Liking younger guys

[Joe1996]

I like younger guys, about 2 years younger, because I like how they might not have pubes yet and stuff :P
Is anyone else like this? And any advice on this?
Thanks :)

[HikaruTheHunter]

I like kids younger than me because of the same reason. Maybe two or one year(s) younger than me. :)

[Wheatley]

Ditto that lol, I always thought I was weird because I liked that. I'm guessing you like them smooth then?

[Joe1996]

Ditto that lol, I always thought I was weird because I liked that. I'm guessing you like them smooth then?

Yes, but it's not because I like it smooth, I just like it when he hasn't really gone through puberty much, really turns me on :P

[Wheatley]

Mhm, same here. I also like the feeling of it being a race and being qble to compare wity other boys.
How about size?

[Joe1996]

Mhm, same here. I also like the feeling of it being a race and being qble to compare wity other boys.
How about size?

Well, I like it when my penis is bigger than theirs but it's equally as good when theirs is bigger than mine.

[knightrider]

i do cause they are the only boys that like boys are younger than me ( 15 )

[knightrider]

hey joe1996 email me i wanna talk to u

[Wheatley]

Hey, nice to meet you knightrider, and joe1996.
Yeh I don't descriminate on size but I find that small ones are my preference, but im not picky lol
Also knightrider please be careful about asking for contact in the forums, i got told not to and my post was removed last time

You can send a visitor message though, and the mods told me to take out contact details from my Sig aswell :(

[highschoolboy96]

I am the same, but I don't go below 13. I am 15. Smooth really is a major turn on. I shave all my hair off. Uggghhh I can't stand body hair. But them being curious and willing to try stuff is cool too.

[BoroBoi95]

haha, its weird but i like it too, and i got a couple mates 2 years younger and we talk dirtyily :P

[Wheatley]

Wow, ur lucky then. I don't have anyone who I know well enough to talk about dirty stuff that's younger than me. But I do have a friend who acts like a 13 year old. Not gay and diesnt like talking about anything oersonal :(

[Electra Heart]

Me 2 :D

[Wheatley]

Me 2 :D

Epic post :)
Hey, lol

[travis101]

this thread seems a tad bit creepy.........and it seems to be headed in a very uncomfortable direction.............mods should lock it

[InsanelyApple]

this thread seems a tad bit creepy.........and it seems to be headed in a very uncomfortable direction.............mods should lock it

Yes, it would be creepy if a 17-19 year old came in and said they liked 12-13 year olds. But if it is a 13-15 (maybe 16) year old saying they like 12-13 year olds then, not as much so.

EDIT: God, just noticed that "New" badge. It looks so stupid. It would look so much better if the mouth was closed.

[IanB]

I like kids younger than me because of the same reason.

[rockabillykid]

Well, I like it when my penis is bigger than theirs but it's equally as good when theirs is bigger than mine.

i like it alot wen they r bigger

[daverave]

I like younger or same age guys as myself. But They have to have pubes

[Peep Show]

Yeah I'm the same that stuff turns me on sometimes ;0 I don't no why.

[ADC12]

haha yh im really into ppl younger or older than me not so much same age for some reason :S

[Neptune]

Uh. I am the exact opposite. They have to have pubes, or, I feel like they're children. Plus, 2 years younger than me is 11. That's a little creepy, eh?

[liljack13]

I think they're cute and they sometimes turn me on but i wouldn't do anything with them

[Rukua]

if i liked a guy younger than me, he'd have to be at least one and a half years... and hed have to be REALLY attractive (;

[Short Circuit]

Sorry, but this thread is very very uncomfortable to read!

PEDO ALERT!

That is all it can be

[jimmycouch14]

I think liking younger boys is pretty normal for guys our age. I do agree that I probably not go much more than two years. Now once you hit 15 I beleive the decision is very much under our control. Say if a 18 or 19 year old wanted to give me a B/J and I thought he was hot I would be thrilled to death that he noticed me.

[Wheatley]

Yeh I can see this being weird for older people but I thunk our age is fine.
Also, I've noticed that lately I've been growing out of this,
It's now not so much slightly younger people but people my age who aren't really (what girls would call) super fit. Kinda like an outlined abs stomach but not too muscly, long hair (boys long standard) and not fat, not comoketely skinny but...I hope you knowe what I mean

EDIT: Now for the bit thqt should deff make sense, If you think about it, most 12 - 14 year olds now fit the above description of not being really muscly, coz they are young obviously but 14+ tend to get broader and can get wider coz of extra muscles. And since I don't like this I guess that's why I say I like slightly younger boys. If anyone understands this, do you think this could be your reason aswell?

Also I left out,overweight people altogether.

[Nicky97]

VT is for discussing things that we need help with. I have seen any number of you guys preach that all our friends should be the exact same age, or should like the same things we do, or should be of the opposite sex, or who knows what else.

If you don't have anything constructive to add, then don't post, OK?

I will add you guys to my "haters" list. They can't help what they are attracted to, and these guys deserve a chance for support and constructive advice the same as anyone else. It's not like it's unnatural (even for straights) or not pushed onto us in every commercial and entertainment genre we encounter. In fact, thinking of youth as something beautiful is designed into our species.

In your ignorance, you confuse "attraction" with "sexual interaction". How dare you try to force your own preferences onto anyone else? Why don't you get a feel for what VT is all about before you go attacking the interests and problems that others have to deal with?

[oceandude33a]

im the same too, but im 15 and i would go any younger then 13.

[Byrdman10]

im 13 i have pubes.....asshole

[InsanelyApple]

VT is for discussing things that we need help with. I have seen any number of you guys preach that all our friends should be the exact same age, or should like the same things we do, or should be of the opposite sex, or who knows what else.

If you don't have anything constructive to add, then don't post, OK?

I will add you guys to my "haters" list. They can't help what they are attracted to, and these guys deserve a chance for support and constructive advice the same as anyone else. It's not like it's unnatural (even for straights) or not pushed onto us in every commercial and entertainment genre we encounter. In fact, thinking of youth as something beautiful is designed into our species.

In your ignorance, you confuse "attraction" with "sexual interaction". How dare you try to force your own preferences onto anyone else? Why don't you get a feel for what VT is all about before you go attacking the interests and problems that others have to deal with?

Are you talking to me too? Because if you are, all I was saying anyone older than 16 liking a 12 year old is creepy, but anyone 15 or younger it's alright in my book. I'm still on the fence on whether being 16 or not matters, I would guess it would depend if your late 16 or early 16.

Since most of these teens here are 15 or younger, I don't mind them liking 12 year olds.

[twotall]

I would have to be the same way I like guys younger then me close to my same age bc I'm 18

[HungAndYoung]

As far as wanting to experiment, yeah i like an 11 12 or 13 year old that is not tall and not far into puberty. I don't know why. But for being attracted, well I'm not gay so....

[Joe1996]

Well, I think it's safe to say there are a lot of people who like younger guys xD
But like other people were saying, there is a 'too young' I only meant younger by 1-2 years not 5 or 6 haha

[Nicky97]

And if you are gay and 12 (like I guess I was a little while back)?

I didn't mean to go off on anyone, it's just that I hate people suggesting that there is some magic formula for what is "acceptable" friendship.

Yes it's common. I dare say natural for a lot of people. That's what I have observed anyway, and I have a right to say so unless I berate someone else in the process.

[berry1]

Interesting read:yawn:, quite funny really because where i live alot of 14-15 year old girls have 20 year old boyfriends:D. Got to admit though you can like with out doing anything.

Personaly thought im not into any boys just a personal prefearance not against anyone that does thought:P

[Thanatos]

As long as its not illegal, I say go for it. I mean really younger guys are cute, and I love that. Im 16 now and I find 13-14 year olds attractive in a cute way, its not illegal for me to, so why shouldnt I?

anyone screaming Pedophile, if they hit puberty/on the verge of puberty and it isnt illegal it isnt pedophilia. What about 40 year olds who go through a midlife crisis and marry a 21 year old? Thats 19 years.

[Wheatley]

Well to be honest its down to personal interest.
But there's nothing wrong with any age match so long as they both truely want to be tigether. It only becimes a problem when someone is causing distress on another
And nicky97, Are you thinking of becoming a writer? Coz i think ud make a good one :)

[Donkey]

this thread seems a tad bit creepy.........and it seems to be headed in a very uncomfortable direction.............mods should lock it
The thread is fine. If you think something is inappropriate, use the report button ( http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/images/styles/fblue/buttons/report.gif ) instead of posting and backseat moderating in the thread.

[Kujiro]

The liking of younger guys is generally a personal preference.
And as far as it goes, it is normal.

It only gets tricky if these feelings are only sexual in nature, due to the nature of the preference, there would be eye browns raised and the first thing that comes to minds may be pedophiliac in nature.
But as i have mentioned in my previous posts, age should not be a boundary to love, as the maturity level of the other party is always more important, and should be the factor which is considered.

But due to laws and society, threading on this line is considered dangerous waters and most people may take it wrongly.
As long as the relationship is kept within the legal aspects, I'm sure there's noing to be afraid of.

But if it's a sexual preference, i believe it's the innocence which draws the interest of many.
Ive had experiences of such solicitation, but shall not elaborate any further.
But as long as this is kept in the mind and not acted out, I'm sure it would be perfectly alright.
And many would out grow this, unless it becomes persistent.

Cheers
*smile*

[Wheatley]

The liking of younger guys is generally a personal preference.
And as far as it goes, it is normal.

It only gets tricky if these feelings are only sexual in nature, due to the nature of the preference, there would be eye browns raised and the first thing that comes to minds may be pedophiliac in nature.
But as i have mentioned in my previous posts, age should not be a boundary to love, as the maturity level of the other party is always more important, and should be the factor which is considered.

But due to laws and society, threading on this line is considered dangerous waters and most people may take it wrongly.
As long as the relationship is kept within the legal aspects, I'm sure there's noing to be afraid of.



But if it's a sexual preference, i believe it's the innocence which draws the interest of many.
Ive had experiences of such solicitation, but shall not elaborate any further.
But as long as this is kept in the mind and not acted out, I'm sure it would be perfectly alright.
And many would out grow this, unless it becomes persistent.

Cheers
*smile*

Nicely Said...
The legal stuff is of age percentage isnt it? if someone is X% older than the one who he fancies its considered pedophilia, right?

[Kujiro]

Nicely Said...
The legal stuff is of age percentage isnt it? if someone is X% older than the one who he fancies its considered pedophilia, right?

Actually nope,

Technically pedophillia is just a generalized term,
Broken into sets of
Pedophilia - sexual interest in prepubescent children
Hebephilia - sexual interest in early to mid pubescent 11-14
Ehebophilia - sexual interest in mid to late pubescent 15 -19

But every state defines them in different aspect, hence technically, the percentile measured maybe correct.
But this is just a guideline and most are ignorant to these subsets.
And are judged based on pedophilia activities.

*smile*

[Wheatley]

So then we could be pedophiles? if we liked prepubescent children?
I thought there was a general age that you had to be first?

[Donkey]

Alright guys, let's focus on helping the OP..

[Wheatley]

OP??

[Donkey]

Original Poster

[Wheatley]

Ahh ok, its still kinda linked in though

[sweaterboi]

I am the same, but I don't go below 13. I am 15. Smooth really is a major turn on. I shave all my hair off. Uggghhh I can't stand body hair. But them being curious and willing to try stuff is cool too.

I'm not sure about younger guys, but smooth is really hot :D

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 13.

NOW Before you label me as a pedophile or anything.

He asked me out.
He is very mature.
He isn't a small kid.

Now things about me you should know.

I LOVE him and would never force him into anything or take advantage of him as I'm older.
Now as for me liking younger guys, I don't mind younger guys that are a year or two younger then myself but HE is an exception.
Also I'm not a pedo, my family have bad ties with paedophiles and I could never live as one.

[Electra Heart]

Epic post :)
Hey, lol

Ikr!! lol jk thanks though

[Young guy]

I like younger guys too, but I'm quite young anyway, so only a year younger than me at the most lol

[Wheatley]

Yeh same here lol, I wasn't talking pre 13

[Orton220]

Yeah lol

[Nicky97]

I know guys that are 10-12 who fool around with each other and with anyone more experienced who will talk to them. I don't know them well, don't mess with them (older brother maybe), but you are saying what they are doing is wrong? That they shouldn't be allowed to? They have been warned about the dangers, but being under 13 doesn't make them stupid. Obviously none of you did anything sexual before you turned 13, right?

[thecanjump]

I'm 17 and I like a 14 year old guy. I just like the fact of being older and having more experience =]

[Kdude146]

my rule when it comes to dating max 2 years older and max 2 years younger my bf is 16 almost 17 so I am a year older

[Wheatley]

What about when you get older? The difference in a few years decreases a lot as you get older
I don't have a rule for that, whoever I fall in love with is whoever I fall in love with,

[thecanjump]

What about when you get older? The difference in a few years decreases a lot as you get older
I don't have a rule for that, whoever I fall in love with is whoever I fall in love with,

True that. We don't know who we will fall in love and if you have a rule like that and they say they are younger than your rule you won't just go like well you are too young bye

[Wheatley]

That was slightly difficult to understand, but if you fall in love with them and then find out, you are kinda dtuck, and if you can just say bye and give up loving yhem, then you havent fallen in love with them
Love has no age limits,

[logan fields]

i like what nicky and jack said and i dont really think about age to much. i never had a gf or bf yet but im 13 and if i loved a kid who was 11 then i would love him because it felt right. if i loved a boy or girl who was 16 then i also wouldnt care about age because love is love. i dont know what i am yet but whatever it turns out to be i think that love is the important part and not there age.

