question (for anyone attracted to guys)

[aperson444]

Yea, so here's another appearance question. I'm not sure where to put this, so I'll put it here. I'm a 15 year old guy and I have literally nothing other than bone. I'm extremely scrawny and pretty tall (5' 11"). Almost all my clothes look baggy as hell on me because I'm all bone. Hell, people look at me and say I'm all bone. Point is that I don't have much fat or anything on me, and since I'm tall I look fucking awkward. This wouldn't really worry me if a) I had more muscle on that bone and b) I wasn't a shy, awkward mess. Basically I have very little muscle, either that or my muscle is really dense. I do work out, and have been doing so for 3 or 4 years now, so I have some OK abs and a little more meat on my back, but not much else than that. I am also pretty introverted and shy, I stick to a circle of close friends. I have no confidence and will never have any really, but I do know that being a bit bulky and good looking can boost confidence. The problem is that I just cannot do that. I'm not looking for ways to do so either (it won't work).

A lot of people "look good" by their personality, but I'm too shy and too dull to really get there. I'm not an asshole nor am I an angel. I'm pretty kind, and I can be sweet if that's the right word for it (i.e if I had a girlfriend, then she would mean a lot to me and I would make sure I satisfied her sexually/emotionally). I'm not good at talking to people and I tend to overthink shit and avoid most social situations (social anxiety/depression). I just sound like a fucking idiot when I talk, so I'm usually quiet. WHen I do talk, I tend to ramble and over analyze things. Point being, personality can't be the catch-all here or the 100%.


I don't think I'm allowed to post a picture, but my avatar is the latest picture of me. My question is: Are you (people who are attracted to guys) OK with taller, scrawnier guys? Should I change something about myself? Is there anything in particular about them that you've had good experiences with? I guess I just want an opinion. School starts in a day and I'm trying not to look like a loser when I go on the first day.


Thanks for any help

[NotWhoIUsedToBe]

I'd be perfectly fine with a "taller, scrawnier guy." You're actually slightly shorter than I am.

[crzy15]

when i was reading your post i could swear you were describing my brother.. He's exactly like that. Tall and skinny as hell. everyone tells him to EAT. the doc says he's perfectly normal and his body will catch up to his height sooner or later. So i assume you'll be fine. Your muscle will catch up to the rest of you soon. Just be patient.

[aperson444]

Yea, but it worries me. Not for my health, my health is pretty OK, but because I look so weird. My face is even bony except for my cheeks, so my face is almost a diamond shape and it's a bit long. I also already completed my major growth spurts, and I'm almost done growing I believe. So on top of having a sub-average penis, I'm also probably going to be very scrawny.

[NotWhoIUsedToBe]

You're only 15? You're still going to be growing into your 20's!

[aperson444]

Well I started growing early (11ish) and I believe my growth has slowed down a lot, so I'm worried I'll look this awkward my whole life.

[kuuliluuk]

Ahhh, I like bony guys :) I feel that all your problems are only inside your head. Don't try to be you are not. don't make problems for yourself. Being bony is okay. Some don't like, some like it. You can not be liked by everyone!

[aperson444]

Yes, but I can't seem to like myself, for some reason I just look....weird to myself. Foreign so to speak.

[SinisterMystery]

I love scrawny guys. Muscle annoys me for some reason.

[CandyKiren]

Actually, tall scrawny shy guys are just my type(: So don't worry.

[TrAnSMaN09]

Hey Richik, In my opinion, I think you sound really sexy, and sweet, I like a tall boy, I feel like they can protect me <3 hope i helped!

[aperson444]

Haha thanks for your advice guys. I'm just a bit insecure about that shit. Most of my friends have sex pretty often and they're really strong stocky guys. Either that or they're really extroverted. I'm a tall, stick thin guy, but I've got a huge sexual appetite for some reason (i.e I get horny a lot), and being an introverted shy guy never really helps solve that problem (other than making my arms sore).

[TrevorTime]

I am more attracted to tall thin guys than the fat chubby type. Don't worry Rich, you will be fine.

[Angel Androgynous]

I like all types of boys... scrawny being one of them :P Don't worry, Richik, you'll be fine. ^_^

[kuuliluuk]

Yes, but I can't seem to like myself, for some reason I just look....weird to myself. Foreign so to speak.

Oh I know that feeling. I think it is because either your body has changed recently a lot, or you have become more concious of your body shape.

[Thanatos]

Yeah, its one of those things. You're a good looking guy, but you are uncomfortable with your body. You see that QUITE often on here (Both genders), anyways its a matter of becoming comfortable with your body and who you are. Don't worry about the high sexual appetite, I've been like that for a while almost always horny. As for the friends having sex often, thats how mine are too, though they are druggies not jocks like yours seem to be. don't worry about it, sex isnt absolutely necessary.

[aperson444]

though they are druggies not jocks like yours seem to be

Ha far from it XD they're also druggies/skaters, mostly because I'm sort of a druggie as well. But they're strangely muscular for skaters. It's just that I really want to try it. I'm OK with not fitting with a lot of people, but I want to feel confident for once (in that sense).