His girlfriend!!

[hardcore-smile]

Okayy so theres a guy that i like and EVERYONE thinks he likes me cause hes always around me, he loves to make me laugh, he'll be talking to this girl thats like a slut and he'll see me and then he'll be like i got to go and come and talk to me, he perfers to hang around with me and my friends (which are like really weird girls that no one really likes but me) and he will like hug every friend of his thats a girl but his arms go lower on me.First are these signes that he likes me and second he has a girlfriend that he loves ALOT but i want him to go out with me what should i do. Please answer both questions thank you sooo much

[Ventrue]

That's a quandry. Well heres my answers.
1. As to the liking you question. I could very well be that he likes you. He certainly likes to hang out with you and your friends. As to the hugging thing this could also mean he likes you.

HOWEVER, he could just be hugging lower because he wants to "cop a feel". Pardon the expression. I mean no offense but he could be flirting with you merely because he can. I do not know the guy so I cannot say for sure.

2. Try to find out how you feel about him and how he feels about you. Be Sure. No second thoughts.. If your positive you like him and need him more than his girlfriend then tell him. Then the rest is up to him. Pick you or his girlfriend. It would then be in the hands of fate ( a fickle mistress at best). If he likes you more than he will pick you . There is really no easy way to do this. Love triangles are always a bitch.

Get other peoples opinions before you act. Get different ideas. That way you cannot blame me if my advice fails. Good Luck =)

[Antares]

well this is a difficult one but...
1. it could be just a height difference or just a sign that he likes u
2. maybe you should just come out and ask him "do u really like her?" (he would probably say yes) and then come out and say" i like you and i dont know if you like me but i want to know"
now lots of awkward moments could come from that so think about if before you try it if you do

[Gumleaf]

if there is a height difference i would say that. if not he might just do it like that because he likes you too???
have a long hard think about it and if you really like him you should tell him. even if he doesn't like you in that way, its better to know where you stand then just being in limbo.

[Underground_Network]

WTF.. It's obviously not a height difference, I presume she's saying he intentionally reaches lower, has nothing to do with height most likely... Anyways, it seems he likes you, but still, it doesn't mean he likes you more than his current girlfriend. Sometimes guys have crushes on more than one girl. And some guys just want the girl for reasons other than a relationship. But the one thing you must avoid is getting mixed up in a real love triangle. Make sure he's definitely broken up with his girlfriend if he chooses to go out with you, because life will be a real bitch if it turns out he was still with his girlfriend and he was apparently cheating. Just be careful, and if this guy just likes you as a friend, I say keep him, he seems like a nice guy, but again, you never know.

[Gumleaf]

WTF.. It's obviously not a height difference, I presume she's saying he intentionally reaches lower, has nothing to do with height most likely... Anyways, it seems he likes you, but still, it doesn't mean he likes you more than his current girlfriend. Sometimes guys have crushes on more than one girl. And some guys just want the girl for reasons other than a relationship. But the one thing you must avoid is getting mixed up in a real love triangle. Make sure he's definitely broken up with his girlfriend if he chooses to go out with you, because life will be a real bitch if it turns out he was still with his girlfriend and he was apparently cheating. Just be careful, and if this guy just likes you as a friend, I say keep him, he seems like a nice guy, but again, you never know.


good point!!! love triangles are nasty. it happened with friends of mine and now none of them speak to eachother. :(