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louisgray
September 4th, 2011, 05:01 PM
ive never had a girlfriend at all ,im 16 now,and it is dragging me down,it affecting my work,my studies,and it is seriously pissing me off

fuck fuck fuck fuck
chillaxman
September 4th, 2011, 05:17 PM
Nothing is wrong with you. You're fine. Now, there are different takes I wanna look at on this.

Natural reaction: Nothing is wrong with you. Chill out and just forget about girls if they are hurting your studies THAT much. If you're being dragged down and this has had a general negative effect on you, than you are stressing WAY too much. Don't worry about them at all, being in a relationship is nice, but not being in one is not extremely important. Now, why does this infuriate you so much?

Whatever this one is. Eh...: You're only 16, don't worry about that at all. Some men live their lives happily without ever being in a relationship. Don't rush to get in a relationship either, I can promise you someone is going to end up hurt. What your peers think of you doesn't matter, it's your life. I think you're blowing this out of proportion, letting your relationship status rule your life like that. Don't worry about it, and keep girls on the side, studies coming first. It seems like you care about both, but the latter definitely comes first.
Jess
September 5th, 2011, 10:39 AM
calm down. I don't have a boyfriend either. there's nothing wrong with being single. Is it really that important to be in a relationship? I don't think so (but that's just me)
bambino
September 5th, 2011, 10:46 AM
I didn't have my first boyfriend til I was 16/17. Don't worry, your time will come when you meet the right person. Enjoy single life, hobbys and having fun.
DJbeggar
September 5th, 2011, 12:41 PM
LoL i'm almost 17 and i dont have any girlfriend either...
mrbob360
September 5th, 2011, 05:05 PM
calm down. I don't have a boyfriend either. there's nothing wrong with being single. Is it really that important to be in a relationship? I don't think so (but that's just me)

I agree with jess it really isnt that important to be in a relationship at the moment you have your whole life ahead of you stop worrying I'll meet the right person one day all you have to do is give it time , be paient and most important be your self that's what counts don't change for anyone