curious or not??

[alex29lmfao]

i am 16 and straight i ave always been interested in girls and suddenly i love to jerk off to ppics of men in underwear but i dont like the thought of being involved in a gay relationship so why am i suddenly liking this????????:confused:

[ExhibitG]

curious. that's why :)

[Blizzard]

Ur not gay just curious

[Brokeandbetrayed]

Happens to a lot of us, just curiosity.

[Coolcat1314]

i think ur just curious im the same way all of a sudden. i dont want to have relationships with guys but its sexy to look at them

[Neptune]

Question: When you say relationship, do you mean like love and all that stupid stuff? Or do you mean sex? Would you have sex with a guy, if, it didn't involve a romantic relationship?

[berry1]

Mmmmm! once again loads of guys jump to the conclussions of curiosity. So at this rate theirs only 2, straight people and curious people right?:lol::P

[IanB]

Happens to a lot of us, just curiosity.

[travis101]

Mmmmm! once again loads of guys jump to the conclussions of curiosity. So at this rate theirs only 2, straight people and curious people right?:lol::P

im with u...........these f'ing questions "am i gay cus i jerk it to dudes" get the same bloody answers every time "your not gay unless u emotionally like dudes" this is utter bull s***..........if u find guys physically attractive then you are at the least bi......yes if u occasionally jerk it to guys but mostly to girls then i would say you may only be curious but if guys are the only thing you jerk to then i would say u are headed towards being gay.........why dont u try this....when your in the locker room at school start checkin out all guys in their underwear.....i mean really stare right at their packages then tell the dudes in the locker room your not gay cus u dont want to date them u just want to jerk it with them or to them.........see what your rep in school is after that and then tell me that being physically attracted to guys isnt gay.

[des222]

You're not gay man. I jack off with my friends when we're bored and I'm totally straight. Totally normal.

[Electra Heart]

Curious, normality at its best

[Kdude146]

your curious thats all it is to it

[InsanelyApple]

You just had a sudden rush of hormones so basically anything will make you masturbate.

[ExhibitG]

im with u...........these f'ing questions "am i gay cus i jerk it to dudes" get the same bloody answers every time "your not gay unless u emotionally like dudes" this is utter bull s***..........if u find guys physically attractive then you are at the least bi......yes if u occasionally jerk it to guys but mostly to girls then i would say you may only be curious but if guys are the only thing you jerk to then i would say u are headed towards being gay.........why dont u try this....when your in the locker room at school start checkin out all guys in their underwear.....i mean really stare right at their packages then tell the dudes in the locker room your not gay cus u dont want to date them u just want to jerk it with them or to them.........see what your rep in school is after that and then tell me that being physically attracted to guys isnt gay.

pretty much everything about this entire post is false.

[Marc5]

idk if everything is false. at my school if ya stared at guys in their underwear, at a minimum you'd have a new label of being gay and it would stick. Might get a butt whippin and don't think anyone would come forward as a witness later on.

The other stuff, take in context. JO to dudes in their underwear? How is it not gay? (just flip the question around)

to another poster who said they JO with their friends and say they aren't gay, that could be true if you're sitting in the same room watching straight porn and not interested in each other. If he's saying jerk them off, that's pretty gay.

none of this is bad, but let's be honest about it.

[LuckyLuke]

An act does not make someone gay or straight, regardless of context.

A repeated act with true sexual and emotional pleasure attached to it can define whether someone is gay or straight. If he j/o with his friend or even jerks off his friend although it's a gay ACT, he's not necessarily gay.

As for the OP, I feel that it's too soon to judge. If you continue to have these feelings, consider exploring them and see what you come up with. Just because you don't see yourself with a man now doesn't necessarily mean it couldn't happen. If you slowly shy away from men, that's fine too. Do what YOU like.

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And as for the locker room example, what the hell does that have to do with anything? That's public perception. Just because people label you something doesn't mean it's true. People call Adele hideous, I think she's beautiful and hot. Labels are labels are labels, remove the sticker and live as yourself.

