is this GAY?

[Byrdman10]

ok i learned how to jack off from a friend and we did things like hj and bj and then he came over to my house and we did the same thing then i went to another friends house and we watched porn and jacked off and he measured me and touched my dick and i did the same to him then i showed someone how to jack off and we didnt touch...........is this ok or GAY?:confused:

[OptimusPrime]

It's normal for anyone your age to experiment.

[rockabillykid]

very nrmal

[Dark Sparrow]

It's okay, it is a gay act but it's okay, just cause it's gay domt mean it's bad

[itsthat0n3kid]

normal! your fine!

[InsanelyApple]

Depends how old are you? Nah, just kidding. It's experimenting. Just have fun and wear a condom if you try anal. ;)

[Kujiro]

Although to generalize that experimentation and curiosity is common at our age, I too would argue that experimentation and curiosity has a cap to it.

It's reasonable to say that we are curious for once or twice, what about 10 times? Does it become a channel to self satisfaction?
I am not inferring your sexuality. At ground level, bring homosexual or bisexual has the ingredient of love, care, trust and respect for someone of the similar gender.

It's technically right to say we enjoy sexual activities with the similar gender, but a loving relationship with the opposite.
But sexual and emotional aspects are meant to be interlinked, one working along with the other.
If you are falling into this aspect, then you should ask yourself these emotional questions on your feelings to the similar gender.

To open up to yourself, you have to negate stereotypical thinking, and other's opinion on LGBT. What's most important is being true to yourself and question your self with an open heart and mind.

These are questions which can and should be only answered by yourself.

I grew up in a relatively closed society, where homosexuality is something frowned upon.
But sexuality is not a matter of choice.
I have decided to come to terms with my sexuality, and the journey to convince my parents was pretty a challenging one.

Take it a step at a time, in time answers would be clear, but acceptance is a matter of another.

Good luck
*smile*

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Experimentation happens a lot, chalk it up to that. How do you and your friends feel about what happened? Did you discuss anything about it since you have done it? If so..their reactions and yours? Lots of questions that need to be answered. But experimenting and curiosity do not make you gay..... just chalk it up to experience !

[jvballer]

just experimenting, it normal for some..

[aussie_kid]

i dont think this is gay, but if you keep doing it, or like to do more, then you might be gay

[you know103]

is normal to expiriment but a good advice is not to go any further but is up to you

[berry1]

Your gay:yes::yes:

[IanB]

just experimenting, it normal for some

[StoppingTime]

It is normal to be curious and experiment, but as Kujiro said, that stops somewhere.
I think if you experimented with two or three guys 1-3 times each over the course of a year or two, I would consider it experimenting.
However, mush beyond that might lead to other things, which is alright as well.
This act alone doesn't necessarily make you gay, bi etc... but you have to be the one to choose that.
Being gay means that you are physically [i]and[/] emotionally attached to the opposite gender.
But for now, I would slow down a little, and don't worry.

[Electra Heart]

Normal... experimenting is bloody fun! :D it doesnt make you gay

[Irishperson15]

yes it is gay. In my country no one does this but u guys talk about it like its totally normal. if ur gay then thats ok but u cant do this and say ur not gay

[berry1]

yes it is gay. In my country no one does this but u guys talk about it like its totally normal. if ur gay then thats ok but u cant do this and say ur not gay

Thanks mate thats exactly what i think:yeah:... If you are taking part in sexual activitys that are gay then your either gay or bi.

[StoppingTime]

Thanks mate thats exactly what i think:yeah:... If you are taking part in sexual activitys that are gay then your either gay or bi.

Why? Its experimenting.
I can't speak from experience, but it is normal to do that a few times, and not calling yourself gay.

[berry1]

Why? Its experimenting.
I can't speak from experience, but it is normal to do that a few times, and not calling yourself gay.


Experimenting sure i agree but it still makes you gay or bi:). Where i live if your doing stuff likt that no matter what age your still either gay or bi.

Sorry bro its my personal opinion:D

And just to add i have nothing against gay or bi people its just a diferent sexuality not a issue in my book

[StoppingTime]

Experimenting sure i agree but it still makes you gay or bi:). Where i live if your doing stuff likt that no matter what age your still either gay or bi.

Sorry bro its my personal opinion:D

And just to add i have nothing against gay or bi people its just a diferent sexuality not a issue in my book

I'm straight, and never done this, but it isn't something making you gay or bi.
To be gay or bi, you have to be physically and emotionally attracted to the same sex/opposite and same sex.

[lambo420]

Its not gay, its normal. Your fine

[Fourth Dimension]

100% normal just human nature

[Kdude146]

It's normal for anyone your age to experiment so its 100% ok most guys do that all the time

[berry1]

I'm straight, and never done this, but it isn't something making you gay or bi.
To be gay or bi, you have to be physically and emotionally attracted to the same sex/opposite and same sex.

Sorry but it is gay:yes:. Lol i would love for guys to do it here and see if their not labelled as Gay:lol::lol:

[Blizzard]

Well I haven't had any pf these experiences so o couldn't help but I don't thinks is gay

[Irishperson15]

I'm straight, and never done this, but it isn't something making you gay or bi.
To be gay or bi, you have to be physically and emotionally attracted to the same sex/opposite and same sex.

it is gay! there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi but u cant do this and call urself straight! u americans just dnt want t b called gay so u call it 'curious'. Theres nothing wrong with it but it DOES make u gay

[Jonathan16]

you are what you feel you are ... so if you feel str8 then you are

[acurasrock]

It is teenage experimentation, Yes, it is a gay act, but does it mean you're going to be gay, no!! You are who you are, and curiosity at our ages is completely normal to experiment, compare sizes, show each other how to jack off, see who shoots cum or not, these are teenage things. Close-Minded Irish people that think were gay, whatever bro!! Keep drinking green beer!:yeah:

[WonderTastic]

No just alittle curious and exsperamenting lol i cant spell sorry

[rockman1]

no dont worry i done it with my best friend but thats it but i say it not rong it just exsporing with someone.

[Tenoramic]

Oh u irish n British .... Let's ask the prince William and prince Henry lol they will not agree ur bloody thought. Blimey

[Byrdman10]

I hate irish and british people!!!!!!!!!!

[Tenoramic]

Even I Raised in British environment, they r funny

[Trinity_15]

i wouldn't call it gay, i would call it experimenting, if you have sex then it would be

[Cole881]

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[Cole881]

same here

[Cole881]

i wouldn't call it gay, i would call it experimenting, if you have sex then it would be

thats what im saying

[Teen141]

yes it is gay. In my country no one does this but u guys talk about it like its totally normal. if ur gay then thats ok but u cant do this and say ur not gay

Yes it is gay. IN MY COUNTRY no one does this ? wtf I didn't know everybody in Ireland was straight. I have a friend that moved from ireland to my school who is gay so work that one out ?...

And no your just experimenting at your age.

[Boxerbriefs96]

Yes that is ok, no its not gay, you were just expirmenting

[Thomasho]

It's normal, don't worry. :D

[Thomasho]

Don't worry, u still have a lot of time to reinforce your sexuality :p

[mark5649]

normal :p