Question...

[waldor]

well when i jack off i usually imagine guys... i dont want to be gay and i am starting to find i am atrracted to girls more than i used to be but i still imagine my guy friends and i want to experiment with them. And i am also finding that i am finding the idea more disgusting and when i am actually with them in person and have those thoughts i find them repulsive. is this normal?

[Cap'nCrunch]

Yep. I'd say its normal.

[Chatman]

Its normal, it could be a phase ur goin thru, i masturbate about guys, but im straight and i know it. Remeber, its what makes you happy inside that counts.

[MoveAlong]

It's normal.

"I don't want to be gay" isn't something that happens...you can't prevent it. You're probably not anyway, it's just experimental thoughts and they should go away over the years. It's just part of puberty! :]

[waldor]

Okay i think it is just a phase... thanks

[waldor]

anyone else?

[Underground_Network]

Please don't double post. THX.

Anyways, I have thoughts about experimenting with my friends, and its just a phase, a stage referred to as curiosity. You wanna compare, so you know the "average" for your age, you want to prove your more of a "man". Remember, they're just thoughts, and as you said, you find them repulsive, well if you find them repulsive, chances are you're not gay. I'd say 90% of all guys get these thoughts/dreams during puberty. You're perfectly normal, and as long as you find experimenting with guys repulsive, and you believe you're sexually attracted to girls, you're probably straight, but only time will tell.

[Maverick]

Your hormones make you feel weird towards all sorts of things. Don't worry about it.

[waldor]

yah thanks guys i was really worried about it...

[Antares]

i wouldnt worry about it
i am going through something similar
but i dont masterbate to guys

[Dameon]

I think it's more of a psycological thing. That's why almost ALL guys think about it. You're a guy, you're "pleasing" you're body, feeling it and stuff........., you like it so you imagine others, not nesscarily them individually (their faces/ personality), just their bodies. you're probably attracted to the male BODY which is a little different than being gay. You just have a really strong sexual appetite.


if deep down when you think about it, you're not sexually aroused ( and it makes you sick to think about being with a guy), you are ABSOLUTELY NOT GAY. I know cause I have the same feeling about girls ( I'm gay). It's not really a "sick" feeling, but I don't feel any SEXUAL attraction.

Really belive me, you have NO WORRIES. You aren't gay.:yeah: