My friend's girl interest.

[Hokage]

My best friend tells me literally EVERYTHING about himself.
He dated a girl a year ago and they lasted 4 months.
This year he told me he still really really really liked her and stuff.
Yesterday, I didn't mean to do it but her and I made out. I felt seriously guilty so I thought the right thing to do was to tell my friend. I broke it down to him. Her and I don't like each other that way at all though. I don't like her that way and I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me that way either. It was just a spur of the moment thing and it meant nothing. She told me that it wouldn't be the last time it happens though. But once again I thought telling him would be the better thing to do so I did. But he isn't speaking to me at all anymore and that's totally understandable but I don't even know what do with myself anymore. I feel like the scum of the earth.

[bambino]

Well. You kinda betrayed his trust dude.
And by the sounds of it the girl does like you.

You need to apologize profusely if you value this guy as a friend, do what you can to make it up to him- let him know how sorry you are. You're also going to have to stop talking to this girl, to prove it's 'friends before crushes' kinda thing. If you don't have feelings for her this should be pretty easy.

[mxiii]

u need to go apologize. make it up to him. but 1st, let him chill. maybe all these misunderstanding is clouding his judgement. give him time.I'm sure male are easy at letting go and forgiving . cheers

[Hokage]

Well if she does like me I'm going to have to break it to her that I don't like her that way at all. It was just a spur of the moment. I've already said sorry to him 100+ times and he just says it's okay but I know it isn't. I am trying to do everything for him but he doesn't speak to me at this point anymore. All I can do is sit back and give him time.....

[Kujiro]

Yesterday, I didn't mean to do it but her and I made out.
Seriously.... ?

Not to be rude, but if you have your best friend in mind, there are boundaries of look but don't touch.
The entire episode seems as if it's been forced on you.
Be it in any form, making out is a 2 player game, if one does not respond, the other would not get far.

You have literally slapped it into your friend's cheeks saying "hey I've won".
It's no wonder he would be pissed, and these are things sad to say, he would live to remember, he may forgive, but it will always be embedded into him.
That's harsh reality.

It was honorable that you told him truthfully, but no one would be able to take such matters down calmly.
Apology would not do much good, but nonetheless you would have to, and likely you would be his spam spongue for a good period of time.

Give him sometime to cool it off, then try to talk to him again. There is a probability he would not talk to you, but well there's nothing much you can do but persevere and try to reestablish the torned friendship.

It's a lesson learnt that trust is hard to build, but yet regardless it's way brittle.

Pray he would let it slide for the sake of good o times.
And for goodness, look before you leap.

Good luck
*smile*

[Hokage]

Thanks, I totally understand what you mean I know it's a 2 player game. I don't blame him for getting mad at me. I totally don't I am willing to take everything thrown at me for and from him. He has been making small talk with me. And told me that he wants to talk on Friday face to face in person. So I guess it's progress.

[Kujiro]

Yup, definately thats a start.
All the best, its going to take plenty of effort to salvage.
As long as the friendship its worth it, the skies are the limit.

All the best, Good luck
*smile*