Why? Why me?

[Radfreak]

Or rather, why not me? I'm just wondering why I'm the only girl in my grade that hasn't been on some sort of date. I mean, I'll describe myself for you:
*Nice hair - not blonde, but nice
*I get gorgeous tans and hold them well for ages
*I am very skinny, but I am quite the healthy eater.
*My personal problem right now is that I often get "hunger headaches" from not eating often enough. Aargh, the curse of the fast metabolism!
*Aah yes, and I am VERY funny and sweet and crack great jokes on the spot.

I am not being vain, these are all things people have said about me. Even the metabolism thing. If someone could help me figure out why guys never talk to me (much less ask me out), that would be very much apprecciated! Thanks all!

[Gumleaf]

from what you say, if i didn't have a girlfriend already i would be asking you out at my first opportunity. you sound like a wonderful person to go out with. ps make sure you keep on eating, eating disorders are certainly not an attractive.

[Underground_Network]

Maybe there are guys that are crushing on you, but they're afraid of rejection, I'm a guy, but one of my friends thats a girl in my school, in my opinion at least, is very attractive, but basically no one has asked her out. You can either wait, or you can try asking out a guy you like. Try and take charge, instead of waiting for a guy to come to you, you should go to a guy. In my school, guys primarily ask girls out, but theres nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. :P

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Have you heard of the jerk syndrome?

It is when a girl is so attractive that any guy with half a brain won't ask her out, because she's so obviously out of his league, so the girl starts to think there is something wrong with her. This seems to be what is happening here. However the next stage is that a guy who gets rejected so much that he doesn't care about it any more thinks "what the hell, I might as well try!" and the girl says yes out of gratitude. And I don't think you want to get to that stage, do you?

[Radfreak]

from what you say, if i didn't have a girlfriend already i would be asking you out at my first opportunity. you sound like a wonderful person to go out with. ps make sure you keep on eating, eating disorders are certainly not an attractive.

Let me rephrase what I said. I actually do eat a lot, but our luch at school is at 10:30 in the morning, so I'm often not hungry right then and there. My next oppritunity to eat is at 3:00 in the afternoon (15:00), so you can imagine that I must get hungry between those two times. Sometimes I get hunger headaches since I can't exactly walk out of class and get some food. Oh, and I don't have an eating disorder. Lots of people think I do just by how I sometimes don't eat at lunch, but I do eat like a pig come dinner. I don't overeat though. I try to find the happy medium.

I hope that cleared up any confusion!

[kikicupkake]

i have the same thin like im not hungry all day some times i dont eat all day but the next day im not hungry but all the suden in class you haer a large noise from my stumck and everone stares at me and have to ask to leave to yous the bathroom but insted i go to my locker and get some thing to eat. lol

[Maverick]

Why not do something different and ask a guy out for a change? If they aren't coming to you, come to them. I personally like it when girls ask. Takes away the pressure.

[Underground_Network]

Yeah, I have high metabolism, and my lunch at school is sort of early, and I usually eat a big breakfast, so I never eat lunch, and I get headaches too, but not just out of hunger (for other reasons as well), but I get through the day, keep the pain to myself, and eat till I drop when I get home. But yeah, like Anthony said, you should try asking a guy out for a change, instead of waiting for a guy to come to you, the worst that can happen is that the guy will say no, and there are plenty of guys out there.

[Gumleaf]

sorry if i implied you had a eater disorder. that is certainly NOT what i meant. i misunderstood about your early lunches. sorry!!!

[Radfreak]

sorry if i implied you had a eater disorder. that is certainly NOT what i meant. i misunderstood about your early lunches. sorry!!!

No worries! I wouldn't expect someone to understand me at first glance...mostly nobody does.


Oh, and also...I'd totally ask a guy out, but where I live, you get majorly poked fun at for doing something "different." As in a girl asking a guy out. I have enough social issues as it is. Otherwise, I'd go for it.

[Underground_Network]

Eh, if you're not going to ask a guy out, then just wait, only time will tell... but, also, where I live its just like that, a girl asking a guy out is just strange, but trust me, there are a helluva lot of guys who would prefer a girl asked them than having to ask a girl out, including me. I would much prefer if a girl asked me out, then I wouldn't have to worry about nerves and stuff, but I presume girls feel the same way when it comes to them asking someone out. Its kind of a relief being asked out, rather than being the one who asks someone out, and I'm different, and I don't mind standing out from the crowd, I do things no one else in my school would do, nothing extremely outrageous, but I hang out with everybody, I'm friends with some of the "cool" kids, as well as with the kids who are outcasts, or kids who have like no friends. My life is fucked up, but I'm just gonna live it how I feel, don't be socially restricted, take a stand, do something different, I know it hurts if they make fun of you. But what if you do it covertly/privately, and if the boy says yes, no problem, and if he says no, and he doesn't care, it won't be a big deal either, because no one else will know. I hope you get the perfect guy. Much Luck :P

[Radfreak]

Eh, if you're not going to ask a guy out, then just wait, only time will tell... but, also, where I live its just like that, a girl asking a guy out is just strange, but trust me, there are a helluva lot of guys who would prefer a girl asked them than having to ask a girl out, including me. I would much prefer if a girl asked me out, then I wouldn't have to worry about nerves and stuff, but I presume girls feel the same way when it comes to them asking someone out. Its kind of a relief being asked out, rather than being the one who asks someone out, and I'm different, and I don't mind standing out from the crowd, I do things no one else in my school would do, nothing extremely outrageous, but I hang out with everybody, I'm friends with some of the "cool" kids, as well as with the kids who are outcasts, or kids who have like no friends. My life is fucked up, but I'm just gonna live it how I feel, don't be socially restricted, take a stand, do something different, I know it hurts if they make fun of you. But what if you do it covertly/privately, and if the boy says yes, no problem, and if he says no, and he doesn't care, it won't be a big deal either, because no one else will know. I hope you get the perfect guy. Much Luck :P
About no one knowing. My town is plagued by gossip, so actually everyone would know. And that would suck.

[Underground_Network]

My town is plagued by gossip too... Hmmmm.... I, sadly, could give a fuck about my image, but I see that you care, I feel my life is worthless, and that I'm going to rot in hell, so yeah... Well, just wait, if your as attractive as you say you are, guys will be asking you out like crazy eventually. Just wait, being patient is part of life, so you have to be patient and just wait for the perfect guy, or at least the near-perfect guy. It sucks to wait, but you have no choice if you're not going to ask a guy out. So still, wish you good luck.

[DestroyTheFuture]

heres my advice.


how old are you?

but you are most likely not sexual enough. guys like it A LOT when girls flirt with them in class and stuff. guys dont care about sluts unless they are going out with one.

dont take that offensively. its good advice, so take it. just dont overdo it because you might get in trouble at school.

[KornKobz93]

Some guys are really shy and other guys want to feel big and ask out the most developed and popular girl in the school! If you are skinny I understand if some guys might not ask you out. Some guys prefer a girl with meat on her bones!

[Gumleaf]

this is very old so locking!!!