Needing some advise...

[KyleStyle]

Hi everyone, Im new here and found the forum by googling a question... I never got an answer so I hope some can help. Its kinda complicated... Im 14 and kinda starting late (late bloomer I guess). But lately Ive been really horny, which i know is just hormones and im not concerned lol.. But my problem is that I really find my self only looking at guys who are older, and Im not realy comfortable with myself and those feelings. I just wonder if anything is wrong with me. Because i think if an older guy likes 14 yr olds its kinda creepy, yet i like older guys (no clue if any like me though). I just wonder, Am i a hypocrite? Or am I a reverse pervert of some kind? I have never done anything realy, accept J.O. in the same room as my friend once, and kiss girls... I just need to know why i have these feelings? Are they normal? Does anyone relate to this or have experience or advise? I look at my teachers more than my friends as crushes and I dont know why?

[alh1994]

Nah its not bad, just really sounds like a phase that you are going through, just looking to at older guys in prolly your fantasy right now! Thats normal!

[terbear]

You're totally fine. It is probably just hormones.

[HockeyHolic]

Nah its not bad, just really sounds like a phase that you are going through, just looking to at older guys in prolly your fantasy right now! Thats normal!

Agreed, you are going through a phase, totally normal!

[Byrdman10]

its happened to me.... :) dont worry

[boom17]

You're totally normal, I was really similar when I was your age

[Electra Heart]

You're fine, I know how you feel dude...

[KyleStyle]

You're totally normal, I was really similar when I was your age

So did you grow out of it?

[Nicky97]

I bet it has some basis in experiences or shortcomings in earlier life (not sexual) but it is common and attractions just ARE. Don't go chasing men too much, it could be a bit of a problem :)

If you are lucky to work up a real friendship (with or without) then you are fortunate. Keep you eyes open. But there are a lot of good people out there. One of my closest confidants (no sex) is a married retired professor, takes me over to visit a respectable gay couple he knows (50/30). He is what my father should be, but isn't.

Don't feel awkward, just do what you feel is appropriate and don't listen to the haters.

[Thanatos]

Like Nicky said, everyone has their attractions and thats just what they are. Don't worry too much about them. Just don't get yourself in trouble by looking too much older, or wait til you're over the age of consent to look much older, and you'll be fine.

[lilj231]

it hormones,because you honestly don't know if you gay,bi,straight,or whatever until after puberty,because of the ragging hormones inside.Give it time.

[Unsolvedmind]

Yup totally normal

[logan fields]

hey kyle im really stupid about stuff like this and am new here to but when i read what you said i just thought whats wrong with that? I mean im 13 but i know a lot of dudes that have crushes on teachers and besides some older people are good looking to, im not saying to do stuff with them but isnt crushes sorta normal?

[Fourth Dimension]

just your horemones

[maxii]

well,, Im 15 and I liked 18 year olds and 13 year oldz,, [[13 year was real mature.. he looked 16]].. but I didnt act on how I felt toward them,, I kept in mind how things worked.. so,, its okay to crush on older people.. think about it this way.. dont straight boys have fantasys about older girls like Megan Fox & Jessica Alba.?. so Im guessing its okay for gay/bi boys to do the same.. its all okay as long as your alright with it,, and its not illegal.. so keep in mind,, only 2 year difference is allowed..

[Trinity_15]

it is normal.. just hormones