And the sarcastic line, "you're not gay because you don't want to date them you just want to jerk off with them", are you kidding me? Being attracted to people comes from 2 roots, emotional and physical and only one of them tends to be embedded in the human psyche: emotional. Think about it, if you're REALLY horny and someone you'd never considered attractive came up in a revealing outfit you can't tell me you wouldn't have sexual thoughts about them (and sometimes this can be regardless of gender). Emotional though? That's not effected by anything.

[ExhibitG]

An act does not make someone gay or straight, regardless of context.

A repeated act with true sexual and emotional pleasure attached to it can define whether someone is gay or straight. If he j/o with his friend or even jerks off his friend although it's a gay ACT, he's not necessarily gay.

As for the OP, I feel that it's too soon to judge. If you continue to have these feelings, consider exploring them and see what you come up with. Just because you don't see yourself with a man now doesn't necessarily mean it couldn't happen. If you slowly shy away from men, that's fine too. Do what YOU like.

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And as for the locker room example, what the hell does that have to do with anything? That's public perception. Just because people label you something doesn't mean it's true. People call Adele hideous, I think she's beautiful and hot. Labels are labels are labels, remove the sticker and live as yourself.

And the sarcastic line, "you're not gay because you don't want to date them you just want to jerk off with them", are you kidding me? Being attracted to people comes from 2 roots, emotional and physical and only one of them tends to be embedded in the human psyche: emotional. Think about it, if you're REALLY horny and someone you'd never considered attractive came up in a revealing outfit you can't tell me you wouldn't have sexual thoughts about them (and sometimes this can be regardless of gender). Emotional though? That's not effected by anything.

nailed it.

[lilj231]

Anything sexual turns me on..so it's normal and don't worry about that stuff,it's part of puberty and it happens to everyone.If someone says it's never happened to them they are lying.

[emrahcud]

im straight and i do the same thing your just curious

[travis101]

An act does not make someone gay or straight, regardless of context.

A repeated act with true sexual and emotional pleasure attached to it can define whether someone is gay or straight. If he j/o with his friend or even jerks off his friend although it's a gay ACT, he's not necessarily gay.

As for the OP, I feel that it's too soon to judge. If you continue to have these feelings, consider exploring them and see what you come up with. Just because you don't see yourself with a man now doesn't necessarily mean it couldn't happen. If you slowly shy away from men, that's fine too. Do what YOU like.

.......

And as for the locker room example, what the hell does that have to do with anything? That's public perception. Just because people label you something doesn't mean it's true. People call Adele hideous, I think she's beautiful and hot. Labels are labels are labels, remove the sticker and live as yourself.

And the sarcastic line, "you're not gay because you don't want to date them you just want to jerk off with them", are you kidding me? Being attracted to people comes from 2 roots, emotional and physical and only one of them tends to be embedded in the human psyche: emotional. Think about it, if you're REALLY horny and someone you'd never considered attractive came up in a revealing outfit you can't tell me you wouldn't have sexual thoughts about them (and sometimes this can be regardless of gender). Emotional though? That's not effected by anything.

so if im emotionally attracted to girls but find them physically unappealing and like having sex only with dudes then i am straight

and how come everyone in society has a different view on what is gay than the guys on this forum........we all have to live in the real world where we are judged and labeled by our actions and being labeled gay is what most of the guys that ask the question "is this gay" are worried about........it just seems no matter what any guy asks on this forum about doing sexual things with a guy or jerkin off to gay porn nobody ever seems to be gay..........and i agree "live as yourself" but its much easier said than done..........i say live by this simple rule.........If you have to ask IS THIS GAY then it probably is

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this statement is ridiculous "Think about it, if you're REALLY horny and someone you'd never considered attractive came up in a revealing outfit you can't tell me you wouldn't have sexual thoughts about them (and sometimes this can be regardless of gender). Emotional though? That's not effected by anything."........................i saw the girl from "Precious" in a revealing outfit in a pic on TMZ and i did NOT i repeat did NOT have sexual thoughts about her......i actually wanted to gouge my eyes out but i need them to look at gay porn

[NotWhoIUsedToBe]

Thinking of men while masturbating, even if you are straight, does not even mean that you're curious.