im embarresed to say but

[scottyman]

i turned 14 in january and i still havent made out with a girl........ and i think it is cause i am like a man already (i am 6foot 4 and 240lbs) can someone give me some advise??

oh and i havent been on in a while so sorry if i forget the rules

[MoveAlong]

Nothing to be embarrassed about. You should start by getting a girlfriend though! Then if you like each other enough you'd probably end up kissing/making out =]

[scottyman]

well what do u think i have been trying to do for the last 5 years playing with barbies?? ha

[MoveAlong]

So what is your question? Advice on getting a girlfriend or advice on just getting a girl to make out with?

[scottyman]

advice on getting a girlfreind i think is what i am basically trying to say..

[Xull]

Dude I got mine a week before I turned 15.It well happen.If you get one soon you well be more luckey than me.I am "5,10" and 150 pounds.I never thaught I would get mine.

Good Lord I still think you!

Sorry, anyway.Don't worrey you well get it soon pal.The longer you wait the more special it well be.It so happened that the girl I kissed was her first time too.Well than it led to other things.Lol

[scottyman]

well the girl i really want to be my gf is sorta... um how do i say it.... w/o strict morels...

[Xull]

That's when you gotta be good friends with the parents.

1. Do things like when you call, "Hello sir, may I please speak to Hannah Montannia?" Yes "Alright, Thanks" I am sure you know about the other way around.

2. If you EVER take her on a date, pick here up at the door and make sure she get's in ok.If you really wanna impress them, it might work.Don't hold her hand, but wrap arms.

3. Since your a guy, find a good way where you and her dad or brother might work can conect and have a friendship.This might come in us later if you ask her out.

4. Ask your parents if she can come over for dinner.They might see that as your parents want to get to know her.They might just do the same for you.Always builds a good solid base for the two familys if you ask me.

I got to go, but I might think of more.It's just good basic things that might help her parents like you more.Take it easy and don't just jump in the fast lane, but don't get in the traffic jam where you become more friends with her than you should and she would not wanna be with you since your such good friends.And last, become good friends with the other damily member may not be so good.That happened to me and her bro wanted her to break up with me and be best friends with me.Be careful, your in a tight space and if you make the wrong move you could be doomed.

I should return to help you.

[Antares]

well i havent had an official gf before
but anyways that means your 13 right
but i think everything will come in due time
dont woory be happy :)

[Maverick]

There's no reason to be embarrassed. Your physical maturity has nothing to do with it. You just need to make an effort to ask a girl on a date. What exactly have been your methods on getting a girl?

[boy_lover88]

It never hurts to ask that special someone out.

Girls like LOADS of qualities on a guy... and that can be physical or mental.
Being nice is one of them, yes.

[american_idiot]

ive never had a girlfriend or ever kissed a girl and i am turning 14 in about a month i am patheticsorry i am saying this on someone elses thread but i dont want to make two of same related threads... what should i do???

[Just...Will]

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Relationships & Dating

[invisiblegirl]

trust me that 1 special person will come along and it won't matter what u look like. yeah guys think well girls like the guys that have the 6 packs and stuff but thats just eye candy. when a girl is in a relationship what she's really looking 4 is somone that is sweet and treats her good, basicaly justsomone to care.

[gamerdude12]

Its cool, I am 14 and I had ma first kiss this year, and I say, GET A GIRLFRIEND, and awhen you think its right ask her. Or bring it up in a note like I did.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Sorry but.....HOLY SHIT.

You are 14 years old. Me too! But I don't even worry about these things yet! Not saying I wouldn't want to (in TIME!!!) get a girlfriend (in fact alot of gals I know want me :D ) but seriously chill out. You're only young once, so worry about this kind of stuff later, when it actually MATTERS. I wouldn't even TRY to get a girlfriend until I'm at LEAST 16. YOU ARE NOT A LOSER. You're lucky actually... you may not have experienced a relationship yet, but then you haven't had to deal with the pain associated with break-ups...

[invisiblegirl]

you may not have experienced a relationship yet, but then you haven't had to deal with the pain associated with break-ups...


guys, i'm naerly 16 and have been in and out of relationships and trust me it's not about kissing. it's about how you feel.
and that is so true, ur going 2 get ur heart broken countless times and there is no pain like a broken heart. when u do find the u like and may-b even love u'll understand it's not about the making out or the sex, its about ur dedication to that person.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

guys, i'm naerly 16 and have been in and out of relationships and trust me it's not about kissing. it's about how you feel.
and that is so true, ur going 2 get ur heart broken countless times and there is no pain like a broken heart. when u do find the u like and may-b even love u'll understand it's not about the making out or the sex, its about ur dedication to that person.


She is absolutely right. You can't base a relationship on sex or making out because it's fun and exciting. That "special someone" has to be your favourite person IN THE WORLD (well...your family might be a close second)!
It think that it's best to wait untill I can be sure I'm going out with a girl that has similar ideals (but kissing is great too, I won't lie :D ).

[dylan]

dude i just turned 13 and i only had one girlfriend before and still i havent even kissed any body and im one of those sports playin a's getting student handsome everybody likes and hates perfect person and i still dont have one join the club of lonelyness sorry i just carryed away any just go with the flow and DONT try to be someone ur not thats what i had to learn the hard way just be ur self and i garentee that u will get that kiss soon enough

[x__onyx]

Seriously, dont worry about it. I know someone said it before, but, the longer you wait, the better. Trust me on that.

[cheeseman the III]

hey don worry, jus make sure you get the right girl an you won get messed over like me.
an i got a friend who is almos 16 an still hasnt kissed his girlfriend after 3 months, so at least you can beat him right :yeah:

[Chatman]

i turned 13 last february and i still havn't made out with anyone - and i have a gf!!! Don't worry mate, it'll happen when the time comes, just don't try to rush itor force it.

[hesopchoie]

Realy its simple, it may sound realy stupid but just ask a girl that you think you like. Thats what i did and now i have a great girlfriend. Dont try to make out though, take it by little steps, start to hug, make a little funny thing like use a realy corny line and actualy use it, like the tired thing were you yawn and then laugh. I actualy did that today lol.

[Emryl]

Your only PHYSICALLY a man. And don't be ashamed for not making out with a girl. Some guys haven't even had there first kiss by 25! =O

[bahari mtoto]

just be yourself act how you would with your friends
(you don't need to be extra sweet or super polite)just be you and the right person for you will find you. The worst thing you can do is start a relationship with a lie and the worst relationship lie is a phony personality.