My Boyfriend....

[ericadawn]

I have been with my boyfriend for almost six months but I am getting really bored. We don't really get to spend much time together because of his parents jobs and schedules. The only time we get to see each other is at school. It just upsets me that we are not like we used to be. We were great and now we are really dull. Then we don't act the same towards each other its like we have lost interest in each other. What should I do?

[Gumleaf]

i know what you mean because the same thing happened with my girlfriend and me. so this is what i would suggest. think about whether you like him enough to continue through this hard period. if you don't, break it off because its just going to get worse otherwise. if you do like him enough maybe you should talk to him and find out if he still likes you in the same way. if he does i would try something to give things a kick start again like planning to go on a picnic or movies or dinner, etc. me and my girlfriend did the same thing and basically we found that we were taking eachother for granted and not relising it. so we decided that we would always make time for eachother and do special things together and this has worked well because we are still together now. being 13 our options are limited for special things because we can't drive for another 4 years (thank goodness for the local bus) but we just try to enjoy the time we do have together to the max.

[Antares]

just tell him
"I WANT MORE ACTION IN OUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE ITS GETTING BORING"
and if he wants to stay with you then he will do something
if he dosent do anything leave him