Immaturity

[Spook]

Oh yes, I'm sure that you think this is some post about an annoying, immature friend; which I have many, but not today. This is about my mom. Well, yes. I have always known she is immature. The little things she does...they annoy me so. Today it was just to much to handle, and I snapped. First of all, the day was going perfectly and we were getting along fine. All of the sudden, she reaches back and pulls out the book "Skinny Dipping", an Au Pairs edition. She goes insane and starts screaming and throwing a hissy fit bitching about how my book is "all about sex" and that I am "reading a book about dirty naked people." Then, she changes her useless and valuably pointless argument for me dropping the book and not putting it in the library return box with the rest of the books. Well, I'm sorry! I'm human, you know. You can't blame me for not seeing it because it fell under the seat of the car! Then, after she continues the argument in a fit of screams and hysterics, she starts to laugh maniacly and when I don't laugh too, she becomes serious and starts talking about how I am ungrateful, selfish, and disconnected from the world. One thing I regret saying is "Oh, I'm away from reality? Where are you?" That just made me stoop to her level. Anyhow, once we got back home, she charged in and ratted me out to my dad. She claimed I was reading a "scanty book" with "thongs on the cover." First of all, they were bikinis...and second of all, she never once mentioned she was mad at me because the book was late; as she had claimed before. Finally, I ran to my dad and just overflowed. He was no help. He said, "Yes your mom can be childish in arguing, but with all the pressure taking care of these kids, she has the right to be." Not only to add to this drama, my mom says before she leaves: "The bitch thinks she can come to Tennessee with us."

My mom is an immature, nervous, crazy WRECK. I don't know HOW to handle her anymore! She accuses me of everything:

*Reading dirty books
*Looking up bad stuff on the internet
*Playing when I am supposed to be in school
*Playing with my frog when I am supposed to be sleeping
*Not doing my chores
*Thinking of something bad
*Seeing Something bad
*Doing something bad
*Hearing something bad....

God and the list goes on. EVERYTHING I do, she just HAS to criticise me. I can't do anything I enjoy without her "doubting my decision making."

I JUST HATE IT. She treats ME like I'm crazy, but she's on 5 pills!

What do I do? :(

[aperson444]

Oh I get that. My mom's like that but since I'm a guy she just calls me a bad kid. Says it's because I hang with the wrong people but at the same time blames all the little shit I do on my character and what I read, what I watch, the music I listen to. I guess I don't have much of a reason to blame her; I do smoke weed frequently, but she never listens to my arguments, my evidence or the fact that I use data and logic to back things up. I guess it would just be best to leave it be, don't argue a whole lot, but don't give up the resistance. Let her know you are an individual, not a kid with no mind. Don't be too emotional when you argue and use plenty of logic. Unfortunately my mom is extremely emotional and just slaps away my arguments. Sort of fucked up situation.

[backtobackawesome]

wow thats harsh she really needs to chill out. yea i get what your saying moms can be a pain lol..... (my mom)