Bi/Curious

[TrentRyan]

I'm a straight/curious guy. I've done some experimenting and stuff, but not a lot, and I've been this way for about three years. I'm currently debating on just going full out bi, but in the closet. There's no reason why I shouldn't, cause I'd only come out to a few close people. But there's no reason I should, because I don't have any potential boyfriends.

It's a heavy debate in my mind right now. I just don't know what I should do. Any input/advice?

[twotall]

i been in the same boat i have experiment with a guy for three mybe four yrs and i thought that i was stright but after awhile i felt more then that i was going to ask him out but we never hung out no more. so im saying i decied that i was bi bc i feel the same was as guys to girls. so just think about how u feel between the two and if u feel the same about both then go to being bi. now coming out of the closet that is your own chosing myself i had not till i find the right person and my family really looks down on it. but thats really all i can tell u

[prob1996]

Well, first off regarding the "BI" thing...you said your str8/curious. That's fine for now. People get too hung up on labels and trying to say I"m this or no, I"m that. I've been there and it took me awhile to figure it out. I thought I was bi at first and now I've accepted that I"m gay. Do I know for sure? No but I"m not worrying over it anymore. Just be yourself and if you like to experiment, gr8! just go with it.
Second, reagarding coming out of the closet...I just did and I think the timing was right for me. Only time will tell. But that's me. You need to decide when YOU feel ready. If you're debating it and having concerns, chances are you're not ready to delcare anything. And that's ok. Don't feel pressured to do something you're not sure of. It is a huge step.
Just be yourself, have some fun and experiment, find out who you are and when you're ready you'll let the world know

hope this helps!

[HollisterrBboyy]

Well, first off regarding the "BI" thing...you said your str8/curious. That's fine for now. People get too hung up on labels and trying to say I"m this or no, I"m that. I've been there and it took me awhile to figure it out. I thought I was bi at first and now I've accepted that I"m gay. Do I know for sure? No but I"m not worrying over it anymore. Just be yourself and if you like to experiment, gr8! just go with it.
Second, reagarding coming out of the closet...I just did and I think the timing was right for me. Only time will tell. But that's me. You need to decide when YOU feel ready. If you're debating it and having concerns, chances are you're not ready to delcare anything. And that's ok. Don't feel pressured to do something you're not sure of. It is a huge step.
Just be yourself, have some fun and experiment, find out who you are and when you're ready you'll let the world know

hope this helps!

To add to this, I think the best thing is like he said, to just chill and figure out for yourself who you are as a person, but also to not say ANYTHING about your sexuality until you're certain. You see so many people, especially in the High School scene where one day they claim to be straight, while next week they claim to be gay, then the day after that, they're bi, etc. Don't say how you feel to anyone who's not close to you, excluding someone who would understand your sexuality, until your pretty much definite on what sexual orientation you are. I'm struggling with the same thing bro. :p

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

I think most who have thoughts struggle with this daily. You are who you are and who you sleep with is your business and there is no need to come out to anyone until you are certain. You seem to have some hesitation.. which is fine and normal. I would not do or say anything to anyone. Just be who you are and find out for yourself first.

[JMEE]

Coming out will open a whole new world, and it'll lead you more likely to get a boyfriend because people will know you like boys too.

[Nicky97]

You know there is a difference between experimenting, and looking for monogamous emotional relationships? What is the need to try to fit your entire sexual personality into some narrow label? Tell who you want what you want, but avoid using labels or allowing them to do so either. You are much more complex than that.

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

Maybe wait a bit till you are definitely sure your bi

[jockstrapman]

Dont feel bad, i get hard looking qt guys but ive had 3 girlfriends gery serious relationship. Now im single

[KarkatLuv]

are you physically atracted to guys and girls, because if you are you are bi.