am unaware of you're situation with friends, but maybe you feel a bit of pressure to lose you're virginity because they have, or something along those lines. Just make sure, if it comes that time anytime soon, that you genuinely feel ready, there is no shame in pulling out and saying no at the last minute, i did my first time and i am very happy i did so.

I would not say i regret my decision to lose my virginity, but looking back on it, i would of preferred to of waited to lose it to someone i was truly in love with, as the girl i lost it to was, for lack of a better word a 'bitch'.

Just make sure you know for certain you are ready, maybe have a chat with close friend and get another opinion, but the main this is that you feel ready. Hope i helped in some small way, hope it all works out in the end.

[briannafrmhell]

I Lost mine really early. I don't regret it, but sometimes I wish I waited. Dont just lose it to anyone. Take ur time

[prob1996]

Regardless, anyone between 13-21 is going to start feelin like they want to have sex, because it's what our body was built for. As we mature, we have to fit that single all-important function: to have sex. Kind of a gloomy look on life, but hey it's biology.[/QUOTE]

^^^I agree with this to a point^^^


congrats to you for thinking about your decision and too quickly we just give in and not think of the consequences. i turned 15 eaeleier this and did lose my virginity to my bf. I was in such a hurry to do it. I couldn't wait. I don't regret this decision because it felt right and I do love him but i'll admit I do wonder sometimes what it would've been if I had waited. So I think you made the right decision for you and don't ever feel bad about that

[Travis_123]

itś normal.. hormones. A purity ring, a church, or religion or anybody else cant deside when you should have sex. only you can!

[briannafrmhell]

itś normal.. hormones. A purity ring, a church, or religion or anybody else cant deside when you should have sex. only you can!

Ya. You're human :)

[Chris95]

I've been wearing a purity ring for about 3 years. I think I'm too young to have sex and I don't even have a boyfriend! I'm 15, I have my whole life to have sex. And I know the consequences, what if I got pregnant, etc etc. But somehow, I feel emotionally and psychically ready to have sex. It's not just that I'm horny but I actually feel like I am ready to have sex. I'm not going to have sex for a while tho ^^
Yea... so does anyone feel this way? How old are you and are you a virgin or not? Do you regret losing your virginity or ever wished you had waited longer?

All I can say is, I would think someday in the future when you meet the perfect guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll probably regret it if you lost it now just because you felt "ready", and you'd probably think back and realize you weren't ready at all.

[StoppingTime]

Its obviously normal for anyone at about 14 and on. The hormones are going crazy, and they are making you crazy too. They make you think about sex all the time, and some people have really hard times controlling it. But like people have previously said, don't lose it to anyone, take your time and find the right person.

[LuckyLuke]

I'm a 17 year old male virgin and I've been through, and am going through, the same thing.

I feel ready- both emotionally and physically- to have sex. I've come to grips with my sexuality and have determined that I'm undeniably straight.

Problem is that not only can I not find anyone to lose it too, I don't want to throw away my virginity on a slutty one night thing.

It's likely a lot of peer pressure (although most of my closer friends are virgins but they've went much farther than what I've done- kissing).

But hopefully I'll find that girl someday soon that means enough to me to lose my virginity to.

[Smith98]

I'm 15 too and still a virgin. I am very curious to have sex just to feel what it's like. Masturbatings good though, too.

[Asd20]

its normal but dont rush

[enzenzz]

you're designed to reproduce once you're mature enough, it's your body telling you to start procreating.

in other words: hormones :P

[vgplayer405]

I have infact... I regret it. Honestly. I really should have waited until I either truly loved her or found the person I love, and waited until full sexual maturity. It was very passionate though. And I know we both enjoyed it.
^_^

[DerBear]

I've been wearing a purity ring for about 3 years. I think I'm too young to have sex and I don't even have a boyfriend! I'm 15, I have my whole life to have sex. And I know the consequences, what if I got pregnant, etc etc. But somehow, I feel emotionally and psychically ready to have sex. It's not just that I'm horny but I actually feel like I am ready to have sex. I'm not going to have sex for a while tho ^^
Yea... so does anyone feel this way? How old are you and are you a virgin or not? Do you regret losing your virginity or ever wished you had waited longer?

Only you can answer this question about loosing your own virginity

[BOSS]

Same here been wearing the purity ring for about 2 years and I promised God and my whole family that I would wait till marage but we all get temptations where just flesh. As my preacher says "rub me stroke me make me happy oh baby oh baby" it's just the human way. So don't feel bad.

[kuperman11]

idk i want to also but i am 13

[Boxerbriefs96]

14, virgin, and blame it on the hormones. They affect all of us.

[Rayquaza]

It's your hormones. Its fine. I congratulate you for feeling this way. I feel this way too. Surrounded by people having sex, thinking "I could be ready" but I don't think we are. Im turning 16 soon, it's gonna be really hard for me, but I hope I have enough strong will and determination to stop myself.

[Human]

>mfw purity ring
http://i645.photobucket.com/albums/uu171/cowo8/1304286284331.jpg
puberty is meant to get your body ready for sex so of course you will feel like it
and if you love someone enough you should do it!

[clsloulou]

this might sound made but i kinda want to lose my virginity and i am only 13 you might think that because i am only 13 i am not emotionally ready but i am pretty confident that i am :/

[Say It Aint Tim]

hormones bro hormones

[heykay]

I lost mine when I was 15. I don't look at virginity as some special gift or anything, I don't regret it. When I first wanted to lose it I planned it out with my boyfriend but when we actually were about to, I felt I was hesitant, so we didn't. You may feel you want to lose it, but when it comes down to it you may not want to right away. I didn't regret it, its just a part of life, and nothing to be ashamed of. If you ever do decide to do it at 15, make sure you find someone who is respectful and kind and wont tell everyone in your school that they had it with you, as guys tend to be immature and brag, this happened to several girls in my grade freshmen year and it like killed them. Think it out and make sure you're ready if you ever decide to do anything.

[letluvbleedred]

im pretty such almost everyone feels that way at some point, but yea i know how u feel :)

[jamesscott]

its human nature talking to u