Biting

[Gandalf]

This has been going through my head for around six weeks :whoops:;

During the last week of term, I was in class and my friend next to me, (who just happens to be bi) bit me in the arm.

Ok, some would rather call it a hicky, or a love bite or whatever, but I'm not cus I'm not sure if he was actually being sexual.

It didn't hurt, and although I enjoyed it I told him to stop (which he did),cus I didn't want anyonlse to see.

What should I do? I wanted to talk to him about it but at the time but was too nervous too.
I'm not "Out" in my daily life, is it possible he suspects I'm bi?
As anyone got any advice for my strange situation?
Thanks :)

[OptimusPrime]

I would suggest you check if his family are cats, dogs, wolves or any other kind of animal.

Otherwise then yes he was being sexual. Or he was just bored.

[Gandalf]

lol, thanks, I don't think he's related to other species than human ;)

[Kujiro]

Is his name Edward and does he sparkle?

Well, I'm not sure about your approach, but if you are uncomfortable with him doing it, it's always wise to tell him.
As you have mentioned you are confused and unsure of your sexuality, this would be an opportunity to explore and understand.

Explore the emotional aspect of it, rather than the sexual aspect.
Enjoying a bite, does not necessarily put you in any label.

Reflections and self interrogation are the best ways to get these answers, always remember to receive the answers with an open mind and heart.

Good luck
*smile*

[nameless12]

hahaha, i used to do that to a friend of mine... wich i liked... :D
but anyway, maybe he just did it cuz he just wants to play, not sexually or anything like that, just simply play.

you should just ask him, you dont lose anything in trying ;)

[Infidelitas]

Is his name Edward and does he sparkle?

What O.o

[jessehs]

just tell him not to if you don't want it and if you do respond positively and yes its probably sexual

[Tristin.]

its probably sexual, but tbh, i used to bite one of my boyfriends simply because A) it annoyed him and B) i was bored :P

[Electra Heart]

Talk to him... lucky ;)

[Maxxie]

Talk to him... lucky ;)

Yep. My sentiments exactly.

[Gandalf]

Thanks for the advice but this is the same person I referred to in this thread

(Please do not bump):
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=102091

I still don't feel comfortable talking to him about these issues.

[Smartypants]

sure way is to ask him because sometimes i bite too and it's just out from being playful.

[ShatteredWings]

Biting can feel good.....


Perving aside, if he's nibbling at your neck it's *probably* sexual

[Gandalf]

I want to put this thread to bed. I feel a lot has happened inside me within in this week alone.
So come Monday (no pun intended) I intend to talk to him.-If I get a suitable opportunity.

Might make a nice new thread depending on what happens, thanks again for the advice and I think I will get this thread locked. To stop myself wittering :)

[Thomasho]

Just ask him why he bit you