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The Dill
September 4th, 2011, 05:08 PM
I would really like a boyfriend but I don't know how to approach anyone and I'm not sure anyone would really like me...any advice?

Thanks.

lillyeg98
September 4th, 2011, 05:18 PM
i dnt hav andvice but i feel tha same way!

ADC12
September 4th, 2011, 05:22 PM
Well all i can say is you should be patient - dont rush. All gd relationships start with a friendship, so id say make loads of friends! If u have a crush on someone u shouldnt b straight forward and ask them out, you have to learn about them and build a bond. Then eventually make 'movements' but you shouldnt force it...
You shouldnt say no one will like you because out there, someone is waiting for you, he'll come to u soon enough so dnt worry... Just be yourself.

Kujiro
September 4th, 2011, 08:59 PM
The yearing to find your other half, something all natural according to plato who said men were split into 2 and each looking for their other half.

The best way to go about it would be to be yourself, there's no other better way then to be absolutely patient, and natural.
If you want someone to see something they like in you, it should be the real you, liking the way you are.

Some people meet their halfs early in their lives, some would tumble over a few obstacles , while some don't get to meet them at all.

It's something we are in no control of, every relationship we encounter is a trying out process, where each will evaluate the other.

I understand you are unsure on your approach, but when these things happen it would.
It's never wise to get into a relationship for the sake of wanting one.

Extend your scope of friends, open up your heart to others, and many a times, answers like these can be found in the most unexpected places, amoung the most unexpected people.

Good luck
*smile*

Ambrosia
September 4th, 2011, 09:23 PM
And you can find better answers in :arrow:Relationships and Dating!

SilentKillah
September 5th, 2011, 12:55 AM
Be yourself and the right guy will come after you soon. But remember, if you try and act different than who you are, it will drawn people away from you. so yeah, hope that helps!

SyrupSeal
September 6th, 2011, 12:28 AM
You have to believe that someone is out there. "How do you find something that is lost?" "You stop looking." - John Locke "Lost"

Dack
September 6th, 2011, 12:32 AM
I'm sorry, but this probably sounds rude to ask; are you a guy or a girl? your name says male, but your pic says otherwise... It's hard to give advice if it's for the wrong sex, you know?

The Dill
September 6th, 2011, 07:17 PM
Well thanks :\ Canadians need not reply

MissDisney_x
September 9th, 2011, 05:57 PM
17 and never had one :/