new friends

[jmrsp]

well it seems that the majority of my friends are girls. i moved to the US a year ago and i just want to make more friendships with guys but somehow i find it hard. idk i think im intimidated or scared but its hard i just want some advice on how to make more friends that are guys and not girls. in not gay or bi btw im straight its just hard for me

[OptimusPrime]

Most of my friends are girls too. Girls are better to relate to for me.

[Black Eight]

Have you tried at all to become friends with any guys?

[mxiii]

start with Hi! I'm *your name* . then slowly progress from there. take small steps . but honestly, its good to have a balance. sometimes ,girls are abit hard to get along. and they're sensitive about certain stuff also there are certain stuff u cant share wit a girl.
don't have to be afraid. guys don't eat people. who knows? they might even be able to relate to u more then your current girl friends. but don't leave your girl friends for your guys. =D

[mxiii]

what they said? do you think their right?
if yes, then there your reason. your conscience is "signalling" you.

[mxiii]

what they said? do you think their right?
if yes, then there your reason. your conscience is "signalling" you.

oops. wrong place. ignore tis wan

[Nicky97]

To really fit in with most guys (like in high school) you need to think and act like them, they are very "mob-minded". Are you sure you want to lower yourself to their level?

Maybe you should pick out guys that seem especially intelligent and approach them on that level. You can't lump them all in together. Or shoot for some other specialty, not just look for ordinary guys. Look for outcasts, free-thinkers, anyone different.

[cpr97]

if your shy you cant make friends easily just start by sayin hi it cant hurt anythin cant be affraid of bein rejected its part of life mehh everyones gonna or has been rejected before maybe try n find a guy that also dont seem to have many friends or is tryin to make new friends

[Abyssinian]

Try putting yourself in situations where you have to talk to people, once you start one conversation with anybody you can continue from there, say hi whenever you see them etc.. Ask someone for help at school or work (if you have a job) or ask for a pencil even! Anything can get the ball rolling =) Good luck!

[zakclh]

I kno how you feel, I currently have no close friends that are guys and the other so called friends that are guys I wouldn't class as friends. :)

[TaylorMM]

Try to find people you share interests with and work up from there whether they are boys or girls you want to have things in common with your friends if it seems you have more common interests with girls the boys then so be it either way the important thing is you are comfortable around your friends and trust them and they respect you (of course you should make your friends feel the same way in return which im sure you do) but i would not get to worried over having more friends being girls then guys.