How did you first find out you were gay or bi?

[mrr.man]

uhg i feel the same wahy this guy showed me his cock on skyupe hes a popular kid at my school and i want to blow him so bad but he said he doesnt want to anymore :( i cant get the thought of his dick outta my head :((

[WiiRemoter]

I always identified as straight (i still do in public) and about two or three years ago I started watching porn. For about the first year it was all straight stuff, but then i realized i was looking at the guys too, so curiousity got the best of me and i looked at some gay porn. I realilized that i was attracted to both sexes. However, my sexuality could still change. I still question if imstraight, bi or if im gay, so right now im identifying as bi; im just living life and letting it take its course.

[NopeChuckTesta]

I started to like guys as much as girls! And started to think that a lot of guys were hot. And watched gay porn and enjoyed.:cool:

[that94guy]

Watched porn at an early age when I hadn't developed any sexual attraction toward either sex yet. The female body grossed me out and I watched gay porn instead. Recently I feel the strong attraction to men, and ever since questioning my sexuality.

[Montesquieu15]

When I was in fifth grade, there was this forth grader I couldn't stop staring at. I knew it wouldve been awkward to say hi, so I never did get to meet him. But I just thought he was so good-looking.

[Samh]

The way I found out I was Bi is when my friend Chris introduced mE to masturbation. ( I was in the fifth grade)

[liljack13]

just started finding guys attractive

[Josh16]

Uhm.. I got raped in a bathroom at the movie the theaters... and didnt realize I kind of enjoyed it untill like a year later

How did u get raped in a cinema bathroom? What did u do after?

[jamesh]

I had my first experience with a friend when i was 11, and although initially it was quite weird, i just went with it and it was great. so then i wanted to try it again...and again...etc. I still like girls, but love these experiences too!!

[lostsilence]

I started noticing that I was attracted to girls after that was younger than me when I was with my aunt who was visiting her friend upstate. I didn't know that how I felt actually had a name. I mean, what 8 yr old does? Anyway I identify myself as bi. I lean more towards guys but that doesn't really make me question myself.

[Conner Davies]

i found out i was bi when i started to taste my cum and liked it and when i started to dream about giving blow jobs to boys. (FYI: ive never wanked over a boy or done anything sexaul with boy im more 70% girl and 30% boys if that makes sense)

[wolfguy]

i discovered i was bi last night i am kindof happy

[BoTun]

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/picture.php?albumid=4738&pictureid=26836

lets do it...

[wild1]

For me I'm bi I guess. This past year at school I started liking two boys in a diff way then I used to like guys and didn't really understand why. One was just after school started and one was like 3 months ago. I thought about them a lot and would sit with them, talk to them all the time. So that's what happened.

[eggy101]

I figured out i had gay feeling when i would stare at men, and look at the penis during porno, though the moment was probley when i gave a dude a h-job, that was a milestone in the finding of my sexuality, now i like both gurls and guys.

[rockymountainway]

I've been trying to look at naked guys for a long time. Ever since I was like 8, whenever I was in a locker room, I'd try to sneak a peak. I don't know, I've just always liked it. I didn't start acting on it until I hit puberty, though.

[AHCarbon]

There's nothing wrong with being different. In fact, be who you want to be! Be YOU! If someone judges you, ignore them and just remember: It's good to be different!

[rockymountainway]

I should add something: I'm not necessarily bi, because I'm not emotionally attracted to men, just physically. It kind of falls into this category, though.

[Thunduhbuhlt]

Well I am neither gay or bi, I am a form of asexual called demisexual. I have to usually have a really good friendship with a girl before I will begin to like her and have any interest in dating or being with her. I found this out after I lost my virginity. I didn't like it at all, and I knew there was something wrong there because what guy doesn't love sex? It was a one-night-stand and while I am glad to have done it so I could figure my sexuality out, I still wish I wouldn't have because we would have really had a chance to become friends and then eventually get into the physical stuff. I am still debating ever telling my family because it's really not something that's really that different than being straight. I still will date girls, I just won't be that super man whore like some others would be.

[SmileyFace13]

I started have feelings for boys when i was 4th..i remember i use to hang out with my best friend...when he always turned away,i use to stare at him until he looked back.ever since those times,i had feelings for boys.

[LiamC]

I am gay, and have known since I was about 11. My first crush I remember was Dale Howard in Big Brother 2008! From there it just developed and at secondary school I started fancying more guys, I for some reason did not even admit to myself I'm gay until about a year ago.

[irish_dude_16]

i think im bi because i imagine having sex with both genders mostly boys ;)

[dajakesta10]

I first realised it once I was told I'd apparently already had gay sex, at the age of 11, just as I found out what homosexuality actually meant. I came out after being caught kissing a fat boy in school in the year below :') He now hates me and wishes it never happened. Never really cared about that kid, just always felt a compulsion to feel his cheeks against mine. Now I am what I can only explain as being in love (which I previously thought was impossible at the age of 15, but there you go o__0) unfortunately, the person I love most is my best friend, and he has made it abundantly clear that he has no feelings for me of this kind :/

[Twilly F. Sniper]

I found out 2 years ago.

[Noirtier]

Well... In August of 2010 I kind of had a crush on a guy, I had had feelings for guys before but this was the first real one. A... situation happened where I came out and was forced back into the closet by my family, school, and friends. I kind of went dormant until just about a month ago, when I fell in love with a guy. It became a bit of a situation, but now (though I have a girlfriend now, she knows this as well) I have admitted to myself that I am bisexual. I have also come out to my girlfriend and my best friend, as well as several people on here. Everyone took it well except for my best friend. But that's how I knew

[Kristin_97]

Heh, I have no idea. I know I'm not cause I made out with a girl one time and it was weird. I kept thinking of guys, lol.

[xaydavis]

well kinda the same here its just im into girls but when i see other penises i get horny...is that how you feel?

I do

[xaydavis]

I always thought i was gay but in middle school there were tons of hot guys but i love girls more but like guys still so im like 15%gay 85% str8

[NightHawk]

im not sur eif im gay but i have feeling for guys and girls i think i might be bi


That's the same thing for me too ;) But I deffinatly know I am bi

[Losing Sanity79]

Ever since I was little, I liked guys, but I was taught to like girls. This last year, eighth grade it was Spring Break, I decided that I was attracted to guys! I love them, but I still like girls. I am bi!

[ChibiNeku000]

I knew i was gay because I kept feeling attracted to guys, rather than girls...:yes:

[Sean4U]

I've always felt more at home with guys...yes I know that before puberty it usually is that way that boys will be with boys, and girls with girls....but my feeling were more like i HAD to be only with guys....and since I was 9 I remember that I loved seeing guys without shirts...and wanted to see what they had down there....then at 11 I knew I was gay because I really fell in love with a friend of mine...wanted to be with him ...wanted to jack him off and everything....I had no desire to kiss a girl or be with one like a lot of my friends....it was then I knew that my desires, both physical and emotional could only be with males

[momo....]

since iwas 3

[Bigswedishboy]

I had thought I was bi since I was 12 or so but I first told someone months before my 14th birthday. I had told everyone June 5 and it feel like a weight has been lifted.

[skikid22]

it started with just curiousity with me but i always had a thing for guys that are musled so i looked at porn and just started to like it. it just looked really fun to me

[fast8]

i think around 5th grade i started to have feelings for other boys

[crisel]

I'm proud to those who accepted their selves as a gay or bi . Just be yourself.

[Navy16]

I've known my whole life. I'm bi, I have sexual feelings for both girls and boys. I just turned 15. I hate to think that I am bi, but I can't live like it's a lie. It's so hard to go through the day looking at my best friend and not have fantasies about him. I don't want to accept it, but I like boys, a lot. And girls.

[Christine.]

I was attracted to women

[Halcyon]

I found out that I was gay when I realised that girls did nothing for me, whilst guys did. Pretty simple really.

[Hourglass]

Never really had an interest in women ever since I hit puberty, and considering that started over five years ago I don't think things are going to change. Women just don't get me off. :P

[Jonathan1998]

I found out I was bi when I kept staring at this boy thinking whoa he's hot! I was like, did I think that but I accepted it and I have had girlfriends and I'm starting year 9 in September so it's been 3 years since I found out. Also I forgot to add that in year 6 which was when I found out I was bi, this boy who was also fit and in my class but never caught my eye, told me to meet him in the boys toilets, when we met there he took me to a hidden corner and then he just roughly and passionately made out with me, I was thinking 'Get off me-No carry on it feels so good.' and we carried on that way for a month even though we never asked each other out

[caliz55]

I found out i was bi when i was about 8-9 years old me and my best friend were explained the wonders of sex and how everything worked, so we started looking up stuff in the internet we always looked at naked woman's pictures and we always talked about when the other one masturbated and stuff like that. So one day we looked up porn videos and continued to watch the video after that we were both aroused and layed on my bed at that moment we started to feel each others faces kissed. I wont tell what happens next but you would figure it out...

I think he turned out to be straight well I don't really know because he did mentioned it a couple of time I always blushed and denied to talk about it. I myself feel attracted to woman and men.

Please don't laugh its the first time I ever tell anybody else. :/

[hilltop404]

I don't really remember...

[girlover]

this summer he was gay and asked if i was bi and i told hom yes so we wated for ever obe to leve then we made out then i gave him a hj and we are still soong more exept fucking

[CrazierCaptDice]

I have a friend, who, told me he was Bi, I liked him alot, I'd like to be his BF. But I still find myself attracted girls, very much so. Ahhh...I'm lonely.

[cpkid09]

at first i was in denial about being bi, but then gradually i accepted it especially since my friend told me she was bi

[RCT109]

for about a month i had a feeling i was and then last nigha friend of mine who is bi spent the night and then we got talking about it and then it clicked and its hard for me

but i came out to him on August 8 2012

[Pudd]

I was about 13, and first considered the fact that I was bi when my online friend who I shared ... adult material with, showed me gay porn and I wasn't repulsed by it, and found it arousing. I then decided that I wasn't bi, but pansexual following what I had been brought up with and my own ideology of how I perceived love: You love who you love, and there should be nothing that changes that, whether it be gender, race, religious or political views. I thought that this way of thinking was isolated, but then I stumbled upon a website which detailed niches of sexuality and saw that pansexuality fit right in with how I thought and have since adapted from bisexual to pansexual.

[cpkid09]

for a while i was in denial about being bi but then i just accepted it slowly and I'm slowly starting to come out to people

[ali_ni2012]

(excuse me if some my sentences R grammatically wrong , I'm italian , I'm suk in english)
I like girls & think about have s*x with them , i think about some sweet boys who 2 or 3 years younger than me ( u should know I'm not pedophil )
and think about naked look , I like & enjoy to see pen*s of sweet guys & s*ck it & oldmans who R older than 50 ,
I'm so so so sorry I thinking this isnt normal , I'm deppresed , plz plz help me

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

I found out that I was gay when I realised that girls did nothing for me, whilst guys did. Pretty simple really.

^What Joe said. I have friends who are girls but would never think about sex with them or a relationship.

[tonyr]

I just experimented and realized that sex with a guy wasnt unattractive and i really wanted to do it. Not a relationship though, is that wierd?

[ZzKingz]

Well... My relatives knew when I was really little, though I'm not sure what they mean by that.

I've been curious about guys forever. But I never got anything out of just checking them out until fairly recently... Like one or two years ago.

Then I denied it (I thought I was bucurious) until six months ago. Then almost immediately I came out. Tada!

[KieranRules]

Most people go through a frase of being bi where as that being bi is not the case because at the ages of 12 to 17(ish). Everyone will find their sexuality by the time their 20. So we don't know for sure of our sexuality until the age of 20(ish).

[Danny_boi 16]

i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!! :P

I have always felt that way. In so f***ing confusing:confused:

[Rob173]

haha i was sudden for me. I have been attracted to girls, still am. But one day me and my friend were in the toilet together and we sort of started jacking each other off! It just sort of happended we locked ourselves in the cubicles and started sucking eachother it was amazing! when i got home i went gay porn (for the first time) instead of straight and found myself really horny and stuff. So there! I am now bisexual in my opinion. :D

[Silver Assassin]

I found out I was bi when I met my best friends. Rory and Chloe. I have sexual and emotional feelings for both I of them, but don't want to act weird with Rory (he's straight). The two of us(me and Rory)enjoy the same thing's, and are good friends.

[John17]

haha i was sudden for me. I have been attracted to girls, still am. But one day me and my friend were in the toilet together and we sort of started jacking each other off! It just sort of happended we locked ourselves in the cubicles and started sucking eachother it was amazing! when i got home i went gay porn (for the first time) instead of straight and found myself really horny and stuff. So there! I am now bisexual in my opinion. :D

wow like that story lol, very hot

[John17]

I think i've always been bi, more into guys though lol maybe i'm not that bi after all, confused?

[Asiandude]

ummm i was looking up teen suicides lol and i found a gay guy killed him self from bullying and he would of been my age and he was really cute haha then i started to become more attracted to guys now im bi

[TigerBoy]

Used to be into greek mythology. In one of the library books there was pics of boys in short togas and I got excited over it. Then I watched this program about all the gay stuff about ancient greece the victorians hid away, including this cup with scenes of boys doing it and I knew I really wanted to be one of the boys :P About the same time (age 12 i think) I had a cute french exchange friend over and I wanted him to do that to me. He was a year older and wouldn't because he knew it was gay, and that was the first time I found out that not all boys were up for it and defined myself as 'gay'.

[RCT109]

my friend and I were talking one night and we both kinda looked at each other in a weird way. the way you would look at your best friend who is more too you
and he was like i could see u as bi. but I had a felling for about a month or so before. He just affirmed it. he too is bi

[Dimentio]

I kinda went through it my whole life ha ha, Like my whole life i would think of guys and stuff and never realized it as different as i did it as a young kid, Then at 12 I had feelings for my friend and i realized in straight porn i was mainly looking at the guy then i went to gay porn and yeah, I knew at 12, Accepted at 14 and told my fried at 16 (My current age), So it was a long process, Some might say from birth XD

[Kwmpa]

I always dated guys and when I was 10 almost 11 we had a sleep over and us girls were masturbating in front of each other and we tried eating each other out And I found out I like girls

[The Mockingjay]

I've always known I was attracted to boys, but I never really felt completely comfortable with it until about three or four months ago. I had drifted through stages of denial and considering myself as bisexual, but none of it ever felt right. At the start of May I just looked at myself and how I had been feeling down for months and thought "Fuck this, I'm gay!" Since then I've accepted it, came out to some people, even had a boyfriend and I feel fabulous! :D

[jake54]

I first realized last year. I was at my cousins, she was like 15 or 16 btw she is fine with gay guys and stuff like that. but anyway we were playing the sims 2 on a ps2 and i had made my character gay and then she kept saying in like a jokingly serious way that she wouldn't be surprised if i was and i couldn't help but think about that i also hadnt really ever thought about it before that. and so after that i started looking at and thinking that certain boys in my school were lookin hot. then during summer after i turned 13 i went over to the same cousins and we started playing the sims 2 so i started to tell her. she reacted a lot better (not that i thought she would be angry) than i thought she would. she was really happy that i was gay. she is now the only person that knows.

(i am 13)

[SmileyFace13]

when I started to get these feelings for my bestfriend...then months later I started liking boys at my school.

[jennahazy98]

I'm still not sure what I am...I kind of have a "boyfriend" and we fool around a bit. I think about girls a lot though so does that make me bi? I just don't know.

[Magnus Bane]

This was my brother who got on and posted this sorry. Ignore this post. sorry:(

[Magnus Bane]

I first foud out i was gay in the 6th grade.Well i moved to a new school and new nobody. well i started getting feelings about some guys i was meeting. they were nice and all but i stopped hanging out with them because i would always be speaking my thoughts aloud so then they would know how felt about them. so i have been pretty much secluded since then.


is that bad.

Never had a boyfriend would like one though.

[Azbi]

I think I found out I was attracted to boys when I was around 12 or 13 . The thing is I have never been in love with a boy , but I am more sexually attracted to men . I am emotionally attracted to girls and I have been in love with girls many times , I also find them gorgeous . But I don't know there is something guys have I think is really attractive , but I cannot see myself in a long-term relationship with a guy . Does this make sense to anyone?

[justinglives]

At a sleepover when my best friend and I jerked off together.
confirmed it in college when my roomie and I hooked up alot when we were both horny.

[mockingjay367]

I think I found this out when I was in 3rd grade, but I never knew what gay meant until like 5th or 6th grade. I remembered thinking that this guy in my class was cute and when he dropped something he'd always bend down to pick it up. Well, I was always there to watch his fine ass. That must of been my first sign of hormones.

You described my story exactly- thanks for saving me typing!
:D

[edy52]

when i was 10 or 11 iwas sitting on my older brothers lap in my dads car and got the biggest woody i knew then this was for me

[fallenLethal]

I was at a friend's house, and I walked to the kitchen to get a drink, when I came back... I found out he'd cut himself badly.. As a reassuring note, I told him I loved him and that everything was going to be okay. We dated for 2 years after that.

[kye.]

I've always liked girls, ALWAYS! But then in middle school I crushed on this guy so hard -.- So since then I classified myself as bi lol

[KifoThaKid]

I had just recently lost my virginity to a girl that year. I was sitting and thinking and I had came to the realization that I liked guys but I was conflicted because I liked girls, too. I began trying to choose but I couldn't. I realized that I was bisexual. I feel completely comfortable with my sexuality.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

I started falling in love with a guy. About halfway through 5th grade, a new kid came to my school. I started having my first homosexual thoughts then, it escalated since. At that moment, I knew that I was born liking men. Before then, I didn't even know that homosexuality existed.
BTW I never dated him, and have a new crush. A guy thats probably 1/2 a year- a year older than me.

[Cognizant]

Well, it's not like I said to myself "Yep, I'm bi." It took time, I guess I noticed back when the Jonas Brothers were popular (I thought Nick was the cutest :P), and I questioned myself a little bit. I was scared, to be honest.

However, I still like women as much as men, and, in fact, I have a crush on a women, so for times and simplicities sake, I've rested with the fact that I'm bisexual, but leaning slightly towards straight.

[CaseyBlyth]

I first came out by telling people I trusted, then I started telling other people. You should take it slowly, telling people you care about and then telling more and more people

[virgcross]

I chose to be gay after getting bullied in middle school, don't regret it...guys are much funner.

[QueenOfTheOutcasts]

I dunno.
My brain just says "You like girls, idiot, accept it."

[lyriclover]

Well I never liked guys. I thought I was asexual for a few years. Then I met my first crush and was like "Hey idiot, your gay." I've had a few crushes since and they were all girls. I've still never dated anyone but I'm 99.9% sure.

[Akelley]

I don't think I'm gay but I've kissed a girl and I am a girl. I liked liked it too. Does it?

[Britt.Kolezar]

Im stright :) I<3 Dick

[Beach Princess]

I have always liked guys, but realized girls also turned me on when I was in middle school. A friend and I explored things together and it felt very comfortable to me.

[Stone_Cold]

I found out I liked guys when I realized I had a crush on this guy at school. Kept trying to deny it, but now I finally accept it.

[marisa]

I guess it was in grade 9 when I had a huge crush on this girl in my class.
I also realized earlier this year that I'm asexual

[alexkun]

i don't know... i think I've been like this since i can remember, because when i was a little boy i used to hang out with my friends all the time...and every time they asked me to do something like a hj or just to lay down so my friend could rub his little penis against my butt... i did it without asking.. and i had something to do with some girls at that age too... and through the years.. and a couple of year ago.. i finally accepted i was bi...

.. cause i never cared who i was doing it with.... my only thought is and will always be: "it feels so good" :D

[kirikiri94]

I liked the first time I get a bj from a pal

[alexkun]

well.. i think im like this since i can remember, i was taught to like girls too, but since i was a little boy i never really felt tied to like girls only, as my parents would have wanted me to.. i just loved to be with anyone that wanted to be with me too.. thats why i've done things with boys and girls as well.. i really dont mind who i am with.. as long as its someone that cares about me..

... and it wasnt to long ago when i realized i was bi... i guess it was because i never had tought about it... but when i did.. everything made sense.. and i've been so much happier.. i just need to find my soul mate.. my special one... 'cause i've been with girls and guys.. but nothing serious..

[Marko123]

i got boner when i look at boys butt

[codyF13]

Hey guys, sorry if I am repeating threads, but I am really worry about this. Why I am gay?. I am a 13 y.o boy and since ages I was attracted to boys. But I don’t know why. What happened to me? I just born this way? Someone molested me and I don’t remember? I am not a girly boy, I don’t like to dress like a girl o do girls stuff. For me girls are totally boring. My best friends are straight, I play soccer, xbox, I have a lil bro living with my dad. I swear I can’t remember something from my past related to being gay or having gay experiences. I am gay. I Know that. I like boys, I am not curious, or even BI. Why this happened to me? I heard If you have some relative gays, maybe it was transmitted from my genes..is that right? But I do not have any gay relatives. I am just a regular boy. Of course nobody knows this. Last year I had a gay experience with my best friend from the soccer team. I liked it. That’s it. I don’t want to change, but Why I am gay? Why I can’t be like my friends that are chasing girls or BJ/HJ from them? They come home for sleepovers, and we talk about girls…and “oh yes would be great having a a BJ from Susan or Patty”.. We just play xbox, never watch porn stuff cuz I don’t like that..I am just playing my str8 role. My escape is Skype there I can be myself, nobody knows me. I don’t want to come out either. No way. Catholic school.

[Aloha]

Nope!

[BadMath]

Oh man, i still don't known.. I watch gay porn all the time, but sometimes i get horny from straight porn too. In real life i like boys as a physical thing, and girls are more emotional things.. Can you guys help me?

[arthur-2012]

I liked girls up to age 9 the started liking both boys and girls i was very confused at the time but not any more i tend to lean on the gay side.

[chrisawesome]

In 5th grade me and a friend would show each other our dicks in the restroom. Before knowing what homsexual was, I would piss with another friend in the same toilet with the door wide open. Every time I see an attractive guy pissing on the internet I would get hard. I would stare at this one really really hot, buff, and ripped guy in class and get hard just looking at him. One time I jizzed in my shorts while freeballing thinking of doing a 3 way with him. Every time I look at another guy's bulge or pecs I would get a little hard. :yummy:

[ExhibitG]

Oh man, i still don't known.. I watch gay porn all the time, but sometimes i get horny from straight porn too. In real life i like boys as a physical thing, and girls are more emotional things.. Can you guys help me?

i am the exact same way, literally exact lol, and i identify as bisexual.

[teen.jpg]

Back in 6th grade when I first saw a dick online in porn, and liked it. Thought I was just weird. 7th grade a guy friend used to touch me and turn me on. Now in 8th grade Im out to my best friend, and have a crush on the same guy friend. He's so cute tho :3

[SaraAiden]

I loved a guy but I had sex with a girl so I was sexually gay.

[Skyline]

I found out I was gay about 3 years ago when I noticed that I couldn't stop looking at other guys. At first I didn't think anything of it, but then I started to develop feelings for a close friend of mine. It wasn't just a sexual attraction either it was more of a need to be near him, a want for his affection, and a strive to get him to notice me more. By then I realized that my desires could only be fulfilled by other guys. Sappy, right?

[dan8854]

it's something i have always known but to be honest i tried to deceive myself and pretend like that wasn't the case. i make a very good "straight" person. ha. i only accepted it literally a month ago.

[Abyssal Echo]

I guess I always knew I was gay. but, I came out when I was 13.

[Thomas01]

I started to like guys in second grade and realized it in fifth. Came out as a highschool freshman. Gay.
I think girls are cute just I don't find them attractive in the sexual perspective

[Straya]

16 is when I realised that I was bi and not just curious

[darkie]

I've started to fancy boys around 5th grade, and then 7th-8th grade I've been slowly accepting it, and now at 10th grade I'm pretty much stable right now, accepting that I'm bi :) I haven't come out though, only to some pretty close friends.

[alliah101]

i figured it out one day when i saw my friend one day she has always been there and then one day she just idk caught my attention she was already out and proud and i guess i was interested we started flirting shortly after that. she was the first girl i ever kissed and im 100% sure im never going back. now im with my new gf been with her for almost 2 years now and it feels great.

[brettalex]

In the beginnning, I would do everything I could to convince myself that I wasn't gay. I would ask girls out, act really manly(which was stupid xD), and try not to think those thoughts. But as I got older it hit me that I couldn't control my feelings. Once I was confident in my decision of being bi, I was scared to tell people. I kept it to myself thinking I'd change my mind. But one day, I was at a party, and I see this guy. He's really cute, so I go to talk to him, as a friend(so I could have some eyecandy(;) Next thing you know, we are in the bathroom... anyways thats when I knew it was who I was, I told people, and I felt much better about it.

[Troy35216]

i never understand questions like this. that's like asking me when did i first find out I wasn't a fish. or that i had brown eyes. it's not like there is program inside me that was just waiting to be activated at the right time. I have always had brown eyes but I wasn't always aware of it or always thinking about it. I have never been a fish but I when I was a little kid I never had a reason to wish I had gills or fins. when i was a little kid and thot a dick was just for peeing I never had a reason to think about who i wanted to have sex with but i knew who i "liked" and didn't like even if it never came up or was something I actively thought about. so it's not something i ever had to find out it's just something i always was and at different times in my life i discovered different ways that it was important. like who i do and don't have crushes on. and who i do and don't think of when i jerk off. but it's not like "at 10 years old i found out if i was gay or not" but more like "at 10 years old I had my first crush". idk if that makes any sense or not.

[kayleethegray]

I figured out I wasn't straight when I fell for my friend that is a girl. She's like perfection, and I thought only boys could be put up on the pedestal she has maintained for 2 years now, but I has had other crushes sit with her, boys and transgenders... then I recently put it all together, I'm gender-blind.

[lukene]

Well, I'm 16 and im still so confused... I mean I see a guy thats hot and I just want to kiss his face off! (Not literally... that would despite..) but I also like them romantically and want to cuddle up to them and would love to be in a relationship with a guy! But!! I still get crushes on girls and I think women are so beautiful but I don't see them like im gonna get me some of that!.. I more fall in love with them and I cant imagine sleeping with the girls in my grade... I feel that if I slept with a girl id take their innocence:/ but with a guy it do it in a heart beat! Lots of guys ask chicks for pics and "chat em up" but I just cant bring myself to do it, it makes me feel like a horrible person:( but again if I see porn with chicks in it, it turns me on but usually not if there is a male who is dominant over her, but there can be exceptions.. so that is the description of my sexuality... what should we call it;) or does it already have a name?haha
Does anyone have similar feelings?

[loverboi]

I always had a thing about my cousin. Me and him would hang out all the time. We'll we got to the curiosity stage and we were curious with each other ..later we started having sex now its the basic blowjob .but than I thought I still liked girls and thought some Guys are hot so decided I was bi

[AngelWithAShotGun]

I remember I was at school one day. I looked over and there she was. So pretty, and always nice to me. She had the black hair and green eyes. She was soo beautiful.
I always watched her, and made she I did everything she wanted. Then I was on the phone one day and I told my best friend I was bi. Then about...2 days later I got my first girlfriend. <3 Ah.....those boobs. <3

[IrishboyMcgee]

I just came out this year. I have known for a very long time I was attracted to guys, I was to young to understand the terminology behind it. Now, at 16, my whole family knows, and so do my friends, idk how it happened, but hey, all of us are different in some way or another. I currently have a guy I am talking too, we started talking in December, I am looking forward to a relationship with him, and my parents actually approve which, is a miracle!!!!!

[betheone]

Honestly, for me there wasn't a definite day or time in which I woke up and figured out I was bi. For me it was something I always knew. People think that they need a definitive moment, like you have to kiss both sexes or be sexually explore yourself to find out but that wasn't for me. I always knew I would see girls as more than friends and also knew the same would be true for guys. I was always and still am attracted to both sexes. Anyway that was me but I guess it could be different for everyone.

[unusedaccount]

This really cute cute guy who was in my class from reception, up to year 6. I always had a crush on him :/ sadly, the feelings weren't mutual.

[Lovelife090994]

This really cute cute guy who was in my class from reception, up to year 6. I always had a crush on him :/ sadly, the feelings weren't mutual.

Ouch, I had the same problem but with girls over the years. Now I feel more bi-curious than anything.

[uranlefgt]

....

[ItsJustJack]

i have always liked girls since as long as i can remember. i have found myself very attracted to other boys. i have masturbated to gay porn and i love it. i also like girls too but i really think i would rather have a boyfriend right now <3 a few of my friends know im bi and others do too...but no boys r bi or gay that i no of =[[[ i really wanna make out with a guy ... and my parents dont know. does anyone have a suggestion on how to tell them ='( i dont want to tell them tho. so i gradually learned i was bi and my attraction for guys kept getting stronger. i dont like anyone at my school really but i want a boyfriend

In your exact situation except I have made out with one super hot guy on multiple occasions =p and I loved it.

[PYRO666PYRO]

this is how i was but now i have been in and out alot of samesex relations

[jaci2017]

I just kind of woke up one day and was like "ohmygod I think I'm bi." I'd questioned my sexuality before but always made excuses for my attraction to other girls. Looking back on my life now I realize I've always been bisexual I just never realized it. I'm still not absolutely positive that I'm bi because I've never had a relationship with a girl. ( I would like to though.)

[norcaldude18]

I'd say junior year in high school is when I realized I was probably gay. Senior year is when I was positive :)

[Skitty]

Well, me and my friend had a pretty touchy-feely night on a boyscout camping trip. Up until that point I had never though guys could be attractive. Now thats about all i find attractive :3

[Mebenick]

Honestly, for me I think I realized it when I was in 12th grade when I developed my first crush on a guy. Before than, I had always been attracted to guys sexually and would look at gay porn and masturbate to the thoughts of guys but I had always had crushes on girls so I never thought about it before. Then it really just clicked last year and I now view myself as gay!

[jaggdhil]

When I was in grade 7 and I saw this guy and thought he was cute. Then a week later we kissed :wub:!!!!:yeah:

[arthurpacifico]

when i started paying more attention on the man's penis than the girl when i watched straight porn :)

[Maddies_Not_Okay]

I never came out but my friend told her mom like this, her ME and another friend were sitting in her car with her mom and all of a sudden she said "hey mom I'm bi" her mom was like " what!! Your friends are bi?" And we both said no. "No im bi" my friend said, her mom gave us a speech about how it's okay and perfectly fine because your teenagers, She's a nice lady too. :)

[Misfit]

I probably first noticed it when I started thinking about a guy i knew instead of my girlfriend, it was weird to me but I had read that it happens a lot during puberty. Then I met a guy who I got along with really well however he was involved in drugs and other family issues. I began to really worry about him constantly and for some reason I felt really attached to him so I guess that was the emotion side of attraction.

I never really felt any attraction towards girls but in high school it was a normal for a guy to have a GF so I though that's just how everyone felt.

[Shadow]

I first found out I was bi when I made out with a poster of Eminem.

[Harry Smith]

I was on the bus one day and then I saw this guy from my school get. I was so amazed by his forwardness, he just came over and started talking to me about his NME magazine followed by him telling me about 101 things about his life, he kept talking for the whole time. Then he just got off the bus, the next day I said to him that I never got his name. This was about 5 years ago, I still talk to him at school and I've been madly in love with him for the last 4 years. But I think I knew the moment that he started talking that I was gay

[Faolan]

I found out I was bi this fall, sophomore year. I was in a theatre production at my high school, and I realized that I had crushes on my two best friends at the same time. One's a guy, one's a girl.

[ChakraMonster]

I would always want guys around me.
I would always stare at guy's crotchs' and I don't know, & When I watched gay porn for the first time >>>>

[The Awkward Artist]

Um well, I am still questioning, but I'm pretty damn sure I'm bi. I've really started noticing lately (like the past month or two). It's the fact that I can never get one of my best friends out of my head, and I got really jealous of the guy who she kissed last night. Plus, I kind of want to kiss her myself. And when I was dared to kiss a guy last night, I swear I almost imagined I was kissing her. Also, she was tired before me, and she slept for about a half hour with her head in my lap, holding my hand... In order to clear my head, I slept as far away from her on the bed, but when I woke up, her arm was around my side, and she was pressed up against my back. I didn't move, and she didn't realize that I was awake for like ten minutes. I know that she's bi too, and I think I really really like her, but I don't want to ruin anything, because she's such a good friend to me, but part of me also wants more.... help?!

[DannyT]

When i was in 1st grade some guys of my cass didnt like me, so i was bullied, and then when I passed the years i went to other school there it was worse the guys called me gay and i was always with girls but i tried to be with but never worked.
I denied to myself that i was gay because i was becoming bisexual but then one day, i decided to agree that i was gay and now im on 10 th grade, and i never told any1 that im gay and im getting better with the guys and the girls so there's my story :D

[chrisf55]

bi

I found out because I enjoyed looking at other guy's penises.

[Frostyy]

I found out that I was gay just last year. I had always suspected it, but I suppressed the thought because I didn't want it to be true at first. One day I just decided that I couldn't deny the fact anymore, and told my mum. She was accepting, and that was more than I ever expected!

[cpkid09]

my whole life ive had a curiosity for both boys and girls then once i got into puberty it was just girls and then boys came back into the mind like a year later haha i just accepted i was bi when i was 12

[spotlessmind]

i remember doing weird gay things since kindergarden...i dont know why...i never have attraction for girls. It is ridiculous that it took me 18 years to realize that im gay with these obvious things. i have been painfully shy, lonely, stuttering and friendless (really no clue how to make friend) all my life. if i realize im gay earlier , i wont have such a hard time trying to make a friend who I didnt know i have crush with, and i later found someway to leave him knowing that i could not handle the rejection nor hurt his feelings if i come out to him..(seeing me alone away from the crowds, he always try to approached me and chat with me, omg he is such a nice person).

im still trying to convince my parent of my sexuality, but they still insist that its hormonal problems....

[ItsJustJack]

I kind of always knew I was bi. I mean girls are very pretty, have curves, and soft skin. And guys, they are handsome, they can wrap you in their arms, and you feel protected, and their rough skin, and body hair. I think of girls in a more relationship way, and guys in a more sexual way.

I feel u dude, i know exactly how you feel.

[Troy35216]

read it in a fortune cookie

[Imboredofthis1]

This thing is going to be hard for me because it's a really long and boring story so I'll try to sum it up.

Back in year 7 (I'm in year 11 now :D:D) no one had told me anything was wrong. Things were going on in my head because I didn't feel right after moving in to a new school and I didn't know anything I was doing or saying. I had a history of this before the worst part actually happened but I kept chasing girls around the school saying I wanted to do stuff to them, bla bla, and none of them would talk to me after that, but I didn't know what I was actually doing wrong in the first place because my parents didn't tell me anything.

I got in really big trouble with some of the teachers because of this, called out of lesson to talk to the head of my yeargroup about it and almost got suspended. They rang my mum because obviously she needed to know about what I'd done, and I was going to meetings at that time about a possible diagnosis for a mental problem. 4 years later we find out I'm autistic, all of the problems are over with and I'm actually talking to the girls again now but for a while I couldn't think of what to do and they all thought I was a pervert so I lied about being bisexual to try and get some of them off my back. But for some reason I started watching gay things instead and I have actually turned into more of a bisexual than a straight person. I don't mind, I'm happy this way, even if I get boners at the most embarassing times, even had one in the changing room for P.E before :@ I can put up with it though because hardly anyone notices. This is how I found that out.

And this also had something to do with it:
I used to be obsessed with Genie In The House, went on the website all the time and posted things (And I even made a rap that got voiced by one of the actors!! :D). One day I was on it and a porn site came up as a popup and the first thing I clicked on was toys, somehow thinking it meant the things kids get to play with THEN I clicked on gay to see what they were like and after watching some of them I guess it just... happened. :(

[brandnewjosh]

i kinda just knew, i used to fool around with a few friends when i was little, so i guess that made me realize

[MaguireUk]

Started of in year 6 at camping as was in the cabbins, truth or dare came up, and well i liked what i seen ever since then always liked both girls and guys

[countryboi9]

ive known since I was younger, liked looking at guys at school and swimming and at sports

[RyanJF1]

When I turned 11 and started going through puberty, I noticed I wasn't entirely attracted to girls, and that something was missing.

That something happened to be guys. :P

[peaceloveanarchy]

Just recently started to accept that i'm gay but ive had my suspicions for a while... I've had a couple of girlfriends but neither were very serious, i guess i just dated them cuz that's what you're "supposed" to do.. Either way they both broke up with me when they saw the relationship was going absolutely nowhere, all we did was kiss a couple times and even that was akward as hell. :\ I continue to hang out with one of my exes on an almost daily basis though, and we're great friends even though she doesn't know i'm gay unless she's arrived at that conclusion on her own ;)

[Envy.]

I had a crush on a guy in seventh grade. I had always masturbated to guys before, but this really made me determine I was bi. I'm still emotionally attracted to females sometimes, just not physically.

[toronto666]

When I was about 10 years old, I used to start getting boners whilst getting changed for sport after looking at this hot guy, and it was difficult to conceal ;)

[BlackieChan21E]

I think I actually realized I was bi last year and still struggle with accepting it because of my religion and what not. But I have openly admitted to most of my friends, my mom, and even my youth pastor that I have liked guys before in my life and in fact I feel one of them was the only person so far I can say I actually loved I think I still do to sometimes. But anyways back on topic.
I feel I shouldn't be to surprised as I liked my first guy in 8th grade (Im in 12th now) and I've also found guys just as if not more attractive as girls since the 3rd grade. I also (although trying to stop) watch more gay or bi (two guys, one girl) porn than straight porn.
So I guess I've always been, but I didn't realize until I was 17 that I could be/am bi.
I like girls for a relationship, but more guys are hotter than girls. But I try not to think of either sexually because im trying to wait till mirage for sex, but when I do have fantasies its usually with a guy.

[unamedaccount]

I'm bi I never really knew what it meant but ever since I was 5 I liked guys but didn't notice myself liking them just like oh he's cute but said it in my head my cuzin which is bi to and she is a girl I'm a guy she just told me like a couple months ago that she was bi I don't want to tell her I'm bi to cuz it seems like she is Lying to me but idk I'm big but I don't want to

[SkatingHero]

Easy. Girls are hot. Guys aren't. Problem solved.

[magicmike]

when a friend of mine was tossing me off and i said wow i like the idea of being bi so i became bi

[omgtell]

Ever since I was in 2-3rd grade I had strong feelings towards guys. I was in the closet until 8th grade, thats when more and more people started to guess I was gay, and one day I was like fuck it, and came out of the closet on facebook, and word spread so fast. (231 likes, holy shit.) Alot of people supported me, but there were bullies. I wasnt like raped or taunted or anything. I was on;y called gay about 3-2 times. But theres a catch, Ive always felt that I was in the wrong body. I absolutly hated being a guy. So, about 3 months after I came out, I came out as a crossdresses as well. Once again, people accepted me, except my family. My mother wasnt the happiest person in the world, she didnt really like it but she let me do it. She tried to stop me and I said "You can have a relationship with me like this, or not one at all." and then she realized she better leave me alone. To this day, I still an a cross dresser and I plan to become a woman by the age of 25. (: But point is, I've always knew I was gay.

[xXEverReadyXx]

I have known for about 2 years that I was gay, about 6 months ago I finally accepted it, as part of me, and to embrace it. I'm still closeted though. I have only watched gay porn cause its the only kind I get turned on by, lol. I have NEVER been attracted to girls only guys and have had soooo many crushes on cute guys at school, and when i was little I would always think about doin naughty stuff with other guys ^_^. I just love guys so much, so yeah :P

[countryboi9]

i realized i was gay after seeing 2 guys doing it when we were camping

[jayyy-lmao]

I realised I was bi when I got a crush on two close friends, and then realised these weren't new feelings; I'd felt this way about other girls before, but I still think guys are hot and great and all that. But I'm more into girls.

[TapDancer]

Easy. Girls are hot. Guys aren't. Problem solved.

Strictly your opinion. Please respect people here who do not share your feelings. There is no problem liking anyone of any gender.

[ItsDarien]

I first found out by kissing a guy, and kissing a girl the next day.
I would prefer intercourse with a girl, but if I had the chance to have intercourse with a guy, I would go for it.

~Darien.

[chrisjb2000]

i started chrusin on this guy and found out im gay

[SkatingHero]

Strictly your opinion. Please respect people here who do not share your feelings. There is no problem liking anyone of any gender.

I'm sorry for sharing my honest opinion. I assure you, it won't happen again Mr. Moderator.

[TapDancer]

I'm sorry for sharing my honest opinion. I assure you, it won't happen again Mr. Moderator.

You can share opinions, but, the post is "How did you first find out you were gay or bi?" The question is not directed at people who identify themselves as straight. This Forum is for people with issues with their sexuality, not sarcastic people with no tact or empathy towards others. Your comment was unnecessary.

[asm1072]

physical changes like pubic hair , other hairs etc.the mind change which i noticed.i got curious over sexy other guys. this showed me that iam a guy.

[chargersfan]

I just kind of slowly realized, I like boys over girls.

[Luke257]

Well, apparently I always was gay. That was the way I was created and I am quite happy with that.:D My mom knew I was gay before I did, at the age of 5. Apparently, I had a crush on boy in kindergarten but I didn't know what gay meant and I just thought it was just normal lol. I figured out I was gay at the age of 11 when I stumbled on some gay porn. When I looked at girls, I had no arousal so I knew I was gay then lol

[Picklesurprise]

well i always had these weird feelings ever since i was in the fifth grade. when i entered middle school i started noticing the guys more. most of my friends were girls and and all the guys used to say my best friends Pilar and Amanda were the hottest girls in school. i used to hear people say they used to jack off to pictures of them. never had those feelings and i thought it was weird. i was sort of envious that all the guys paid attention to them more than me. i got depressed and started eating more. then i started fantasizing about these two guys in our class... Chris and Peter. i always liked to draw anime and i used to draw them (sometimes how i saw them and sometimes a bit raunchier). i couldnt deny my gayness then. i used to masturbate to the thought of them. i still see them today and it doesnt get any better.
If you have a phone or social network text me my number 0422078718 jai veljanovski

[GigglyAbby]

Pre-puberty -- I was essentially a Tomboy [minus boys pants socks and underwear] and I seemed like one of the boys [my twin bro and Caleb have been my best friends through life] and I shunned girls. Between some guy violating my boundaries and being bullied for allegedly being a lesbian [never did anything with a girl then] in 3rd grade -- I went through extensive counseling and at that point I figured I was a boy trapped in a girl's body. Once puberty hit -- I began to dress more like a girl and I developed attractions to both genders and when I realized I was likely bisexual -- I cried to dad & mom -- Caleb -- and my twin and before I could say the problem they blurted out that I was either gay or bi. Pretty supportive family -- 3 close female friends -- and now 2 year boyfriend [Caleb] have stuck with me.

[Hermes96]

i first had feeling towards other guys in year 7 ( 6th grade ) its only in the last year or so that iv'e accepted that i'm gay (even if my parents won't)

PM me if you ever need to chat ~ :yummy:

i stopped looking at girls and started to look at boys and no i don't notice girls unless i like there outfit or they have juicy gossip


Posts merged. Please do not double post.
~Reveuse

[Gopher]

Started with experimenting with a friend that turned to full out sex, eventually i realized i had a crush on him and we weren't just fooling around anymore.

[The Flash]

And I guess I "found out" I was bi, last year.
But I've found guys attractive for a while

[steellord321]

I don't remember a specific moment but it was during summer camp at age 12 that i first noticed liking guys. Also had a friend i'd see now and then and started to like in that way. Then when school started in the fall just confirmed it.

[acan1997]

I dont kno. I guess ur just always lyke that

[TapDancer]

I think I knew from a young age. I never really understood my excitement when swimming came on, or if a boy was shirtless. I accepted it when I was 14, I was in love. He turned out to be a jerk, but, I won't begrudge that he helped me out of the closet.

[teen.jpg]

I first noticed other guys when I started admiring guys with 6 pack abs xD. I tried to deny it untîl I couldn't anymore, so I accepted it when I turned 13.

[RazorEdge]

When I was in 6th grade and I couldn't wait until 7th grade for the locker rooms.

I also told myself that I was gay in 5th grade, but turns out I was only bisexual.

Puberty is a crazy time.

[Fanta_Lover44]

I never really liked girls for me i was like 9 when i ofund out i had completely no feelings for girls at all.

[Altiier]

Before I became an Atheist I always suppressed these feelings thinking they were "unnatural" after I read the Bible and realized how I had been deceived, I embraced them openly. :D

[Nottoocool]

I was reading these forums and was like, this describes me. Thus I'm gay and in the closet

[skandardude]

Well... It went something like this...

I always knew I was different. I NEVER liked girls. Just never did anything for me. Even in fourth grade, I'd sit in class and have my little elementary school crushes on the other boys. It was very very odd trying to process this. But I am the kind of individual who has ALWAYS known what their sexuality was.

It was something that was always in me. It wasn't something that came to me. It was always there, like the ground under my feet. I never questioned why it was there or how it got there, it was just factual that it stood beneath me. Same for my sexuality.

[galacticwitch]

it's something I knew naturally all my life

[llwoahll]

I found out once I hit puberty I was bi cause I know I liked boys for sure but girls were iffy to me till I met this one girl who changed everything

[pokedragonS8]

I High school, I did an experiment with my friend by going out for a day...
We kissed on each others cheeks, and hugged... I knew I didn't feel any LOVE for her, but I did feel attracted...Then I confirmed it.

I actually was pretty confident I was bi, but somehow always felt a bit doubt...
I knew I already liked guys due to a few crushes, but after the experiment...

I knew.

[photojared]

I first known when I was 8 but it was confirmed by my best friend kissing me and just whoa that was a day

[blue.lips]

Well...Funny story (okay maybe not).
I remember being 11 and catching myself looking at the bodies of the older girls at school. I tried to convince myself that I am just appreciating a nice body or tell myself that I'm looking at their butts because I wad jealous.

At 11 I was very guilty and ashamed to admit to myself that I was bisexual. I felt ashamed to be attracted to girls even though my family had no problem with it and I was very into the pride movement at the time. After a lot of crying and self acceptance I'm happy to be true to myself and I prefer girls over boys!

[xxdrakeTxx]

Well in fith grade i developed fellings for my friend who was a guy and pretty much liked guys ever since although are friendship didnt last

[Micci]

I think I always knew I was gay, but never acknowledged it as different, if that makes sense.

Since I was young, I was always doing things that make sense now, but it was innocent when I did it.

For example, I kissed a girl friend of mine on the cheek when I was young, also, there was a guy that would go around kissing all the girls, though none of them ever minded. But, when he tried to kiss me, I was terrified and it was.. really icky.

Then, in middle school, I met a good friend of mine. She was, and still is beautiful, and though I don't regret meeting her, I don't even regret falling for her. I just regret spending all that time pining over her.

Meh, at least I know what not to do for next time.. .-.

[southernguy]

While I'm just now coming to terms to accept it, I've always been different from other guys. I would always look at guys I thought were cute and get butterflies in my stomach. Friends would always talk about how hot a girl is, and to me that conversation was awkward and it never felt genuine when I would talk about it with them. Recently, another guy started to flirt with me, and I picked up on it, and I had feelings back, so here we go...

[xXMajor_PancakesXx]

Well, I started to notice my gayness in the 6th grade, when this kid Oscar moved into our class. He is so fine, I still jack off to him in my head. Then I started to watch gay porn. But I still haven't come out yet. I live in a society where that is STRONGLY rejected. ;(

[mrtsian]

We always know it. right? haha...

[Tarannosaurus]

When I was 11 and my friend kissed me, but it took me a while to realise that I'm gay.

[ByXaz]

I was watching a movie with my cousin and saw a guy and I mentally stroked my chin like (Hmmm. Not bad)

[epicoc]

watching straight porn i noticed 90% of time i was looking at men not women :)

[SawyerSauce]

I'm Pan(sexual).

When I felt a physical attraction to not only girls but people that don't identify as male or female is when I knew I wasn't heterosexual.

I really pay more attention on what's in your skull instead of whether you have an X or a Y chromosome. I'm sort of a sapiosexual ;)

[sqishy]

Ever since I was 13 I started finding loads of guys' bodies physically attractive to varying levels. It was the hair and face that got me first, then their body came after. If that worked, I'd look at their personality. I was doing this all in my mind; the people I was attracted to knew nothing. There was one person I found very attractive physically but he insulted me, so that was the end of my attraction to him.
In 2009 I found someone in my year incredibly attractive and actually made me horny. I loves his appearance and personality, especially his hair, face, voice, the way he smiled, his body, and his sense of humour. He was also more of an introvert than an extrovert, similar to me. So I developed this obsession about him and tried to find out as much as I could about him without him or anyone else knowing anything. He went to the same TKD (TaeKwon-Do, a matrial art) classes that I did, so I got to stalk him more. Once we were doing a self-defense thing, where one person would lay on the other to trap the person. I had to go onto him once, and OMG. My heart was racing- I was touching him and I could even smell him. I didn't get a boner thankfully, or else someone would notice, probably him first :whoops:
So I loved him until he left the school in June, since he didn't do the optional 4th year that I did, meaning that I still have the 6th and final year to do, while he does to university. So, since I could never see him again, the mood fluctuations I got turned into mood swings. Whenever I thought of him it sent me into depression. Unrequited love hurt sooooo bad :(.
With all this happening you'd think I new myself as being gay. But no. I knew all the feelings I was getting, but never made the connection with that and being gay. Whenever I heard the term I knew something made sense, but I still denied it. So I stayed in this state of self-denial and confusion, trying to see myself as someone different that what I actually was.
So I decided, with all the holiday time on my hands, to come out to my parents via a diary, where I wrote about my same-sex attractions, masturbation and other stuff I would never have the nerves to say. I put all the stuff I needed to say down on the paper from 1 to 5 AM on June 26th of this year, which happened to be a Wednesday, the day of the week I was born on :D. I then went to bed, got up at midday and was in a state of nerves, worry and excitement that I never got before in my life. I showed the diary to my mom between 10 and 11 pm, after an hour or so psyching myself up to do it. Then I spent the next hour outside the back of the house, in a field, pacing relentlessly and taking to myself about what I did, my inner reactions and opinions to this, my life so far, and what my parents/friends/other people would think of this. I was on the verge of crying, and extremely alert. Then I came inside at 11:15 and read some science magazines, shaking with fear. My mom came in with tears down her face at 11:45. She said she was crying out of pride that I did this etc. Then I cried, and we both talked about stuff in the diary for an hour after, using up the tissue boxes. That day was when I realized I was gay for sure, and came to terms with it. It changed my life.
My dad found out a day later, but he wasn't emotional, just using some kind wording. I wasn't emotional either, probably because I was watching come comedy stuff on youtube. In mid-July I came out to a friend, while on TKD summer camp (he does TKD too). I was nervous then too, but not as much.
Now, with school coming, I am ready to come out to some of my friends. And if it leaks out so much the better. Then I won't have to hide things anymore.
I still have to come out to my sister though, sooner rather than later. Must be done. CHALLENGE ACCEPTED.

Guess my answer is very long....

[MsVengeance]

I found out I was bi because generally throughout my life I've been attracted to both boys and girls (I'm a girl). And Since I was 11 I've been attending an all girls school which was when I realised that I fancied a lot of girls.
Also when I watch porn I like to watch a lot of lesbian stuff :3

[1_21Guns]

I was about 15 I think, I was becoming increasingly attracted to girls and I'd been wondering for a while and I confided in some close friends about thinking I was bi, they were like "I knew it!!!!" :P

[ksdnfkfr]

A few months ago when my relationship with my best friend started changing when we started beginning puberty.

[KellyNC]

I probably started really to realize when I was 13 or 14. 13 was when I realized I still really enjoyed when I realized I really enjoyed "playing with myself" with my female friend, and 14 when I realized I enjoyed doing more than that too. Now I'm bi, and happy about it

[Luminous]

not sure if I posted in here.

In a nutshell, I realized girls are waay hotter than guys. No offense guys.
I guess it's a lot more complicated than that- first I thought I was bi because I had a crush on a girl, then I realize I was not and am not attracted to guys at all.

[The Enderwoman]

I noticed I kept staring at girls a lot, thinking about them as more than just friends. And then after a while I started expiermenting with girls and realized I liked it and didn't like doing that type of stuff with boys.