Best Friends and Then Some.

[TrentRyan]

So I used to have a huge crush on my best friend when she started coming to my school last year. It kinda faded when she became my best friend, and her boyfriend another good friend. But if they were to break up, after a few months I would still probably date her.

Then a few months ago, my other best friend and I were texting. We've had our share of falling-outs in the past, but for some reason I continued to forgive her. Anyway, we were texting, and she accused me of flirting. I wasn't even trying to, so I asked if it was working. She said it kinda was, so I actually flirted. Then I told her that, because we had been best friends for so long, I could see her taking my virginity. Then we had another falling out. We're ok now, but I found out like a day ago that she told my brother what I told her, so now I can't trust her and am mad at her. We still aren't best friends, and now I have no intention of changing that.

Moving on, my best (guy) friend is, well, my best guy friend. I've been bi-curious for a few years now. He's my best friend and I love him to death. I would do fucking anything for this kid. I think I may have had a crush on him. Not like I wanted to have rough gay sex with him, but I love the hell outta this kid. Now I don't feel like I have a crush, but he's still my best friend.

Now we have a foreign exchange student. She's cool, nice, and pretty. All my friend say she has DSLs (Dick Sucking Lips), and that pisses me off that they say that. This girl is awesome, and I can't help but wonder if we're gonna start liking each other.

Any advice on how to deal with this stuff? What should I do with the foreign girl? Or with my ex-best friend or current best friends?

[anonymous53]

First, don't tell a girl that unless it's mutual feelings and you're pretty sure it is. Still probably not a good idea.

Next, I don't know what you're really asking, continue to be his friend.

Foreign girl, Get to know her :) Ask her on a date. If your friends keep saying that just be like "Yo, you do too." They might just shut up ;) Guys shouldn't disrespect a girl like that.

[TrentRyan]

First, don't tell a girl that unless it's mutual feelings and you're pretty sure it is. Still probably not a good idea.

Next, I don't know what you're really asking, continue to be his friend.

Foreign girl, Get to know her :) Ask her on a date. If your friends keep saying that just be like "Yo, you do too." They might just shut up ;) Guys shouldn't disrespect a girl like that.


Thanks :) I don't think I was asking anything really about my best friend... But I don't even know lol.

[mxiii]

if your having a crush on someone, then rest assured it will fade down. Then again, IMHO, being best friends is better then getting involve in a relationship. I mean, being best friends and in a relationship is the same except u cant hold hands and have sex . but if your relationship don't work out, there will be a weird aura between you guys. there are also occasions where you will never talk to each other again. you should think of the chain reactions=D and about the foreign girl, well i think u need time to figure out . start small like start being friends first. than as you progress you'll know

[brittanykiss]

worry about how you feel about her not what they think. if you like her then go for her and treat her well :)