Help please

[nygmen90]

I don't know if this is the right place but I really need help. My mom had heart problems and needed open heart surgery. It has been two years and she takes 12 pills a day. Now she gets mad/fustrated very easily and my my dad makes mistakes but he always does his best. Whenever they fight my mom yells while my dad is calm and tries to apology and explain. Well, today the same thing happened and my dad came into my room and said," Your mother has decided she does not want to live anymore. She threw all of our pills in the garbage." I tried talking to my mom asking if I could help her do anything that would relieve stress and she just kept saying it is not worth it anymore. She said it all light-hearted and in a way that she wanted it to happen. It really did not seem like someone could talk about dieing like that. She was just like, "I will just let nature take over." Without taking those pills, she will get seriously injured/die. I am 14 and have no idea what to do. Please I need some help I am basically crying right now.

[nygmen90]

Please somebody

[nygmen90]

I came here because I thought it would be better than yahoo answers. Now I see that people only care about your problem if you have a lot of posts.

[Lethe]

You need to allow your mother to make the choice. It's her life; she understands that she cannot live in pain for the rest of her life. It would put less of a burden on yourself and your family as well. I know it hurts, but you need to accept her decision. It most likely took her a long time to come to the decision to allow herself to go. All you can do is be there for her until she passes on.

[sarahtheweber]

It is her choice, but i recommend talking to her more about it. Like, express how her doing this makes her feel without tryin to influence her. At least then you've had your opinion expressed even if she doesn't change her mind. Also- I'm sorry.

[nygmen90]

I understand it is her choice but there has got to be something I can do. I go through enough at school being made fun of all of the time because I am chubby/fat. (my parents are unaware of this if it makes any difference) I just could not go through torment at school and come home knowing my mom killed herself. The type of person that I am I would just blame it all in myself.

[sarahtheweber]

Explain all that to your mother. it might help? it will at least get her to maybe help you out and help you realize its NOT your fault