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Hewhohasnoriches
September 2nd, 2011, 12:37 AM
If you were to experiment in confusion of your sexuality, would that still make you gay/bi?

I've tried experimenting with fantasies, and even tried to simulate gay acts like oral sex to see if I could get an erection. It was all experimental. There were even times where I would try to enjoy the fantasies that I have, but it would never exactly be the same as that of a straight fantasy.

I've still been stressing over the gay thoughts, feelings and fears; to the point where I've begun to label it as a type of OCD. I think I'm a little bit more accepting of a potential homosexuality, but at the moment (if it's there at all) it seems rather latent.

Could someone also direct me to some resources that talk about sexual confusion among teenagers being linked to hormones? I just feel that I need some evidence and a bit of an elaboration about the idea.
Starlight Blaze
September 2nd, 2011, 11:55 AM
well I can't direct you to resources, but I can say experimenting doesn't have anything to do with your sexuality, escept to maybe figure out what you are. The only way you can know your sexuality is what you feel inside :)
Syvelocin
September 2nd, 2011, 12:50 PM
Yeah, I never understood experimenting, because the other 2/3 of it is whether you're EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY attracted to the same sex. And if you are, then you could possibly have an opportunity to have a sexual relationship with the same sex, and if you don't like it, then you know you're only partially gay. I know it's a sexual orientation, but there's so much to it than who you want to have sex with.
Marc5
September 2nd, 2011, 01:26 PM
Yeah, I never understood experimenting, because the other 2/3 of it is whether you're EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY attracted to the same sex. And if you are, then you could possibly have an opportunity to have a sexual relationship with the same sex, and if you don't like it, then you know you're only partially gay. I know it's a sexual orientation, but there's so much to it than who you want to have sex with.

Partially gay?
BiBoy5674
November 16th, 2011, 03:33 PM
experimentation just helps find who you are :)
Syvelocin
November 16th, 2011, 08:29 PM
Please do not bump old threads. :locked: