What a joke :(

[RyTwy]

I'll start with this; My names Ryan but people call me Twy, 16 years of age, straight, I consider myself as honest, with everyone, about everything, I can be the nicest, most genuine, loyal guy you'll meet (without being big headed) treat me like a muppet and to be honest, you don't get a second chance and i'll tell you exactly what I think of you.
Anyhow, I've had 3 girlfriends in my life, but when I like a girl i fall head over heels and treat them as best I can. They're like my princess, all great up to here.
However, After a week, two weeks maximum, they'll break up with me. Every one of them (who have no contact with each other) have ended it using the reason ' We're too close, I see you as a best friend' ' You're like a brother to me'

I don't get it? Where am I going wrong?
Any advice, ect welcome, even if you're just honest with me that's alright.
Cheers Lads n Lassies
~Twy <3

[Sage]

You have to drop the chivalry and stop putting the pussy on the pedestal. A lot of women will view that sort of attitude as patronizing.

[christcenteredlife]

it's called the friend zone. also, you sound as though you might be getting to clingy with them.

[RyTwy]

it's called the friend zone. also, you sound as though you might be getting to clingy with them.

How can I avoid the friend zone in the future?
Yeh, I do come across as obsessive and clingy a lot as it goes.

[Sage]

How can I avoid the friend zone in the future?
Yeh, I do come across as obsessive and clingy a lot as it goes.

You just answered your own question.

[RyTwy]

Less obsessive and clingy? It makes that much difference? O.o

[Sage]

Less obsessive and clingy? It makes that much difference? O.o

It makes a world of difference. Domineering over a woman and getting on your knees at their every whim are equally bad- Treat whoever you want to be in a relationship with as your equal, and if that isn't good enough for them, then they aren't worth your time.

In addition, if you don't do nice things for them every waking moment, that makes the nice things you do all the more valuable.

[MalditoDia]

You have to drop the chivalry and stop putting the pussy on the pedestal. A lot of women will view that sort of attitude as patronizing. lol yeah. Ive had dis same problem trying to always be the best bf i could and they took advantage of it. So i just stopped doing all the things they said they loved boutme. Then they askd wat was wrong and just tell them how u feel.

[RyTwy]

It makes a world of difference. Domineering over a woman and getting on your knees at their every whim are equally bad- Treat whoever you want to be in a relationship with as your equal, and if that isn't good enough for them, then they aren't worth your time.

In addition, if you don't do nice things for them every waking moment, that makes the nice things you do all the more valuable.

You've helped me quite a lot tbf :)
Thank you. Everything you've said has made sense and I respect you so much for that.
The only thing is im a sucker for going back to girls haha.
Your advice means a lot however and I will keep it in mind :)
Thanks again.

[Sage]

You've helped me quite a lot tbf :)
Thank you. Everything you've said has made sense and I respect you so much for that.
The only thing is im a sucker for going back to girls haha.
Your advice means a lot however and I will keep it in mind :)
Thanks again.

I am glad I was able to be of assistance. You're welcome, Ryan.