View Full Version : Can a christian masturbate???
BOSS
September 8th, 2011, 02:04 PM
Now I'm a very devoted christian and I try my best to keep control of myself but I still end up looking up porn like every 3 to 4 weeks. And I masturbate once a day. Noww is it bad that I masturbate with me being a christian? I've heard it is but idk :confused:
Bolton Wanderers
September 8th, 2011, 02:36 PM
Well, not being a Christian or anything, I don't know what's considered a 'sin'. But personally, I do not consider masturbating to be a sin, or see why it could be. I don't believe there's anything wrong with masturbating either.
So, in answer to your question, I wouldn't say it's bad at all. Surely people of all religions do it. :)
SomeGuyFromHere
September 8th, 2011, 02:39 PM
Obviously, if you ask that kind of question here, you're going to get loads of people (mostly non-Christians) saying "just do it - everyone else does". If you want a proper answer, talk to other Christians and read the Bible!
Short Circuit
September 8th, 2011, 02:45 PM
There is a large debate about this subject on the Teen Sexualty page. You may find the answer there.
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=112438
OptimusPrime
September 8th, 2011, 02:49 PM
TBH I do not see anything wrong with it. (My views though). There are Christians out there that have had children, they had to have sex to have the baby did they not? Sex is a sin is it not?
Same thing applies. Again, my views on it.
UnknownError
September 8th, 2011, 02:53 PM
Well since your avatar is furry, I'm guessing you'll get away with it..
Electra Heart
September 8th, 2011, 03:13 PM
I'm christian and I do it... I find nothing wrong with it even if it does look down upon it
BaNd
September 8th, 2011, 03:28 PM
not at all i jack off all the time and i watch porn im 15 nothing to worry about and im christian
Weeping
September 8th, 2011, 03:43 PM
I'm an atheist, but I don't really see anything wrong with it. In the end it's your opinion, if you want to do it, then do it! And if you don't think that it's a sin or something. :)
Cybercode
September 8th, 2011, 03:54 PM
if you are looking up porn and masturbating then yeah it's wrong because if you think about it, you are basically masturbating to that person. just think if you were in a porn video and thousands of people are masturbating to your picture. i masturbate about 3 times a week and I'm a christian. If you look at the science side of it, it's a stress relief and it prevents prostate cancer (so I've heard) but if you are not looking at porn and masturbating then no it's not wrong. Like I said I try not to look at porn, I can ignore that urge, but I can't ignore the urge to masturbate. We as humans are going through major bodily changes during puberty and (I have now idea where I heard this either) but we have no choice but to masturbate. So it is not wrong depending on the situation.
Porn + Masturbation = BAD!
No Porn + Masturbation = GOOD!
Jupiter
September 8th, 2011, 04:01 PM
i have faced that. yes. it is a sin. im not sure where it is, but think of it this way. once you do it, you are usually thinking of people you want to have sex with. that is lust, plus, do you want god to look down and see you doing that?
Valkyrie
September 8th, 2011, 04:42 PM
I laughed so hard at this one, sorry lol
Im a atheist but I read the bible (read it when i was 9)
And Yes, stupidly masturbating is considered as a sin by many christians but! Its is only when your masturbating to porn or thinking of a girl/guy in some sexual way and getting horny over it, only then is where lust comes and takes over. Lust is a sin if you didnt know.
Tho personally i think if your imagining sex when your married and then masturbating over that there shoudnt be any problem because your reinforcing holy people's lifestyle.
The Funny thing is that masturbating isnt mentioned in the bible at all, and im sure god would have said something about it if it was bad, mabye its in the fineprint lol
Smartypants
September 8th, 2011, 05:21 PM
If masturbating can keep you from doing far greater sins like raping somebody, or having yourself infected by HIV, I don't think it's too bad.
Asd20
September 8th, 2011, 05:26 PM
its probably less of a sin than getting someone pregnant
Foamy
September 8th, 2011, 05:43 PM
U already doing it. I cone from a not particularly devout Christian family. But I jack off every day. Personal preference, u know? If u wanna do it, do it.if u dont, dont
Jupiter
September 8th, 2011, 05:53 PM
its probably less of a sin than getting someone pregnant
all sins are equal..
Valkyrie
September 8th, 2011, 06:36 PM
LOL, I find it so funny you guys believe in this shit.... -.- its actually quite sad that most christians live all of their life believing in blind faith when they could explore so many different possibilities. It's actually even more sad that our time concept is based on a religious unproven birth....
Eh back to topic, If god gave you a penis as a gift so enjoy it lol
vtRED
September 8th, 2011, 07:10 PM
Now I'm a very devoted christian and I try my best to keep control of myself but I still end up looking up porn like every 3 to 4 weeks. And I masturbate once a day. Noww is it bad that I masturbate with me being a christian? I've heard it is but idk :confused:
im not christian but i do remember hearing that it is a sin to masturbate. ask your priest or what ever..
aperson444
September 8th, 2011, 07:21 PM
Not a Christian, but I've heard that some of the reform Evangelists accept it, so long as you don't watch porn and jack off to your future wife or something. In most Western religions (Judaeo-Christian = Islam, Judaism, Christianity), it is seen as an unclean taboo. It is seen as corrupting something pure created by God. Now in reality masturbation is quite natural. Why would it feel good then? Why does sex feel good? If we are truly created by "God", and such a thing is so impure, then why can we derive pleasure from masturbation?
CoolCaliGuy
September 8th, 2011, 07:23 PM
can they? yes
should they? idk im not religious :D
AmusedDJ
September 8th, 2011, 08:12 PM
screw christainity, wack off. AE all the way btw
Short Circuit
September 9th, 2011, 02:35 AM
ask your priest or what ever..
From what you read in the papers, the priest will probably do it for you :eek:
BOSS
September 9th, 2011, 07:06 AM
ask your priest or what ever..[/QUOTE]
I'm not catholic. :/
short boy big
September 9th, 2011, 08:50 AM
im sorry to break it to u... but its a sin.
NomSan
September 9th, 2011, 09:08 AM
I don't understand why masturbation should be wrong. It's only selfpleasuring, and it doesn't hurt or harm anybody. It's also healthy to do it regularly.
If you want a christian's view you should probably go see a priest or something.
uncut
September 9th, 2011, 01:14 PM
why not! if you are horny and need a release then do it.
Valkyrie
September 9th, 2011, 03:01 PM
Lol i've said it and I will say it again, there is no mention of masturbation as a sin in the bible.Its only classified by priests and crap like that, a common opinion. They classified it because it relates back to Lust. Tho I dont believe in this crap
Nyxeka
September 9th, 2011, 03:04 PM
(on a side note, arguing about religion solves nothing at all.)
Valkyrie
September 9th, 2011, 03:28 PM
Yep, it actually its one of the many reasons there have been wars and other crap for a long time.
Captain-Tybo
September 9th, 2011, 04:41 PM
Masturbation is not a sin, the bible dosen't say anything about it. But be careful you don't get lustful thoughts, I have to stop/start to prevent myself thinking lustful thoughts.
VamosToro
September 9th, 2011, 06:51 PM
if you are looking up porn and masturbating then yeah it's wrong because if you think about it, you are basically masturbating to that person. just think if you were in a porn video and thousands of people are masturbating to your picture. i masturbate about 3 times a week and I'm a christian. If you look at the science side of it, it's a stress relief and it prevents prostate cancer (so I've heard) but if you are not looking at porn and masturbating then no it's not wrong. Like I said I try not to look at porn, I can ignore that urge, but I can't ignore the urge to masturbate. We as humans are going through major bodily changes during puberty and (I have now idea where I heard this either) but we have no choice but to masturbate. So it is not wrong depending on the situation.
Porn + Masturbation = BAD!
No Porn + Masturbation = GOOD!
I spent like an hour trying to find this question and I got this. As long as you dont commit lustful thoughts ur fine, I think. But there is like nothing in the bible about it. Also if it keeps you from committing fornication, I think god would rather you masterbate.
TrevorTime
September 9th, 2011, 06:54 PM
I don't know how true this is, but the reason I have heard that it's a sin, is because you are "spilling your seed". Personally, I think that excuse is a load of hooey.
By definition, a Christian is someone who believes in God and Jesus. And He would want us to enjoy our bodies (within reason), right? After all, He made us in his image.
The way I look at it, in 2011, if some Christian churches can accept being gay, then certainly they can accept some harmless self indulgence. :yeah:
Also if it keeps you from committing fornication, I think god would rather you masterbate.
Oh yeah, teenage pregnancy is about as sinful as it gets.
samb12
September 9th, 2011, 10:38 PM
it is considered a sin by die hard Christians it is a natural habit and u cant control it so dont be scared do it once and awhile
trter10
September 10th, 2011, 12:21 AM
its aite i guess but watch out for lust.
trter10
September 10th, 2011, 12:23 AM
From what you read in the papers, the priest will probably do it for you :eek:
i loled at 1:22 in the morning so loud when i saw this!:lol::D
Mtc 10
September 10th, 2011, 06:44 PM
TBH I do not see anything wrong with it. (My views though). There are Christians out there that have had children, they had to have sex to have the baby did they not? Sex is a sin is it not?
Same thing applies. Again, my views on it.
No sex is not a sin.. Only when your not married!!!
dierphat
September 10th, 2011, 08:02 PM
Technicly (sorry for bad spelling) it is a sin b/c most of the time when you masterbate you lust and lust is sin. and also all sins are equall hope this helped!:)
CassieGirl
September 10th, 2011, 09:41 PM
As a strong Christian myself, I thought I would add some Bible verses to ponder.*
1) Matthew 5:27-28*“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." This is saying that looking at women for sexual pleasure is wrong.
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2) Ephesians 5:5*5 "For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God." In other words, sexually impure people do not deserve to go to heaven. Actually, no one deserves to, but there is redemption for those who believe.*
3) 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 *"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."
This is the most powerful for me. Your body is the temple if the Holy Spirit. It almost makes me think of masturbating as doing it in a church.*
I guess there you have it. Feel free to debate what I said, but only debate. I don't want to start an argument here.*
dierphat
September 11th, 2011, 06:55 AM
all sins are equall
football57lglb
September 11th, 2011, 08:43 PM
well, you have to ask yourself this question, what do i care about more, my Religon, or the amazing feeling of jizzing? (this should be an easy answer) Jizzing!
rockNroll
September 12th, 2011, 08:17 PM
You're physically capable of it, sure.
BOSSPENGUIN
September 12th, 2011, 08:36 PM
i dont see anything wrong with it :P its not like your going out mugging people. its just sumtin to release sexual tension nuthin wrong with that nothing at all
Nicky97
September 13th, 2011, 03:01 PM
It's not mentioned anywhere in the Bible, according to my research.
GabAngel06
December 8th, 2011, 03:33 AM
Of course, Christians can masturbate. Everyone can.
The only question you'll have to ask, "Are we allowed to?"
Well, if it is what you meant then, "No!"
No one is allowed to.
Craig1995
December 8th, 2011, 03:41 AM
Its not a sin.
enzenzz
December 8th, 2011, 03:57 AM
can and do
Silentmagician
December 8th, 2011, 04:43 AM
If you're dumb enough to be Christian in the first place then you should be gullible enough to believe the parts where it says you can't masturbate.
E.G:
"But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his. So whenever he went in to his brother's wife he would waste the semen on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother. And what he did was wicked in the sight of the Lord, and he put him to death also. "
God killed that man for doing it.
"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28).
Its wrong to lust after a woman i.e watch porn.
kaiba
December 8th, 2011, 05:04 AM
I'm christian and i do it...everyone i know is and does so i don't see the big deal with it
AndrewP
December 8th, 2011, 10:19 AM
TBH I do not see anything wrong with it. (My views though). There are Christians out there that have had children, they had to have sex to have the baby did they not? Sex is a sin is it not?
Same thing applies. Again, my views on it.
Sex is not a sin.
@ OP: Im catholic and I masturbate, i don't see anything wrong with it.
marco16
December 8th, 2011, 07:53 PM
Personally, I dont see anything wrong with masturbating. Whether your Christian or not, its a natural thing to do, and isnt sinful! Have at it! I do at least once a day! 16, bi and lovin it!
mwcalder
December 8th, 2011, 10:29 PM
TBH I do not see anything wrong with it. (My views though). There are Christians out there that have had children, they had to have sex to have the baby did they not? Sex is a sin is it not?
Same thing applies. Again, my views on it.
In the Christian world view, sex is only a sin when it is outside of marriage. So as a Christian I'm gonna be a virgin till marriage.
mwcalder
December 8th, 2011, 10:31 PM
If you're dumb enough to be Christian in the first place then you should be gullible enough to believe the parts where it says you can't masturbate.
E.G:
"But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his. So whenever he went in to his brother's wife he would waste the semen on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother. And what he did was wicked in the sight of the Lord, and he put him to death also. "
God killed that man for doing it.
would you mind just saying where you got that passage from? Just interested
Silentmagician
December 9th, 2011, 05:23 AM
would you mind just saying where you got that passage from? Just interested
The Bible, hence why I quoted the verse.
karl
December 9th, 2011, 07:41 AM
Fortunately (for me) I've got no hang ups about it and just enjoy myself! I have far more serious things to worry about.
Sol90
July 26th, 2012, 10:57 PM
Talk to a parent or pastor.
randomnessqueen
July 27th, 2012, 12:19 AM
im very religious and i mbate. theres nothing wrong with mbating aslong as you have control.
VictoriaGotaSecret
July 27th, 2012, 12:24 AM
my grandpa told me everytime you masterbate its a sin but who cares most people have done it atleast once
jemmytheking
July 27th, 2012, 12:31 AM
sure
Lock
July 27th, 2012, 07:06 AM
Now I'm a very devoted christian and I try my best to keep control of myself but I still end up looking up porn like every 3 to 4 weeks. And I masturbate once a day. Noww is it bad that I masturbate with me being a christian? I've heard it is but idk :confused:
No you are not suppose to
Anyone51
July 27th, 2012, 09:37 AM
Now I'm a very devoted christian and I try my best to keep control of myself but I still end up looking up porn like every 3 to 4 weeks. And I masturbate once a day. Noww is it bad that I masturbate with me being a christian? I've heard it is but idk :confused:
Lust may be the sin perhaps, but masturbation is not a sin
You are naturally able to do it
A man doing it to give a sperm sample for a doctor isn't sinning
Catholics can be very strict on it but that's just some old men in dresses with a history of molestation making rules on their own nor from God
God said be fruitful and multiply not take a vow of chastity
Ben_E
July 27th, 2012, 11:50 AM
All people from every different type of religion masturbate, it's perfectly normal, fine and guess what.. EVERYONE DOES IT!!. So there's tot's nothing wrong with it.
Blank
August 5th, 2012, 09:42 AM
Hey buddy, masturbation and pornography are tough issues. Pornography is obviously wrong because Jesus said that whoever looks upon a woman(or anyone for that matter) has committed adultery with her already in his heart. I understand how tough it is to break the habit. I was there once. I'd advise you to seek counseling and install filters, because that's what helped me. Most importantly just keep crying out to God, if He sees your willingness to change, He'll help you for sure. I'd been struggling with this for years but God finally set me free, I've been free since the beginning of June, and let me tell you, God's promises are so much better.
With regard to masturbation, I think it's a sin too. Why do I say that? Because the bible says that whoever that is a disciple of Jesus mist take his cross daily and deny himself, otherwise he won't be fit to follow Jesus! It also says that we must not be mastered by anything, and that we live according to the spirit, not the flesh. I used to think that I had to live with masturbation, but God showed me otherwise. Again, it really feels so much better not being a slave to my desires. Getting rid of the habit has helped me grow so much closer to God. I didn't do it on my own of course, it would certainly have been absolutely impossible for me. It's all thanks to Him, He is so faithful, and He knows what's best for us. He doesn't give us rules for fun you know!
Anyway, if you need anything you can just give me a PM. most people here are atheists. I guess some of them have good intentions and don't want you to experience what they deem as unecessary guilt, which is true to a certain extent, conviction comes from the Holy Spirit, but condemnation comes from the devil who wants to steal, kill and destroy. However, they don't really have a personal relationship with God, so naturally they wouldn't really know what He wants. Of course I'm not perfect either, and I can only give you advice, your best bet would be to seek Him in sincere prayer, fast if you have to, and keep reading the bible, it's God's love letter to you, as you read it you'll learn more and more about Him. Stay strong bro, I'll be praying for you.
Love you in the Lord :)
Nullandvoid
August 5th, 2012, 11:29 AM
of course you can - even the pope did and probably still does a couple times a year if he can manage it
Taryn98
August 5th, 2012, 12:21 PM
I'm catholic and I know it's a sin to masturbate but I do it anyway. I know it's normal and healthy. Plus if you ask forgiveness from god then you are absolved of your sins.
Dyl.l.
August 5th, 2012, 12:26 PM
Yea I do it all the time.... it just says don't have sex.
Dead Shark
August 5th, 2012, 04:33 PM
I'm not religious, but I think it's okay. It's really up to you.
FullyAlive
August 5th, 2012, 05:20 PM
Please don't bump old threads, check the post date before posting :locked:
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