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humanesquire
September 13th, 2011, 12:13 AM
I don't need any help with this, I just wanted to vent.

So there's this boy named Carlos. Carlos and I were introduced through a mutual friend. We hit it off. We would text each other until one passes out from exhaustion and flirt soooo much. We started hanging out without the mutual friend we met through and it was great. I really thought that I was going to get my first boyfriend. I brought dating up to him and he said that he thought we were just friends. That was Earth-shattering in and of itself, but this asshole has the audacity. The fucking audacity to suggest being friends with benefits. I'm sorry, but what? Excuse me?
I'm not like that
I would never as friends
Wait until we date for a while before I even look at your dick

This has irked me beyond anything I feel that I could express.
The worst thing is he's acting really sweet and I'm (even though I don't want to) holding onto the hope that we'll date. I'm tired of this.
Teenage boys are dicks.

HollisterrBboyy
September 13th, 2011, 01:42 AM
I'm sorry bro! I like that you have standards, and morals to who you date and what you date. Maybe just wait for a little and see where it goes! That's what I would do, but I would tell him how I really feel; how mad you are. If he can accept how mad you are about what he did, he'll have a better understanding of who you are as a person though, which will most likely allow for a potential furthering of the relationship. I know you didn't ask for advice, but I just wanted to throw my opinion out there. :D

Travis Is Losing It
September 13th, 2011, 03:06 AM
Guys and girls are the same some will be the kind that just want that kinda thing and some arnt. sure most of the population is straight or closet so there harder to find the kind your into and are into you but eventually you will. dont let it get to you

Swag44
September 13th, 2011, 11:16 PM
Maybe because you rushed him. Maybe try to take it slow cause it may be too overwhelming!

nameless12
September 14th, 2011, 12:01 AM
yea, stuff like that happens, dont worry mate :) you will find someone sooner or later, i would also feel the same ways as you ;)

humanesquire
September 14th, 2011, 06:15 AM
Maybe because you rushed him. Maybe try to take it slow cause it may be too overwhelming!

All of that took place from June to recently. I don't really think that I rushed him..

Can'tHelpIt
September 14th, 2011, 06:02 PM
On the bad side he wants to have sex without dating and plus idk ur age?
On the good side it shows he is attracted to you
On the neutral side hes a teenage boy with teenage hormones

(get back to me on the age thing)

humanesquire
September 14th, 2011, 07:32 PM
I'm 16 and so is he. He's older than me.

Can'tHelpIt
September 17th, 2011, 02:28 PM
well then my other posts says it all he likes you, but in a sexual, but he is also a human teenage boy with hormones