All my friends have armpit hair?

[dubai]

I'm 13 years old. So I was at the pool on Saturday with 9 other friends (No adult). We went swimming and I quickly realized that literally everyone else had an adult amount of armpit hair, and about 3 of them had chest hair. I quickly noticed that I was the only one with no armpit hair. I was embarrassed and decided not to say anything about it. After like 30 minutes, they noticed too. They were like, did you shave your pits? You don't have armpit hair?! That's just sad. Then it got out of control and some of them started sticking their hairy pits in my face! For the past few days now, I've been getting really mean texts from most of them about how I was the "hairless wonder". Why is it such a big deal to have armpit hair? How do some of them already have chest hair? And is it weird that I don't have any armpit hair?

tomcolly: No I didn't respond

[anonymous53]

It's not weird that you don't. Just wait, it will come. Honestly, I hate how hairy I am. It's disgusting, after about a few months the whole "OMG YAY PIT HAIR" will run out. Ignore them for now.

[tomcolly]

hey, sorry to hear all of that. sounds like uve been getting a bit of unfair stick there. It's probably the whole thing of they think they're bigger and more grown up than u because they're further into puberty. The important thing to remember is that everyone develops at different stages and u don't have any control over it so try not to worry about it. I didn't have underarm hair when i was 13 so it can take time.

and if u can try and laugh it off with them - i mean if they see ur not bothered by it, they'll probably stop cos they're not getting a reaction off u.

have u replied to the texts and stuff?

[BOSSPENGUIN]

that sucks man....i started getting hairs at early 13 but trust me it just adds more stank its not all fun trust me

[lilj231]

It will come,because I was in the same position when lots of people have it and I didn't,now I do,and I kinda regret it...

[Stronger]

I'm 13 years old. So I was at the pool on Saturday with 9 other friends (No adult). We went swimming and I quickly realized that literally everyone else had an adult amount of armpit hair, and about 3 of them had chest hair. I quickly noticed that I was the only one with no armpit hair. I was embarrassed and decided not to say anything about it. After like 30 minutes, they noticed too. They were like, did you shave your pits? You don't have armpit hair?! That's just sad. Then it got out of control and some of them started sticking their hairy pits in my face! For the past few days now, I've been getting really mean texts from most of them about how I was the "hairless wonder". Why is it such a big deal to have armpit hair? How do some of them already have chest hair? And is it weird that I don't have any armpit hair?

tomcolly: No I didn't respond

Your only 13, how old ar they? You will get it sooner or later. and In my opinion they don't see like friends at all and so what if you don't have any and thats just plain discusting putting their pits in your face -___-.

[Caaaaam]

I had maybe one hair when I was 13. I don't know what's going on with kids these days. it's no big deal.

[JMEE]

some are early at developing. some a later, Simples.

[terbear]

Yeah don't worry. Everyone catches up eventually. You're totally fine :)

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Some friends!!... but anyways we all hit different stages at different times.... i am assuming that they are around your age or older? Your time will come dude no one can tell you for real when you will get it, but you will. Oh ya I'd maybe expand on my friends.. shoving your face in their pits is not cool bro.

[Elmo101]

They seem great! Ahaha... Great friends, that is! (jk) How old are they! wow... I had a lot at 13 and thought something was wrong with me! Don't worry, it'll all come in time! Just try to laugh it off or ignore them if you have to, whatever works. You can't rush puberty!

[Emiil]

just show them that u dont care what they think about u

[samb12]

it is not wired and they are jerks for doing that u will get it dont worry

[xSebastian]

I'm sixteen, seventeen in January and I have a VEY minimal amount of armpit hair compared to the guys at school. They have a lot, and I really wished I did. I'm pretty sure you'll get more. Besides, you're ONLY thirteen. You've got plenty of time.

[denish]

just do not bother those messages. When i was 13 i had none either now i am 15 and i have a lot and my friends are jealous of me the time will come dont worry

[Carlyle]

It all really depends on when you start to develop. Even then, you will not develop completely in the same order as everyone else.. it differs for everyone a bit. I don't have pit hair yet, but I do have quite a bit of hair in other places.. its rather annoying to keep it all well groomed actually. so enjoy your hairless days while they last.

[zackboy]

It's normal.I don't have any hair there.I don't have much hair at all if you don't count my head...

[artist2894]

Don't feel bad, man. That whole armpit hair teasing thing usually stops in high school. I got teased as well. and I'm just NOW getting armpit hair and chest hair. It's really not a big deal once you get it. If anything, it's annoying and hot. Haha, so nothing to look forward to. And most of the girls I've talked to like a guy with no chest hair and LITTLE armpit hair. So, to most girls, body hair is a turn off. So, count your blessings. But, you'll get it in high school (like definitely).