Its always my fault aparantly...

[beebs]

I am so sick of my mum, my brother is always hitting me and annoying me, i tell him to stop and he never listens, so i ask my mum to help me and get him to stop, but she always says " oh just stop cos your sisters moaning" or " leave it cos i canr be asked to deal with her".

My mum never sees what he is doing as a problem, as just im moaning and she only tells him to stop so ill stop complaining, i have a right to complain when my brother is doing that right? Why doesnt my mum not feel what my brother is doing wrong?

[The_Narwhal]

Hmm...

Is your brother younger? If hes quite young, then that might be why your mother is acting like that. I know thats the reason in a lot of these cases.

Also if you are living with your father try telling him about your brother.

Oh and you should have a right to complain.

[beebs]

Hes almost 17, so hes older, and nah i dont live with my dad

[The_Narwhal]

Hmm im not too sure what to say then apart from the fact that you are right. You should have a right to speak out, and also if hes hitting you it may be classed as abuse/assult.

[beebs]

I know its been a while, but my brother is currently sat on me, ive asked him to move, and asked mum to ask him to move bit shes refusdd

[Contra]

Don't get offended by this question, but does your brother have any kind of illness or something? That could explain your mother's attitude.

[mxiii]

hi !
don't take this the wrong way with your mum. I don't think she thinks its your fault.
Instead she might think of this as sibling bonding?