Friends with Benefits(ish) But He's Taken?

[ChromeL]

Hes my best friend, I tell him almost everything and he tells me most. We've known each other for years, and I've liked him for a while. We hang with our group of friends and joke and make sexual comments and laugh and all around have fun. But lately, as I have him over alot. things have gotten sexual with us. Very. We are basically FWB but we never, ever talk about it. My only problem is i really really like him (borderline love) but he has a girlfriend....I don't know whether to stop with him or continue and feel eternally sick when he leaves. Help?

[Sage]

If you know for a fact he's cheating on his girlfriend with you, what makes you think he'd not cheat on you with someone else? Forget about it.

[ChromeL]

How can I forget about him? He's everywhere I go, every conversation I partake in, every thought I think. I gave him everything...I gave him me.

[anonymous53]

As Sage said. He'd cheat on another girl, he'll cheat on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I'd say stop while you can and tell him to tell his girlfriend the truth. It's not fair to her.

[Sage]

He's everywhere I go,
Go other places.

every conversation I partake in,
Converse about other things.

every thought I think.
Watch a movie, read a book, take up a hobby.

I gave him everything...I gave him me.
Then that's your stupid decision and the only person capable of fixing it is you. The guy is clearly untrustworthy, and you shouldn't let him lead you around with your emotions.

[SilentKillah]

The once a cheater always a cheater is bullshit. Ive never cheated, but I know people can change. Anyway, I do agree with Sage that you should try and forget about him.He's hurting another girl and thats unfair to her and you.If someone cheated on you, you'd be pissed, am I right? Well so would she.

[bambino]

Once is a cheater isn't always a cheater. Circumstances change. People grow.
But similarly he is hurting someone he supposedly cares about, and he hasn't even tried to discuss it with you? He hasn't contemplated breaking up with her, or ending things with you?

Points to a serious lack of morals and consideration for anyone's feelings but his own. The fact that he wants to carry on with his cake and eat it [excuse the expression] is not a good indicator. Someone that loves you, wouldn't treat you that way.

You deserve better and so does his girlfriend. Try and move on, or at least stop doing sexual things with him.