Love = Sex?

[Axxe_Man]

I want to have sex for the first time but I don't think I want to go through a relationship to get to having sex. I just want to see how it feels... I don't know what to do. I really don't want to wait even though ur supposed to go into a relationship and only have sex with someone u love but like I said, I don't want to wait... I'm just really curious:/...any help? please? suggestions?

I'm 15 straight virgin.

[SyrupSeal]

Well I think you might want your first time to mean something right?

[butty_92]

Sex should be about love and passion, you don't want it to be a mistake which is why it's good if you wait, get to know each other and really build up a proper relationship.

[Short Circuit]

No, Love = Relationship

LUST = SEX

Trust me, sex is not the be all and end all that people make it out to be.

I would say, the first time you do it, it will be the biggest disappointment of your life, and you will say "Is that it?"

I have always been a firm believer in the "5 F's method (pm or vm for the meaning of that one if you dont know), and cant understand why people say "wait, you want it to be with that special someone" but that is just my opinion ;)

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

Listen up,

Sex is not love.

Love is not about sex.

Sex is not about love.

However if you have sex with someone you love personally I consider it making love not sex same thing different wording and meaning.

Sex can be with anyone friends, randoms whatever.

Making love, is something special, with a partner you love.

[User Deleted]

Love = Relationship

LUST = SEX


Love (god get ready for some mushy shit) is the emotional connection between two people. It is a bond one chooses with someone who you care for with all your heart. And they feel the same about you. You want to live together, but its not some "feeling" it is you care for who they are. And if the feeling weren't there you would still give everything about yourself to them. And again they would for you.

When two people truly love each other and have demonstrated responsibility and made it through their fights without quitting on one another, they can consider a sexual relationship. If they have shown this and they want a child a sexual relationship is next. Sex SHOULD NOT be done out of lust. But rather when the couple loves one another they may decide to have a child not as a sex accident but from wanting a child and a couple years on their belts of being together. And the way you have described it, its lust.

Besides, if you have a drop of sense you wont have sex until you are 21 at bear minimum. That's if you were the little angel genius child of all your classes. Most people should wait to minimally 24 or 25.

And personally I don't want sex. I don't want all that commitment. I think marriage and what not is ridiculous anyways.
>>>(And because people always tell me you will grow into wanting it, I WONT, not only does my logic direct me to the path of bachelorhood, but we have a family history of many bachelors. It is my personal genetics and logic. OKAY?)

[nameless12]

well i dont see whats wrong with a relationship, maybe you should just be calm an patient :)

[Kaius]

I'm going to be brutally honest here, if you think love = sex or sex = love, you're definitely not ready for it. You don't want to be known as the guy that has sex with people just so he can say he's done it, you'd be better off waiting for a comfortable relationship. As someone above stated, there's more to sex than just the physical side of it.

[jessehs]

I think you need to know that it doesn't matter if your in love or not sex just feels good so go for if you get a chance

[Slytherin_Prince]

To me, sex has nothing, absolutely nothing, to do with love.
It's simply a way to experience pleasure, to relieve stress, and if you're straight,
to reproduce.
Nothing else.
But then, 95% of the people will probably disagree with me, so you may want
to wait for the right person.

Most sincerely,
Robert.

[Wicked_Syn]

Sex definitely doesn't mean you love someone. If you want to be in a relationship for sex - you don't love the person, it's your penis that loves the vagina...what's that?

Just think about it, really think about it. How does the act of sexual intercourse mean you truly love someone? It doesn't. Orgasm's don't make love.

You should wait though to have sex with a person you LOVE. You don't want to give your virginity to a regular old Joe, just so you can get off. Trust me.

[mark15]

i dont think love=sex but its just a way to

[Triste]

Trust me, if you wait and find someone you love to lose your virginity to it would make the experience so much better! That's what I did. What you experience during your first time will be how you always will view sex, I've been told. So make it count!

[awsomekid23]

u should wait until u found that someone special listen to your heart n not your mind

[kathsmith81]

No, Love = Relationship

[Kujiro]

Sex should not be observed as main course to a relationship, but rather a table side; Nice to have, but a healthy relationship can do without one, similar to a dinner service.

Sex is just a minor subset of a superset called relationship and should be treated with respect.
If the equation you have displayed is true, the output would lead to irresponsibility.
You are definiately not ready for sex, even when you are physically ready, much less a relationship.

One must learn to respect before they can earn respect from your partner, but you are no where near.
Give yourself a couple of years down the road, when the raging hormones have died down, you would see the wisdom and difference between having sex or the sake of having it, and having it because your partner and you are in love.

Good luck
*smile*

[Kujiro]

Accidentally double posted

[Voodoo]

I 100% agree with the posters above me. Sex is not love. I've done it with a few friends, I regret not waiting. Please do your self the favor and wait, not just rush into your first time like I did my self. My first time sucked. As one of the posters said before me "is that it"... YEP that is it. Sex is over rated.

Best of luck,

Voodoo.

[rockman1]

sex is a not a way to love and you shoul wait to do it because if you do it your first time it wont matter if you do it with some one random tha t you dont really know your first time should be with somebody you love and trust with your heart and you know them very well

[jake0_o]

what kind of sex?