How did you first find out you were gay or bi?

[anastanes]

I had my first experience with a girl a couple of years ago when I was 14. There was a lot of experimenting going on. I was still trying it out with both sides but over the last year I have only been with girls and boys don't interest me so much. I will still look at guys but enjoy more sexually being with girls at the moment. Who knows that might change??

[ElliEvens]

I had my first experience with a girl a couple of years ago when I was 14. There was a lot of experimenting going on. I was still trying it out with both sides but over the last year I have only been with girls and boys don't interest me so much. I will still look at guys but enjoy more sexually being with girls at the moment. Who knows that might change??

It was sort of the same for me. I was experimenting with Bff's at like sleep overs and stuff. Realized I prefer girls then boys. Now I'm not even interested in boys at all.

[Special K]

I realized it last year. I like guys but I love girls.

[izzybeth]

I am bi. At first i only like guys then there was a girl i knew 4 a long time she told me she was bi and i am now dating her i like men and women

[cjdgos1716]

I had my friend over and we both shared my bed. He took his shirt off and I realized I liked seeing him without a shirt on...haha. Then we went to bed. Sometime in the night I woked up and we were practically cuddling. So I put my arm around him and held him. My hand was like on his chest. Then he scooted closer to me and literally his butt was right up againt my junk and I got turned on so much. He must of felt my , you know, because he pushed his butt up against more! It all just felt right. I'm still crushing on him haha..thankfully he's my best friend so we're pretty close.

[fast8]

I say it was when i was 13 an friend was over an we found my brother porn and we both only was looking at the boys so it went from there

[tyler_r98]

i'm bi. when i was younger i never minded either. but as i get older i like girls a little more than guys. but i still like guys :)

[tucke7239]

I particularly found out when I was reading House of Hades to my little cousin. Had been feeling that I was probable gay for an amount of time before that. But when I learned that Nico di Angleo was gay that was sort of when I truly accepted it.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Well it's a much longer story than I'd posted a few months back. Here's the whole thing, unscensored.

Yes I was in fifth grade and yes I developed a man crush. But that was only half of the story. The other half is a guy I found on the internet. Weird guy, he also thought I was 19 :P (faked my age)
To go into unnecessary detail, he was 18 years old, gay, had a fetish for blood and crossdressing. I dealt with it, but it started to fall out a bit. It? Let me explain what "it" is. It is a relationship. It was short term only a month or so.
The last part of the story is technically, the first. I was about 10-ish. I got somehow aroused by my own penis when I took my first shower at a friend's house. I thought it was odd, afterwards, the rest affirmed it. I liked guys.
I like girls? Simple. I have crushed on three girls in my life.
The first of which when I was 8-ish. (Haven't seen her in years)
The second of which was about 3 years ago. (She has a boyfriend now anyways)
The third of which was a little before I signed up for my VT account. I still like this girl to this day, almost more intensely than at first.

I finally got it all off.

[Wyatt 13]

I wish I had an straight answer still looking.

[Woryh]

So. There is this boy in m class. we had very similur names. we became very great friends. Our relationship is based on insults and acting stupid to each other and acting kinda gay to each other. We never done anything but i with we would. he is just sooo perfect. I gave hjs to other friends that where boys.
I first found out when i was around 14 when i trully knew i was bi

[tjomasofmine]

mine i sorta new but not really i had girlfriends before until one day i was thinking about my current girlfriend and then all of a sudden was was thinking i'm gay. so we broke up but we are good friends as she was one of the first people i told when i came out

[schoolgirlz]

I'm straight. :yeah:

[scotty94]

I knew I was gay from a very young age, and I really wanted to express it and be myself but in school I never had the chance to, so when I turned thirteen I came out to my parent and asked if I could move school it was agreed and I went to a boarding school in the countryside, there I met my long term bf and hopefully marriage will be on the cards in the future.

[Jakie23]

I was in Year 6, and I looked at a dude in my class, and I found him attractive. Since then I guess. But I didn't come out until Year 9

[enriqueroxx]

I go to an all girls school .I realised I was bi when I suddenly started finding some girls in my class really hot.I thought I was gay first but I am attracted to guys too....

[ClaireS]

Playing with my sister and a friend when I was 12. We started kissing (as a joke) but things got serious after that.

[mikemidas63]

I had my friend round 2 nights after my 15th birthday. He had told me the week before that he sleeps naked... i said that is ok coz i am straight anyway.
On the night we were in my room. I was watching tv when he started to get ready for sleep. I couldn't help but watch him strip out the corner of my eye. He sat on the inflatabed (i didnt use my normal bed at the time) and watchted tv. He told me to sit with him so i did. He put his hand round my waist and told me he loved me. He kissed the side of my neck and put his hand down my boxers. I looked him in the eye and kissed him, i put my arm round his waist we laid down on the inflatabed and kissed... it escalated from there and we fell in love I had had about 5 girlfriends previous so i knew that from that day on i knew i was bi

[mermaidfairy]

I realized that I started to notice women more than anything else, especially in the 6th grade I'd try and be close to women and eventually realized it was some form of attraction.

[Avenida105]

Idk in my case, currently I do like a girl, and I have had emotional feelings for her for a long time, and I'm actually making a move and asking her out soon. At the same time I think I wouldn't mind having an emotional relationship with a guy, in fact it would be something I would probably want to happen.

I guess that makes me Bi. I know its really stupid, but I mean I have been in love with a girl before, like turning cold and saying the most childish stuff when she was around and blushed and shit. So it's a given I like girls. Then a couple of years ago I had a dream of being with a guy and he said I love you, and kissed me, and I didn't fight it nor did I wake up in the moment so I guess, that's when I realized being in a relationship with a guy wouldn't bother me.

You can call me bi, or pretty hormonal, lol.

[JIntrepid]

ive only done stuff with girls but i kno a good guy when i see one..

[austeen2]

when i was 10 i was going to watch some straight porn... was curious and watched gay porn and that pretty much told me i was gay. few weeks later went to a pool party and started peeking at all my friends penises.. it was a sleepover and one guy walked around in his underwear and i was so horny..

[AbyssalLight7]

Self denial at first, then I felt really bad when I came out to myself, now (this all was recent) I've accepted it, I didn't just find out, it's like a had a feeling for a while then in time accepted it

[Andre1357]

Yeah I guess
I found out when I was sitting in class and this new guy came it and he was sooo fit I couldn't stop staring at him he was just soo beautiful so that's when I knew
Xx

[loki2000]

well so far i just like being around guys..girls dont really interest me like guys do...thats im thinking i might be gay..and i have two of my male friends that i mess around with

[Kronos]

Well there's this bi guy in my school who's a good friend of mine. And there's a rumour going around that he has a crush on me.Most people either laughed or were disgusted, but the more I thought about it, the more I thought it sounded great. So now I found out that I'm bisexual, So in a few days I'm going to ask him out and see how it goes.

Wish me luck!:D

[Laquifa]

Boys started liking girls, while I started liking boys instead. That kinda explains it all.

[Atlan]

I would say I've just always known I preferred boys to girls and then realised I didn't like girls at all, probably aided by experimentation with both genders.

[rollingdownthestreet]

I remember watching peter pan when I was little and there was something I really liked about Jeremy Sumpter but I just couldn't put my finger on it. But when I found out was when I was say 10 or 11 in primary and me and my friend were sitting outside one day he leaned on me and kinda hugged me and I liked it :what: it was also round about the time I had just found out about porn, and I was watching the guy more than the girl. :eek: And I kept telling myself no, you can't be. But I guess a few years later it was just right to say to myself, "You like boys, and that's just how it is".

[fredy]

For a long time, my older brother has been out of the closet. He came out probably around 3 years ago, or when he was 15 ish. Before he came out though, he told me, and asked me a question. "Do you want me to fuck you and see what its like?" and I said sure. Becasue of this, I know I am bi, but mostly gay, because of my attraction for men. My brother and I did it many time, but not any more. Im now 15, and he is 18, but we never speak of it. He knows that I am gay though, so we talk about guys.

Honestly, I loved that first sex I had.

[austeen2]

For a long time, my older brother has been out of the closet. He came out probably around 3 years ago, or when he was 15 ish. Before he came out though, he told me, and asked me a question. "Do you want me to fuck you and see what its like?" and I said sure. Becasue of this, I know I am bi, but mostly gay, because of my attraction for men. My brother and I did it many time, but not any more. Im now 15, and he is 18, but we never speak of it. He knows that I am gay though, so we talk about guys.

Honestly, I loved that first sex I had.


incest..?

[Matt_97]

I first knew i was bi when i saw this guy around college and my god he was like the hottest thing i had ever seen in my entire life. Its weid though we aren't in any of the same clases and we haven't even spoken to each other but i have caught him looking me a couple of times and if we pass in the corridors he'll smile at me. There was a time in one of the office spaces where i almost literally walked into him but instead i walked into a filing cabinet and he just had a little giggle to himself. I just walked out of there so quickly, i'm such an embarcment to myself. So yeah me and him i don't know if anything would come from it but i became attracted to him and thats how i knew. (Well of course after some serious deliberating)

I haven't really come out because i haven't had a boyfriend just girlfriends in the past so it just wouldn't feel right without having/had a boyfriend.

[Mich015]

I kinda always knew i was bi, for as long as i can remember ive been sexually and emotionally attracted to boys and girls.

[Gifford]

I knew I was gay from a very young age, and I really wanted to express it and be myself but in school I never had the chance to, so when I turned thirteen I came out to my parent and asked if I could move school it was agreed and I went to a boarding school in the countryside, there I met my long term bf and hopefully marriage will be on the cards in the future.

What a wonderful story! I go to a boys' boarding school too, nothin' but guys everywhere! And so many cuties! I swim on 2 teams, the school team and in summer I swim on our country club swim team. I love speedos! i have a collection of 22 of them. Sometimes wear them as underwear if they're not too tight. The tight ones are for meets. I get crushes at school but haven't come across anyone I'd like to be bf's with. Hopefully!

Write me!

[Pulp501]

My friend made me experiment and stuff and we would masturbate and watch porn and suck each other and i was like hey these dicks are pretty nice.

[Zasha]

I thought I was straight until June 2013, when I went to a Quinceañera. A friend of the girl having 15 was attractive and it kinda turned me on. And I realized I was bisexual, thought I may be thinking I'm Gay/Lesbian.

[Jungle]

Hmm.. Always realised I had an attraction to guys, even at a really early age. Then I kinda went in to denial a few years back as I started to realise, not only that, but I didn't really have an attraction to women. I guess only like a year and a half-2 years ago I finally just thought " I'm gay, and it really doesn't matter!"

[EmmaJane]

I denied it for a very long time. It was only a few months ago I admitted it. I first found out when I was in the first year of high school and had this huge crush on a girl. We dated for a couple of months then she broke up with me. That was when I knew I was bisexual. I am now dating my boyfriend of almost 5 months.

[Forsakenbymyself]

I don't know, i always considered myself straight.
Later on, i found out that being straight doesn't mean being attracted to girls just a bit more than to boys :)

[Hallie]

I think I knew for a while before I ever actually thought about it--I knew I was different. I knew that I got crushes on pretty girls in elementary school, feelings that i couldn't quite explain, but I didn't know that they were crushes until middle school when girls started describing their feelings for cute guys. They would say things like "I always want to be with him, i get super nervous and i get butterflies" and things like that. I realized that those feelings they described were how i felt about some girls, and i'd never felt that way about a guy. Of course it took a long time even after that to come to terms with it and actually admit it to myself.

[Shailene]

Wrestling with the bisexuality as well. Don't feel attracted to every girl, but every once in a while there will be a girl that makes me totally want to do it. Usually have to have some kind of connection though.

[centropede]

This one boy in my class is just driving me cr4Zy o.O
But i can't do anything, i just have to keep everything inside. :'(

[Zachary G]

i kinda always knew i was attracted to boys as far back as 2nd grade

[laurakoller0815]

I know since i was 14 and my first expierence with a girl was at the gym;) unforgetable.. since then i knowed im into girls too;)

[Zasha]

Since I fell for a boy in 7th grade and knowing he liked me too in 8th grade, I thought I was straight. That is until I saw a girl dancing sexually in a quinceañera. Now I'm bi and have two crushes, a girl and the boy.

[AlexOnToast]

Well I guess I kinda knew for a good while, and I was brought up not to have taboo's about stuff like that so I didnt really have much trouble :)

[chimpgonnagetya]

This thread is about gay and bi why isn't pan an option? I'm not pan.

[Lol6]

I first found out in the last weeks of 8th grade that I was bi I've had a crush on girls but I've all ways felt something for hot guys. One time my friend made me watch porn and I paid more attention to the guy that the girl and that's when I new

[Croconaw]

I found out I was bisexual when a girl hugged me and I felt like I wanted more. I found her attractive and very nice as a person. I'm starting to think I might be lesbian because I've never felt that way with a guy before.

[joe_dare]

guys help me out none of my family know that i am bi but some times certain relatives make homophbic comments that are not directed at me or any one just comments in general. but if i here them they still really embarres me and make me uncofortable wat should i do
If they don't know you can't blame them for saying things
If your gonna be gay get uSed to it lots of people are evil
Good luck mate

[ComfortableInChaos]

I used to look at boys in my class in elementary school and wonder how they're so cute and then after a while when I was dating a girl, I realized I liked both guys and girls. But now, I do like both, but I kind of like guys better.

[brybry5]

It was more of a realization! but i was in 4th grade when i really began to feel something for boys! And i remember watching gay p*rn out of curiosity which probably contributed to the development of my homosexuality.

[DarkHorse4eva]

i got turned on by a guy, and thought at first that i was bi, i later on thought it whole through and figured that i was gay.

[backjruton]

I've just been raised in a way where it doesn't matter what your sexuality is. Half way through high school people were starting to find out I liked guys more than I like girls and this is still the same now... I think. I've messed up, I'm bi curious because I haven't done it with either gender so I can't label myself as anything yet. I will always say I'm "bisexual" because I'm open to anything and would rather it be with a guy than a girl in MOST CASES but yes I don't know. haha, I don't know why I'm posting this thread either and I hope not to confuse anyone too much :)

I found out I was bi after lying about it too people so I could get popular. They suddenly started to like me more when they found out "I'm greedy"

Obviously I've had these feelings for quite a long time, because I've been watching gay porn from year 7 and all this happened to me in y9/10 but lying about it made it come true.

This is where I've been lying to myself though, because in my opinion girls for me will only be "best friend material". I would say for this reason I'm either homosexual or asexual but like I've said before, if you tell yourself you're a bisexual then you don't close any doors for the future.I've met the right girl but I'm basing all of this on personality as by looks I find her repulsive

[Chrisjbishop0421]

ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
i soooooooooooooo wish

[zach2424]

I don't know how but I just knew I was bi.

[Troye]

Dunno, I never really had any 1 experience to make me "go gay" sorta speak. I've just always kinda known I was a little different.

[Lovelife090994]

This is going to sound crazy. I'm still not sure what I want. I was never attracted to girls nor sex, nor was I attracted to guys. I have a soft attraction to guys and soft one emotionally to girls, but I'm too detached, shy, and confused to be involved with either. I'm more of a loner and I like being single since I would rather just focus on starting life than starting relationship drama.

[marko08]

i like both, boys and girls and it started then i was about 7!

[SciMassKid]

I was in high school.

[Hey-Im-Connor]

i realized i was thinking about what other boys look like naked a lot lol

[Mini]

I always had a knack of looking at other guy's groin area when I was in 5th-6th grade.
Always got boners when I did. It was more of a hormone thing until I noticed, over time, that I preferred gay porn (looking at guys on tumblr lol) more and more until I didn't like breasts/vaginas. I assume it was more of a "girls are the only thing to like."

Yay?

[LuciferSam]

At first, I was pretty secure in my sexuality being straight. I was only attracted to girls. Then I became aware of the fact that I was becoming vaguely aroused by nude or shirtless images of men, primarily men of more effeminate appearance (a la Bishounen or kkot-minam). As time went on, I started noting the attractiveness of other boys in my class. I am now confident that I am bisexual, or at least homo-romantic bisexual, somewhere 40/60 on guys/girls.

[Ethe14]

I've always liked girls a little bit but in 6th grade I started looking around and thought dang he's hot. But then I saw some girls and though the same thing. But I do like guys more now and especially love my boyfriend.

[Hanson]

Bi is better. Always leave yourself some alternative

[Whovian_Scar]

I was at the mall with my brother. We were checking out girls... I just didnt feel it like he did... But i kept it to myself... There were some hot guys too :yes:

[ATOMICskittles]

Since like second grade, there were theses really cute blond twins with blue eyes. I meet with them later in time and they got cuter and I also obsessed over some guy in 7-8th grade.

[Whovian_Scar]

Well for me, ive always had a feeling i was different, i never knew how until i first saw girls on a beach, and guys on a beach, i knew i liked both the same way

[KaraaaHope]

Gosh, I was helping one of my friends fix her bra that snapped..haha. I had to help her fix it for a long time so she could go outside and go home and well, it was kinda hard not to notice some things that were "exposed" at the right angles. I'm sure she knew I could see but for me it was really hard to keep from trying more, or to "accidentally" touch or look. I still kinda wish I had tried.

[Harry.]

I don't even know, it just kinda happened.

Don't even remember when.

[rockymountainway]

Ever since I was little I had a desire to see naked guys. Nudity in general interested me, but since male nudity was more accessible (ie locker rooms), I sort of gravitated towards it. I was sexually attracted to guys all throughout middle and high school but didn't actually realize I was bisexual until at least 10th grade. I've always been sexually and emotionally attracted to girls as well, but over time I've become more sexually attracted to guys, and as of recently, emotionally attracted as well. I've only told 2 people on this earth, but I'm confident that I am bi.

[Landbuscus97]

At first thought I was straight, then when watching some porn at like 14 I realized I also like seeing dicks

[Bmble_B]

Ive liked boys and girls (boys mostly) ever since I knew the difference between the two :P

[Tatii99]

I was in the pool with a friend. We were just playing fighting and she got behind me and suddenly grabbed my boobs. It was not the first time she did it, but for some reason it really turned me on. we started making out after that.

[Bolwing]

Never was really attracted to girls. Then, at about 12 years old, I started having sexual thoughts. Which included only males.

These thoughts never really went away. My crushes were, much to my confusion, always male, and I couldn't really see myself in a heterosexual relationship.
I started warming up to the idea that I might be gay (after a long period of thinking that it's "just hormones")

By the time of my fifteenth birthday, I was certain that I'm gay.

Sorry, but no story of a first sexual encounter, or a sudden spark of realization - ever since I hit puberty, it's been pretty obvious that I'm gay. Still, it took me nearly three years to come to terms with it.

[Chrisscotland]

I always liked looking a guys and it felt normal but I didn't understand what it really ment, then about 4 months ago I realised that it ment I was gay

[gevans604]

I decided in the 7th grade I was bisexual because I started to have feelings for a guy who sat next to me in social studies (he's a douche so that didn't go anywhere :(). I came out to all my friends, and they accepted it. Fast forward 1 year and I was in the 8th grade. It was then I realized that I wasn't attracted to girls at all. So I came out to all of them all over again. Then, on Dec 12, 2013 it was time to come out to mom and dad. They took it well, and I'm working on coming out to the whole school right now, which won't be easy but I'm going to do my best.

[reyago159]

Now that I look back at it, I've been looking a guys since I was 10 but i never really thought anything about it till I was 15. You can imagine what happened next.

[Bmble_B]

I decided in the 7th grade I was bisexual because I started to have feelings for a guy who sat next to me in social studies (he's a douche so that didn't go anywhere :(). I came out to all my friends, and they accepted it. Fast forward 1 year and I was in the 8th grade. It was then I realized that I wasn't attracted to girls at all. So I came out to all of them all over again. Then, on Dec 12, 2013 it was time to come out to mom and dad. They took it well, and I'm working on coming out to the whole school right now, which won't be easy but I'm going to do my best.
Yeah I can relate to that, I guess you can say Im finding out who I truly am. This is how my sexuality changed throughout my life.
Heterosexual --> Bisexual --> Homosexual (I have an extremely miniscule attraction to girls, altough I can't imagine myself in a relationship with a girl, or even as close as holding hands with a girl, so I'd consider myself Exclusively Homosexual :P
99% Guys
1% Girls

[Pulp501]

I didn't have any attraction to guys until puberty, then my friend and I experimented, for him he was just horny, but I was really liking it, and over the next few years became attracted to guys, but I'm still attracted to girls so I'm bisexual.

[Alex_3869]

Yeah I can relate to that, I guess you can say Im finding out who I truly am. This is how my sexuality changed throughout my life.
Heterosexual --> Bisexual --> Homosexual (I have an extremely miniscule attraction to girls, altough I can't imagine myself in a relationship with a girl, or even as close as holding hands with a girl, so I'd consider myself Exclusively Homosexual :P
99% Guys
1% Girls

This is pretty much my process in discovering my sexuality. Almost to a tee. That's very coincidental

[Danagal]

Just like anyone else when I decided to.

[georgieboy28]

I was watching Digimon and the boy was strapped up and being tickled. I got really turned on my that

[Ryan1698]

It was the last day of term before Christmas, and I was standing with my best friend at the school carol service. I remember we all squeezed in because there weren't enough chairs, so I had to share a chair with him. We were pressed up against each other, and I just felt an overwhelming sense of attraction to him. I really can't describe it - but I knew I liked him, and I knew I must be bi. Of course I'd had the general sort of feeling that a lot of you have been describing, but that was the moment I found out for definite. I still like him to this very day :/

[agirl555]

I'm still not completely sure since I'm still a virgin and haven't been in an actual relationship yet because I denied everyone. I have this friend and I would keep running away from her because she started chasing me in a playful way of course. She is kind of intimidating and has the same humor as I do. I began to develop feelings for her, and I noticed she would stare at me sometimes. Once I was changing in the locker room and she is on the same aisle, but instead of rushing off like normal (she's that one person who does everything quick and leaves) she literally paused RIGHT BEHIND ME and I think she was looking. She wasn't distracting herself or anything. Not talking to anyone else. She just stopped and stared. I got really weird and moved away, but I don't think she knows I know. Anyhow, I think I might be Bi because I have crushes on both guys and girls, and my head keeps drifting off to inappropriate thoughts. I don't go a day without thinking about her, but the fact I'm too shy and am not allowed to date for a while kind of restricts each other off. I kind of just hope one day there will be that one truth or dare game that most people experience. :wub:

[TooYoungToDie]

I've always been more attracted to guys, I knew that very early :D But I have a girlfriend right now and I love her more than anything in the world. So I guess I'm bi :D

[dakota1998]

I have talked to my dad who is a Phy Ed teacher and sex ed teacher about being gay or bi ot straight.
When we were all in moms womb being developed we were all one sex at one time, then the genes came and determined what sex we should be.
At the school he is at they both sexes still shower aft gym class, next year he will see me so I asked him that now in gym class I get hard ons and he told me most of the boys do so you have nothing to fret.
He knows I do a lot of petting with my girlfriend but I told him I want to be with a guy once to see what it is like and he told me to try it so I will not have it on my mind.
I have not did it yet but my girlfriend cannot jack me off. I know a guy will and can.
This is where my twin comes in, we have jo'ed each other and like it but then go to see girlfriend, So I am not gay or Bi.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I was an innocent 10 year old, looking at something called "YouTube" and suddenly I got the urge to look up shirtless guys. And so, I watched some videos that I called my PG-13 porn stash and eventually I got so aroused that I pre came. (fun fact: I was such an idiot, that I thought it was an orgasm. )
And so, my infatuation with [censored] was born, (or at least uncovered by hormones)

[Rockyou]

No shame for being gay or bi...the problem is the others, family, society...love for everyone

[TheBreadEnigma]

I was at a disco, 2 years ago (I was only 12), and this guy came up with his friend, jokingly asking me to kiss him. After that, I went outside, and I felt kind of weird. Also, I go to a boys only school, so with all of the great looking guys in my year, I was bound to find out someday!

[CosmicNoodle]

I'm Bi.

I was 14?
Noticed myself checking out loads of guys and thinking about them a lot...quite a surprise.

[Whight]

Realized I liked my best friend a bit more than I should. Luckily he felt the same :D.

[Hudor]

i had been having dreams for a lot of time of me with other guys doing stuff.. but it was when i started developing feelings beyond bromance for my best friend.

[Nami]

Well jsut one day weh ni was shopping wit ha friend and i saw her change and try clothes istart to think naughty things and then i realize that iam bi :P

[Bavak]

Well I'm bi and I always knew I liked girls, I just did but me and a friend started watching porn and masturbating at roughly the same time so we would talk about it with each other, we were like 12 by about 14 or 15 we were really comfortable around each other sexually, we never had sex but we had no problem seeing each other naked and talking about sex and porn and whatnot then we masturbated together once and a few months later I kinda realized that if he wanted to I would totally have sex with him and over time I just came to terms with being bi

[lumiadots]

i never exactly had a big realization moment that i was pansexual, it was just something i grew to know and accept over the course of growing up. the thought of being with girls, guys, transgenders, gender-fluids, etc never bugged me or creeped me out the way it was 'supposed' to. personality and the way you treat me is literally all that matters to me; i could care less about looks, your genitalia, or what you identify as. whoo~ c:

[CelloGirl0031]

I found out I was bi in sixth or seventh grade i can't remember... but it was when I slept over at my best friends house and we were looking at yaoi because we both were really into anime and we thought it was hot and we both eventually ended up grabbing each others' boobs but no kissing.
I told her I wanted my first kiss with a boy XD

[Microcosm]

I'm still not entirely positive that I am bi, but there is this one guy I dated for a while and the relationship ended because I didn't feel comfortable dating him. Now, things have changed and I think I could do it. In that case, I might be bi. Really more like biromantic heterosexual.

[Kurgg]

I watched porn when I was 12 or 13 and because of curiousity, I decided to watch gay porn. I got turned on and after that I never got turned on of straight porn. It has never turned me on very effectively, though.

[Toxicity]

Looking back, I was always really, really gay, but it wasn't until 9th grade that I actually thought of myself as part of the LGBT+ community. I had a friend who was curious and in turn I got curious, too. Kinda simple, really.

[The Faulted]

Agreed with Toxicity.

I've always been gay. But you don't grow up saying that you're gay. In fact, you probably don't even learn what being gay is until your quite old too. You just suspect you are what society considers normal, aka Straight. But yeah, I came to the terms in grade six.

[anrigirl]

I slept over at me best friend's house and we started masturbating together and we got further involved, we still see each other a lot! :D

[green white]

In first JO, I imagine about boy. But, i still love girl. I think i'm bi.
But i still remember my religion, bi is a sin. I want change my orientation. But i some peole said: it can't change

[morsar]

TV/movies/porn/girls at school...it was obvious early on.

[Lskillz]

i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!! :P

My mate came on to me and I didn't stop him and it was great so I've known ever since

[Brandon Lewis]

I'm not real sure when God made me Gay or Bi. I'm sure happy he did.

[CrazyPerson101]

I was 8 when I started liking guys but I didn't really like guys till I was 12 but I still like girls too so that's when I knew I was bi

[Cognizant]

I guess you could say 11 when I discovered pornography. I found both the guy and the girl extremely attractive (moreso the guys).

I didn't really accept my sexuality until 2013 though, and even still I don't really know what I am. I think I might be pansexual.

[peyton2000]

I was in the locker room when I was 10 after wrestling practice and i liked seeing all the guys naked and wet it made me hard so I faced the wall until everyone else was done

[AlienatedCasanova]

Sneaked onto a hentai game site when I was about eight
Just sort of thought to myself
'hot DAMN'
Never been the same since
Now I have an awesome girlfriend who I care alot for, and thats okay
BECAUSE WE ARE ALL GOING TO DIE IN THE END ANYWAY

[SansaStark]

Well, my friends and I were watching a television show (I think it was Doctor Who?) and they were all commenting on how hot the main actor dude was... but I kept thinking about how hot she was. Of course, I didn't say anything. But I started noticing that the people I found attractive were mostly women...Ha!

[Miles.]

Long time ago I thought you could only be one or the other. And I always thought men and women were both incredibly attractive and sexually appealing. But I always told myself I was straight(because I was set on having-not adopting-kids). But right after reminding myself i was like noo I'm gay men are so great. And everyday I would beat myself up over this until one day I heard my friend say she was bisexual while we were talking and I just couldn't help but saying me too. From then on I have just been attracted to whomever I felt whenever I felt. :P

[BlizzardBurn]

I was 14 when I had my first guy crush :)
I mean, if I were to find those people that had class with me and him, and ask if they noticed me staring at him ALL THE TIME, they would say yes :eek:

But when girls still kept catching my eye, I knew I liked them too :) but guys WAAAY more!

[Canadian.Teen]

I knew that I was gay in the summer before grade 5. And I am still in the closet.

[Babs]

I just sort of wondered. Like, "what if I was gay/bi?" Which turned into "holy shit, I could be gay/bi " and that was when was 13. I was never really sure until I was 15 though.

[AwakeDreamer]

When I was little, I was just amazed that such thing as love even exists. I mean, it is truly a beautiful thing. Yet I did not feel any strong attraction to anyone. And then it happened in 7th grade. I shall skip the details. The point is that there was a guy in our class. Back then, I was bullied quite a lot by my classmates and he was one of the only ones who would play with me, understand me and just enjoy time with me. In about half a year, I understood that it is more then just friendship to me. It came quite suddenly, actually. Because I couldn't tell him about what I feel (there were many homophobic people around), I had to somehow struggle with myself. In a year, I decided that I better let go those feelings.

[Amy00]

Just always been attracted to girls just as much or even a little more than to boys

[GregM]

There was really no real point for me to say "I'm gay."

I suppose that since 4th grade or so I've always been more attracted to guys than girls. I never really thought about it much until 6th grade, and I gradually just started to accept that I didn't like girls. Then I came out in 9th grade and that's really it for me.

[Landbuscus97]

I found out I was bisexual when a girl hugged me and I felt like I wanted more. I found her attractive and very nice as a person. I'm starting to think I might be lesbian because I've never felt that way with a guy before.

I used to think I was bisexual, but now I'm thinking I'm just straight-up gay!(pardon the pun) I think bisexuality for me was a stepping stone of sorts to accepting that I'm gay.

[muffin with a knife]

to me it was shocking. I found out when a friend kissed me and started touching me. I had some relationships with guys, but nothing ever felt right. With her it all came naturally. I couldn't be happier.

[Stronger]

I knew since probably High School I was bisexual, I just never truly accepted it always beating around the bush. To this day I try not to think about it even though I can't put it aside as one would want.

[Tyson S]

I sorta found i was gay at 13, not to say i don't like girls. Anyway i stayed over at a mates place and he admitted he was gay, i was quite shocked. But he asked if he could have some fun and we did. Ive loved boys ever since.

[KidStalion]

Bi me and my friend jerked off together

[pantelis60]

My hall life i had this strange feeling about guys and when i entered puberty i started fantasize boys too... I like both girls and boys but i feel different about boys than girls! With boys i feel something in my stomach and his entire body stick in my mind and when i masturbate he pops out naked, With girls its diferrent i have another feeling and when i see a beautyfull girl i am like "wow she is hot" and "i want to fuck her" but also with girls feels more naturally.
So yeah i gess i am bi!

[Taco]

I was like...11 when realized I took a liking to both genders, females and males.
I was in a hallway, staring at this girl and was "Dayum, This chick cute as fuck!" And I was like...
"What the fuck am I thinking..." And I realized, that I had a liking towards females, more than males at least.
I like guys but I like girls too...

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

When puberty started, I was attracted to both genders but never could see myself with a boy and I mainly thought of girls. But during my sophomore year, I met a freshman boy in class and we instantly hit it off. At first I didn't know I liked him but my feelings were different about him than any other guy that I was friends with. I didn't truly accept that I was Bi until Junior year of High School when I realized I really liked the boy I met the year before... I am still attracted to both boy and girl but at the moment I am more attracted to boys, specifically that boy who I know I cant have

[Jack russell dad]

Well, i found out i was gay 2 years ago. I tried to be attracted to girls, but when josh moved here there was no denying i was gay. I litterally sat for ten minutes staring at his face wanting to kiss him. And i obsessed over him for a year, and another guy named joey, and now this bi guy named rich.

[CosmicNoodle]

I found out when I was sitting in my room on the internet, laying around and decided, as ya do, to try watching porn, just to see what all the hype about this thing was, I was 12-13 at the time.
Anyway, I start watching, and I'm just thinking the hole time, "wow that guy is soooo cute...wait....what did I just think....ohh shit"

At first is scared me because I thought I was a freak, that everyone wqould hate me, but as you do when faced with future ending news, you go to google, and I found out what what was happening to e was perfectly OK, and to some extent, even common, I felt so much better, and even proud to an extent.

[Andyyyy]

Bi. I was never really attracted to either guys or girls until I was around 12-13 believe it or not. First real crush was on a girl and I didn't really start noticing guys until I was about 15, was watching porn one day and decided I'd go into the gay section and yeah, the rest is history and ever since then my love for guys has grown. Right now i'm still not 100% sure what I am. Probably had more "crushes" on guys in the past few years but I had a major crush on one girl for about 3 years (As sad as that sounds). She kept leading me on, I think she still likes me but I don't have time for that stuff right now. I definitely see myself settling down with a girl one day though, can't see myself with men in a long term relationship. ALSO my attraction levels shift dramatically at random times, one time I want nothing but dick and another time I can't even look at dick. It's irritating.

[James Dean]

I watched wwf/wwe when I was younger like around eight or nine and I always thought the wrestler guys were hot and yeah. lol. Didn't at all know what gay was back then though.

[TheLoneWolf]

I always had feelings for girls. But I didn't really believe I was gay.
Basically everybody thought I was gay exept for me. At one moment I just accepted it and now I'm becoming gayer every day :P

[sweetana]

I think I've known since I discovered my sexuality.

[Cangirl]

I guess always wondering what my friends looked like naked and what they did and thought about and wanting to see them and kiss and explore. I realized i was thinking about both my guy friends and guys in class and guys i knew and then same with girls lol and always looking at bodies :)

[RedKnightHD]

When i hit puberty, i didn't get interested to boys but 2 months later. I was wondering if i was really bisexual or not. Wich i suddenly am, i looked at a guy and was like''damn...he is hot''. It is still kinda weird for me. I am now thinking about both guys and girls.

[CrazyPerson101]

Different Events and Different times but I fell in love with a guy ands when I knew I was Bi :)

[romes3]

I realized that I was bi when I started checking out one of my best friends when she was giving a presentation. I remember thinking what am I doing? I had no idea why I was attracted to her, and then I realized that I was attracted to other girls too.

[xoKaylaa]

I realized when I was about 8 that I found girls extremely attractive, but never really thought anything of it until I was 10, and my uncle, Mike (grandpa) and my parents took me to hooters for my birthday.
i didn't eat anything because I was too busy watching the girls :lol:

[Alliec]

I'm a cis female, and I've always been pretty sexually aware. That's not to say that I've always known I was bi, the formal use of bisexual in my life is actually pretty recent. I've always known what I thought was sexy, and the female body has always been a part of that. I also go to an all-girls school where the LGBT community is really prominent, and that's definitely been a major factor in the development of my sexuality. To get to the point, I can see myself growing old with either gender, waking up next to them every morning, etc. and I became bicurious at age 14 and settled on bisexual at 15.

[Foamy]

In middle school, I had realized guys were good looking, but I paid that no mind. As high school rolled along, I was confused, to put it lightly. I ended up having a girlfriend through senior year, but I still thought it wasn't completely right. It wasn't until recently that I started figuring things out. I started talking to guys, and then on Halloween i was sitting in my dorm room alone with my thoughts. Thats when it all hit me. I broke up with my girlfriend when she came to visit the next weekend, and ever since then I've slowly begun to be happy/content with myself again. And recently I started talking with one guy, and things are promising. I'm not "out" yet, but the people that do know are the best friends I could have asked for. I want to be a proud, gay man. One day, I will be.

[TheLoneWolf]

I guess I always knew...
I just kind of accepted it by getting on this website :D

[Malibu_Barbie]

So basically these where my thoughts on the moment it happened:
"Wow she's cute I think- OH MY GOD JESUS MARY AND SAINT JOSEPH, THAT GUY IS THE HOTTEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN, SCREW THAT GIRL THIS IS ALL ABOUT HIM, NOW, AND FOREVER..."

[Karkat]

To be honest, I went entirely back and forth for about

Ten years

I kinda just came to grips with it this year (even after having a girlfriend at 14??)

But yeah like, I would kiss girl friends on the lips and stuff when I was younger, but I didn't think anything of it. At all.

[boringkid]

I realized i was gay about a month ago, even though ive acted kinda gay my whole life :3

[taylorht8397]

Well, it didn't all come together right away. I was born liking girls, then a bit before privacy I would see attractive guys and think "wow", then puberty started and the though of another guy that was handsome seducing me, would turn me on so much that I would spend hours in my bed, pleasuring myself to the point of falling asleep. This progressed as middle school went on. When I was a freshman in high school, a friend of mine and I started bringing up sex, and then somehow, we dumped our guts and identified ourselves as "bisexual". After dumping our guts, we started discussing the kind of guys we like and
what we'd want to do with them and the fact that we were not interested in
a romantic relationship with a guy. Until I saw this cute guy that i started to
develop a crush on him. Mostly because he's really adorable and seemed sweet. I remember him staring at me very intensely from across the room and when I made eye contact with him he got kinda startled and looked away. Whenever he'd stand behind me, i would feel this vibe coming my way that was so thick. I felt it every time after the eye contact. Then he finally decided to talk to me and he was very cheerful and started making small talk and then he claimed he remembered me from some art club that he made up (I thought it was cute if thats what he was doing). The conversation
a while longer and then the bell rang and then he acted kinda like he fucked up and he was like "talk to you later". I walked out of school that day very happy and thinking about how much i loved his voice and thats when I knew I wanted a relationship with a guy. What does gender matter anyway? As long as two people love each other, who cares? At this point im not even sure i like girls anymore. Im pretty much playing it by ear.

[SethfromMI]

I always knew I liked girls. for guys, it was one day when I admitted to myself I think that boy looks cute in his underwear

[JusticeBoy]

When I started listening to Chris Brown haha

[Willy_Nilly]

I met my best friend a few months ago and it went down hill from there

[Wafflenado]

Even though I didn't know what to call it until third grade, I knew from a very early age, like kindergarten, that I wasn't like the other boys. You know how all the boys stay away from the girls because they think they have cooties or whatever nonsense, and then they grow up liking them. Well, I did the same thing but the opposite haha. I denied it for a long time, until like the end of sixth grade. By then I was like, "okay I'm pretty gay." It's weird how from such an early age, my sexual orientation kind of presented itself. On here, it seems people didn't realize until later, but I kind of inherently knew for as long as can remember.

[David_L2]

Can't even say if I'm truly bi, but realized I was attracted to other guys, when I had my first threesome with a guy and girl. She encouraged it and we both kind of went along...

[cami]

I used to fool around a lot with one of my friends, she always kissed me and I kissed her back. It started like a joke, until one day on her bedroom she told she was a lesbian and really liked me. That kinda surprised me lol she gave me another kiss and we started doing it for real aaaaand... I'm not allowed to tell here what happened next :P

[Sardonical]

I stumbled across some lesbian porn on tumblr one day and found it pretty fun.

[Magenta]

I'm pretty sure I've posted here before but the more I think about it, I don't really have a finding out story.

I liked who I liked and I just sorta rolled with it. Simple as that.

[Becca029]

i just had a feeling

[calebtwiggs]

when i was like 7 me and cuz but we still like girls

[cookiemonstermatt]

I started noticing guys in the locker room for p.e. and sports. Prob started in 6th grade. might be before not sure. When I started asking "awkward" questions to my friends, didn't get the response I wanted. got me thinking about it.

[lonely_gay_boy]

Well i started being bi, and at first i thought it my be a ohase. But now I realize how much im into guys and how much they make me happy. So i guess i can say im gay now..

[reptilianpine87]

after giving it much thought these last couple of months i realized im more than likely bi but with a preference to guys. in fact now that i have accepted it now the idea of being with a guy doesn't seem as bad anymore.

[yatesy66]

Now I look back I was very interested from around year 6 in other guys size and it always interested me to see other boys in my class naked... When I stated masturbating I stumbled across a bi porn and ever since it was hard to turn back

[SmokyChica]

I first realized I was bi when I kissed my once best girl friend on her cheek and felt something different like the way id felt with guys up until then... I wish she was still with me...

[Andrew.1]

Well I think I'm bi because I have sexual feelings for both guys and girls.

[Daniella98]

Im bi and I found out by watching the other girls in communal showers and felt the urge to touch them. I loved the look of the female body very early.

[soccerbeth]

I've known since my best friend and I masturbated each other one night.

[Skaterdude1998]

yo,:p I have been bi curious for 2 years now and i am pretty sure that i am bi. I like guys and girls alot. I have even messed around with two of my close friends. One is my best friend both straight plus another dude who is kinda a friend. My best friend who is 17 and i have been messing around for 2 years now. Unlike me he has never really talked about liking other guys or other then me showing him watched gay or bi porn. We jo each other and 69 once or twice a week. he has a gf so he spends a lot of time hanging with her. When we are messing around he seems to really like it but says he is straight and only likes doing stuff with me because we are best friends and he feels comfortable with me. Is he bi and in denial or is he straight and just like he says comfortable with just me and doesn't like guys>

[hitman73]

I was in high school.

[Cangirl]

I think I realized I was bi with my best friend to and wanting to hold her and kiss her like boys and girls do. I was confused and still kinda am because I think I like girls more than boys but I still think about boys a lot and like their bits lol

[Meh Guy]

Probably would say after a few months of struggling with the fact I might be gay, I thought to myself, I like girls too... That's when I came to terms with the fact I was bisexual.

[tinybird]

i always liked them, but i only realized "oh shit, i'm gay" until i was in 7th grade.

[NickTheStar]

I was in juvi with a guy and we were roomates and I saw a big bulge in his pants and asked him if he wanted a blowjob and he said yeah. I enjoyed it and realized that dick is surprisingly fulfilling. Later the next day the staff made me switch rooms which makes me suspect they were watching.

[kanine]

I lost a bet and did stuff and decided "yep, this explains search history."

[drhalsey1]

ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:

I'm not sure why anyone would laugh, I consider you lucky, I'd be fine if that happened with me and a couple of the guys like

[joestug2]

Kind of pathetic, really. I've always been attracted to girls, but a few months ago when I started reading comic books I became obsessed with Nightwing and a particular ship (JayDick) and started reading fanfic of it. I finally stopped trying to tell myslef that I don't like guys to and realized I'm bi.

[KingLiam]

I'm pretty sure that I am bi maybe leaning gay just because I enjoyed sexual things with guys more than girls

[Kyouji_Takahara]

i learned when i was about 6 or 7 i was playing with my friend and both of our parents are huge christens so we were playing in my room playing monopoly and watching scooby doo naked and my door was locked and we always played naked we didn't know much so we played naked so we went outside and we went behind the shed and he asked me "lets have the sex" and we both knew what it was because we had a pc and he got his penis and started to put it inside my butt so i asked him to suck my dick and he did and we had sex every day he came over :wub: i don't talk to him anymore he says he is straight and i am openly gay and when i told my parent they lacked me in my room for 2 days over the weekend i snuck out the windows and when to my boyfreinds house and i stay with him for about a week i went home and my parents yelled at me and now they hate me i dont talk to them and conseled myself in my room.

[DemiW]

I have always known really I never had that coming out moment

[Olly]

When I first started watching gay porn, and then sucked my first dick, then I pretty much realised I like guys. Although I still like girls, so I guess I swing both ways lol

[Celtics]

When my new neighbor (one year older) and I (for the grammar nazis) put my hand over his "personal place" and I really liked it and then yeah..... Still find girls really hot though but want to do some things with guys.

[seamo34]

well to be honoust just started watching gay porn and all of a sudden i was looking at guys as if they were girls and thought about it for a while to see if it a once off or not and one it was not so went and told my family that i was BI and they were like are u sture and i said i waited a year before i told u and they still dont want me to tell anyone :( but im sure im bi and i want to tell people what should i do ?

[WanderingHeart]

I used to be bi when I realized I really liked girls. Then I realized I didn't really like guys, so I'm a lesbian now. And, also, I realized that I've never really had a crush on a guy before. Only girls (ever since I was a kid, too!)

[Contra]

I was bullied when I was 10, a group of kids kept calling me gay. At such a tender age, I had never thought thoroughly about sexuality.
A few years afterwards, I entered puberty and began gaining interest in sex. I started watching straight porn and it aroused me. But one day I thought: "why did they call me gay back then?" and that led to curiosity about gay sex. I looked up gay porn and it aroused me as well. Actually, it aroused me more. I thought it was because it was something new. I began labelling myself as curious, because I was aware I was growing up and everything was confusing.
Eventually, three years after I started puberty, I fell in love with a boy. Or at least, I think I did. That's when I knew for sure it wasn't just a phase.
I don't like labels, but society does, so I label myself as bi, because I'm open to everything and have been with (and enjoyed it) people of both genders. However, I know I'm more attracted to guys.

[Bluebyrd]

I've always been attracted to other boys and liked to think that I liked girls too but then I realised that I didn't feel any sort of attraction to them at all. Now I just accept that I'm gay but I still haven't came out nor do I plan to.

[Ridonks_CB]

I just didn't really get any sort of feeling from people, sexually, or really romantically either. I'll think someone is cute for example, but I never get aroused, nor does any of that stuff interest me. Then I kissed someone before and I felt pretty empty - none of that butterflies in your stomach or anything - just neutral. So for the moment, I'm an asexual (I don't know if that'll change).

[Sarcastic Cupcake]

I always kinda knew in the back of my mind that I was different from other girls, but I never really put a label on why until 8th grade. Before then, I had never really fallen for any boys (or anyone else for that matter). I had just switched from a private school to a public one, and there were so many people to get to know. I became good friends with a lot of boys, but not that many other girls. I started wondering why that was, and why they were so much more approachable than people of the same gender as me. That question went unanswered until I fell in love with (in my mind) the cutest girl in the school. That was when everything "clicked" and I realized that I was a lesbian.

[sunnieseason]

I'm still trying to sort out how I feel about other girls. I've always liked boys since I was really young. I was infatuated with an older male friend when I was really young, but it wasn't in a sexual way. I don't know why, but I always wanted to follow him around and I thought he was the coolest person I knew. I didn't start thinking about girls until I moved in with my older female cousins. I started to feel the same emotions about my cousin Emily as I did that boy from my old town.

Emily and I have explored sexually together, and I feel attracted to her, but I don't feel that way about any other girl. I don't find other girls sexually attractive, just her. I don't know if that makes me bi or not.

[Panda Rose]

I first found out I was Bisexual when I fell for my best friend, at first I thought I was Gay but as I started to drift apart from her I started finding guys attractive as well and that's how I found out I was actually bisexual

[Cognizant]

I'm now starting to accept the fact that I'm gay rather than bi. I mean, all my prior relationships, dates, and a majority of my romantic/sexual interests have been with guys. Finding a female that I'm attracted to in an amorous or sexual way is once in a blue moon, so I guess for all intensive purposes I'm gay but flexible, if the circumstances are right.

[Jaffe]

I think I have always known. I never came out. If people know, its ok. If they don't, its okay. My parents have always assured us that whatever and whoever we are,we are still family, so I always felt comfortable with who I am. Even as a kid, I liked checking out other boys, but not really in a sexual way. When I started puberty, I thought both were cute, and experimentation with both girls and guys confirmed it. But I really never had a moment when I knew it, or when I told people. Its just who I always was, and I have never tried to hide who I am from anybody.

[Jefful]

I like dicks and handsome guys though I like kind,sexy girl but i dun wanna have sex with girls :))

[Interstellar]

I've always had feelings for girls ever since I was little, and I still do. But for around 6 years in grade school my class was all guys (that's a whole other story lol) and I started realizing when I was around 13 that I was attracted to some of my friends, both sexually and emotionally. I believe that being around and hanging out with only guys for such a long and crucial period of my life caused me to realize that I was bi at such an early age.

[Plushieluver101]

I've always just had this inclin to guys, I suppose... I used to get frequent 'sexy' dreams about my dad and other hot guys (giggle) from the age of 4, upwards :P I developed a crush on my friend, Kyle when we were five and we 'messed about' a lot until we were about 12 but it was only tender stuff and sexual affection but he went in denial but I've never seen him since (moved schools, and such). (I miss it). I also 'messed about' with my step brother, too, called Lee but he went further than..., yeah:P (I had a major crush on him, still do because he was always just so sweet, and such). Same thing. It was mostly sexual affection but he did go further... I also messed about with one last guy, called Deniel, which was just sexual affection again but like all of them, it ended after the denial set in...


So, yeah... I'm definitely gay :P I've never had feelings for girls, only guys, I'm extremely stereotypically gay (shopping, high voice, bright colours, sass, the like :P), I have a crush on my gorgeously sweet and gorgeously hot English teacher, and yeah... Yeah, honay, I'm totally gay! Aha! :P

[shamrockgirl02]

When I was a little girl I had brief little crushes on boys, but when I reached age 8+ I noticed myself staring more at my girl friends and other females at pool and beach and in the changing rooms/showers. I started to think I might be gay and that my earlier attraction to males was simply because that's what we're taught that we're "supposed" to feel. That lasted for 6 months to a year, with me smitten with my older sister's friends. Then some of my brother's friends started hanging around more, and I realized I still found boys attractive. Confused, I started talking to my older sister about this and she explained the difference between straight, gay, and bisexual to me. That was a revelation! I knew immediately that bisexual described me. After talking to my sister about it for a few more weeks, I told her that I thought I was bi, and she hugged me and told me that she loved me no matter what and not to hide who I am or feel ashamed. I got incredibly lucky with such an open minded and tolerant sister.

[giles2603]

Most my time was spent with boys. After being friend zoned by many girls and realising how confusing they were I just lost interest in them. I remeber accidently looking at the Gay porn section, but I loved what I saw. Girls sexually is a 100% nope for me, guys sexually is 1000% yes! I've yet to have any sort of relationship with a guy, but I know im physically attracted to guys and that they are easier to talk to and understand.

If your confused then you just have to experience with your feelings and emotions towards both and eventually you know what you like and love. There's no rush to find out :)

[ImTrickster]

since i first watched gay porn and got turned on by it, but since then i have been so confused and curious, i want to be straight as i want to have a wife, kids and a family, but then i just want to have sex with a guy and not a relationship

[gct221]

I first realized I was bi when a friend stayed the night at age 12 we messed around she was 13. I have aunt that is really cool and I talked to her about it. She said everyone experiments. And gave me some pointers on how to pleasure another girl. Now I have 2 girl friends that I mmm spend time with once in a while.

[ObliviousCat]

Hehe, well, even though I am attracted to guys more, there's just something about girls, y'know?
It started out in 7th grade when one of my acquaintances who I changed next to in the locker room started flirting with me. The flirting lasted all the way to the end of 8th grade and she's always been open about her crush on me. I never reciprocated it because I was shy but I definitely didn't mind. She'd "jokingly" grope me and stuff. If I were 100% straight, I realized, I wouldn't have liked that.
Aside from being attracted to this girl and wanting our relationship to move up from second base, I found myself staring at a lot of other girls and being attracted to them. (I also had a huge crush on my P.E. teacher who was openly lesbian).
And then I saw Orange is the New Black :awesome::awesome::awesome: :drool: Laura Prepon - holy shit - she is HOT AS HELL. Ruby Rose?! Yes, please.

[Melodic]

I was in denial for years. But it happened a month ago, when I met a girl and grew a little crush on her. I knew I wasn't gay because I still have interest in guys.

[Zerg]

When I realized that guys have the same stuff that I do, and I know what makes myself feel good, so I could in turn make them feel the same way with their stuff. And also be able to discuss guy stuff with them without feeling awkward

[SkyClad33605]

For context I'm pan.

I always suspected or kinda knew my feelings were more nuanced than strictly boy & girl. But an older girl on my swim team was very out and proud. So she kinda "normalized" it for me. Basically she set a good example of "this exists and it's ok". I think she knew what I was only discovering because she would ask pointed questions and always make sure to say that whatever I felt was normal and healthy.

So for me it wasn’t one big discovery, it was the conclusion of a long and gradual journey.

[FyreFly]

I didn't know very much about anything. I was 13 and a girl friend and me were doing somthing close to eachother and our arms started touching and I thought omg that feels nice and then idk... things just started happening after that but it was like over a couple weeks really. It was just really really nice.

[Kuroshiro]

Mods: I am not sure if some of the things in this post are going to be too inapropriate or not so you may want to edit out a couple of sentences, sorry for the inconvenience

I was in secondary school, year 11 (sophomore (I thought it was spelled "softmore", lol)
year for any Americans out there) when I began to realise that I was starting to become attracted to boys. I would sometimes find myself looking at gayporn instead of straight or lesbian porn and enjoy it.

I told myself that I was straight because "I was still attracted to girls". It was a bit later that thought I was bisexual.

Well, the story is not over yet because I am gay not bi.

As I continued the year I became less attractied to girls with larger breasts and I found it unappealing; the thought of having to put my penis in any hole located around the waist that is.

Also around that time I tried anal mastubation and soon after realised that I was gay.


EDIT: OMG did I seriously write this I'm cringing so hard right now

[hesaidhesaid]

My simultaneous massive crush on my best friend (now my boyfriend), Emma Watson (who I still crush on) and yeah...lots of things. And knowing that I jack off to guys and girls in my imagination.

FTR, I lost my virginity to a girl then a guy. And I still don't know which one I like better haha