Questions from younger guys

[Willie98]

I'm new to posting here but I've been reading these forums for a long time. My boyfriend is several months younger than I am (he is 12). We get along fine, and have tried many of the activities that you all talk about here. It's not a deep dark secret what we are doing, but we try to be discreet. We also chase after a few girls but don't seem to have much luck.

He has a good friend (his neighbor) who is still 10 and who is messing around with another 10 yo. They are asking us questions, and it seems only right that they be able to discover themselves the same way that we did.

We have a strict no-touch policy toward them, but we have been answering a few questions they have in a very non-graphic way, much like what you all do here.

Someone suggested that what we are doing, cooperating with them in this way, isn't proper. I have also seen posted here many times that "anyone younger than me shouldn't be allowed to do what I did". How do you guys feel about this?

[CryWolf]

Well for starters you seem to have a mature grasp of the situation. It sounds like you are handling it in a sensitive and understanding way. As long as you hold to your policy I think you guys are doing a good thing. Speak the truth as you know it. Don't make anything up. Don't be afraid to say "I don't know".
I know that I wish I had some help in some of those earliest questioning times. :)

[Electra Heart]

You have a very nice outlook on things. I would say it's up to you what to do with the situation, I'm also 13 and bi but I've never really had a bf so I can't relate. Just do whatever you think is right and you'll be ok :)

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Continue to be supportive. I think we all wished we had a friend like you --who was a lil older and was able to explain stuff when we was little. As stated above...don't be afraid to say "I don't know" and continue with the "hands off" approach...

[christcenteredlife]

i'd say be very careful, as you have been.

[knightrider]

hey willie how do u add friebd on here !

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[Nicky97]

No-touch is good to be sure. If they are sincere (10 is a strange age) then do what you can short of touching, and make sure they understand why you refuse to touch. Teach them to avoid the problems. You two can be invaluable if you will put in the effort. I have friends that age.

[Willie98]

We have done some "demonstrating", but I suspect they know what male genetalia looks like already. They ask questions not about what to do, but how. Simple stuff. I don't think they should do anything very extreme, that's not good.

[Invincible]

Heck! 10 year old kids over here never seem 'ready' lol. There are very few 12-13 year olds, they all know it and think they know everything.
Good way to go about it I guess. I wouldn't go touchies because you'll probably run into complications.
Let them grow up a little I guess and just stay on the passive/supportive side.