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VamosToro
September 11th, 2011, 05:36 PM
If I told a girl I didn't want to have sex until we were married, what would she probably say. This is really important to me, but it seems like less and less people are waiting.

ajp1993
September 11th, 2011, 08:08 PM
It depends on the girl. I'd thought of waiting until marriage, but that idea didn't last too long. You're right that fewer people are waiting so long, no sense in rushing either

vtRED
September 12th, 2011, 01:23 AM
If I told a girl I didn't want to have sex until we were married, what would she probably say. This is really important to me, but it seems like less and less people are waiting.

probably "cya".. its not the 1940s any more lmao, people have sex at younger ages now. good luck with the wait till marriage ill give yea about till around 20 before you decide to have sex. most people dont get married till around there 30-35 so enjoy being a virgin till your 30 bud.

OptimusPrime
September 12th, 2011, 01:39 AM
If I told a girl I didn't want to have sex until we were married, what would she probably say. This is really important to me, but it seems like less and less people are waiting.

I see that too. Personally I'm more than likely going to wait. I haven't really had much luck with girls so it doesn't bother me. Stupid social phobia. >.<

But if that's what you want then there will be a girl out there that will respect that.

FuzzyLittleNightmare
September 12th, 2011, 03:58 PM
If I told a girl I didn't want to have sex until we were married, what would she probably say. This is really important to me, but it seems like less and less people are waiting.

I wouldn't worry about this! Most girls are hardly nuns but as a general rule, most aren't as obsessed by sex as most boys!
Maybe some girls will be put off by this and think you are a prude, but these girls wont be the ones you should be with. I personally would be thrilled to find a guy who wanted to wait till marriage. I don't want to go sleeping around and get a million and one infections or end up pregnant. I think sex should be more important than a bit of fun you can brag about to your mates. It should be about lvoe and intamacy

mrclutch1976
September 12th, 2011, 07:08 PM
I belive in not having sex till at least 20 because i would not want to take the risk of the condom breaking and getting someone pregnat i do not want to have a kid at 13 and a lot of women i know have had sex already i would pefer no std please... :)

AmusedDJ
September 12th, 2011, 07:10 PM
it seems as though to me too less and less are waiting, so that just makes the general populous wanna follow along

Tyler97
September 13th, 2011, 11:58 AM
I wanted to have sex with my gf, but she says she's waiting until marriage. So until then she's only willing to do oral sex which is probabaly smarter to avoid unwanted pregnanies.

Katzen
September 13th, 2011, 03:16 PM
People just want to rush.

I'm 16 and virgin. I'm waiting because of my circumstances (nothing with girls) but I might even not do it If I had someone.
Sadly, many people just think about doing it. Because it's a feat. A mate wanted to do it with a hooker just for the sake of doing it! I think there should be some love and spirituality at least.

I would like to stablish a stable relationship with a nice girl when I'm in uni. And having a family when the time comes.

VamosToro
September 13th, 2011, 09:28 PM
People just want to rush.

I'm 16 and virgin. I'm waiting because of my circumstances (nothing with girls) but I might even not do it If I had someone.
Sadly, many people just think about doing it. Because it's a feat. A mate wanted to do it with a hooker just for the sake of doing it! I think there should be some love and spirituality at least.

I would like to stablish a stable relationship with a nice girl when I'm in uni. And having a family when the time comes.

Yeah thats exactly how I plan on doing it. Thanx

Cooper123
September 16th, 2011, 04:38 PM
I plan on staying a virgin untill I'm married too. It's immoral to have sex before you are married. Society is corrupt now-a-days so don't have sex before you're married. And if a girl doesn't like you for because you want to stay a virgin than she's not the one. Good luck and I'm proud of you!

MalditoDia
September 16th, 2011, 04:46 PM
thats cool dude.

Carly99
September 16th, 2011, 08:32 PM
Girls would think it's sweet. Don't worry.

Smith98
September 16th, 2011, 11:22 PM
If she really likes you for who you are she likely won't care...