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sarah14
August 31st, 2011, 10:21 PM
ok .. heres the story .. i met this and he asked me ou tand stuff... i was look ing around and hes saying that other girls r cute and stuf... i know we may not be super serious but ... thats not right is it??? i dont wanna sound jelous.... but i am :) ... when guys say it to me .. i dont say it back .. help plz :( :confused:

OptimusPrime
August 31st, 2011, 10:37 PM
If he's saying they're cute maybe he is just complimenting them. He doesn't say he loves them now does he?

Kujiro
September 1st, 2011, 12:27 AM
Of course you would be jealous.
I would too if my boyfriend goes round saying this girl is cute or this guy is cute..
And sadly he does that to antagonize*me.

The problem is being a bisexual , I get jealous of both genders.
But if you look at it in a more positive perspective, at least he's sharing his thoughts with you.
Which is the 101 for effective communication, just hint alittle jealousy, but not lose your head over it.

Being gracious and accepting is a key ingredient to effective relationship bonds.
But if you are really unhappy about something, put it through to your partner in the most tactful manner possible.

Good luck
*smile*

OptimusPrime
September 1st, 2011, 12:33 AM
The guy she's talking about is a very good close friend of mine that is why I said:
If he's saying they're cute maybe he is just complimenting them. He doesn't say he loves them now does he?

sarah14
September 1st, 2011, 12:46 AM
The guy she's talking about is a very good close friend of mine that is why I said:

:):):):)<3

OptimusPrime
September 1st, 2011, 01:10 AM
:):):):)<3

<333

Hehe. Is the problem fixed between you and my friend?

green
September 1st, 2011, 01:43 AM
meh no big deal. food for thought would you expect him to be angry if you were like "oh that guys muscles are so big" or stuff like that

Dark_Desires
September 1st, 2011, 03:01 AM
Its not big deal if he loves u and u love him nothing to worry about.My ex liked justin bieber and i liked a few characters from the show cough cough skins cough.So its not that big a deal i tell girls i know thay are pretty all the time doesnt mean i want to date them.My point is dont worry and its natural to be jealous