My "COMING OUT"

[prob1996]

Ok, everyone else seems to post they're moments so I had one today and feel like I have to share.

My bf and I have been freinds since we were 10 and became officially "boyfriends" earlier this summer. Since then we have been keeping it a secret from everyone. He still consider himself bi and I have accepted that I 'm really gay and not bi. We love each other very much but when it comes to being in public, we simply act like friends. It's become a fustrating situation and at times adds sooo much stress on our relationship.

Earlier today, we met after school for some afternoon fun ;) and then our best friend Erin called us to see if we wanted to go to dinner and hangout after.
Her and her bf came by and picked us since neither my bf or I drive yet. As all our talks do, it always ends up about sex..funny how that is LOL Her bf remarked about the grin on my face and was joking about me getting some. ( little did he know :P) so they him & Erin kept guessing which girl it was and I kinda just blurted out it wasn't a girl. I don't know why it came out but it did. My bf jsut held my hand and filled in the rest to them.

She was totally accepting and happy that we had each other! She said that she was worried that I always seemed like a loner and happy I had someone. Kinda shocked that it was my best friend LOL Her bf was really cool about it too!

It was totally unexpected today and I can't get over how AMAZING I feel!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really feel like shouting it out to the whole world!!! I was dreading it so much and fearing the worst. and so utterly surprised that not only did my bf was there but that our friends were sooo accepting. All in all it was just 5 people today but I couldn't be happier!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know so many other people who have come out and they always tell u what a relief it was and today I found that how freaking true that is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[landone]

Congratulations :)

[Curoz]

Congrats mate.
I hope your botfriend is fine with this as you outed him too lol. (sounds like hes fin by your story)
I wish the both of you happiness.

[prob1996]

Congratulations :)


Thanks!!!!!


Congrats mate.
I hope your botfriend is fine with this as you outed him too lol. (sounds like hes fin by your story)
I wish the both of you happiness.

Thanks! and yes, everything happened so fast with the conversation that I had realized it after the fact. He is ok with it.

[Can'tHelpIt]

Congragutamalitoinas

Seems awesome but im still deciding so im like halfway ish in the closet idk but congragulations

[prob1996]

Congragutamalitoinas

Seems awesome but im still deciding so im like halfway ish in the closet idk but congragulations


I compeletly understand how u feel!!!! This is was just sooo sporadic on how it all went down. You have to do what u feel is right. We just went with it and honestly I still can't figure out why I said it but I did, I'm glad and now have to deal with it.

Thanks!!!!!

[Emiil]

parkerrrrrrr :D congratsss :) :) so happy for u ;D ur so brave :)

[Swag44]

Wow congrats. Your must feel great now!

[Love.Hate]

Wow congratulations!! :D :D

[Donkey]

Nice one buddy :D

[OptimusPrime]

Good work. Glad you were able to be open to people about this. It can be hard but once you've done it it can be so much easier to know that you have people supporting you.

[CryWolf]

Parker my man! I talked to you about this earlier, but I wanted to publicly tell ya how happy and proud I am for you. You deserve to be happy man. Congratulations! :)

[PoseidonX43]

parker my buddy im so proud of you (: great job

[Shadowin]

congrats it takes alot of guts to do that

[StoppingTime]

Congratualtaions!!!! Great job! :)

[Starlight Blaze]

I am so happy for you Parker. :) and proud, and estatic (however you spell it XD)
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! :D :D :D :D

[prob1996]

parkerrrrrrr :D congratsss :) :) so happy for u ;D ur so brave :)

Emil--THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!

Parker my man! I talked to you about this earlier, but I wanted to publicly tell ya how happy and proud I am for you. You deserve to be happy man. Congratulations! :)

Corey---thank you for all the support! means alot to me!!!

parker my buddy im so proud of you (: great job

Thanks man!!!!!!!!!!! thank you for every kind word!!!

I am so happy for you Parker. :) and proud, and estatic (however you spell it XD)
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! :D :D :D :D

Matt---thank you for all ur encouragement!


THANK YOU to everyone else who posted your support!!!!! It truly means alot to know that you have so many people in your corner!!!!!

[Foamy]

Hey congrats! God bless! It must have taken a good amount of guts to says it!

[The_Narwhal]

Congrats :D

[nameless12]

congraats!! : D yea, it does feel good, you feel that weight off your shoulders :) when that happend to me it felt more easy to come out to other people, dont know if you feel that too but i sure hope so ;) and i have to say that the things that you sayd about you and your boyfriend is so AWESOME!!!... just saying XD

[prob1996]

Hey congrats! God bless! It must have taken a good amount of guts to says it!



Thanks man, I'm still trying to decide if it was guts or stupidity LOL Either way it feels great!!!!


Thank you to all the other posters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your support means alot!!

[Unsolvedmind]

Congrats

[Its_only_me]

Congrats!

[Ashy]

congratulations wish i was that brave

[ugaboy]

Congrats. You gotta be the bravest person for your age. I am a little younger, but dont think I could ever do that.

[Jupiter]

Congrats man!

[prob1996]

Congrats. You gotta be the bravest person for your age. I am a little younger, but dont think I could ever do that.


certainly not the bravest...LOL but I know what u mean and thank you. It was kinda crazy-in-the-moment thing, not the way I would've planned it. that's for sure. but it worked out sor far.



TO the other posters: THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SimplyTom]

and you know how proud i am of ya

[prob1996]

and you know how proud i am of ya

and coming from you Tom, that means everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D

[Carlyle]

Glad to hear about that! :) That sounds like it went quite smoothly compared to how it could've been.

[Bigmac00]

Congrats!! I'm happy for you both. I'm glad someone has the courage to come out. Sadly I don't.

[notonhereanymore]

Whoaaaa bro. I didn't know this. Lol. Cool. I'm straight so I don't really know where you're coming from or how hard it is, but congrats! :).

[Stronger]

Congrats! Aww thats soo cute

[Magenta]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: