Girls please help

[sandyrip1]

Theres this girl I really like but in my school I'm like the popular kid and she is a nerdy girl. I mean I care what my friends think, am I a dick if I want to go out with her but don't want it to be like "facebook official" if you know what I mean I like don't want the world to know about it because I'm like 5'6 and she is 5' and shes a grade below me I need help because I know she likes me and I think she knows I like her would it make me a prick if I asked to have a private relationship like not to tell anybody... PLEASE HELP ME:confused::confused::mad::mad::(:(:what::what:

[lazymonkey]

Theres this girl I really like but in my school I'm like the popular kid and she is a nerdy girl. I mean I care what my friends think, am I a dick if I want to go out with her but don't want it to be like "facebook official" if you know what I mean I like don't want the world to know about it because I'm like 5'6 and she is 5' and shes a grade below me I need help because I know she likes me and I think she knows I like her would it make me a prick if I asked to have a private relationship like not to tell anybody... PLEASE HELP ME:confused::confused::mad::mad::(:(:what::what:

well not everything has to be facebook official! and if ur friends are true friends they shouldnt judge u on who u date :)

[Angel Androgynous]

Theres this girl I really like but in my school I'm like the popular kid and she is a nerdy girl. I mean I care what my friends think, am I a dick if I want to go out with her but don't want it to be like "facebook official" if you know what I mean I like don't want the world to know about it because I'm like 5'6 and she is 5' and shes a grade below me I need help because I know she likes me and I think she knows I like her would it make me a prick if I asked to have a private relationship like not to tell anybody... PLEASE HELP ME:confused::confused::mad::mad::(:(:what::what:

Yes, yes you are. Why do you care about what your friends think? And yes, it would make you a prick. I would never go out with a guy who wanted to keep out relationship "private." Besides, what's wrong with being nerdy? :P

[sandyrip1]

Yes, yes you are. Why do you care about what your friends think? And yes, it would make you a prick. I would never go out with a guy who wanted to keep out relationship "private." Besides, what's wrong with being nerdy? :P

Your right I shouldn't care... thank you and nothings wrong with nerdy girls to me but I am going to ask her out and screw what my friends think I just needed to come to my senses... Nerdy wasn't the right word I ment like addicted to games like on facebook and shit like every time I try to talk to her she says one sec gotta do something on farmville or some crap like that just didn't know what word to use Idk why I even care what my friends think maybe its just because I had a girl cheat on me and she was basically the same way and it was a public relationship Idk the reason why is just because I don't want to get hurt and have my friends be all douchey and make jokes about her or have another relationship like my last :( but I thank you

[sandyrip1]

I mean I care what my friends think, am I a dick if I want to go out with her but don't want it to be like "facebook official" if you know what I mean I like don't want the world to know about it

That wasn't like what I ment by this either I don't want a private relationship I just don't want my friends to know private like I don't care if its private to her friends or family or my family i just don't feel like telling my friends or anyone i know matters shouldn't of said it this way:eek: and yea i ment like anybody like my friends are anybodies

[Angel Androgynous]

That wasn't like what I ment by this either I don't want a private relationship I just don't want my friends to know private like I don't care if its private to her friends or family or my family i just don't feel like telling my friends or anyone i know matters shouldn't of said it this way:eek:

You do know that if her friends know then the whole school will know? I still don't understand why you would give a fuck about whether your friends would know or not...

[sandyrip1]

I really don't care but I do if you can understand that logic like I don't care what they think of who I date but I care about what they think of me and I don't want another girl cheating on me to make me lose my mind you know what i'm saying cause my friends were so right they told me she was going to cheat on me I didn't believe them and I have talked to them about her and they say she's bad news but IDK I guess I just want to test drive the car before I buy it not in the sexual way but in the way i just want to hang out with her as a girlfriend and like see if I can tell if shes bad news or not like not tell anybody till like I know she wont cheat on me or do anything

[Angel Androgynous]

I really don't care but I do if you can understand that logic like I don't care what they think of who I date but I care about what they think of me and I don't want another girl cheating on me to make me lose my mind you know what i'm saying cause my friends were so right they told me she was going to cheat on me I didn't believe them and I have talked to them about her and they say she's bad news but IDK I guess I just want to test drive the car before I buy it not in the sexual way but in the way i just want to hang out with her as a girlfriend and like see if I can tell if shes bad news or not like not tell anybody till like I know she wont cheat on me or do anything

Then do that. See, there's a difference between your friends telling you that she's bad news and your friends judging you for dating a girl less popular than you.

[sandyrip1]

Yea as you can tell i'm not the best at explaining things

[AmusedDJ]

no one has true friends in ms or hs just sayin

[Angel Androgynous]

I would also like to point this out.... are you sure that they are your true friends if they are going to judge you for dating a girl who likes farmville?

[sandyrip1]

meh my friends are true to me been my friends since pre-k

[sandyrip1]

And they wont judge me my friends will just think less of me for dating another girl who is bad news

[Angel Androgynous]

And they wont judge me my friends will just think less of me for dating another girl who is bad news

Is she bad news?

[Sebastian Michaelis]

To her it would be a prick move. Don't tell her you want it secluded, you don't have to tell your friends either unless they see something or ask. If you've been friends since pre-k then I'm sure they'd have no problem with it.

[sandyrip1]

Is she bad news?

Word around school is she's a whore :P but when i talk to her I just feel like I can say anything like really talk to her which i haven't been able to do with anybody