How did you first find out you were gay or bi?

[Anonymous]

i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!! :P

[Φρανκομβριτ]

I was always tought to like girls, but I remember in grade 6, i thought this guy was hot, and thinking this isnt normal..... And then in grade 7, i was sitting in class, staring at a guy thinking wow....hes hot! Oh shit....

[bobOmatic]

im not sur eif im gay but i have feeling for guys and girls i think i might be bi

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

well at first i denied it for a really long time and then i gradually started to accept it. there was no real defining point where i woke up and was like "im gay"

[boy_lover88]

I think I found this out when I was in 3rd grade, but I never knew what gay meant until like 5th or 6th grade. I remembered thinking that this guy in my class was cute and when he dropped something he'd always bend down to pick it up. Well, I was always there to watch his fine ass. That must of been my first sign of hormones.

[knight4thedark]

well i always had these weird feelings ever since i was in the fifth grade. when i entered middle school i started noticing the guys more. most of my friends were girls and and all the guys used to say my best friends Pilar and Amanda were the hottest girls in school. i used to hear people say they used to jack off to pictures of them. never had those feelings and i thought it was weird. i was sort of envious that all the guys paid attention to them more than me. i got depressed and started eating more. then i started fantasizing about these two guys in our class... Chris and Peter. i always liked to draw anime and i used to draw them (sometimes how i saw them and sometimes a bit raunchier). i couldnt deny my gayness then. i used to masturbate to the thought of them. i still see them today and it doesnt get any better.

[RunAwayMolly]

i just happen to LOVE being sexual with girls... i dont date girls... i only sleep with them... in most cases they are better then men in bed... in my opinion...

[Anonymous]

wow! really molly? thats awesome!

[RunAwayMolly]

eeeyuuppp! it first started out as a drunken game of truth or dare last summer... i mean i had always LOOOVED the female body and thought it was soooo beautiful i just really hadnt been tangled in it... and let me say... being tangled in it is lots and lots of fun! me and another girl who happens to be a lesbian were dared to kiss... and we were both so drunk we went in another room and kept going lol... yes... good times... but i wont get into details lol!

[Waiting]

shame :P

[redcar]

at first i denied i liked guys but then i just learned to except it for who i am

[Sk8erguy065]

Ah people tell me my story is funny.. ok well ever since i was in the 5th grade i looked and male underwear catalogs lol like my dad ordered underwear all the time so i would look and look at them for hours and when i got into middle school i had very effectionate feelings for guys so when i got in seventh i kissed a guy on the lips in truth or dare and wooooooo weeeeeeeeee that was the happiest moment of my life!!!! and since then ive always had feelings for boys.

[///James///]

cool story. man i wanna kiss a guy :cry:

[Ahoy]

For the longest time I was not attracted to either sex. When I hit puberty I found women attractive becuase I thought it was not right to like men. Then I saw an underwear page when I first got the internet. It was a mistake going there. I then found the men attractive too. It was a few years actually around christmas that I realised that I was attracted to both.

[Jordan-Civ3 Master1991]

I guessw ive always known in my heart but i did not except it untill recenly

[Jordan-Civ3 Master1991]

your heart will know if you just listen enough

[Skittle Flavored]

ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:

[RunAwayMolly]

I love to look at a nice pair of ta ta's

[kevin]

ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:

what are you takling about, you're lucky.

[CamXV]

yea, we all wish... i first found out i was gay when i was about 5. i never really thought about it much, but i never really liked girls that much. i mean, i have feelings for them ,just not sexual you know?

[bbychop]

i figured out i was bi when i was in 7th grade. some people say the fact i played football did it for me but it wasn't. i got a crush on one of my best friends. i didn't tell anyone until 8th grade and that's when lindsay (my gf now) told me she was too. so yeah. that is my story.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt want to "do" anything. thats when it finally struck me. that and the openness of vt allowed me to accept it

[kevin]

i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt want to "do" anything. thats when it finally struck me. that and the openness of vt allowed me to accept it

that's vT's job. Making lives clearer around the world!

[Waiting]

damn right, woo a success case

[Rawrbaby]

well it didn't show until 5th or 6th grade but i always said i liked girls but then in the 7th grade i got a boyfriend and i came out as bi and then i lost the 2 girls i loved so then there was only men left so i knew when this boy named patrick sucked my dick

[lxl]

9th grade... saw a realllly cute boy in my class

[Melchi0r]

When I was in like second grade I had a childhood romance with a girl my mom babysat. In middle school I was all about getting a girlfriend. But when I got into high school I began to realize my feelings for guys grew stronger than my feelings for girls, but since I still like dating girls I've realized I'm bisexual.

[lxl]

When I was in like second grade I had a childhood romance with a girl my mom babysat. In middle school I was all about getting a girlfriend. But when I got into high school I began to realize my feelings for guys grew stronger than my feelings for girls, but since I still like dating girls I've realized I'm bisexual.

i had something like that too... i mean few years ago i really liked girls and stuff and i thought it was just a regular thing that i would go through.... when i started high school thats when i figured out

[MoveAlong]

internet.

[sfmdraw]

This past summer I discovered that I am gay. (I'm going into 9th.) Near the end of school, a highschooler (the building is 6-8, then 9-12), said that I was cute. I had a odd feeling around him for the remainder of the year, but I thought it was embarresment, or just the memory of that awquard and random moment. But, lo and behold, he was at my drama camp this summer...and so was his boyfriend. I kept looking at him funny, and spacing out, but when he looked I would turn away. Cliche, isn't it? And idiotic. Oh, by the way...he's hot and gorgous! :wub: After camp had finished, we texted daily. Then he [randomly] asked if I liked anyone. I was shocked. My answer:

Yes.
Him: Do I know...this person?
Me: Mmhmm.
Him: Does...this person go to our school?
Me: Yeah.
Him: It's me, isn't it?

I was dumbfounded. How did he know? When I asked, he replied that he had seen all my glances towards him, but had said nothing because he found it cute. Then he said: You're going all red, aren't you? I replied that I was. He thought something I had done was cute!!! I told him I was shocked he noticed that I glow red when embarresed or really pleased. He said he noticed a lot about me, for he had snuck glances at me, too. That made me redder. He said he thought my red episodes were cute and very attractive.

So did his bf notice our glances? Or anyone else, for that matter? He said that he didn't kwow of anyone noticing. Good. For some reason, I freaked at the thought, but soon calmed. He had been gay for over a year, so we met up [not telling his bf, whose a bit of a jealous type], had lunch, and he talked to me about what to expect being gay. He asked me who else I was attrackted to, but it's only him.

As I said that, I gave my drink a carefull examination, avoiding his gaze.

"You mean," he had started, "that I'm the only guy for you?"

"Mmhmm." I mumbled. He reached across the table and put his hand over mine. My face started glowing. He reminded me that he has a boyfriend. I told him that I know, but I can't help lo-

I stopped. I almost said it.

"You love me?"

"Well - I - it's just that -" I remember babling, my face getting redder. He quickly withdrew his hand, realizing that made me red in the first place. He said it was the first time he didn't find my redness attractive.

I'm sorry, readers, but this seems like a made-up story, doesn't it? Oh well, I guess I'm used to writing events like this since I DO go to an art school for writing. Thanks for reading.

[baby_girl1]

Well I first strating noticeing that I thought girls were hot was like 5th grade, my best friend wanted me to spend a night at her house, so when we went to bed we dared each other to kiss one another along with other parts of the body so we both did and ive started noticing women every since, but i still think guys are hot to..:)

[Serenity]

This past summer I discovered that I am gay. (I'm going into 9th.) Near the end of school, a highschooler (the building is 6-8, then 9-12), said that I was cute. I had a odd feeling around him for the remainder of the year, but I thought it was embarresment, or just the memory of that awquard and random moment. But, lo and behold, he was at my drama camp this summer...and so was his boyfriend. I kept looking at him funny, and spacing out, but when he looked I would turn away. Cliche, isn't it? And idiotic. Oh, by the way...he's hot and gorgous! :wub: After camp had finished, we texted daily. Then he [randomly] asked if I liked anyone. I was shocked. My answer:

Yes.
Him: Do I know...this person?
Me: Mmhmm.
Him: Does...this person go to our school?
Me: Yeah.
Him: It's me, isn't it?

I was dumbfounded. How did he know? When I asked, he replied that he had seen all my glances towards him, but had said nothing because he found it cute. Then he said: You're going all red, aren't you? I replied that I was. He thought something I had done was cute!!! I told him I was shocked he noticed that I glow red when embarresed or really pleased. He said he noticed a lot about me, for he had snuck glances at me, too. That made me redder. He said he thought my red episodes were cute and very attractive.

So did his bf notice our glances? Or anyone else, for that matter? He said that he didn't kwow of anyone noticing. Good. For some reason, I freaked at the thought, but soon calmed. He had been gay for over a year, so we met up [not telling his bf, whose a bit of a jealous type], had lunch, and he talked to me about what to expect being gay. He asked me who else I was attrackted to, but it's only him.

As I said that, I gave my drink a carefull examination, avoiding his gaze.

"You mean," he had started, "that I'm the only guy for you?"

"Mmhmm." I mumbled. He reached across the table and put his hand over mine. My face started glowing. He reminded me that he has a boyfriend. I told him that I know, but I can't help lo-

I stopped. I almost said it.

"You love me?"

"Well - I - it's just that -" I remember babling, my face getting redder. He quickly withdrew his hand, realizing that made me red in the first place. He said it was the first time he didn't find my redness attractive.

I'm sorry, readers, but this seems like a made-up story, doesn't it? Oh well, I guess I'm used to writing events like this since I DO go to an art school for writing. Thanks for reading.

Awww omgosh that was so adorable! I was just grinning the whole time. So what happened with him? Did you stay friends?

[Unknown_kid]

it was the middle of 7th grade... And my girlfriend just dumped me....and my best friend adam, who only i, have known, him being bisexual, came to me, and just, randomly gave me a hug, and i kind of got red...so later that day, when i got out of my last class, he was waiting by the door, usealy he meets me at the bottom of the hill to walk home... so we stsrted walking home, and, my mom was never home, so we went to my house to hang out.

Then we just kind of started talking, and, idk why, but, i just fealt like kissing him, but i still fealt weird because i like girls.....


and thats kinda how i knew i was bi.

[jkpartyguy14]

I knew I was bi whe I started liking guys and looking at them. I had always dated girls, but I knew all along I really liked guys a little more than girls so there for I am bi. :)

[Unknown_kid]

i kind of had that fealing :)

[Mollie]

i realised when i was watching tv and i always noticed how good looking the girls were...

but i love guys aswell lol

i cant decide who i like more...

[Maverick]

It's old but I think I'll sticky this.

[Unknown_kid]

heh?

[LateForTheSky]

I've kinda always known but it didnt hit me until I found out what gay means and how it is preseved by the public. I always liked boys better than girls even for friends

[Vermillion]

I, myself didn't really find out I was bi; it was quite obvious to me really.
But, to give a clear answer, it was when I was on the phone talkin' to my best bud. He just said "We're both bi." And I replied with a simple "Yup."
XD

Yeah, I just really don't care and I don't make a big deal out of it. I look at it like "Who cares?". My point? HELL NO am I telling my parents, XD

[george]

Im not sure if im gay or not :confused:

[robert92]

Im not sure if im gay or not :confused:

mm same :(

[Serenity]

Im not sure if im gay or not :confused:

mm same :frown:

Don't worry- you've got plenty of time to work it out. :daisy:

[The Resurrected One]

I'm not gay, but I am Bisexual!!! :D

There was this Greek guy who I kinda liked a while back. I just thought that the way he had his hair was hot, and he had a really cute smile. :)

There were times when I had sexual thoughts about him, and it really turned me on.

But I still sort of like him in a way. We aren't friends or anything, and he doesn't know that I think he is hot. And I sometimes find his laugh to be cute.

But he ain't the only guy who I thought was hot and had sexual thoughts about.

There was also this Mexican guy, this Asian guy, this Italian guy, and this half Asian half Hawaiian guy. :)

So yeah, I am bisexual, but I like girls more, though. Isn't that weird?

[Serenity]

So yeah, I am bisexual, but I like girls more, though. Isn't that weird?

Not really. I have yet to meet a bisexual person who likes guys and girls equally :P

[Chris92]

i knew i was bi/gay when i started thinking guys wur hot haha cause straight guys dont lol, but then my first time with a guy was drunken then again my next guy i was completley sober hahaha but i mean yeah to me if uf eel for guys more then girls ur gay bi, i mena some people are just curios, but if ur curious then ur bi like its simple u cant be straight and want to suck a dick it jsut doesnt make sense.

[the presence]

i'm bi, i like guys about 80 or 90% of the time tho

i kissed my best friend and i knew from that point on. and i started noticing boys more than i noticed girls.

[monkeychild]

i first worked out i was gay in year 7.
i just started a new school and there was one guy i could not stop thinking about and then i started looking at pics of guys so thats how i knew. i have never told anyone that

[lxl]

hmm... beginning of high school for me
like all of a sudden, i found myself crushing on this guy in my class...

[t0mb0ii13]

(im a girl lol -_-)
I never really started getting into anybody until i was about 13, I pretty much was always a sk8r chick XD anyway, I went to one of my friends house (HUGE HOUSE XD) and we were all playing truth or dare, (there was a few boys of course lol) and one of my friends was really REALLY shy lol, and my friend Chey dared me to kiss her and i was all "WTF?!" and i kinda got pissed off at her but she offered me a fifty so i did it, turns out i LIKED kissing her, and after the party i told her that i liked her ^_^ and now were together ^_^ if u laugh i will hunt u down and kill ur CARPET CLEANER XD:D

[Dave]

When i was on 4-5 grade, i start having oral sex with a friend (we don't know that it was bad or something), then i decide to tell him that we should stop doing it, because we understand that it was bad, not becuase we know the reason, we only know that it was bad.

Later on, in middle school, when i was in 2 grd. I experience my first masturbation thinking in that moments, so then i was starting to think i was gay, and it doesn't matter.

Know im 15, in 2 grd of highschool, i still think of him, and when i see other mans naked, i get turned on, so at this moments, i think i'm gay, because i was never atracted by womens, but im still "in the closet"

[spyfly25]

you think all your stories are wierld.

my friends were looking at porn on my compter(don't ask y), well i see a picture of a guy and a girl. well i am still looking at the picture and i think wow look that that ***** then i start to think look at the dick. day after i take my laptop into the bathroom and star looking at porn on staight porn i mean GAY porn.

Intesting enough that night way the first night i jacked off and before that i didn't know what masterbait meant; not the least one bit.

so who can beat the story of my discovery

[sasori1122]

Well...I always felt attracted to girls...and then I started being attracted to guys too...and then I fell in love with a girl for the first time...have since broken up with that girl...and now I'm practically in love with a guy...so...I guess it just sort of gradually built up on me...

[grimlip]

6th grade is when I first thought a guy was cute. And I thought to myself "Ok, so if I am gay, so what" and I completly forgot that. I didn't really accept myself until the 9th grade and even then I thought I was bi. I didn't FINALLY accept my gayness, :), until a couple of months ago actually. I think it was 4 months ago.

[drcarter24]

ALWAYS been gay...lol...i used to play with barbies and dress up in moms clothes...then I hung out with ALL girls and played house on the playground...then I guess you could say I was molested by a family member...but i can't say that I didn't want it...although incest is gross...and as I grew up...i LOVED seeing guys naked in the locker room after football prac. and what not. :D

[Blahages]

Well, I've never had a girl friend. Never had any interest in one. I never had any interest in a boy friend either. I went quite a while without even giving any of it any thought.

Then, two years ago, I had a summer job with Two Twin Guys I know, that I went to school with, and I eventually got to the point where there was one of them I was really attracted to. Never really had been attracted to anyone before, so I definitely noticed it. Of course, it got worse over time, but eh. He has a girl friend, and of course, nothing would ever happen between us. But, since then, I've come to the conclusion that I like guys, and I'd love to have a relationship with one, but I'm too shy for that to happen anytime soon. I'm still working on coming out to my Family. I did to a few friends, and one of My Sisters. Also, to My mom Two years ago, but she didn't seem to believe me at the time, and I do believe has forgotten about it, or decided that I was just confused, and nothing has been said since between us about it.

Many Years ago, I THOUGHT I liked Girls, for a time, but I'm thinking it was mainly just me thinking that since I was "Supposed" to like them, that I did. I never gave the opposing idea any thought, until that.

I've had a few people I've liked, one of which is a "fairly" close friend, and he knows it. But they've all been Straight, and Have no intention of Returning the Feelings.

The FIRST time I MIGHT have an the SLIGHTEST Idea I was gay was Perhaps in 4th Grade. There was this guy a grade or two ahead (Perhaps more? I can't remember anymore) that I had this odd feelings towards. Never really understood it. All I knew was their first name, but some reason there was something strange about them. For whatever reason I had this Idea that there was something "Magic" about them. Yeah. Don't ask me to explain the thoughts of a 4th Grader, even IF I was that Fourth Grader. Because, I honestly don't know.

Fun Stuff. :-/

[myspace]

Ive always liked girls.

Always.


Once I thought that boy looked okay, but then, Im Just like that girl looks way hotter

[mofo620]

well it started when I was like 8 there was this girl in class I liked then there was a boy that lived near me and he stayed the night one time and we did stuff.

then on I was more of Bi curious as I got older, Now that I am 17 I have been with a guy and a girl, so I know for sure now.

[Dave]

I have finally come out to my parents!!!!!

[sabin22]

eeeyuuppp! it first started out as a drunken game of truth or dare last summer... i mean i had always LOOOVED the female body and thought it was soooo beautiful i just really hadnt been tangled in it... and let me say... being tangled in it is lots and lots of fun! me and another girl who happens to be a lesbian were dared to kiss... and we were both so drunk we went in another room and kept going lol... yes... good times... but i wont get into details lol!

thats a good 4 1st time, lol, sry for being off subjrct, rock on

[zacharooo]

i am not sure what i am!

[fuji]

i think i'm bi

[joes2]

I new i was gay after i started flirting with my best friend

[Everglow]

gay porn.

[Tatsuya]

I new i was gay after i started flirting with my best friend

me too......except i`m bi :p

[Malcolm Tucker]

gay porn.

??? You knew form that?

[Patchy]

??? You knew form that?

Maybe he got turned on by that...even though that doesnt mean your gay.

[Malcolm Tucker]

Yeah that's what I meant.

[Xarra]

me too......except i`m bi :p

the bi twinx!!:P

[ideasgirl]

I was always physically attracted to girls. Even in grade two I had this terrible crush on a girl in my class. I had no idea what being gay was though. All through my schooling years I found I only had crushes on girls, and used to pretend to like guys so that my friends wouldn't freak out. When I hit year 10 there was this girl at my school that was bi, and I randomly ended up at a party with her and we hooked up. From that, I was reassured, and ever since then (despite one or two boyfriends that lasted a week at a time) it's been girls all the way. Booyeah

[racy]

I love the fashion magazines and teen magazines, and movie star magazines. I guess I always thought girls were pretty. My best friend is really pretty. Like in 6th grade, she made me feel tingly when we are alone together. I hid it from her, but sometimes we get giggly at the same time, or we hold hands in the mall when it's crowded. I don't know. It's confusing.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

I don't know if I'm bi really, but I've definitely always enjoyed looking at girls. I really think girls got the better end of the stick as far as attractive anatomy goes. I'm still attracted to guys, for sure, but the female body is just so incredibly beautiful. As a kid, I often felt awkward about my feelings towards other girls. I've never been emotionally attracted to one, but for a long time, from age 7-ish until I was almost 13, the first thing I'd see when around a girl around my age or older (this never happened with adults though), was her breasts. And sometimes it was really hard to tear my eyes away and focus on her face like you're supposed to when talking to someone. At first I told myself, "Oh, you're just looking because your jealous that her boobs are bigger than yours", but as I grew and other girls' breasts were about the same size as mine (even smaller in some cases), it didn't stop. Finally I learned some self-control, but I still find myself looking on occasion, when I know no one's watching me do it.
I first noticed a sort of physical attraction to girls at a sleepover when I was about 10. There were a bunch of us there, and Truth or Dare was suggested. We were all terrible at coming up with Truth questions though (and no one wanted to answer the ones we did come up with), so it became just Dare. Just about every girl was dared to strip at one point; just for a few seconds and then they were allowed to put their clothes back on. Everyone was supposed to cover their eyes or look away, the dare wasn't so we could look at each other naked but more to see who trusted us to keep our promise and not look. Well, I started out sneaking peeks as I'm sure the other girls did here and there, just to see if everyone else looked like I did. I'd never seen another girl naked before except my sister, and I was curious. I realized soon enough that we were all pretty much the same (except I was the only one with pubic hair, how mortifying!), and pretty soon I realized something else--when I'd look at the girls, I'd get this warm, sorta tingly feeling "down there". It was new, but not unpleasant, and it subsided when I'd look away. So naturally, I kept watching. One of the girls noticed though and gave me a weird look then whispered "WHAT are you doing?" I followed the rules and kept my eyes covered for the rest of the game, and thankfully she didn't say anything to the other girls about it. From that point on I'd bring up "the dare game" at every sleepover, until the rest of the girls starting hitting puberty and decided they didn't want to play anymore.

I dunno though, is it really bisexuality if the emotional aspect isn't there? I can picture myself messing around with another girl, but not really being in a serious relationship with one and certainly not marrying one. Maybe I just haven't met the right girl who I'd consider dating, but I don't think I will. I'm all guys as far as that goes.

[jma94]

Well, I was never really attracted to either gender. It didnt matter. By the time i hit puberty i saw girls as like... attractive? Then one day i realized i thought the same of guys. So i've never really told anyone but i'm bi. :P

[VampireKitten]

My guy best friend kissd me when i was 13 and since then iv all ways liked guys =)

[imawsome91]

im curious on how u can tell i mean i jack of too gay porn but i love girls so idk

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

If you're bi you're probably attracted to boys outside porn. Lots of straight guys look at gay porn, and since you like girls it's pretty easy to say you're not gay. If you're bi though, you'd be attracted to guys the same way you're attracted to girls.

[imawsome91]

o ok but wat if u expirement wit other guys and u enjoy it and u wanna do it again???

[Glasgow]

im curious on how u can tell i mean i jack of too gay porn but i love girls so idk

Jacking off to gay porn is pretty gay..

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

o ok but wat if u expirement wit other guys and u enjoy it and u wanna do it again???

Then you're definitely curious, a lot of teens are. Only you can say if this is pretty much just hormones or if you think you might be like this for the rest of your life. Either way, it's normal.

Jacking off to gay porn is pretty gay..

A lot of curious guys do that. You'd be surprised how many guys who do not identify themselves as gay, and may not be sure if they're even bi, still look at gay porn.

[sabin22]

Then you're definitely curious, a lot of teens are. Only you can say if this is pretty much just hormones or if you think you might be like this for the rest of your life. Either way, it's normal.



A lot of curious guys do that. You'd be surprised how many guys who do not identify themselves as gay, and may not be sure if they're even bi, still look at gay porn.

wow u know ur stuffs teeny, GJ

[jakieboi]

nar im not guy i like bobies but who knowes im ony 14

[Mycall.]

I have always been attracted to guys, and having older siblings I always knew what gay was.
i'unno.
Guys give better head jobs, lol. I suppose that's what keeps me interested...
Because I do often see a chick, and as it was put, think "wow".

[ipod_aficionado]

i have been thinking about whether or not i am bi and by reading various forums i have found out that i am in fact bi, no one i know knows about it yet. i'm pretty sure my family will except me. so...ya

[The Entertainer]

bear in mind though that there are different "shades" of straight, bi and homosexual. Everyone is different in their thoughts and feelings, so they might not necessarily fall right into those 3 catagories

[Electric Cheese]

I was always attracted to girls, but I had little luck with them. I was talking to it with a friend and he told me he was bi. To this point I'd never had any feelings towards a guy but for some reason I was more "into" him than anyone else before. I finally plucked up the balls to talk to him about it and we ended up making out for the better part of twenty minutes!! So after that I considered myself gay.....then the next week I got myself a girlfriend....

so I'm bi I guess, I'm more leniant (spelling?) towards the girls now, but I still have that lil soft spot for the guys too

[The Batman]

I fell in love with a boy i met online and then i realized how happy i was talking to him so I finally accepted it

[zacharooo]

well i was probably 8 when me and a friends masturbated each other a couple of times that year but im still attracted to the girls a bit but i may be more bi than straight

[Conna]

I was 15 and me and a friend was in my bed. I dunno something always told me he was gay - maybe not, I dunno. But I could feel he had a boner at one point. Then he said 'I'm bored', so I slid my hand down his trousers. He didn't complain and he did it to me. After a while I started to give him head, and then he did to me.

Odd.

So yeah - I'm officially bisexual - and I'm out.

[zacharooo]

well when i was 8 i had a friend come over and he basically asked me if i wanted to do some stuff and then i found out at that time that i wa smaybe bi and curious

[Mr. Smithers]

Well when I started the 6th grade. Thats when I knew. I was sitting next to this boy in class and I Just thought he was so "hot". Then I just started to like men. I just didn't have any interest in women.

I first started to tell my friends that I'm Bi but then I came out to my friends that I am gay. And thats how it all started.

[Sugaree]

It all happened just a few months ago.

Well I went over to visit a very old friend whose parents got a divorce. Well I went over there and the minute I walked through that door......I knew that he was the one.

Of course when we were younger we masturbated eachother and all that but when I saw him...he just struck something and it felt that my heart found what it was looking for.

But on the other side I knew that I had a crush on this girl who I serve with at church. And it occured to me that my heart was torn in two pieces. It was rather my friend or my secret crush.

I decided the day after.....and I picked.....my friend. I've been bi-sexual ever since. And I'm proud of it

[Myself]

i dont know what i am, im leaning tword bi

[Gavin]

i dont know what i am, im leaning tword bi


I'm just wondering,how old are you?

[Sugaree]

He's 16 he said in a previous thread in the Puberty for Boys forum :)

[curiousteen]

the first i thought i was gay was in the 5th or 6th grade and i saw this one boys dick in the bathroom while peeing in the urinal. ever since then i luv to dick but at the same time i luv to see boobs and vagina

[bleedingheartizzie]

ive always felt differently buy likeing the same sex
i can remenber when i first acctualy knew i was bi
i was with my bf at the time and he was ignoring me at the time so my childhood freind said to get him jelous we should get of with each other so we did
i knew she was bi and i couldnt explain it but for then i knew that i was
im so glad that happen because other wise i think i would ov just thpught i was like proper weird or somthing

[notsure101]

well im Heterosexual so i couldnt tell u

[Loner Girl6]

Idk,it's a weird story.I guess in grade 6 a new girl moved to our school and we became friends,right.but she started making other friends i got jealouse and told her i hated her.all i did was think i about her and worry about whether she liked me or not.So figured i must like her but i couldn't except that.then in grade nine i met this girl and the same thing happened and i sorta fell for my best friend at the same time.so i guess i realized that i had to accept it czu it was messing up all these relationships.yeah idk...im stl not quite sure what i am.most of the time i have huge crushes on girls but im mmostly sexually interested in guys so yeah...it's weird but anyways...

[ShatteredWings]

oh yea, you really want me to tell don't you...i'll consiter it...it's a long story

[ssgliberty]

im not sur eif im gay but i have feeling for guys and girls i think i might be bi

i think i might be bi to cause when i masturbate sometimes i think of guys but i also think of girls :D but some times i see boys i think hoot!!! but i also see girls and i say hooot!!!!!!

[ssgliberty]

cool story. man i wanna kiss a guy :cry:

me to.

i found out i was bi when i saw this guy and thoght he and the girl sitting next to him where both hot.:D

[Sugaree]

Well alien you are still young. Even thought I am your age I knew that I was bi but I didn't decide as quick as you did.

I thought it over. You just rushed to the choice. As I said in a previous post, just wait for a while. You're still young and need to grow so just wait and think it out.

[ssgliberty]

Well alien you are still young. Even thought I am your age I knew that I was bi but I didn't decide as quick as you did.

I thought it over. You just rushed to the choice. As I said in a previous post, just wait for a while. You're still young and need to grow so just wait and think it out.

oh i did think it out but it took 5 years for me to admmit it to my self

so i finaly accepted my self i just dont know if my parents friends and school people accept me for who i am.:D

[curiousashley87]

I always liked both sexes but when I turned thirteen and my dear older sister was throwing me a surprise slumber party. Well we ended up playing truth or dare with my friends and I ended up kissing one of my friends in a french kiss. That night the power went out and for safety reasons my sister had us team up together. Later that night I felt the girl sleeping next to me climb into my sleeping bag and get closer to me. I really liked the feel of her body against mine, her skin rubbing against mine, and the warmth between us. I found out the next day that the friend enjoyed it as well and since then we have been close. Oh I still like guys, but I like girls more. :)

[ssgliberty]

so your bi to well when you find out you find out

[emecrazy]

Well Im pretty sure im bi
ha i have slowly became more interested in guys
these last few years in my class i been starin at the older guys and just wishing i could just do something to them ;) hah and then a few months back me and my friends got drunk and started making out.. he blames it on the alcohol.. ha i dont beleive him..
i loved it hah
i finaly realized it after i gave him head...
hah he is still in denial
but i cant come out =[ its frowned upon where i am.. reeally bad

[Biggles]

Not sure if im bi, more just open minded. I can't see myself loving another guy, unless its their body. Theres something about getting intimite with the same sex that can be 10x better then being in a hetrosexual relationship. I always had no problem with guys liking guys and then at 13 i had my first guy pm guy experience. Havent looked back :D but finding people as open minded as me is hard :(

[krystalm]

i've always kind of new that i wasn't exactly straight, but after my last boyfriend i realized that i was attracted to girls just as much as guys.. it didn't help that when he was lame in between the sheets i often thought of girls instead of him... then i just knew.

[Ryandel]

I think I started to have a feeling towards guys when I was nine years old. It never really came to me until I was 12.

[MattHutzell]

Probably 3 or 4 years ago. Just "messin around" with a friend and I was a lost case from there XD :P. Never had problem addmitting it to myself though, thank God! I am what I am, if you don't like, I don't care! :)

[tbboltz92]

iam nir sure sime days i think iam gay other iam stight but idk maybe i should just be bi?

[manicou_juice]

When i was younger i was attracted to pretty girls till i was about 12, which is the age i started having lustful thoughts. And at that age i also changed from a co-ed school to an all-boys school (at this point i really wasn't exposed to being around girls as my parents are very protective and i was barely let out of the house.) Also i was curious and found out alot on the internet, where i was mainly interested in people in general having sex, then it branched out into just men. I guess i was about 14 when i accepted i was gay. I'm not open about it tho, cuz of how people in my country and my peers react to being gay (some people get killed for it). I only have a few friends who are bi, though I'm not even attracted to them in the littlest way(mainly cuz i don't like how they are effeminate, and they don't know i'm gay). I'm still a virgin, have not even had a first kiss yet (never had a bf or a gf). I can't wait till i leave school to be more open, hopefully I can move to another country where it is more accepted. BTW, I'm 17 now.

[mofo620]

hmm..... When I was really young I had a sleepover I was curious we did stuff. Then as I got older I alwayz wanted to do it again and I was realy likeing guys and I was liking girls. But I was trying to block it out because my family wouldn't except it.
Then as I got older I realized i was Bi that I like girls and boys I got drunk and I ended up with both a guy and a girl. And now I am a lot more open with it with my friends.

[Cristiann123]

ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:

WOW the money i wouldve givin, my wii, my 360, my labtop, all this to be in your place. lucky

[Cristiann123]

I think im bi but going more towords men but i like the idea!!!

i think it started when i was about 5, my brother used to live in a house far from mine and my mom would drive to there in order to pick him up, either that or it was a birthday. so there was this one guy that was living with the women my moms husbandgot married to after theyre divorce (it sounds confusing i know:D) so he was my age and we were curious. we made something called the naked team (dunno where we got the name) so what we did is we took off all our close and ran through the house butt naked. Then a few years past and that was when me and the guy acctually started to touch each other, perform head,and all that stuff. i started to watch gay porn when i was 12, and i LOVED IT !!!!! So its still going on. were still doing all of our gay stuff. i find i can think of women romanticly, but men, sexually, AND romanticlly!!!

[GotTheGoods]

Today, kinda. I mean, I'm not completely sure, but bisexuality just seems like it would explain how I feel. I'm attracted romantically and sexually to girls, and the same to guys, but not as much romantically. IDK. I have to think it over! Lol.

[ZombieCrunch]

Mine started off really slowly.
When I was about 5 I was homophobic, Mainly because I went to a school In nottingham that HATED Gays. I told My parents that gay people freaked me out and they were like " WHAT ?!? But there so lovable ! " .
Then we moved to a small village in derbyshire, Where Homosexuality is accepted but People do get teased.
After that I started to wonder what It would be like to be with a girl. When I was about 11, I Thought I was bisexual until I had a boyfriend.
I completely went of boys after that.
A few months ago I was having problems with my girlfriend ( Internet relationship ) And he asked me out again, alongside two other boys.
I said yes to him but Told him that Its only to find Myself.
I dumped him a week later because the whole thing freaked me out.
It just felt WRONG.

Plus, Music had really started to help me recently :D -

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=muJaDZA-_Bk

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=NoKPi8xtyjA

http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=cySmUjQB05I.

Huzzah :).

[Zan0ra]

^^ well nice to know you found yourself.

[poolkmnhy]

im gay and i always new i was gay i never thaght i liked girls but i havent come out and its so wererd just ceping it a secret because guys will be like whos the hotest girl and im like um.. i know who the hotst guys are

[Ceilidh]

Well, there was this girl I was friends to in high school... and well, wow o____0 she was hot.

I actualy thought I just had a thing for her, but then I realised I've never really liked a guy as much as I liked her... and I realised I started liking more girls that way.

I'm not gay btw, I'm bi :) I'm just attracted slightly more to girls than guys.

[Never_Forget]

I saw him, I got to know him, and deep down, I loved him. Then one night I was lay there thinking about him, and I sat up, and I thought; "Oh my god, I'm gay" but I don't know anymore. I mean I still love him but theres a girl I kind of like too. So like LivingDoll, exept it's vice versa. I'm attracted to boys more than girls.

[Axellance]

i guess i knew deep down all along but one day i was jacking like usual and i couldn't keep the image of nude men out of my head soo i gradualy liked guys more and more after that and now i am only attracted to men....

well im Heterosexual so i couldnt tell u

Then why did you feel the need to comment aside from driving up your post count with effortless post?

[I Have A Question]

i found out when i realised i liked doing men and women!

[Neverender]

i guess i knew deep down all along but one day i was jacking like usual and i couldn't keep the image of nude men out of my head soo i gradualy liked guys more and more after that and now i am only attracted to men.

i have always had emotional feelings toward guys, but recently ive been noticing stronger and stronger feelings. so i feel i might be gay, but im not completely sure yet. so like Axellance i guess ive always known i was gay or Possibly gay.

[bleacher]

I saw him, I got to know him, and deep down, I loved him. Then one night I was lay there thinking about him, and I sat up, and I thought; "Oh my god, I'm gay" but I don't know anymore. I mean I still love him but theres a girl I kind of like too. So like LivingDoll, exept it's vice versa. I'm attracted to boys more than girls.

Awww...twilight, I don't know why but that story really touched my heart with the 'I saw him, I got to know him, and deep down, I loved him.' LOL! I don't know maybe I'm just weird. :D btw, I LOVE your avatar!! L/Caramelldansen FTW!!

[AMERICANelite123]

u know i was so weird
im bibut i think guys r hot
then one day i was like whoa
girls r hot too!
it was really weird and one fof my frends said it was obvious
i dont think im obvious but oh well only a couple ppl know so far

[Charlotte_]

I found out that I was bi (more towards lesbian if I'm honest) when I was about 10-12 years old, watching Catwoman with Halle Berry. And I decided she was pretty damn hot. :D

[scott327]

well I love my girlfriend but I'm just physically attracted to guys in a sexual way, I would never want a relationship with a guy

[GRiM47ant]

i think im gay, me and my friend always hang out and being near him makes me happy, and i slept over his house once and we masterbated togetherand he taught me how to kiss correctly, but i was reading online that this is normal for our age. but then again i think im BI because me and one of my best friends (girl) she is always flirting with me and i like it.... ZOMG SOMEONE HELP ME DECIDE

[rsc4life]

just realized it... Developed a crush on a friend. Emotional & physical. more emotional actually. lol. different than most.

[Daveadvisor31]

I was always tought to like girls, but I remember in grade 6, i thought this guy was hot, and thinking this isnt normal..... And then in grade 7, i was sitting in class, staring at a guy thinking wow....hes hot! Oh shit.... At 12, a boy's or girl's hormones are going crazy. It's normal at your age to have those types of feelings. You might just be admiring his features whether body or face.

[Requin]

Big News! Well for me anyway.
I have concluded that during puberty, at the moment I am bi.
There i said it. It's a mix cause i fancy two of my friends. One's a girl the other's a boy.
A tricky situation i know. It's the dreaming of the future, of them being with me. I've had that happen with both of them too.
Oh well. Chin up.

[waterplayer]

I think im a bi:(:rolleyes:

[The Resurrected One]

I used to like girls.

But lately, my emotions and feelings grew a lot stronger for guys, and during that, the feelings for girls just faded away. I have fallen for a lot of guys in the past couple months, and no girls.

Therefore,

I AM GAY

[stevent]

i figured it out while watching gay porn one day. i watch it quite a lot but never really thought about it before then.
at the moment i like girls in a sexual and emotional way, but like guys in just a sexual way. i'm probably just curious.
well actually, I'm 13, so my hormones are playing havoc with my brain; and my sexual orientation will probably change in the next few years...
but for now, I'm bi - no harm in that, eh? =)

[otakuamanda888]

I first realized my feelings for my girlfriend one night at a sleepover when I was thirteen and she was twelve. It had started raining badly and we were told to sleep close together. I got into her sleeping bag late that night and she didn't object. Next day we asked each other about it and we decided we should be together, but I still have feelings for boys so I am bi just leaning towards girls more.

[keehkeeh11]

im turned at the 6th grade

[Steel boy]

When me and my mate went for a sleep over we jacked off together than later we talked about anal. So he analed me and i loved it and loved him. but i love my GF now and so im BI as i like doing boys and girls!

[maxx says rawr]

idk i never really liked guys, and when i saw a girl and thought she was hot i just kinda knew.
it didnt take me long to realize i was gay, it took me a long time to accept it and get used to it.

[kat0060]

well i used be like girl crazy even at a young age but then me and my best friend started this ill touch yours if you tuoch mine and it grew from there

[eikookmi]

Ah well like most people, i was raised thinking boy and girl. And i never really realized but sometimes i stared at girls and was thinking damn shes so hot and i couldn't help staring at times. I actually never even considered it at all, it never reached my mind. But i realized it like last year that im bi. Im still contemplating if i really am bi or possibly lesbian.

[kat0060]

guys help me out none of my family know that i am bi but some times certain relatives make homophbic comments that are not directed at me or any one just comments in general. but if i here them they still really embarres me and make me uncofortable wat should i do

[whitecar]

bi!

im lookin at this one hot guy at school and all the sudden i get a huge throbbing boner. then sometimes i even day dream about him :wub:

at the same time, i like girls. :yes:

[zarri]

Well, I offically decided that I was bi a few days ago, but I was ambiguous up until then.

Making out with a hot girl didn't help any, either. :P

[MrTeen14]

well unsure, but probably bi,

i was at school on friday, and my friend asked to hang out after school, so i said sure, so he came over and we were playing vid games, and he said, can we just watch TV, so i said sure, (we had been joking around in class that day) so he kinda nudged my foot with his, so i nudged back, and he put his hand on my thigh, and rubbed it a little, then he retreated his arm so i started t rub his leg, so then after about 3-4 minutes, he moved his hand over to the center of my jeans, then felt for my penis, and he found that i had a boner, so it seemed like he relaxed a bit, so he rubbed that spot on my jeans, then he retreated and let me try, i avoided the center of his pants, because while i would have loved it, i didn't know how far he was willing to go, so i just kept to his thigh.

we then decided to go rent a movie, so we climbed in the back of the car, it was dark by then, so he nudged me, and i nudged back, we did this for about a minute, then i rubbed his leg, then he rubbed my leg, and then my pants area where my penis was. so i continued to rub his leg, then he grabbed my hand, and moved it towards the center of his jeans, and i tried to find "it" but i couldn't find it, then he moved my hand onto it, so i held it, then we had to go inside, so on the way home the same happened, then we got home, we started to watch TV again, then he nudged me again, so then i grabbed his leg and stuff, then he moved his hand to my waist, i le him, and he put his hand in my jeans on my boxers, then he pulled out about 30 seconds later, then i put my hand into his pants on his boxers, then he reached back into my jeans, onto my boxers, then i reached, and felt his stomach and his chest, then he reached his hand past my boxers and onto my penis, and then i did the same, and he would like move his hand around and rub it, and i would too,

and that was my first sexual encounter and how i found out i am most likely bisexual

[chub4chub]

I think I always have known. But I probably got a little help when I was molested between the ages of 9 and 11.

[macaulay]

I realised this year, i was completley straight until like i started to notice how hot all the guys in my class are. i tried to deny this for ages but i just had to accept the fact.

[Synthslave]

oh i knew it.since i was like maybe 5-6-7 yrs old.and i kinda came out to myself when i was 11 maybe.anyway.never liked girls.in physical way.though i like fooling around with them.it's fun ^^

[fantasmo]

I'm pansexual. But anyway.

I basically learned, like most kids do, that you're supposed to like the opposite sex.
But I never really understood why, and I guess I always thought that people should be able to like anybody.
And a couple years ago I decided I was probably bisexual...
But then I heard about pansexual last year and it seemed to fit better than bi did.
So I guess I always kind of knew, I just didn't know the word for it.

[Dragonite]

Im bi and this is my first time acctully telling any one, But I found out when I liked my best friend and this girl in my class I haven't told anyone but it feels really good telling sum1.

[wonderville]

I've got a big problem about all this gay/bi thing... Please gelp me ... :(

Hmm, where to start?

Allright. I have always known that I might be bi. You, see, here, where I live, being gay and stuff is NO NO BAD BAD, no-one is gay. You can't talk about it out loud. ( To tell u the truth, I live in Northern Europe... in a small place you have never heard xD)
When I was younger I always liked boys... or at least i think so ? O.o
When I started junior high school about one and a half years ago... I realized that.. well.. I liked this one girl. I just thought about her all the time. How could I get to know her? How could I get close to her? How could I get to talk to her? Then, little by little, we became friends. Last christmas me, her and some other girls had a sleepoverparty. I don't remember anything about that night. XD Well, the only thing I remember is my crush sleeping with my pillow.
Now that girl is one of my best friends. Lately, we haven't been so much together.

One day I came out of closet, now everybody knows I am bi.

The shocking thing....

I have a boyfriend, we've been together.... for about 9 months. Yeah, no kidding... I love him so much(even though he is somewhat homophobic >:( ). He gave me my first real kiss. I've been thinking about my feelings and sexuality, so somehow I just didn't feel like kissing him once. Since then my boyfriend has been really... hmmm unpleasant company. It's like he's mad at me or something. :O BUT.. HE CAN'T FORCE ME TO DO ANYTHING!!! >:(
Wait.. it get's better... That girl I like(d) has a girlfriend now. I think I've gotten over her, cos we are such a good friends. I feel uncertain about my boyfriend and somehow I feel more and more curious about girls.

What should I do??? Should I leave that boy? I don't want to lose him as a friend... Is it even possible to be a friend after all this?

Sorry, my english sucks.... ^^

[thiscityisdead]

wow what a story, well usually after relationships and one say " you just wanna be friends" that never works out, ive experienced that through the years...usually leads to one being pissed about the breakup and never talking again. as well for the story goes, i thought it was intersting lol and just continue to be friends with the girl you like and if they subside then atleast you have a friend you know is there for you,

hope i helped =]]

[jak]

To tell you the truth, I wouldn't know how to describe myself, but I know I'm not 100% straight. I've had girlfriends and girls I dated, but experimented a little with guys. My old best friend and I did some sexual things and I played stip poker with girls and guys.

When I started going through puberty, I looked at more gay porn and am curious about guys. It is weird, because I only like certain types of guys. I rarely look at straight porn, but enjoy it, and mostly think naughty thoughts about men. More and more, I'm fantasising about the same sex, but I still enjoy doing sexual stuff with women.

Now, even though I'm attracted to both sexes, I don't like to have a relationship. I do like to flirt and date, though. I am a selective person, but I wouldn't mind doing the same thing with girls and boys.

If I moved to a place nobody knew me, I might date guys. I've never "come out" about anything.

[Rach x]

When I was young, I wasn't attracted to either. When I was around 11 or 12, I started wanting a boyfriend. But I started looking at porn. I'm deffo Bi now. I LOVE both! LOL!

[Dreaming Cannibal]

The actual moment when i notice it was in grade five and it was normal for me to like the girls more than the guys cuz i knew too much about guys at that moment and they kindda bored me. but now…i like guys and girls alike.

[goddardizthe1]

ok how did u know u were bi gay lez????



well im 14 and female and bi

i live in wichita kansas


anyone wanna be friends or tlk>??


look at my pix to see what i look lyk


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[Common Black]

technically i'm not bi (pans). But uh lets see.

When i thought I was a lesbian it was when i was 12-13? I thought I was lesbian because I was attracted to a female friend and only saw males attractive when they were together.

Then I decided no, I was Bisexual. And I kinda decided this for myself... I decided that, "True love only rolls around once in a while. And when it does present itself, i'm not going to let gender get in the way." So yeah. Decided that one for myself.

Then about three-two months ago I got really confused because I discovered Transexuals and Transvestites and found them ridicously attractive. So thus I became super confused. I found girls emotionally attractive and somewhat sexually. I discovered I can only feel sexually attracted OR emotionally attracted to a male but never a the same time (been like that in all my relationships) and Found Trans sexually and emotionally attractive. But I also was attracted to gay relationships, lesbians relation ships. Pretty much everything. So then I came here and finally found out I was a pan sexual :) So I'll settle for that one!

Though, there was a while there I swore I was a female gay. Was thinking about cross dressing for a bit there but I found the problem with that is, it's so hard for a girl to cross dress... (harder than you think... though i look damn fine in a 'bartender' vest with a black tie if i might say so myself!) and I wasn't interested in having a sex change so yeah... But I do think i should have been a guy and been gay.. or a trans. But yeah.

Thats my lovely confusing story :)

Oh and i'd love to be friends and talk sometime ^^
I go by Black online, i'm 15, from canada and female.

[rsc4life]

Well, I suppose it started with me living in one of the mos affluent communities on the country. Snobby, preppy girls.

I just wasn't a huge fan of girls. I mean I had a bunch of friends who were girls, but most of the girls were snobby and preppy. I went on a few dates. Not enjoyable. So I really didn't care.

Eventually, I started to care. I met a boy who spoke well, had political smarts. Was really nice, cute, and I really liked him. I started thinking all about him. I slowly started to understand I was gay. I am fine with that but I wish I had the courage to find out of this person is gay. Which I am almost certain he is.

I really do think about him all the time.

[NightHawksr71]

I realized kinda late that I was Bisexual, I have never been much of the social kind, never really been in contact with my emotions, Have never really been after a romantic relationship that much. so I really only realized recentlyish(Early November last year) that I was Bi.

Its a bit of an eye-opener. all the discrimination people get for something they don't choose. I never really thought about my sexuality until then.

Well thats my slightly pointless story.

[Talia]

I dunno really. I think I always knew I wasn't so into guys but I didn't know how to describe it. Eventually, you know, becoming more exposed to the real world and stuff, it seemed more of a possibility that I can like anyone that I want; girl, guy, ect.

[eikookmi]

Well i realized late that i was Bi. I was raised believing that i was suppose to like guys. I never really questioned it either. I never questioned why i seemed to like girls or sometimes i couldn't help but to stare at them. I never thought about that. It was just kinda whatever. About a little over a year ago i started liking this girl who happened to be les. And i was honestly confused. I just kept telling them that their just a special case. But soon i realized that i liked girls.

Just all this time, i never thought about it. I lived by what society thought was right and i never questioned anything. That year i changed a lot. I changed what society had made me.

But anyways. That was my boring story.
Im 16, feel free to talk to me anytime :]

[goddardizthe1]

ive known since i was lyk 8 ish lol

[keithp318]

I'm bi because I've been having sex with one of my best guy friends who is also bi since i was like 7, but i like girls too.

[Lifeguard18]

I've found out I was bi in 7th grade. The locker room was heaven because in my thread that boy I like was in the same period. But there were no showers so I only saw him topless

[rsibi]

When my brother came to me andasked we could masturbate together.Then he convinced me and had anal with me.At first I didn't like that but now I like to do with boys.Now I think I am Bi but don't know what I will be in the future.Then I began to see my friends dick in lockers and showers.Once I even went to one of my friend whom I knew was gay.He was changing his dress.I don't know what made me grab his penis and soon I did a blowjob and then he.In dressing room that day my gay life started.

[swagger]

i don't know how i found out

[coolcowssaymoo]

I don't know if I'm gay cause I don't go to a lot of boys houses. Ps. does anybody get horny talking about this?

[coolcowssaymoo]

When my brother came to me andasked we could masturbate together.Then he convinced me and had anal with me.At first I didn't like that but now I like to do with boys.Now I think I am Bi but don't know what I will be in the future.Then I began to see my friends dick in lockers and showers.Once I even went to one of my friend whom I knew was gay.He was changing his dress.I don't know what made me grab his penis and soon I did a blowjob and then he.In dressing room that day my gay life started.

You r lucky I have 4 sisters and no bros!!!

[Skylar15]

it just happend

[lavieboheme]

I personally had a few experiences with girls when I was around 12 and 13 but I never really thought to much into it. I started watching Ellen DeGeneres, The L Word and saw RENT and it made me realise why I had never really been into "boys" like my friends. I came out as bisexual because it seemed easier and dated a few guys but I just wasnt attracted to them whatsoever and now I am completely out as a lesbian and have a beautiful girlfriend, Emma.

[Ender]

When my brother came to me andasked we could masturbate together.Then he convinced me and had anal with me.At first I didn't like that but now I like to do with boys.Now I think I am Bi but don't know what I will be in the future.Then I began to see my friends dick in lockers and showers.Once I even went to one of my friend whom I knew was gay.He was changing his dress.I don't know what made me grab his penis and soon I did a blowjob and then he.In dressing room that day my gay life started.

I wish i had a brother, or relative like that.

[Emoduck]

I first found out i was gay when my friends were with me in the showers, i got an erection but to my surprise instead of laughing there eyes lit up and got closer... needless to say 12 boys in the shower is still one of my best sexual experiences. But on the other hand you do have to be careful as one of them got a bit boisterous during our "session and i had to go to hospital with rectal bleeding, so yeah...:yeah:

[nachtspiegel]

bi. i think i really started contemplating it when i found myself locked in a bathroom with a naked boy when i was 11. he was 16 at the time.
strange happenings...

[spartan117]

i found out because well first im 13 this year at the pool i found my self stareing at this guy in my class all the girls like him and me so i was lookin at him amd i got an erection and i now feel that i am biesexual

[ILOVEYOU]

Never, cuz i'm Straight. :)

[HikaruTheHunter]

I believe I'm straight, but I think I'm just curious about men too. So I might be bi! I'm curious!

[Gabriel Y.]

Well... I suppose in 3rd grade and 4th, I always thought "I should be attracted to girls" so I decided I was going to crush on the hottest girl in class. In 5th grade I started to realize that I was looking at the guys more then the girls. Didnt know this was bad until people started calling others "gay" as an insult. Then I realized "HOLY $#!+ I HAVE TO FIX MYSELF!" so i tried as hard as i could to be straight. I never had a very gay attitude (the stereotypical one) but obviously I liked guys. In 8th grade I was like "ok screw it. i dont care what people think, I like guys and Im happy I do!" Since then, I've been trying to get the one I am in love with to love me back. It is very hard to ask someone out when there are 3 factors... One:Will they say yes? Two:Are they gay? Three:What will be their reaction??? I am gay and I wont say im proud cause it makes me think of "Gay Pride" which pisses me off as i think of it as another thing homophobes think of when they think of gay people. Protesting with rainbow colored signs. However I am glad Im gay. I love boys and I would never change that for anything.
Edit: Also, anyone that says "your gay" as an insult, I will ask "why did you say that? is being gay bad?" Normally they just try to change the subject, but if anyone ever answers yes, I get pissed... not the best reaction but i cant help it ^^ 9th grade=best year of my school life so far
Edit 2: Gabe Yayac on facebook if u wanna look me up! I get lonely so friend me if u wanna ^^

[Dayvid]

okay i guess it all started when i was about 5! i have had a heart condition for as long as i can remember... i spent alot of time in hospital as a little kid, there was this other boy that i used to see every few months (like 3 or 4 times a year)... at this time I didnt talk to him, anyway, when i was nearly 7. the doctors said that they would like me to meet someone that had the same condition as me. at was him! and immediately he was my best friend but for some reason i seemed to like him more then that. it only took a few months before we started 'playing around with each other. by the time we were 10ish we both new that we loved each other and i still love him with all my heart now! he passed away late last year. I knew from the minute i met him that he was special. his someone i can never replace.

[Sceneboy612]

I remember that i knew i was bi, or curious then, when i was 11 ish. At first my friend and i "experimented", but then i realized that i actually enjoyed doing it more and more as i continued to experiment. And now i know that i am bi, and have no problems with it. =]

[southieRy94]

I've felt attracted 2 other guys since I was 10 or 11 but could never piture myself going out with another guy, just girls. So I guess I mite be bi, or curious, idk. Just physically attracted 2 guys and emotionally 2 girls.

[rette_mich]

It was like one really sudden unexpected epiphany.
I just sat down one day and was like hmm...am I gay?
That made me realize there was no way that I was a lesbian because I do have attraction to guys still too.
Then I saw a girl on my bus...I mean really saw here, and I think that she is very attractive and I want to talk to her but I get really shy.
That is basically how I knew I was bi.
Not very exciting though haha.
But I wish I knew if she was a lesbian or bi at all it would make everything so much easier!

[jasoncannon]

In my opinion, guys are much better in bed. I love having a dick up my ass.

[shannon1469]

12........

[Atonement]

Its a subconscious thing. Its there. It just took me a bit to come to terms with it.

I have to post this youtube video.

CAUTION: Contains vulgur language. Surely. And may offend if you don't know how to laugh.
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[southieRy94]

that video is hilarious

[ILOVEYOU]

LOL, YEAH, lol

[ShatteredWings]

OMG.. wow addison

that shouldn't be funny... but it is.

[Archos]

I first realized i was bi last christmas (not the one just gone, the one before that). I was staying over at a friend's house playing some games, and sometime while joking around, we kissed.
I've had a few boyfriends AND girlfriends since then.

[BiGirl13]

Um hi. i just joined like two days ago i think it was. i have had two boyfriends, both relationships ended badly. i tihnk i might be bi. lately it has been crossing my mind. i have only told one of my friends. my parents have no idea. im afriad to tell them because i fear they will think im doing it for attention or God forbid, that its a phase. i believe that it is neither. so im going to see where this leads me...any thoughts or comments would be greatly appreciated!

[ILOVEYOU]

if you really think you're bi, so think a little more, and submit what you really are. and then tell it to your parents, and tell them that you've thought about it, and you're completely sure. its not hurting god or any religious, we didn't choose to live, So we're free to choose our way. choose your way and i hope it was helpful :)

[JepJep92]

first time i found out i was bi/ gay lol.... well i've like guys and girls for a while... but i'm not really attracted to girl... only friendship wise... :) but i have a few crushes at guys at school and well.... i am pretty comfortable with it... but i haven't told anyone (inc. parents, i know my mum would be fine, as she's filipino, soo... LOL, but not sure about dad) :confused:

but anyone else go similar situations?? yes no?? maybe ?? LOL :eek:

[BeautifulTragedy]

I was 8 and I just found myself looking at girls and having crushes on girls as if they were boys....and my first kiss was with a girl.

So I pretty much thought I was gay until I met this guy and totally fell in love with him.

Thats when I decided I was bi. And this was since I was 13. im 17 now.

[rawsirk]

This past summer I discovered that I am gay. (I'm going into 9th.) Near the end of school, a highschooler (the building is 6-8, then 9-12), said that I was cute. I had a odd feeling around him for the remainder of the year, but I thought it was embarresment, or just the memory of that awquard and random moment. But, lo and behold, he was at my drama camp this summer...and so was his boyfriend. I kept looking at him funny, and spacing out, but when he looked I would turn away. Cliche, isn't it? And idiotic. Oh, by the way...he's hot and gorgous! :wub: After camp had finished, we texted daily. Then he [randomly] asked if I liked anyone. I was shocked. My answer:

Yes.
Him: Do I know...this person?
Me: Mmhmm.
Him: Does...this person go to our school?
Me: Yeah.
Him: It's me, isn't it?

I was dumbfounded. How did he know? When I asked, he replied that he had seen all my glances towards him, but had said nothing because he found it cute. Then he said: You're going all red, aren't you? I replied that I was. He thought something I had done was cute!!! I told him I was shocked he noticed that I glow red when embarresed or really pleased. He said he noticed a lot about me, for he had snuck glances at me, too. That made me redder. He said he thought my red episodes were cute and very attractive.

So did his bf notice our glances? Or anyone else, for that matter? He said that he didn't kwow of anyone noticing. Good. For some reason, I freaked at the thought, but soon calmed. He had been gay for over a year, so we met up [not telling his bf, whose a bit of a jealous type], had lunch, and he talked to me about what to expect being gay. He asked me who else I was attrackted to, but it's only him.

As I said that, I gave my drink a carefull examination, avoiding his gaze.

"You mean," he had started, "that I'm the only guy for you?"

"Mmhmm." I mumbled. He reached across the table and put his hand over mine. My face started glowing. He reminded me that he has a boyfriend. I told him that I know, but I can't help lo-

I stopped. I almost said it.

"You love me?"

"Well - I - it's just that -" I remember babling, my face getting redder. He quickly withdrew his hand, realizing that made me red in the first place. He said it was the first time he didn't find my redness attractive.

I'm sorry, readers, but this seems like a made-up story, doesn't it? Oh well, I guess I'm used to writing events like this since I DO go to an art school for writing. Thanks for reading.

What happend after that??? really good story.

[Taharo]

Uhmm, when i was 8-9 (i think)
I found thAT exploring with other males was fun for me... then i started liking guys more then girls but i'm bi cuz i like both :)

I'm openly bi recently this week

[YourFriend]

I found out bcs imaganing guys and watching gay porn gave me better pleasure at orgasming

[TheFreeshooterII]

Im Bi...............
Is it wrong to fantasize about my couzin
whos 14 and also a boy
i mean
i suspect hes gey/bi
he keeps getting his dick out and keeps saying suck it
but i have no idea if hes joking.....
he also masterbated once infront of me.............

[DongBoiUSA]

At age nine, I began to masturbate...when I fantasized, I thought about other boys. Since then, I have had only one sexual encounter--and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

[Generic269]

Well I suppose I always had feelings for both sexes, but I thought nothing of it. When I was 9 I found out about homosexuality and Mum lectured me about how "wrong" it is. At the age of 10 I found out about bisexuality, and something in me clicked if you know what I mean, but because I had been told that same sex attraction was "wrong" I dismissed it. When I hit puberty (around about my 13th), the feelings became stronger (and I noticed that I was physically & emotionally attracted to this guy) but I thought I was just bi-curious until I admitted it to myself in January.

[doyama]

When I was 12YO,I felt deeply atracted by boys in primary 6[or grade 6]then,i slowly and slowly realise my sexual orientation is towards----------boys...so i am gay【i have total no interest in girls]

[itsJustme89]

for me it started around 7th and 8th grade, I would peek at other boys in the locker room and experimented with a friend ( mutual masturbation ). However it didn't really hit me that I was gay until I started high school, by then I was looking at porn a lot and almost got busted a couple times by my parents. I finally came out to them at the end of 10th grade, and to my surprise they were both pretty OK with it, as well as most of my friends. I have only had 1 boyfriend since coming out, but I would like another.