How can I tell/help? (2 questions)

[Gummi]

I have a really good friend (girl) and I really like her, and she really likes me (I'm ganna ask her out when I see her next) and shes always thinking dirty like we were rolling news paper for a school project (long story) and she said you have to pull and twist and she started laughing. In the same class she was flipping a news paper around on the floor and she was sitting down and she accidently spanked herself and she laughed and told me lol.

What I'm getting at is I want to know if she masturbates. She takes 35 minute showers sometimes and others she takes 15 minute showers. Thats what mostly got me thinking. (When I masturbate in the shower I take longer) I really want to know if she masturbates and I really hope she does. She also said that I can ask her anything and she will answer truthfully. I told her the same.

I know that theres no way I can really tell unless I find a "toy" in her room or catch her doing it or just ask her. I'm thinking about just asking her, but I don't want to ruin our relationship if she doesn't. (I don't want her to think it was wierd that I asked and then never talk to me)

If you can, please help me out. Also I'm new to this stuff with girls, so I don't know much. lol


Additional question (don't feel like making another thread, dont need to answer but would help a lot)

Theres a girl that hates her, and she saw her talking to a guy she likes (they were talking about the project in class) and now she wants to beat her up. This is a big girl, and shes really mean. My friend wants to fight her because she thinks she can beat her (I do too, but I don't want her to get hurt) She said if she throws a punch then she will too. I can't go in and beat this girl up because I'm a guy, and I don't want to sit back and let it happen. I've told her not too, and she already told her mom, but if the girl tries to hit her what can I do? I will never lay my hands on a girl in a way like that no matter what. Its killing me that I can't do anything and I really want to know how I can help.

Thanks for reading both of these questions, and I hope you take the time to answer both of them. I'm sorry if these are stupid questions, but it took me like 15 minutes to type this up lol. thanks again. :yeah:

[Smith98]

In regards to her masturbating she likely does cuz many girls do. It sounds like you're comfortable around her so you could just ask her. Maybe you could even do it together sometime.:D you said you hope she does but what if she doesn't (not likely though). I hope you'd still be friends w/ her if she didn't. About the fight thing that other chick sounds like a b$tch and is probably jealous or insecure.

[Gummi]

In regards to her masturbating she likely does cuz many girls do. It sounds like you're comfortable around her so you could just ask her. Maybe you could even do it together sometime.:D you said you hope she does but what if she doesn't (not likely though). I hope you'd still be friends w/ her if she didn't. About the fight thing that other chick sounds like a b$tch and is probably jealous or insecure.

Thank you so much for answering. About the doing it together sometime thats what I was thinking too :D I am very comfortable around her, and she is very comfortable around me.

That other chick is a b$tch. Shes really ugly and shes really jealous cuz my friend is insanely cute and nice.

[endgame]

I would say she definitely masturbates. Almost all girls do.

[sammy1996]

she probably does masturbate and about the fight situaton, just try not to let it happen, pull them apart or something

[Asd20]

how do you know how long she showers for?

[mbishop94479]

With regard to the masturbating thing, I asked my ex if she did, and she isn't a dirty person like your friend is, and she was okay with me asking. And she probably does.