Thought I was gay but now...

[LLLOO000OOOLLL]

So basically I came to accept that I am gay over the past years , and I have also been wanting to come out for a while and I was very close in doing so and was planning on during the summer.But over the last couple of months I am now really close to this girl. I want just to be friends but I also feel like I'm in love with her!? Which has put my coming out plans on freeze as I am now worried that I might not actually be gay but bi?? :what:

What do you guys think??? I am happy to answer more questions if need to! :)

[Lights]

Do you feel sexually attracted to her? Meaning more specifically: do you want to kiss her, and generally get sexually involved with her?

[LLLOO000OOOLLL]

No not really. I don't want to have sex with ladies or her! :/

[Amaryllis]

So that probably means you're not bi. But we can't really decide for you. Maybe you just really like her. Sometimes I just wanna hug my girlfriends reaaallllll hard and I just love 'em so much. You can love your friends as well. Anyway, it doesn't matter. Gay or bi or straight isn't all you are. Does it really matter? You don't have to label yourself. Just see how things go. If you love her, you love her, if you don't, oh well.

Good luck :)

[LLLOO000OOOLLL]

Ok, well thanks guys!! :) I'm going to see how things go between us. Well the thing is I think she fancies me as well, so If she makes a move on me I will tell her the truth!

Thanks again!!! :)