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WorthlessMale
August 29th, 2011, 08:18 PM
Have you ever experimenting with someone, and then get caught by other friends or family members?

I have 2 close friends that are brothers. The younger brother & I were caught experinmenting by the older brother. He just found out, but didn't really say anything to me. I don't know how to talk to him about this. It's freaking me out, because I don't know what he thinks, or will say to everyone at school.

He just told me he found out today while we were walking home from school. We won't see each other until school tomorrow, so I'm freaking out until I can talk to him about it.

Any advise?

Mr. Awesome
August 29th, 2011, 08:51 PM
Dont worry about it, he probably did it himself sometime, id say he is just trying to wind you up, if he does say anything just deny it and say he's spreading it because you saw him with a guy.

Oh and a lot of guys jack off /experiment with a friend, its nothing wrong

Orton220
August 29th, 2011, 08:53 PM
Its fine he prob just doesnt wanna bring it up cuz its sometimes awkward to talk about

Unlucky_Leprechaun
August 29th, 2011, 09:05 PM
I wouldn't worry too much dude. If he was going to say something I'm sure he would've by now..and if he does I'm sure he will just corner you n talk to you. Just tell him the truth..(if he asks) ..you was experimenting... no need to sugar coat anything (don't offer up anything more than he asks.

russsh
August 29th, 2011, 09:49 PM
relax he wouldve said something by now

Akily007
August 29th, 2011, 11:26 PM
He probably did it

Willie98
August 30th, 2011, 11:43 AM
Don't blow it out of proportion. See how they react.

It's really their problem, not yours. If they are really close friends of yours, he will listen when you explain yourself. Don't explain unless he demands it. Normal, natural, you have nothing to explain. Help them work out their problem. Don't act guilty, don't make it a big deal. See what happens.

Electra Heart
August 30th, 2011, 02:56 PM
Just talk to him about it. It should be ok, it would be the same if you guys walked in on him.

hhhfiuashfosihdf
August 30th, 2011, 04:16 PM
Don't worry , Older people can be very intimidating

Wombo
August 30th, 2011, 08:21 PM
you never know he may just be feeling left out like 'why didn't you do it with him instead of the younger brother'

I have a similar situation, my best friend and his younger brothers and I are all good friends. But one sleep over he kicked his younger brother out of his room late at night so we could do our normal mutual stuff, and he found out what we did from listening later that night. He talked to me the next day, he just felt left out and wanted to have a friend he could do it with.
I just told him maybe he will, just need to start talking more with his friends from school.

I say always be open minded.

WorthlessMale
August 30th, 2011, 11:28 PM
Thanks everyone, I feel better now.
We talked today, everything is ok between us. He won't do anything with his brother, he was offered, but thinks it would be weird with his brother. I told him i only received and have no plans on returning a BJ to his brother. I also told him I'm not his brother, but don't get any ideas. No way is anything going in my mouth. He just laughed.