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Gummi
September 4th, 2011, 11:37 PM
First off: This is in Puberty 101 because it has some things to do with puberty, read on and you'll see (maybe)

I'll try not to make it a story sorry if I do. Ok, so theres this girl I met at a school meeting last week and she asked me for my cell number. We've been texting for a week, and so far shes awesome lol, but occasionally the conversation gets hot lol (to me anyways) some examples:

She asked me what I was doing and I said I just took a shower and im putting on my clothes. She said I can help you with that. I got a boner from it, and I don't know if she meant it in a hot way or what. lol

Another time she was saying she wanted me to come over and it would be fun.

She also always talks about when ever I say something sweet I earn points, and with those I can do anything I want. I asked her what she meant by that and she just replied with "anything you want" I always get a boner when she talks about the points and that I can use them for anything. I don't know if she means like sexual stuff or what.

The reason this is puberty related is because I don't know if I like her because of her, or because of her saying I can use the points for anything (shes not a whore shes actually really nice and shy) I was wondering if I only like her because im always horny when I talk to her (she makes me horny :yummy: ) I don't want a relationship just for like pleasure and stuff. I want it to be a good one, and I was thinking about asking her out, but I wanna know if I really like her first.

I want to hear your opinions. Sorry if this is story telling. I tried not to make it too long, but still leave in what you needed to know. Please don't call me stupid or say mean stuff. I'm only looking for opinions, you don't need to answer.

SinisterMystery
September 4th, 2011, 11:41 PM
You're not stupid. She is clearly teasing you haha, I think she might like you. I think you should see where it goes.

theUnprofessional
September 4th, 2011, 11:42 PM
if you like her then i guess its fine but the question is does she like you? other than that go for it!

Gummi
September 4th, 2011, 11:57 PM
She did say she liked me. She also said the jackpot with the points is her. I'm 99.99% sure she meant going out with her lol. I know she likes me, and she wanted to know if I liked her, but I wasn't sure yet. I also have other reasons for not asking her out already (theres another girl, long story) thanks for answering so far.

theUnprofessional
September 5th, 2011, 01:28 AM
your welcome :)

Axxe_Man
September 5th, 2011, 02:10 AM
start a relationship with her and get to know her better. then u'll find out weather she was teasing u or not.
I was texting this girl and she was asking me if she could touch me and I asked where and she was like "ur cock of course!" lol

AmusedDJ
September 5th, 2011, 02:59 AM
dude she want your nuts

HaydenM
September 5th, 2011, 04:46 AM
I would say she likes you, then again I think it is wrong to lead her on if you don't want a relationship and just wanna cheap screw. If you want the possibility of something sexual, ask her out, but only if you like her, not the possibility of pleasure she might bring you.

Don't be a sex obsessed maniac, us guys get a bad name because of them.

Short Circuit
September 5th, 2011, 06:13 AM
The fun in phone sex!

If you are wanting to go out with her, then talk to her face to face, not her text message system. What do you 2 have in common? Talk about that, once your comfortable, start by holding hands (feels embarrasing to start with), then move on to the goodbye kiss.

Just remember, there is a very small difference between love and lust, YOU have to decide which one it is your after

Happy dating

Jordan1234
September 5th, 2011, 06:24 AM
marry her dude :D

TheMJS
September 5th, 2011, 09:30 AM
Go for it.

jacob_1995
September 5th, 2011, 01:59 PM
i think you should go out with her and see how things progress.
wait a month to see if you really like her and she really likes you.
if you both like each other, i would say go ahead with the sexual stuff.
just make sure to stay protected :)

Gummi
September 5th, 2011, 04:52 PM
Thanks everyone for answering. Also I'm not one of those people just looking for sexual stuff in a relationship. I have never had a sexual relationship so far (I'm 13) and I don't want one just based off of that. I told her that I can't decide if I like her until I meet her in person and talk to her and hang out. Hopefully shes cool and doesn't just want my cock. I won't do anything sexual until I'm sure I really like her not the pleasure. Thanks for answering again, and I would also like some more girls' opinions on this.

RobbieK1
September 5th, 2011, 10:11 PM
She wants your cock. Win, win for you

vtRED
September 6th, 2011, 02:15 AM
Thanks everyone for answering. Also I'm not one of those people just looking for sexual stuff in a relationship. I have never had a sexual relationship so far (I'm 13) and I don't want one just based off of that. I told her that I can't decide if I like her until I meet her in person and talk to her and hang out. Hopefully shes cool and doesn't just want my cock. I won't do anything sexual until I'm sure I really like her not the pleasure. Thanks for answering again, and I would also like some more girls' opinions on this.

13 year olds have sex nowa days? dam my generation missed out..

ot: sounds like she is interested in you, pretty obvious..

Rawrgasm
September 6th, 2011, 06:47 AM
goooo for it, sounds like shes keen