Log in

View Full Version : The guy that blocked me on Facebook


ShyGuyInChicago
August 31st, 2011, 11:36 AM
I made a new friend in April, but he blocked me on Facebook because I made him uncomfortable. Classes for the fall began this week and I saw him on two occasion, but I do not think I saw him. I was thinking that I should talk to him and apologize. Other people told me that I should just leave him alone and move on because I will only make things worse by approaching with him.

If you do not know this story look at post number 37 of this thread.

http://forums.govteen.com/countdown-forum/337017-friend-facebook-deleted-profile-no-warning-3.html

http://forums.govteen.com/all-about-easjr1991/342109-guy-blocked-me-facebook.html

For months in the study lounge, I would sit behind him so that I could see his laptop screen. Then I finally decided to talk to him. He was nice to me and did not let on that he did not want me near him The next day I saw him in the study lounge, and although he did not act uncomfortable he then said that he was going elsewhere; that made me suspect that he did not want to be around me, but was too nice to . I saw him again days later on the last day of the semester. We talked for a few minutes and I asked we could be friends on Facebook. A few days later, he blocked me, and that erased all doubt in my mind that he did not realize what I was doing to him.

BOBBY HILL
August 31st, 2011, 04:25 PM
he doesnt want to be your friend

so just respect each others spaces and everything will be fine

ShyGuyInChicago
August 31st, 2011, 08:05 PM
he doesnt want to be your friend

so just respect each others spaces and everything will be fine


Don't you think I at least owe him an apology. Would you want an apology from me if I did to you what I did to him?

OptimusPrime
August 31st, 2011, 08:15 PM
I block people all the time on Facebook and do not feel guilty. Even 'close' friends whom I thought they were close friends.

ShyGuyInChicago
August 31st, 2011, 09:59 PM
I block people all the time on Facebook and do not feel guilty. Even 'close' friends whom I thought they were close friends.

Would you have done the same thing to me if I did to you what I did to the guy.

crazyhyperway
August 31st, 2011, 10:43 PM
I think you should apologize to him and then move on.

And if you have no clue what made him uncomfortable, ask him.

scuba steve
August 31st, 2011, 10:55 PM
I don't honestly see the big deal. If the guy doesn't want to hang around with you, or you think he's making excuses not to then he's not worth your time, so you should just move on.

No apology is necessary as you didn't exactly do anything wrong. Apologising might actually make it more awkward between the two of you. You barely know the guy so I'd say just forget about it.

OptimusPrime
August 31st, 2011, 10:58 PM
Would you have done the same thing to me if I did to you what I did to the guy.

No. I would just ignore you until you've settled down. I only block people who seem pathetic enough to be on my blocked list. You seem friendly so you would not be blocked if this was the case.

Sugaree
September 1st, 2011, 12:40 AM
Dude, stop being a creeper. If he doesn't want to spend time with you, in the real world or online, just leave him alone and move on.

backtobackawesome
September 1st, 2011, 05:18 PM
yea your probz scaring him....