Such a situation

[Keats]

I feel like i'm in literally the biggest predicament. I have a girlfriend, lets call her T.
We've been together like 4 months and everything is okay. sort of.
some of the time she makes me feel like shit and flirts with other guys (or at least i think she is).
But also some of the time she makes everything fine. She's handled my cutting well, and all that so i know she cares.

Now another girl, girl S, confessed she liked me about a month after me and T started dating.
The tricky part, she's an old childhood friend who i sort of had a crush on but i'm with T so yeah.
She's now not talking to me, and hates me so thats one relationship fucked.

Girl number 3, lets call her M. She knows i cut, and she does too - although she's currently on 90 days free. S
he really likes me, and i guess i like her too, but as before i'm with T. Now, she is still insistent that she likes me and we've been talking every day
. She wants me to leave T for her, but i can't do that :/ but she says she'll wait. I'm so confused.

Now here's the kicker. Girl J, she has a boyfriend, who happens to be a good friend of mine.
She confessed to liking me, and said that she wanted to date me after her and her boyfriend broke up.
Now she used to cut too, and i really really like her. but i can't do that to my friend.
they've been dating for over a year now and are good together.
We went on holiday together and her boyfriend gave her the week off to go and get with anyone she wanted.
She came onto me. i'm proud of the fact i didn't do anything but still :/ Now i really like J, and i don't know what to do.

This is just too much for me to handle. I had been single for almost 2 years with no interest and now this. Why?

[bambino]

If you really had feelings for T you wouldn't have developed feelings for anyone else.
Similarly if you actually had strong feelings for any of them- you would only like that girl alone. Not a whole bunch of girls.

So, I would say. Become single, because what you're doing right now is unfair to your girlfriend. Then hang out with them and see who means the most to you. There's nothing worse than a guy looking at other options whilst he's with someone. How would she feel if she knew you were posting this?

do the right thing, you sound unsure of what you want- take some time alone to re-evaluate.

[Hank Hill]

So, I would say. Become single, because what you're doing right now is unfair to your girlfriend. Then hang out with them and see who means the most to you. There's nothing worse than a guy looking at other options whilst he's with someone. How would she feel if she knew you were posting this?

do the right thing, you sound unsure of what you want- take some time alone to re-evaluate.

That's probably the best answer you're gonna get on this one man, but keep in mind, the next decisions you make in this matter could be really big, or really small. Make sure you do what you feel is best, but think about who it'll effect (including you.)

I really hope that all this ends well for you man,

~Tyler