[thecanjump]

That was slightly difficult to understand, but if you fall in love with them and then find out, you are kinda dtuck, and if you can just say bye and give up loving yhem, then you havent fallen in love with them
Love has no age limits,

Sorry for the bad grammar but that was what I was trying to say. =P

[Wheatley]

Don't worry lol, just dont get caught by the grammar nazi s
Well said Logan :D way too many people judge things too quickly these days...

[Willie98]

I like younger guys. My BF is several months younger than me (that makes him 12) and we have two guys we know who are fooling around with each other (both are 10) and it takes an effort to stick by our "hands off" policy. They keep wanting to learn things from us, but that can't include touching. Doing what's best for them, because it sure would be fun to join in on their own level like they want us to :(

Why does everything have to be so serious and complicated? Why all these rules? And who gets to make the rules? This isn't anything deep and threatening. It's kids playing.

[Wheatley]

10? Jeez I didn't even consider anything sexual by then.
But if they are messing around and want you, why not join in?
Only unless you don't want to.

[kuuliluuk]

Younger are okay. They should have some kind of developement there at least, otherwise I would feel they're mere children and thats a great turnoff for me.

[Nicky97]

I remember starting doing stuff at 9 (I was approached by a classmate). At 10 I learned about dry climaxes, learned to enjoy what orgasm I was capable of. Pubic hair is not the start of life...

[achris15mbi]

sorry i think that is COMPLETELY disgusting, you like boys because they dont have pubes and havent hit puberty yet? IN my opinion that is gross and pedophille like. Thats what pedophilles like, young boys who havent hit puberty yet. stick to your own age, let the younger kids live their own life not a life of being a pedophilles little boy.
pervert

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

i like what nicky and jack said and i dont really think about age to much. i never had a gf or bf yet but im 13 and if i loved a kid who was 11 then i would love him because it felt right. if i loved a boy or girl who was 16 then i also wouldnt care about age because love is love. i dont know what i am yet but whatever it turns out to be i think that love is the important part and not there age.


Thumbs up friend,

You understand.

[Nicky97]

you like boys because they dont have pubes and havent hit puberty yet? IN my opinion that is gross and pedophille like.
Who said that? I've been reading carefully and I don't think anyone said that. When you are 13, just starting into puberty yourself (I was/am there) naturally many of your friends are going to be equally or less pubescent. We are not necessarily talking about sex here (maybe you are), we were discussing attraction, friendship, crushes. And the fact that some guys want to impose rules on who we are allowed to bum around with and still fit their acceptable standards as "typical". You know how much I care about your opinion? Why don't you try to help out the original poster instead of bashing him?

My friendships with guys 9/10/11 are a lot nicer and more rewarding than my friendships with 16/17/18. And it's about attitude, not pubes.

[achris15mbi]

I like younger guys, about 2 years younger, because I like how they might not have pubes yet and stuff :P
Is anyone else like this? And any advice on this?
Thanks :)

if you read the post, it clearly states that "i like how they might not have pubes yet"

if that is the only reason he likes them than that is gross. It is stated in his original post that he likes them based on the face that they may not have pubes yet. Read the post before you comment on others people's comment

And, Nicky you're only 13. So as u said you will have friends who haven;t hit puberty. But the OP is 15 years old. That is what i am saying> if he is 15 and he likes boys 2 years younger than him based on the fact that they dont have pubes.. to me that is bad

[Nicky97]

My bad... I was reading his comments as "smooth, clean" and reading yours as "childlike". I was mistaken. You offered him your "advice", and it's not for me to judge.

>> Any advice on this?

> COMPLETELY disgusting ... gross and pedophille like

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

So Chris?

Me being in love with my boyfriend Richard, do you consider that an act of paedophila as he's 13 and I'm 16?

If so what is your evidence.

As I love him for who he is, not what he has or lacks, he's a great guy and that's why I love him. The age isn't even a factor for me.

We both go to the SAME school.
And he couldn't be happier with me and likewise with me to him.

[Drake]

Sorry but im not gay...

[TheOneAndOnlyJack]

Sorry but im not gay...

So.. Why post in this topic?

[Thanatos]

Sorry but im not gay...

I'm biting my tongue not to rip you apart for this.

Anyways I still stick by if you like/love them its your own thing, and as long as you don't force them to do anything go right ahead with your relations as platonic, romantic or sexual as they may be.

[Nicky97]

That was his 100th post. Now you know why he posted in this thread.

[Unsolvedmind]

I just like some younger guys and my advice is just go for it

[logan fields]

i have some younger friends and so what whats wrong with that? some things i read on here make so much sense to me but others stuff like all the rules on friendships is just stupid. younger guys are silly and fun and crazy lol and most older guys are boring and all serious all the time. besides if someone is 15 and he loves someone who is 12 what is the big deal? i dont get it

[Donkey]

We've had enough of this I think. :locked: