help?

[sarah14]

my mother always says if u want help just ask... when i ask she says ask someone else im busy ... im tired of always being put last when it comes to help ... one day im gonna wanna kill myself just becuse of her and the things she wont help me with ... that seems drastic... not to me :mad:

[The_Narwhal]

Hmm..

Im sorry to hear that your mother is like that about helping you.

What exactly do you mean by the thngs she wont help you with?

If you need advice about what you need help with you could always ask on the forum.

If you need help you could ask a sibling or another member of your family like your Father or a Grandparent.

If you need help with anything or advice you can always contact me.

[FuzzyLittleNightmare]

Don't worry, you're not the only one who feels like that. In fact it is often one of the signs doctors look for in depression. Sort of, always taking things badly. Now I am not saying that it isn't bad, but if you are depressed it may be making you feel worse. Why not try asking your mum if she would like to go out for a coffee or something this weekend? Give her some time to fit it into her schedule. I know it sounds bad, arranging time with your own mum, but she may just not realise how much you need her right now. If you arrange time to really sit down and talk where there are no distractions, she will realise that you really need her time and support right now and will be more ready to talk in the future. Hope this helps :hug3: