How did you first find out you were gay or bi?

[NordicGuy]

I came out to myself as bisexual only a month ago. And I've had a hard time accepting it, as I've always been quite confident in my sexuality. So for most of the year, I've tried telling myself that I'm merely heteroflexible, and I still prefer to identify as bi-curious. But deep down I know that I'm bisexual, but I just feel as if that word carries a meaning that I don't want applied to me. So in a way, I don't want to be bisexual, but I am.

[Wilde]

I always thought it was because I wanted to impress other boys my age so I could be in the popular group. I first experimented when I was aged 9 with an 11 yr old boy (I sucked him at a summer school thing - we played 'doctor' - to this day I still can't remember his name. I do however remember almost being caught one time and how special it was everytime I pulled down his trackies and felt his smooth cock in my mouth. I'd make him lie down and I'd inspect him head to toe and do my bit in the middle).

[Aidoon123]

Lol, my coming out was a weird situation.

So I was going out with a girl for like a year, and then during that time I was kinda starting to fancy other guys, but I didn't think much of it, blamed it on "curiosity and hormones" yeah, aha, I used that old excuse....

So over time I dated multiple other girls, and just wasn't really enjoying the experience that much, and that's when gay porn and flirting with guys started to happen. So for a while I labelled myself as curious, and then I jumped to the next stepping stone, bisexual. So for a while I was "bisexual" and all was fine, I convinced myself I still liked girls, and liked guys on the side. So I continued with this for a year, and told my close friends. Over this time, I grew way further away from liking women, to liking men. I was determined I wasn't gay, and I was bi. How wrong was I..... Anyway, I was out as "bi" to my close friends and things were going "fine" like that for a while. Then one night I was talking with a friend, and we were on the topic of my sexuality for whatever reason, and he just straight up said to me "I know you're gay, why don't you just admit it" and of course I got angry, and battled him about this for well over 2 hours on FB, and we both cooled down and he said it again, and behind my computer screen something inside me clicked.... I was hiding my real self for so damn long, and it hurt me each day. I broke down. Majorly, broke down. I began to well up and I just burst into uncontrollable sobbing. I just said yes to him. Yes, yes, yes. It had been in front of my eyes since I was probably 12 or 13 and I couldn't admit it to myself until I was 16. For years, it just tore away at me. I chuckle looking back on this time now, how naive I was, and how I tried to convince myself I was "normal", but since coming out I've realised this is who I have always been, the real me, the NORMAL me. I lived a lie far too long, and it took a toll. Since coming out, I've been so much happier with myself. I've been true and honest, and a weight has been lifted from me. My advice to anyone who is struggling with their sexuality, screw what anyone else thinks. Be yourself, be true and be happy!! You won't regret it, and it'll hurt you far less than the pain of lying to youself for years.

[NordicGuy]

So for a while I labelled myself as curious, and then I jumped to the next stepping stone, bisexual. So for a while I was "bisexual" and all was fine, I convinced myself I still liked girls, and liked guys on the side.

This is the exact phase that I'm in right now. I've just labelled myself bisexual after identifying as bi-curious for a few months. I wonder if I'll end up seeing myself as gay like you.

[NotQuiteANerd97]

As a young kid, I saw males and females as equally attractive. But when I hit puberty and started finding girls seriously attractive, I loved seeing boys with their shirts off or naked. I thought it was just a phase at first, but after some contemplation I realized that I saw them no differently from girls, and that led to the thought that I could see myself loving both genders. And yeah, the rest is history.

[RedBull]

I figure out that im bisexual in june 2015.I break up with my first boyfriend(anyway, that relationship was terrible, he was so disguisting, his arms, teeths, i didnt like kissed with him, and he became just a stupid habbit-lesson:be just with peson who you fall in love).Incidentally, i go on some lesbian chat, just for fun, because chatting with boys was boring, they all wanted hot chat and be like robots without brain).And then, i meet one girl, Cloe, from France.She gave me her email and we started messaging every day.That was so cute, and weird.We had dirty talks, aboaut sex and other crazy things.We sent our naked photos of breasts and pussy to each other.And then i started to dream aboaut girls...kissing with them, and having sex...be in relationship..that was like one new part of me is born.I also started to watch lesbian movies and tv shows(Blue is the warmest color,Orange is the new black, The L word) and lesbian porns of course.That bisexual feeling was greatfull, and suddenly i was thrown in lgbt world.I say that to my bff, im afraid to tell my parents, its better to them do dont know it.They expect to i have a man on wihte horse, and 3 kids.Sometimes they are so conservative.
I think that im in love in one girl from school.Oh, she is so beautiful and clever.Sometimes, she touch my fingers and arms...i fant to feel her lips everywhere...

[Maytheforcebewithu]

I kissed my best friend in middle school. And it was all downhill from there :P

[Maria16 Here]

When I was a little girl I had brief little crushes on boys, but when I reached age 8+ I noticed myself staring more at my girl friends and other females at pool and beach and in the changing rooms/showers. I started to think I might be gay and that my earlier attraction to males was simply because that's what we're taught that we're "supposed" to feel. That lasted for 6 months to a year, with me smitten with my older sister's friends. Then some of my brother's friends started hanging around more, and I realized I still found boys attractive. Confused, I started talking to my older sister about this and she explained the difference between straight, gay, and bisexual to me. That was a revelation! I knew immediately that bisexual described me. After talking to my sister about it for a few more weeks, I told her that I thought I was bi, and she hugged me and told me that she loved me no matter what and not to hide who I am or feel ashamed. I got incredibly lucky with such an open minded and tolerant sister.

It is nice havind such open minded sisters. I first found out when with a sleepover with a girlfriend and some experimenting gave us both great pleasure. I was confused but also talked to my sister and learned she was bi too and she explained a lot to me. Now so very comfortable with being bi.

[HunterDaniels]

I first knew I liked boys when I was like 7 years old.
I use to watch a show called The Suite Life of Zack and Cody on the Disney channel. I use to think they were cute and I had a dream that I was kissing them! Lol :lol:
I had lots of little crushes like that on celebrities. But it was more serious when I was 10yo and we went to stay in Maine for 3 weeks at our cottage. I met this kid named Owen who was 12. He told me he was gay. I never met anyone that was gay before. We hung out everyday for 2 weeks and one day he asked me if I knew I was gay. I told him I wasn't. But he kept saying I was. He said he could tell that I was.
We talked for a long time and finally I realized he was right. He asked me if I ever kissed a boy or did other things with boys and I told him no. He said he would fool around with me if I wanted to.
I DID WANT TO!
But I was too scared. I just said No that's okay. And he said that's ok you should only do it if you're ready.
Now it's 3 years later and whenever I think about it I wish I said yes! Lol
But it's ok cuz I was only 10 and still innocent and stuff. He gave me his email and we sent emails for a couple months after but we never talk anymore.
I still can look him up on Facebook but he's so different now.

Lol, my coming out was a weird situation.

So I was going out with a girl for like a year, and then during that time I was kinda starting to fancy other guys, but I didn't think much of it, blamed it on "curiosity and hormones" yeah, aha, I used that old excuse....

So over time I dated multiple other girls, and just wasn't really enjoying the experience that much, and that's when gay porn and flirting with guys started to happen. So for a while I labelled myself as curious, and then I jumped to the next stepping stone, bisexual. So for a while I was "bisexual" and all was fine, I convinced myself I still liked girls, and liked guys on the side. So I continued with this for a year, and told my close friends. Over this time, I grew way further away from liking women, to liking men. I was determined I wasn't gay, and I was bi. How wrong was I..... Anyway, I was out as "bi" to my close friends and things were going "fine" like that for a while. Then one night I was talking with a friend, and we were on the topic of my sexuality for whatever reason, and he just straight up said to me "I know you're gay, why don't you just admit it" and of course I got angry, and battled him about this for well over 2 hours on FB, and we both cooled down and he said it again, and behind my computer screen something inside me clicked.... I was hiding my real self for so damn long, and it hurt me each day. I broke down. Majorly, broke down. I began to well up and I just burst into uncontrollable sobbing. I just said yes to him. Yes, yes, yes. It had been in front of my eyes since I was probably 12 or 13 and I couldn't admit it to myself until I was 16. For years, it just tore away at me. I chuckle looking back on this time now, how naive I was, and how I tried to convince myself I was "normal", but since coming out I've realised this is who I have always been, the real me, the NORMAL me. I lived a lie far too long, and it took a toll. Since coming out, I've been so much happier with myself. I've been true and honest, and a weight has been lifted from me. My advice to anyone who is struggling with their sexuality, screw what anyone else thinks. Be yourself, be true and be happy!! You won't regret it, and it'll hurt you far less than the pain of lying to youself for years.

This is a good story. I think this could be a lot of people's story. It goes like this for a lot of gayness from what I read on other message boards and stuff.
Isn't it weird how other people know you're gay before you do?! Lol
You've heard about "gaydar"? (Gay radar)
I def have it and there's a friend of mine that I'm soooo sure is gay but he still says he's straight. He's always sad and never had a girlfriend. It's so obvious to me. I want really bad to confront him because I think he would feel better if he came to terms with who he is. But I just won't do it. I'm to afraid I would lose him as a friend.

Posts merged. Please use the 'edit' button next time. aNdMoRe~

[outback4]

This is a good story. I think this could be a lot of people's story. It goes like this for a lot of gayness from what I read on other message boards and stuff.
Isn't it weird how other people know you're gay before you do?! Lol
You've heard about "gaydar"? (Gay radar)
I def have it and there's a friend of mine that I'm soooo sure is gay but he still says he's straight. He's always sad and never had a girlfriend. It's so obvious to me. I want really bad to confront him because I think he would feel better if he came to terms with who he is. But I just won't do it. I'm to afraid I would lose him as a friend.

That was a good story, very realistic

Don't bother your friend about it. What if he's trying to accept himself and you push him to admit he's gay to others when he's still trying to admit it to himself? it's better to let him figure it out. The story on here had someone who knew they were gay but hid it and denied it. Atleast give your friend the opportunity to fully understand themselves inside and then when it's obvious to you they know they're gay and have come to terms, that's when you can tell them you know too, and it's ok. Don't push it on them. :)

[Gayjack20]

I was 12 when i knew i was bi after i kissed my best friend

[egrea9]

I thought I was straight but then I started to REALY pay attention to blokes in high school and I knew something was up. I was finally assured I had a strong preference for guys when I started having sex with half of them. I guess that made me a slut but in the process, I certainly found out :) I don't do it so much now and have moved on to more permanent relations and have started my career to.

[Jockck14]

I'm only 13 now, but I knew earlier at about 11 years old. A guy on my hockey team slept over, made a move on me and I loved it! :metal:

[emsvg]

I'd always had a feeling that I wasn't as into boys as my friends were. At first, I figured that I was just focused on school, but then I found myself staring at other girls and thinking about what I'd be like kiss one of them. Eventually, I came to terms with the fact that I was bi. I have yet to come out to my family!

[Sublime Demonz]

I always knew, ever since I was about four. I had the biggest crush on a girl I was in pre-k with, but I never ever said anything about it to anyone. I was a very quiet kid and tended to keep things to myself anyway. But I knew that that was something I shouldn't vocalize, even though at that age I had no idea what I was really feeling or what it even meant. The part of my family that really means the most to me is very religious, and therefore never supported that kind of thing. So, as I got older, I convinced myself to only go after guys. I dated 6 guys but never felt the desire to be intimate with them. I never kissed one, never even got close to anything like that because I just simply did not want that with them. I kept denying to myself that I was attracted to girls, because I never wanted my family to know. When I got into high school, it became harder and harder for me to hide and deny. Just over this past summer, I finally (and accidentally) came out to my family, with my friends already having known for a couple years. Turns out, they could set aside their beliefs for me, and support me 100%. Now, I have a girlfriend who is the light of my life and I couldn't be any happier. All that anxiety over my sexuality turned out to be more than worth it, and I wouldn't change anything. :)

[Lolly16]

my friend told me it when we were in bus , ahaha

[Chrits]

I don't know my sexuality yet, but I'll tell you what happened to make me curious. So, about five years ago, I was about 13 at the time. My mom had a boyfriend who had 3 sons, a pair of twins, who I'll call J&J, who were each 12, and a 14 year old, who I'll call Trent. Anyway, whenever they came over, J&J would share our guest room, and Trent would share my room with me. So one night, we settled into bed, my head at the head of the bed, Trent's head at the foot of the bed. I figure I was probably wearing pajama bottoms or just underwear. Things get a little blurry, but soon, I found myself awake, and to the best of my knowledge, Trent was asleep. I noticed he was hogging the covers, so I kinda pulled them towards me and it happens. The covers pulled back and I saw that he was naked from the waste down. He was uncircumcised and much bigger than I was. I touched it once or twice before trying to fall asleep, but not without a massive hard-on. I never brought it up to him, and he never mentioned it, so I guess he didn't know it happened. Ever since then, I've been curious about guys. I've never told this sorry to anyone before, so I hope you guys enjoyed.

[hesaidhesaid]

I had a crush on my best friend (who is still one of my best friends) who supported me no matter what. He helped me talk it out when I first admitted it to him- including giving me my first same-sex kiss to demonstrate whether I really liked it or not. As a result, he helped me a lot in determining where I was in my life and now, I'm bi/straight :)

[Dead Account]

Did some mutual masturbation with another guy and realized how awesome it was... ha ha...

[davdev17]

I likes Zac Efron in High School Musical

[KingWavy]

still deny it but I liked masturbating with guys haha and comparing

[jdhud024]

Basically, I realized that I found guys attractive. At first I pushed the thought away, because I thought it was a phase, and I eventually came to accept it.

Oh, being a furry (aka furfag) also helped me realize this, as I quickly discovered that furry femboys are hawt <3.

[romes3]

I always thought I was straight, until one day in 7th grade I saw myself checking out one of my friends and thinking she was really attractive, and then gradually I became romantically interested in her and ig that was the point for me.

[Cadanance00]

I'm straight but from what I get talking to people is they knew before they really got much into puberty, so that changed my opinion about whether it's their decision or were born that way.

My sister told me that at about age 10 she knew she was going to be attracted to boys but she was attracted to a couple of girls, too, and thought about doing something sexual with them. She said a lot of girls experimented on sleep overs in the 6th and 7th grades. I know that boys do, too. but it's much less accepted for boys to show any outward signs of affection than it is for girls. The pressure for boys not to be 'gay' is intense, especially around here.

[RavenGod]

I actually found out that I was bi just today. I was scrolling through some videos and came across a homemade gay porn video, and I found that I was attracted to both boys and girls. I am still more attracted to girls, though, but I do like the thought of getting it on with my friend (he's a dude) :wub:

[jdhud024]

I'm straight but from what I get talking to people is they knew before they really got much into puberty, so that changed my opinion about whether it's their decision or were born that way.

My sister told me that at about age 10 she knew she was going to be attracted to boys but she was attracted to a couple of girls, too, and thought about doing something sexual with them. She said a lot of girls experimented on sleep overs in the 6th and 7th grades. I know that boys do, too. but it's much less accepted for boys to show any outward signs of affection than it is for girls. The pressure for boys not to be 'gay' is intense, especially around here.

This. This is so true, I feel like everywhere the pressure to be "not gay" is intense. It fucking sucks, but whatever.

And I agree with the whole knowing before puberty thing, I knew pretty much from the start that I found guys attractive, and not girls as much. I didn't actually start accepting it or even being ok with it myself until a year after puberty started (I didn't even become fully comfortable with telling myself "Holy shit, I'm gay and it's ok" until about six months ago at most), but I pretty much always knew that I was different. Especially when on multiple occasions, all my friends are like "Look at that girl she is hot" and I would basically say "That's cool" and go back to my phone or whatever I was doing before. The reason it took me longer to actually become ok with it is because of the pressure that I feel society (at least in Alabama and the surrounding states) puts on everyone to be straight and straight only. I mean, I grew up being told about how I need to go to college first before marrying a woman and having kids, and that is one example I hear often that made me think for a while "I must marry a woman. I'm only going through phases". Anyway. I've gone on a rant for too long, but I have no other place to put my thoughts right now, so oh well.

TL;DR: Society fucking sucks sometimes.

[logan4sho]

I think I knew when I was in junior high. I noticed boys as something I was infatuated with. I looked at their bodies. I didn't get it at first but I knew I was different. Another big clue was when I started beating off to gay porn. I said things about boys that made my friends wonder about me. I had to kind of censor myself. But I started to admit it to myself when I was 13 and came out to my bff. Now I'm totally good with it. I'm pretty much out but I don't make a big deal about it.

[Miss Ophelia]

When I found myself staring at other girls in the showers after PE class.
My thoughts got confirmed at a friends sleepover.

[The Boom]

I found out when I was in bed with a guy for a sleep over with my friends. I don't date this guy I just sleep with em. I think it's the same with a lot of guys... I mean aren't a lot of guys gay just to have sex with them?

[Katie NYC]

Ever since I started feeling sexual attraction towards anyone, I felt it for both genders. I remember thinking how strange it was (I still think it's strange not that I'm judging) to be only attracted to only boys or only girls. There's too much beauty out there to deny half of it.

[ERLJ]

I always knew from a kid, this is embarrassing, but I used to fancy cartoon characters obviously when i was very young. But before you come out to anybody else you need to come out to yourself and that took me a long time. :yeah:

[Matryoshkasystem]

Well...sorta complicated, since I'm ace-flux. Though I guess I realized the allo part of my sexuality was gay at eleven really, since I was getting off to guys more often-eventually only-, though didn't accept it till like this past year.

[kyrocks03]

For me it was when I was 11 years old, I started noticing how I was always looking at boys and wondering about their penis and how it looked. Then when ever my friends would be talking about girls and their boobs and bodies and stuff, I would just say ya and not really care much. I knew then I was different than most boys. When I was 12 and started experimenting a bit with a friend I knew for sure, especially after I developed strong feelings for him. I am totally attracted to boys and have very little interest in girls at all. I recently came out to my parents as gay because I didn't want to be a liar and figured they knew anyway which turned out to be true.

[Skylark]

For me it was when I was 11 years old, I started noticing how I was always looking at boys and wondering about their penis and how it looked. Then when ever my friends would be talking about girls and their boobs and bodies and stuff, I would just say ya and not really care much. I knew then I was different than most boys. When I was 12 and started experimenting a bit with a friend I knew for sure, especially after I developed strong feelings for him. I am totally attracted to boys and have very little interest in girls at all. I recently came out to my parents as gay because I didn't want to be a liar and figured they knew anyway which turned out to be true.

This was how it worked for me, except it was girls too.

[Fallen angel4970]

To put it bluntly a boy locked lips unexpectedly with me and I liked it

[MMDcurious]

I am new here, and still curious actually I'm not sure if I am gay, or bi. :-/

[NatteDroom03]

I was about 11 when I found out that I swing both ways. It happened when my sister had one of her friends over, and she totally turned me on. I spent the rest of the day in my room, feeling horny and devastated at the same time, asking myself: "Why me??", told myself lies upon lies until I eventually accepted the truth.
I'm totally cool with it now. :)

[Ineedyou]

I was like 9 and I saw a guy shirtless and I had a weird feeling, I guess that's when I first found out I was gay.

[VTGEEK14]

when I got horny from seeing a penis

[Just JT]

Not sure how I've never seen this thread.

Think I always knew. I remember when I was real little when I'd have sleepovers with my 2 best friends we'd take baths together, and we'd talk about stuff and I knew I liked what i saw. Didn't like what we talked about so much. So yeah, that's boys, not girls so much. So that's how I just knew. And my friends were yearly cool about it to.

[Electricboy207]

I found out that I was bi when i liked a girl in my class in 5th grade, but at my camp there was a cute boy that I had a crush on, and I said in my head, "I think I'm bi"

[Pika2001]

About a year ago, I wasn't sure whether I was bi or straight because I'm emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to girls, but I'm sexually attracted to guys but not emotionally or physically attracted to them. Then I went on Google and found out that there are sexual orientations other than striat, bi or gay, I read the definition's of the sexual orientations and found out that Bi-Curious described me perfectly.

So ya, that's how I found outlet I was Bi-Curious

[RichD]

I was looking on Wikipedia one day (of all places) for research, when I was 12 or so. I came across the page for the Human Body, which included an actual photograph of both the male and female human body. I found myself attracted more to and fantasizing about the guy instead of the girl, and later on found myself getting turned on by naked guys rather than women. Then I got into gay porn and whatnot and I KNEW I loved sexy guys. And whenever I went into the men's changeroom at the pool I'd try to sneak glances without beeing too obvious or weird.

I don't think I could ever marry a guy though. I'd rather like to marry a girl and start a traditional family, so I think I might be bi-curious, more like a stage I might be going through right now. idk.

[pjones]

have loved my best friend since we were 6 and became friends with benefits when we discovered masturbating at 12. we "fell in love" at 14 and at 14.5 went back to being fwb. we're 16 now and realize we are in love. still tease each other when we physically react "below the belt" when we see a pretty girl in a bathing suit at the beach.

[Pat the Bunny]

About a year ago, I wasn't sure whether I was bi or straight because I'm emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to girls, but I'm sexually attracted to guys but not emotionally or physically attracted to them. Then I went on Google and found out that there are sexual orientations other than striat, bi or gay, I read the definition's of the sexual orientations and found out that Bi-Curious described me perfectly.

So ya, that's how I found outlet I was Bi-Curious

shit i think im bi-curious, or just a hormonal teenager who knows

[Vermilion]

shit i think im bi-curious, or just a hormonal teenager who knows

Nothing wrong with that

[Pat the Bunny]

Nothing wrong with that

i know, i actually kinda like it, ill probably still call myself straight but bi-curious sounds a lot better than ''straight but also kinda into guys but not in all ways but like i like the idea of a relationship with a guy but sexually they don't like turn me on although im far from grossed out at the idea of like doing things but yeah", which is how i've been thinking about it

[SeansLittleBro]

Actually I'm not sure what I am, although I tend toward gay, but still figuring it all out. My older brothers are both gay. I am a twin (younger by 5 minutes) and my twin brother is straight, I know (but has been with some guys) -- Revised on Sept. 27, 2017

[novellam]

I want to clarify before beginning that I'm pan (sort of like bi, but more pretentious) so my experience is a little different
Sixth grade was when I first really found out that being gay was a thing. It was sort of weird that this was the first time I had really realized this considering the fact that my mom had her gay friend and his boyfriend come over, like several times, but what can I say. For me it more of a "how could I not be okay with dating a woman?" than like "this is a woman I want to date", which made me question myself for a while, but in the summer after seventh grade, I met the girl who changed my perspective. Katie was a small, jet black haired girl, who I met as she was carrying two guitars on her back, an amp in one hand, and a music stand in the other. I offered to help her with something, but she refused and my attraction was born. This was at a music camp, and she was in a "class" with me and I spent every moment I could starring at her. She had these adorable green crocs that she wore, and to this day every time I see a pair, my heart beats faster. Nothing happened with her, I think we only said three more sentences to each other, but, at least for the remainder of high school, I don't think I'll be able to forget her.

[Molly242]

All of my friends were into guys starting in middle school, and I wasnt. Also, i made out with a girl at a new years party in 10th grade. I like guys too though.

[Tudix]

when I got horny from seeing a penis
true:))

[Tudix]

Actually I'm not sure what I am, although I tend toward gay, but still figuring it all out. My older brothers are both gay. I am a twin (younger by 5 minutes) and my twin brother is straight, I know (but has been with some guys)
Wow..that's some interesring story

[Ansonnn]

I only realized I was bi but swing towards gay more when around 12ish I started to get more and more turned on by guys than girls. I mean if I see a really hot girl I would get turned on but it seems that I like guys more. Hell, I had more sexual encounters with guys than girls. My cousin came out as gay a few months ago. My 9yo brother is still too ping to tell but he seems a bit gay.

[Dragonmaster69]

I was 14 when I knew for sure I was BI

[EvaNL]

I guess I always knew that I lean towards girls. I don't think there was a specific point in my life that made me aware of it.

[mick01]

One of the clues for me, I remember in grade school and needing to change in locker rooms for different reasons and I'd get to see all the boys in just there underwear (no one would take their underwear off) and then going home and jerking off thinking about some of the hot boys.

[christophe]

When i stayed over with a friend and he masturbated me with 12.

[Ojcc02]

I masturbated to straight and gay poem from age 9. I think I always knew I was bi

[Brightwolf]

I used to masturbate with my cousin under the covers when we slept at our grandmothers house...I was like 12-ish and neither of us would hit puberty for a long time but that's the first time I remember being really turned on with a guy in the room. Then gym class happened during 9th grade, after I had just hit puberty...that's when I realized. I still think my cousin's gay or at least curious cause he casually admitted to experimenting with one of the friends at his school, which was interesting to me.

[sktrboychgo]

Kind of always knew, just didn't have the words for it

[RavenTheGoddess]

I've always just had a desire for a romantic relationship, and when I was young, I thought boys could only date girls, but I started to have feelings for my friend (he's male, and at the time, I didn't know that I was mtf). I approached him one day and kissed him, and I remember feeling really awkward about it, but it didn't feel wrong. Thankfully we were alone when it happened, otherwise I'd never live that down (you know how cruel little kids can be :p). We never talked about it again, but ever since then, I knew something was different. I started becoming more accepting to the fact that I liked both genders.

[Raven Foxx]

Long story warning. So, a year ago, people in my class were making jokes about this girl, and how this boy supposedly like her. They made fun of him with an imaginary scenario about them first meeting, with the boy saying, "She turns me on!!!". It was funny at the time. Then I remembered a thing from years before that, about me saying I would like to marry the same girl that the boy liked. I wanted to marry her because she was pretty. At that time, it wasn't possible for two women to get married, so my dream was crushed, and I forgot about it. Recently I started having feelings for another girl, and that confirmed my sexuality: I was a lesbian.

[breaux]

I always kinda knew, but after i started listening to Frank Ocean's songs and lyrics i accepted it.

[Tommy Lion]

I started realising it not very long ago. I had a girlfriend last year and I was very much in love with her. So I recognised the feeling when I fell in love with my best friend. We are best friends for many years, but recently it became more. That was a weird moment. Still not sure what happened exactly, but we talked about stuff and then we looked at each other, we both got tears in our eyes and then we kissed. Since then I am soooo in love with him!! And luckily he is in love with me too. My dad told me it is possible that I am bisexual.

[johnmit13]

I remeber in year 6 (just started to have sexual thoughts), i liked both girls and boys a bit. But then the realisation i might not be completely straight is whnwe went on a school trip for a weekend and i spent the entirity of it fnatasising about me and my mate. It was only recently that i admitted to myself i was Bi though, before that i just ignored it

[yeehaw]

Never really realised til my best friend, now girlfriend came out to me as bi and had a crush on me for nearly a year. It made me realise that the friendship that I had with her wasn't just friendship and that I had never come to realise my true feelings for her until then. We're both out as les now.

[isko]

I noticed when I was about 12 that I would look at guys and think that they were handsome, I kinda forgot about it for a while and even when I was fairly certain that I was gay I went out with a girl briefly, At the end of primary/elementary school I really started noticing that I was really attracted to other guys and that I would start viewing very soft/not even gay porn on the internet, I really noticed it in year 7 when I got a crush on this guy in my class ( I still have a massive crush on him) and that I was attracted to some other guys. I was also attracted to many straight friends. At the end of year 7 I came out to someone and it felt so fucking good to get it out; I felt really gay for the rest of the summer. My mum overheard me asking a friend if he was gay and she started questioning me about it; I told her that I wasnt sure but I never came out for sure to her, I will someday and I know that she will be 110% fine with it becasue my grandfather is also gay and nobody in my extended family has a problem with it. I recently told a girl in my class that I was gay and it was tons of fun talking about guys with her(for both of us). I want to come out publicly and maybe find a boyfriend once others get curious, I am really happy that I am gay and I am not ashamed of it

[Omnomnom]

I noticed that I'm bi last year (when I was 12) when my best friend was jokingly kissing my neck, and it turned me on.

[tdog123]

i got attracted to my best friend and then i started to like other guys and thought they were hot. i also watched gay porn

[saspurs607]

When I was 15 I saw gay porn for the first time and I loved it. Ever since Ive been bicurious

[Andari]

For me there wasnt a single moment where i suddenly knew, it was a process where ever since i remember myself i always was more attracted to males then females

its something that you just know what you are when you realize that you're the only one in class who doesn't trade pics of hot female models and when you realize how much time you spend looking at the hot boys from your class when at the pool, you just don't know what its called

its during age 12 when i slowly learned what gay is together with discovering that theres more then one thing you can do with your cock and everything else that comes with puberty

of course being gay is not mainly about that it does help you understand what and who you are even when you still dont know what word describes it, you still know

[Seraph]

i grew up with two cousins of the same age as me, and I was always attracted to them. We used to kiss and caress each other endlessly. When we finally learned what it meant to be gay or bisexual, it was clear to me that I was bisexual and my two cousins were gay to each other.

[SeansLittleBro]

At 9 I had an "experience" with an older boy at a camp I attended. Now some may think that this was abuse but it was a boy about 12 at the time and he showed me how to masturbate. From that point on I would think about it and only about boys when I pleasured myself. I knew I was gay though when I was 11 when all I could think of was one boy in class. As the talk was about all the girls developing breasts among my peers my only thought was about the boys developing penis'. As time went by I did "try" to be straight with some trial with girls and found that my physical reaction went "south" as I couldn't get hard unless i excited myself and when I went to penetrate I immediately went soft. When I was with a boy that never happened. So the "physical" was definitely more toward another ale. But even emotionally I felt closer to guys than any girl. I wanted to spend my life with a guy -- not a girl. I talked with my older brothers who both are gay and our feelings paralleled which then truly made me know that I was gay.

[PumpedUpKicks22228]

ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:

wow my story is where I went to my friends house when I was 9 and we were really close friends so I just pulled down his pants and sucked him off and he sucked me off too

[KatieKat]

Known as long as I can remember, but wasn't really 'sure' I liked girls until my best friend kissed me during a sleepover.

[benster]

Got a crush on someone and played truth or dare 😊

[Kaeneus]

I only started identifying as a bisexual male earlier this year

[Lukaszislukasz]

i was playing cricket for school and when fielding couldn't stop staring at the batters bum which was sticking towards me

[NeonBlueButterfly]

I can't point to a particular moment or anything like that. It's just that when I started to become attracted to other people, it was always other girls that I was attracted to.

[Nnoki]

I got a pretty long story (that i might write in a blog here soon)
But the short version is that i fell in love with a friend at middle school, he still doesn't know (it's been 5 years since my crush started), actually the poem in my signature is kinda directed to him

[ncraw]

i always knew and my parents never treated same sex attraction different from opposite sex attraction. like they'd always say 'boyfriend or girlfriend' when takling about my future

[Brad.1.6]

Well I’ve always had a thing for guys, but only till not so long ago I decided to let others know as I wasn’t 100% sure.

[crustacean]

I couldn't deny it any longer when I crushed HARD on another girl. (bisexual btw).:yeah:

[Brad.1.6]

Meh I’ve always been gay when I only realised when I was 12 or 13 at the start of puberty. So I’ve always been 100% sure I was sexually attracted to Men.

[CnfusdTeen192]

I don’t know to I’m super confused I don’t know what I like.

[NotSky]

I first dated a girl for 2 months in fourth grade and I though I only liked girls. Then in fifth grade, I frequently experimented with my first cousin once removed and I realized I didn't mind either as long as they were clean. Now, I'm bi. There's nothing wrong with doing so.

[Chrisbm]

I was a junior when I found out I was bisexual

[Svladimere074]

i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!! :P

I found out I was interested in guys when I was still in fifth grade. And started trying things with my friends in the neighborhood. I think that more or less comes down to your personal preference. Which is based off of what gender your like be sexually active with and romantic with. If it is split 50/50 or even 90/10 your bi. If you just don't really like girls or remotely want to do anything with them in the sexual nature. Then gay. Either way they are both just Label and don't mean anything really. Just society's way of making sense of things by constantly labeling things. Just be proud of who you are. And don't sweat the small stuff.

[VirtUalAwsomeD4N_]

I was in year 6 and I remember my friends were talking about girls and I always felt left out so I began to question my self. When I went to secondary school I remember finding girls attractive but I found boys equally attractive and that was when I finally relised that I am bisexual.

[Alumni]

I really used to ask myself if I was gay or bisexual.

Where I'm from, guys hang out with guys and chicks are with chicks. I have always been raised with women, so I always felt like I got along with them better. They're much more subtle and understanding, yet brash when needed to.

I guess there were times when women to me felt obsolete because of how often I would be around them. There were times where I felt like a male was best suited for my standards in relationships.

I never got into depth about it, there were times when I shook it of and considered it a normality.

My family members were (somewhat) unsupportive of homosexuality and made it noticeable in small specks, such as asking me if I like 'the soft hands of a woman or the rough hands of a man'.

Didn't really get into my head much, but definitely made me feel discouraged to be open-minded about my likings. After that, I kind of got over it. I'm into girls and that's really what feels good to me.

I sometimes question my likings for guys. I guess the absence of a dormant figure in my life makes me want to fill that void sometimes. But I think I had to understand that I shouldn't do that in order to suit that, I should love someone out of the passion of who they are.

To be honest, my sexuality is straight, but curiousity knows no bounds. I'm not aroused by penises, even my own seems gross to me. But the raw passion in a relationship is what I like, and I have dated girls before and enjoyed it, but the connection was halfway.

Just have always been naturally more open to guys than girls even though I hang around girls more often. Never understood why.

I am straight, but confusingly straight and having no curiousities other than the questions I ask myself. I don't know man.

[Victor]

the first inkling was when i realised i had a crush on the boy who bullied me, but he looked all twinky and femmenine so i thought i was into girls? but nope, after experimenting, i knew for sure.

[Katie2003]

I started to realize a few years ago that I was paying more attention to girls that I thought were cute or whatever, than I did to boys. There was always some attraction going on even at around 10 or 11, which got more intense after my periods started. So when I was given permission by mom to start dating, naturally I wanted to go out with girls and that's what I did. Now I'm 15 and after dating for well over a year, I have been out with 5 girls and one boy. I'm very clear on liking the girls more, but not ruling out boys totally (they are fun to hang around with) so I consider myself bisexual at this point. That's subject to rethinking and possibly changing to lesbian as I get older and after dating more people. Right now, I want to make myself attractive to other girls so more of them will ask me for dates, and I'm not very interested in having any new boys ask me out.

[Char03]

I realised when i had just turned 13 and had a crush on my bff

[HeyCameron]

I'm definitely not straight because I have the fattest crush on Louis Tomlinson :wub:

But I think I first noticed I liked other guys around the same time I liked other girls. I remember not understanding why I thought boys at school were cute; I thought something was wrong with me (and I thought it would go away too). Well it didn't :P

[Pultost]

When a girl in class hugged me a couple of years ago, and it turned me on, I realized I swing both ways.

[Louis42]

I guess I've kind of always known, other guys were always wank fodder, it wasn't until I was about 15 I fell in love with another guy and realized what it actually meant and how difficult it could make my life. We still haven't ever formally met, but I was an emotional wreck for over a year. As my signature says I'm still trying to figure things out. I'm lonely, don't want kids, not looking for sex or particularly interested in the whole "scene." Just want someone I click with, I care far more about what is in someones head than hanging between their legs.

Sex is nice don't get me wrong, but I'm far more interested in the emotional and romantic aspect of a relationship, and just seeing where the physical goes. This seems to put me at a disadvantage with almost everyone and it's depressing; like I'm obligated to immediately be into hook-ups or something, I don't know. Sorry, I didn't mean to be so lengthy.

I've come out to my mother and a few others, and anyone I trust who asks the right questions. Someone recently said I was a pandemisexual, which makes sense.

New here, so hello everyone. :P

[pageninetynine]

In about 7th grade, after 13 years of trying to be straight, I finally was honest with myself and was like okay, guess I like dick.

[saderbowbader]

i knew i am because i have NEVER had a crush on a girl ive only had crushes on guys

[Jeff8]

ive only done stuff with girls but i kno a good guy when i see one..

;-) yup.

[LITHIUM101]

In year 8 i thought a guy in my year level look rly handsome and hot and i never looked at him that way untill i was like 14 to this day he still turns me on and my biesexuality and curiousity took off from there
I go to an all boys school and i dont see girls that often so maybe that had something to do with it?

[Kikjake310896]

When i liked boys more, check out my user name if u wanna kik

[MaxKa]

ive always been pretty feminine growing up, i only really started to come to terms with it when i was 16

[Xxrdgfinestmxxx]

I once got supper horny and I found a chat for teens and got to talking about sex with this guy and agreed to help each other out.... needless to say I ducked him till he came then he tried to do same that's when I found out I rather suck then get sucked

[SarahSweetie]

I had sex with a female and really enjoyed it thats how

[xSashax]

i do much more things with boys but i always know im bi cuz i just feel that i can find both genders attractive and a turn on. i may not have as many crushes on girls as boys but it never bothers me to think about being intimate with a girl.

[KyleM76]

I figured I was when I started looking at other guys and wanting to know what they looked like naked. I was sure after the first time I messed around with a guy and loved it. Always been attracted to girls too tho

[jellytoast]

I used to share a room with my sister and she used to masturbate openly. She wasn't very subtle about it and I would hear her doing it in the middle of the night. I got really turned on by it and I started to realize I was attracted to what was going on and wanted to watch.

[RCT109]

I was 17 at the time maybe even 16, and i was hanging out with a guy friend, who was like a brother to me. He was bi and open about it. IDR exactly what happened but we ended up talking about this one guy and we sounded like 2 girls talking it was funny looking back on it. He and i both paused when i was like he's cute but/// .
then we both laughed and went on with the conversation. then over pizza that night we actually talked about me coming out as bi

[Davidtexas78666]

Experimented with guys sexually starting around 10. Never felt wrong to me, but I kept it completely secret because my family would have disapproved.

[alex913]

I’d known that I was attracted to guys and not girls a few years ago, but I didn’t know what that meant. This past summer I watched love, Simon which made me realize that I was gay, and of course the underwear aisle

[arnorway]

I’d known that I was attracted to guys and not girls a few years ago, but I didn’t know what that meant. This past summer I watched love, Simon which made me realize that I was gay, and of course the underwear aisle

that movie is awesome, i watched it several times!
and sorry to intrude, am not gay or bi but a friend of all of you :yes:

[JakeMakes]

Most of my life I liked boys. When puberty started I felt sexual attraction for guys. At first I didn't get it, but I figured it out. Locker rooms at school were my biggest clue. I accepted myself as gay when I was 13, came out after that.

[JakeMakes]

and of course the underwear aisle

This! I kept showing my straight friend underwear ads on my phone. He was like wtf that's gay. Then I figured out what "gay" meant.

[thatboi]

From age of 6-7 years I liked boys, I liked playing withem, spending time with them
And at the age of 12-13 when I began to masturbate I noticed that I always fantasise
about boys and then I had a friend with who I saw that I prefer being close with boys
than with the girls
And today at age of 15 I am certain I'm gay

[Natacha]

If figured I am bi when I one day in school had had sports and showered with my classmates (girls) and I had an urge to masturbate immediately when I got home. Pictures of my friends popped into my mind all the time and the thought of giving oral too.

[SethfromMI]

Most of my life I liked boys. When puberty started I felt sexual attraction for guys. At first I didn't get it, but I figured it out. Locker rooms at school were my biggest clue. I accepted myself as gay when I was 13, came out after that.

That's pretty much how I confirmed I was bi. I knew it wasn't usual for guys to be attracted to other guys in their underwear. I still knew I liked girls, but yeah figured it out in a similar way.

[nocturn dreamer]

ok so this is just kinda so funny, like when I was 11, I was always looking at this girl and like "oh man I WISH i could be a boy so I could ask her out or kiss her ! they are so lucky…" and i had those thoughts over and over again (i don't even know why i didn't asked me any questions sooner like ??? it was so obvious ???) and then one day, i just ended up thinking "I wish i could kiss her" and the my mind went like "OMG WHAT NOW ???" and long story short that is how I realised I also loved girls

[MasonBA]

when my friends started talking about girls being pretty and sexy it wasn't anything i was interested in. knew i liked looking at boys and their penises a whole lot more, that was at 12 but now at 13 i know and accept that i'm gay

[arca]

Saw a really hot boy at the park, and it was like something suddenly snapped - i knew exactly then

People still dont know though which is funny

[Drewwho]

I was 14 and a half and had already had a couple of girlfriends before. Nothing beyond a bit of kissing and a little bit of feeling around though. I can honestly say that beyond some comparing with other lads in the changing rooms, I had never thought about boys in that way before. I was at my best friend’s house for a sleepover. Both of us shared his bed and we were in our underwear. He told me that he had something to tell me, but it took him ages to actually say anything. Then he blurted out that he thought he might be gay. We talked about it and I constantly reassured him that I had no problem with it and that he’s always be my best friend. He asked if he could kiss me and I said okay. I didn’t hate it and the world didn’t come to an end, but I didn’t really feel the spark as it were.

We continued snogging through the night and that lead to us playing with each other’s *bits*. It felt good.

The next day we talked some more and he asked me out as his boyfriend. I didn’t feel comfortable with this, even though I said yes at the time. A couple of weeks later and I told him that while I thought us messing about was okay, I didn’t want to be his boyfriend. I knew instinctively that he was much more into it than I was and that felt like I was lying to him. I broke it off. Our friendship was strained for a while, but we got over that. We still mess around together and I also mess around with some of my other friends too, mostly out of boredom, something to do or to let off steam.

I don’t call myself bisexual. It’s only girls that I seem to be able to forge a physical and emotional bond with. With lads, it’s just about the sex, nothing more. I can’t seem to make any emotional connection with a boy. I am attracted to some lads physically, seeing a guy with a fit body does turn me on. I’ve even had a handful of random hook ups, I don’t go looking for them, but I’ve been chatted up at parties and decided to go with it. I’ve not gone all the way with a guy. I’m not ruling it out, but I’m not sure how I feel about it.

So, I would describe myself as mostly straight and I’m quite comfortable with that label for now. In the future? Who knows?

[Knightley]

I've always know, When I was little I had crushes on Ariel for the little mermaid and Jasmin from Aladdin. My mum and dad never made a big deal of it so I never learned it was some thing to hide about myself. I'm almost sad I never got to have that big coming out moment :( but I'm also really glad. I've heard people stories of all the anxiety and fear of coming to terms with there sexuality and having to tell people and I'm sorry people have to go through that for something as simple as the sexuality

[Pultost]

I've always know, When I was little I had crushes on Ariel for the little mermaid and Jasmin from Aladdin. My mum and dad never made a big deal of it so I never learned it was some thing to hide about myself. I'm almost sad I never got to have that big coming out moment :( but I'm also really glad. I've heard people stories of all the anxiety and fear of coming to terms with there sexuality and having to tell people and I'm sorry people have to go through that for something as simple as the sexuality

I'm pleased to hear that it was no problem for you. :) It wasn't an issue for me either, being raised by two moms and all. I wish more people had it just as easy, but unfortunately that isn't the case. :/

[KAG2020]

I think I had always known, but it was my first kiss with a guy, that made me realize I am Gay af.

[cozoe]

I was 13, a friend and I were both at a school dance by ourselves so we danced together. Being close to her made me feel things I had never felt from being close to a boy at other dances or on a date. That was when I first realized.

[Karalectric]

I am bi but it took me a while to work things out. Growing up, especially in jr high, i guess i always knew but was not quite in a place to name it. Like i would look at other girls, but who doesn't at our age? Glancing at others, being curious, you know. That's normal. I would tell myself i am just curious, maybe more than most girls that is for sure. The turn in thinking was at the new years eve party, my funny and adorable friend joked that since we were both at there alone she was gonna kiss me at midnight. Haha, i thought. Very funny. Well turns out she did! :eek: And i liked it. :wub: Over the coming weeks she was just kinda playfully flirting with me when whenever we were out with friends and at school and i was like.... wait is she serious?.... finally one day i got the courage to make a move and long story short, she is my gf now. I have not told a lot of people and truthfully even telling you all this here on VT feels like a big step for me!!! I know i shouldn't feel that way. It shouldn't be a big deal.

[Shaythen]

I knew I liked girls, I really figured it out about 13 when my bff first kissed me and I really liked it

[Xxrdgfinestmxxx]

I'd say it started when I started fooling around with my younger cousin we touched each other and then other things and ever since then I find men sexually arousing but not necessarily emotionally attractive

[RCT109]

I am bi but it took me a while to work things out. Growing up, especially in jr high, i guess i always knew but was not quite in a place to name it. Like i would look at other girls, but who doesn't at our age? Glancing at others, being curious, you know. That's normal. I would tell myself i am just curious, maybe more than most girls that is for sure. The turn in thinking was at the new years eve party, my funny and adorable friend joked that since we were both at there alone she was gonna kiss me at midnight. Haha, i thought. Very funny. Well turns out she did! :eek: And i liked it. :wub: Over the coming weeks she was just kinda playfully flirting with me when whenever we were out with friends and at school and i was like.... wait is she serious?.... finally one day i got the courage to make a move and long story short, she is my gf now. I have not told a lot of people and truthfully even telling you all this here on VT feels like a big step for me!!! I know i shouldn't feel that way. It shouldn't be a big deal.

Im happy for you Kara. I know exactly how you feel. Im bi too and it feels strange to say this but Im still not out to every one


but still glad you and your gf are happy togehter
SR

[RCT109]

I was 17 at the time maybe even 16, and i was hanging out with a guy friend, who was like a brother to me. He was bi and open about it. IDR exactly what happened but we ended up talking about this one guy and we sounded like 2 girls talking it was funny looking back on it. He and i both paused when i was like he's cute but/// .
then we both laughed and went on with the conversation. then over pizza that night we actually talked about me coming out as bi

[Emilyfox]

I am bi but it took me a while to work things out. Growing up, especially in jr high, i guess i always knew but was not quite in a place to name it. Like i would look at other girls, but who doesn't at our age? Glancing at others, being curious, you know. That's normal. I would tell myself i am just curious, maybe more than most girls that is for sure. The turn in thinking was at the new years eve party, my funny and adorable friend joked that since we were both at there alone she was gonna kiss me at midnight. Haha, i thought. Very funny. Well turns out she did! :eek: And i liked it. :wub: Over the coming weeks she was just kinda playfully flirting with me when whenever we were out with friends and at school and i was like.... wait is she serious?.... finally one day i got the courage to make a move and long story short, she is my gf now. I have not told a lot of people and truthfully even telling you all this here on VT feels like a big step for me!!! I know i shouldn't feel that way. It shouldn't be a big deal.

This makes me so happy

[Elise05]

I think I never had a moment when I didn't know. In kindergarten I had a crush on a girl who sat next to me. But that was when I was 5. I just always liked girls. I remember in 4th grade my friends were talking about boys they liked. They asked me. I couldn't say what I was thinking because I didn't like any boy. I liked one of them. In fifth grade I told my mom that I liked girls. She asked if I liked boys. I said I didn't know. In sixth grade I told my mom I didn't like boys. She said so you're a lesbian then? I said, I guess so! My parents have always been supportive. My friends have too

[Molliec]

I don't really know which sounds stuipd I know but at the moment I like and am attracted to both boys and girls.
I think for me its more enjoying different experiences and discovering what my sexuality is.
I've not been with many people and I'm still a virgin in strict sense of the word but equally attracted to both genders and who knows if meet someone I want to settle down with in yeas to come maybe that will inform me of sexuality.
Sorry to ramble it's nother like clear cut for me.

[RCT109]

I don't really know which sounds stuipd I know but at the moment I like and am attracted to both boys and girls.
I think for me its more enjoying different experiences and discovering what my sexuality is.
I've not been with many people and I'm still a virgin in strict sense of the word but equally attracted to both genders and who knows if meet someone I want to settle down with in yeas to come maybe that will inform me of sexuality.
Sorry to ramble it's nother like clear cut for me.

No need to be sorry,
I actually understand and appreciate when you are coming from.

[Elise05]

I don't really know which sounds stuipd I know but at the moment I like and am attracted to both boys and girls.
I think for me its more enjoying different experiences and discovering what my sexuality is.
I've not been with many people and I'm still a virgin in strict sense of the word but equally attracted to both genders and who knows if meet someone I want to settle down with in yeas to come maybe that will inform me of sexuality.
Sorry to ramble it's nother like clear cut for me.

Some people know who they are. Some aren't sure. Some change their feelings. I think it's okay for any of these.

[Cali_Dreamer_Girl]

I was 11 when I realized I was a lesbian

[HFrint]

At the time My friend and I considered ourselves to be gay. We were both eight and in third grade. We enjoyed each other’s company many times and knew how to tweak each others delights .We both have since re-evaluated our views and consider ourselves straight. We’re still good friends I’m sure we will both never forget the special love we shared with each other.

[Jaded]

At the time My friend and I considered ourselves to be gay. We were both eight and in third grade. We enjoyed each other’s company many times and knew how to tweak each others delights .We both have since re-evaluated our views and consider ourselves straight. We’re still good friends I’m sure we will both never forget the special love we shared with each other.

That was very adorable. 8 is a little young in my eyes.

[HFrint]

That was very adorable. 8 is a little young in my eyes.

Ya... i think it was more curiosity than actual love though.

[Jaded]

Ya... i think it was more curiosity than actual love though.

Now that I think about it, I was sort of fond of my best friend at the time, but in 4th grade. I forgot all about that. I have a nephew who is going to be 9 and when I look at him playing Minecraft or with his Pokémon cards, in my mind I doubt sometimes he knows what sex is or even has a sexuality. I just realized that he most likely does.

[Croconaw]

I was around twelve years old when I started to realize.

[HFrint]

Now that I think about it, I was sort of fond of my best friend at the time, but in 4th grade. I forgot all about that. I have a nephew who is going to be 9 and when I look at him playing Minecraft or with his Pokémon cards, in my mind I doubt sometimes he knows what sex is or even has a sexuality. I just realized that he most likely does.

My friend and I began our relationship while looking online at Minecraft stuff.
We somehow began talking about arc stuff and we found ourselves looking at porn.

An hour later we decided to be boyfriends and were frotting and kissing

[Oscar-V3.0]

For about a month, I've had a crush on another boy, without really me knowing why. I'm 14.5 yo, I've had girlfriends for like 4 years, so that's really confusing :confused:

[Leilani22]

When I start to pay attention to boys and start to like boys, I also realized that girls can be hot and attractive too. So I guess probably I’m bi.

[Marissaxoxo]

I’ve always thought that girls are as attractive as boys so I guess I never really had any doubt

[musicalguy]

I always liked boys but in sixth grade i had a crush on my best friend and then i knew for sure

[RayneCloud]

I was 11 or 12 when I realized. I've been told that my mother knew much earlier and my aunt knew when I was also younger.

[musicalguy]

I always knew i kinda ignored it first then i realized that i liked my guy friends romantically

[Xxx_Lilly_xxX]

Welli started to be curious about having sex with the same gender like me at 14 :) porn movies did alot of things ot me lol

[SkylerKnight]

I kept catching myself looking and thinking about the guys on my track team. It wasn't hard to connect the dots

[Natacha]

I was admiring my female friends in the showers after sports and caught myself imagining them without clothes on. Connecting the dots...

[Berlin]

I just feel I like both boys and girls. I like girls more because I find more girls attractive but also a cute boy would attract me too.

[MentallyChaotic]

"find out"?? Heh, I don't think I ever found out, I just always liked who I liked.
I mostly like girls, but definitely not opposed to doing stuff with a guy.

[FirstMate]

I knew pretty early that I liked boys. And then I developed a crush on one of the kids on my basketball team. I wanted to sit next to him and all that kind of stuff. And I would "think" about him when I got home.

[Jericho14]

Been curious about boys since puberty but at around 16, I then realised that boys are attractive too and found myself imagining some guys during changing time in PE class. Still slightly more attracted to girls though

[Christoph.er]

Well i was watching porn for a while and I started to recognize, that i like to look at the guys too. So I did some research online and there I am - Bi

[abcdeqwe]

I just noticed I started liking guys and then I started really liking guys

[scott2002]

I'm bi, leaning a lot more toward straight. but growing up I had a same-age cousin who lived in another town and I only saw him like maybe every other month. I remember when we were like 7 or 8, he liked dolls! And his mom even got him some dolls. I thought that was strange. during our puberty years he never made a pass at me, even though I tried to get him to jerk off together, and he wouldn't.
Well, waddya know, he's now come out as gay. So, maybe the dolls back 10 years ago were the clue?

[TrevorCarter]

It's just this year that I realize that I am probably gay, and not bi. Maybe I am a late bloomer, I don't know. I do know that I enjoy looking at cute boys more than cute girls, so I guess the writing is on the wall. No worries, like Jamie says in his sig, he is happy with that, so I can be too.

[starfluff]

Ever since I first became attracted to people, I was attracted to both. But I wasn't sure I actually wanted to be with a girl or it was just me being horny until I started experimenting with girls when I was 12 or 13.

[HighVamp913]

I just liked who I liked. I thought something was wrong with me cause i was not attracted to men like other girls were. I wasn't running around chasing the boys I was running with them. I kind of knew when I liked my bestfriend

[hannoAV]

My family is ver open to LGBT and we’re never told we have to like the opposite gender. We can be whatever gender we want and like anyone. I just naturally like people and they can be girls or boys or non binary.

[Maxfun]

I get boners so easily in the changing rooms so easily. And I think of my friends when I wank. I've been doing that for a while now

[Xxrdgfinestmxxx]

One day I was really horny and didn't have a gf I got in a local chat room and met someone in same situation and we both thought it be okay to exchange oral sex and pretend its a girl needless to say I couldn't even stay hard when he tried but he could and loved having him in my mouth so I noticed I was a bottom

[camilaP]

I thought I was a lesbian at first because I wasn't really attracted to guys. I started making out with other girls when I was 12 and by 13 I was having a lot of oral sex with girls. Only after I was almost 14 that I started feeling sexually attracted to guys. I realized that I was bisexual by that time.

[Alexiswinter]

I kept fantasizing about a particular girl. And I kept reading lesbian leaning erotica.

Also talking with my sister helped me find my way.

[Jaruzzi]

I always kinda watched boys at school but I didn’t think I was gay or even bi. I think the first time I realized I probably liked boys in that way was like a couple of years ago when I woke up at night and saw my older brother jerking off in his bed on the other side of the room. At first I was thinking why does he have to do that when I’m in the room. But then I couldn’t take my eyes off him. I got a huge boner right away and I kept thinking about it all week and hoping I’d see him do it again. So I stopped and thought it probably wasn’t normal to want to see a guy play with himself and to think about it all the time. That’s when I told myself I was probably bi.