Girl's opinion

[Cybercode]

OK if you have to choose between two guys, here are your choices.

Guy A. He has short hair, kind of chubby and not that good looking, but he would anything for you, even "move heaven and earth" (a term i picked up this summer). he would basically worship you. he's book smart and a computer geek. FYI, i'm pretty much guy A.

Guy B. He has long hair, he's a surfer, he has nice abs and big muscles, likes sports and is very active, but he's a jerk.

Who would you choose and why. And yes I'm the Guy A in this situation, that's why I'm asking.

EDIT: OK worship was a little too far, but I would always put her first and then me second. You get my point though.

[Emiil]

im not a girl but i like guys so ;D I'd pick guy B :)

[Love.Hate]

Probably A. Because it's lovely to be treated like a princess and looks are so un-important, they are not gonna look good forever so why pick that option? It's personality. Although A (you) sound like you would be a bit clingy, so remember not too clingy :)

-oh yeah I also love intellectual conversations with people, I try to confuse people with big words :P

[PervertedStalker]

i'd say A. looks never matter cuz rlly, wen hes 65 the sexy jock guys face is gonna b more wrinkly than a fat old lady's but. With A wen im 65 i will have a nice sweet husband =]

[bambino]

A, because looks shouldn't be the defining factor. Personality should.

[Angel Androgynous]

The options are way too limited. I would pick neither and look for other options.
Option A sounds too clingy and option B is a jerk. Though looks aren't everything, attraction to physical appearance are starters to a what then could be romantic relationship. Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Option B can be hideous to some girls and a dream boy to others. Option A can be a dream for some girls and a "stay away" for others. Why are questions like this always so black and white? I pick the grey area...

[Weeping]

You don't pick who you fall for, and I wouldn't pick anyone I didn't actually LIKE.

But I guess if I'd have to choose one, it'd probably be A. Personality matters a billion times more than looks, and besides I don't even think "nice abs and big muscles" are nice.

[Cybercode]

The options are way too limited. I would pick neither and look for other options.
Option A sounds too clingy and option B is a jerk. Though looks aren't everything, attraction to physical appearance are starters to a what then could be romantic relationship. Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Option B can be hideous to some girls and a dream boy to others. Option A can be a dream for some girls and a "stay away" for others. Why are questions like this always so black and white? I pick the grey area...

The options are limited because I am in a situation where a girl is having to decide between guy A (me) and guy B (the other guy)

[Angel Androgynous]

The options are limited because I am in a situation where a girl is having to decide between guy A (me) and guy B (the other guy)

Well all girls are different. We don't speak for her... and she doesn't have to decide. She can just go for other options.

[shaga123]

well who ever has sex best........and better emotions........

[aperson444]

What you really should be asking is this:

Boy A (Like you said) - With added sexual aspect: Basically the more extreme side of Boy B. He pleasures the partner first, and actually cares (a lot) about the sex being good for both people.
Boy B: Intelligent or at least intellectual, tall skinny, average muscles, average looks (shortish hair), free minded. Won't treat you like a princess and do EVERYTHING with you, but truly cares about you like Boy A. However he has his own life as well as his life with you. He's leaning more on the romantic/equal side of sex where pleasure must work on both sides to be pleasure at all.
Boy C: An athletic kid, pretty good looking but not as good looking as Boy D. Sort of a jock. He's not a douche to you, but pretty much is mostly with you for your looks. He's not downright retarded, but he's not very smart either. He's more into wild sex that just happens. Very cocky (might appear confident to some), but not really a douche.
Boy D: (Boy B in your words) With added sexual aspect: More into sex that's self-fulfilling but wild. Almost addicted to the pleasure of it, so he needs a lot in order for the relationship to be very stable.

There's all these personality zones in between too.... But it's hard to tell. Guys tend to look for a definite answer (it's something hardwired into the brain of guys), while girls may or might not do so. It's sort of daunting in that sense. Sort of what makes talking to and approaching girls difficult. You can't be sure what they think of you. Just my opinion there.

[Cybercode]

What you really should be asking is this:

Boy A (Like you said) - With added sexual aspect: Basically the more extreme side of Boy B. He pleasures the partner first, and actually cares (a lot) about the sex being good for both people.
Boy B: Intelligent or at least intellectual, tall skinny, average muscles, average looks (shortish hair), free minded. Won't treat you like a princess and do EVERYTHING with you, but truly cares about you like Boy A. However he has his own life as well as his life with you. He's leaning more on the romantic/equal side of sex where pleasure must work on both sides to be pleasure at all.
Boy C: An athletic kid, pretty good looking but not as good looking as Boy D. Sort of a jock. He's not a douche to you, but pretty much is mostly with you for your looks. He's not downright retarded, but he's not very smart either. He's more into wild sex that just happens. Very cocky (might appear confident to some), but not really a douche.
Boy D: (Boy B in your words) With added sexual aspect: More into sex that's self-fulfilling but wild. Almost addicted to the pleasure of it, so he needs a lot in order for the relationship to be very stable.

There's all these personality zones in between too.... But it's hard to tell. Guys tend to look for a definite answer (it's something hardwired into the brain of guys), while girls may or might not do so. It's sort of daunting in that sense. Sort of what makes talking to and approaching girls difficult. You can't be sure what they think of you. Just my opinion there.

I appreciate the opinion. again, i was asking opinion of THIS specific situation. there is no other guy A or B or C or Z. i just wanted a girl's opinion if they had to choose between two guys in the same situation the girl i like is in. where she can't decide between me (guy A) or the other guy (Guy B).

Mods: I think it's time to go ahead and lock this thread. It's gone a little too far and I got my answer.

[Kujiro]

It does depend on what the girl is out for.
Definately for a stable relatiobship, one would likely choose A.
But if the girl is out to flaunt, likely B.

Its a known fact that the first impression counts, and presentation of their boyfriend in front of friends does matter.
In general, this is a very objective matter and varies from person to person.
Its too possible that; for showmanship, she may go with guy B, but in love with guy A.

Im not really a hunky lover, so i would generally go for A.
But at the same time, "A" need not be perfect, but none the least presentable.
To each his/her own.
Morever our opinions does not really matter, as we are not her.
We are just choosing based on your own preference.

But it would be better evaluated if you shed more light on her personaility.

Good luck
*smile*

[Cybercode]

STOP SAY YOU'RE A "GUY A", jeeze NOBODY CARES!

If nobody cares then why are people answering my question, and most importantly why are you on this thread if you don't care.

Mods: I say lock this thread immediately before it gets out of hand. I didn't know this would turn into an argument.

[Kujiro]

STOP SAY YOU'RE A "GUY A", jeeze NOBODY CARES!
If you are not interested, just do not read it.
Please do not bash OP, its just not very nice.


Mods: I say lock this thread immediately before it gets out of hand. I didn't know this would turn into an argument.

If you want your post locked, report your post, and under the report segment, say you want it locked.

[mikeosron]

STOP SAY YOU'RE A "GUY A", jeeze NOBODY CARES!

I have to agree. The OP of this thread has been seriously annoying me lately. Ughh I can't stand mattmatt95.

[Cybercode]

I have to agree. The OP of this thread has been seriously annoying me lately. Ughh I can't stand mattmatt95.

yeah i'm locking it. it's gone too far.

[Donkey]

STOP SAY YOU'RE A "GUY A", jeeze NOBODY CARES!

I have to agree. The OP of this thread has been seriously annoying me lately. Ughh I can't stand mattmatt95.

These threads are here for the OP to get help. Not for you to bash. If any more similar behaviour is seen from either of you two, there will be more serious consequences. It's not OK to interject threads like that.

OP request. :locked: