How did you first find out you were gay or bi?

[Aliasing]

Well I guess, my first hint was when I started to discover pornography. Of course it was straight porn. But I never really paid attention to the woman, I always was focusing on the penetration.
Eventually I came to terms with my Homosexuality, and am trying to get familiar with the LGBTQ community here in Vancouver. Luckily I found a youth group that helps with just that.

[doyoufeelit]

Well when I started the 6th grade. Thats when I knew. I was sitting next to this boy in class and I Just thought he was so "hot". Then I just started to like men. I just didn't have any interest in women.

I first started to tell my friends that I'm Bi but then I came out to my friends that I am gay. And thats how it all started.

That is the exact same stori as mine, lol

[MusicLover10]

when i 1st found out i was bi was when i was in 7th grade during the summer when i met this girl at our skool end of the year party and we became friends but not close friends we talked everyday,but then tht summer i met my current ex destiney she was lesbian she played basketball older team but played with us one game we won and after the game i was txt sumbody i 4got who and she walked past me and told my txt me sum time and gave me her number so we started talkin we skyped alot then she told me she was lesbian i was lyk really she said u look lyk ur bi and i was like yeah. then a month l8ter we dated on and off we r offically broken up now but we still talk we were super close but we are not close anymore but when i dated my current ex i stop talkin to Kirrsten. but this past year we were on a skool trip and there was a party there and i was hangin with her she was my roommate and bed buddy :P and the party was loud and the song i like it was playin and she pulled me closer and winked at me then she told me she was bi and i was lyk omg i am 2 and then another song came on and she was lyk u wanna go bac to the room ill show u a lil sumthin i was lyk heck yeah but we couldnt leave b/c we had 2 take other ppl i was mad but now its like im somewhat in love with her....but everytime she wants 2 hang i always have somethin or my mom wont let me that's when i truly found out i was bi cuzz i still lyked guys to...now i get from guys that i would b really cute and if i was a guy they would turn gay and girls tell me imma really cute girl and they also say i would b one sexy guy lol

[symbol4]

First of all, I'm 14 and a girl..
Second I'm new to this..
My story? I fell in love with this amazing person, my girl (even if she don't no it yet..). Well yeah it's wasn't all sexual thoughts .. Nah, I loved her.. This was about a year ago, I still love her. She is an amazing person!<3. When she found out I cut, she didn't think of me as a monster like other people who found out.. Know what she did? She held me for a hour strait!<3 I no I'm bi and come to accept that. But my parents DO NOT enjoy gay pride or anything they really go against it. I no she would have nothing to do with me if she found out. So I'm going to "come out" when I'm 18.. :/
Pm me if you need to talk..:)

[kuuliluuk]

I have always liked boys more. Even before puberty. I was on denial + I was intoxicated with mentality that time will fix that puberty related 'minor' problem. Until I fell in love with a boy from neighbourhood. Truth struck me like a lightningbolt. Nobody of my peers wanted nor accepted samesex love or sex. That was difficult.

[Starbuck]

I've always found boys better; girls are bitchy and they're jealous, but boys are light-hearted and they enjoy having fun. Plus the male body is a work of art. I find boys are much easier to create bonds with and they're less likely to turn against their friends like girls do.

I consider myself gay because I like boys, but I've never had sexual relationship with anyone, although I do have a friend whom I love very much and whom I'd love to have that type of relationship with :3. He started everything and now because of him I consider myself gay.

[Princess_Nerd7]

7th or 8th grade I realized that I was checking out girls as much as I was guys :/ it was kinda weird at first and I wasn't really sure but then I had this HUGE crush on this girl at school and then I was like 'omg I really like this girl' and nothing really came of it :( she was str8 so kinda sucked for me but oh well. Better luck next time lol :)

[the_chef_of_your_lif]

I guess I always have been bi. I remember always finding girls pretty sexy. I didn't put any thought into it. I decided there was nothing "odd" about this. Then I started dating my boyfriend and well, let's just say we and our friends have had many conversations so I started thinking 'well maybe I am' so I talked to my 'big sister' a good friend who is bi and i asked the questions. After that I thought about it a lot more. Then I decided I was. I told a couple of my friends, a couple cousins, and my boyfriend. I haven't told my family, they're way too churchy. But now, if someone at school says something bad about gays, lesbians or bi's, I can stand up and throw it in their face that they're being a giant jerk. ^_^

[TrAnSMaN09]

i was in gr9 and it was my first day of cooking class and in walks Jai, This beautiful girl, she was 19 i was 14 maybe 15, she had her lip pierced, and short black hair, she was soo skinny, and god she drove me wild, I couldn't even stand next to her with out my heart pounding, i thought she could hear it, but i went into a different class at the turn of the semester and never talked to her again, but then i got in touch with her over fb, and we used to be friends but then she got a girlfriend and stopped talking to me.... soo... :(

[villain]

Well it was my 12th birthday party and we did truth or dare and i was dared to kiss one of my best friends.....She was my best friend and i was thinking (This is gonna be awesome) But then when it happened i felt no spark or i had no feelings for her then when it got to the end of the school (Thats when i told my friend i was gay) i kept thinking about that kiss...... "Did i really like it ?" *nodding my head no* Until i noticed a guy Damion... Having fantasies about him .... So i've been inviting him to sleep over..... He already knew i was gay but he still slept over.... One time we've had a shaving cream fight and it was fun and he got soaked so he had to change shirts i just couldn't stop staring at him when i saw his body....(MMMMMM).... So long story short i figured out i was gay at the end of the school year

[mikej95]

I've always thought I was straight but then I started watching gay porn and I got really horny.The problem is that guys only get me horny when there in porn.like I don't see a guy on the street and say I wanna have sex with him but if the same guys in a Porno then I'll get hard.I still like girls but I wanna have guys to.any body think the same?

[LittlePaperStars]

I've always liked guys, but in Early March of this year, I started noticing girls differently as well. I developped a big crush on one of my best friends, and well, I she found out via something someone else said. She told me that she wasn't weirded out at all and that she accepts me. But I'm not quite ready to come out to my parents because they're crazy religious. :/

[Wheatley]

I started to think I was gay/bi in year 5 or 6 ( 10 years old roughly)

But thinking back to primary school and reception its been obvious, so my mind is pretty well mqde up and i dont think this os likely to change after uberty

[Markhen221]

For some time now, Ive been liking boys. But this week, I decided to tell my friends that I was bi.

[tHe_Jester1080]

I've alaways been attracted to girls and wanted to have sex with them. But ever since the 7th grade I've always been "attracted" to hot guys. and when i first watched gay porn i was curious and wanted to try it too i guess. i wanna have both guys and girls

[PandaBear]

I've always had attractions to both sexes. At first, from when I started puberty at 11, to around 14-15, I just assumed it was some kind of phase that I'd get over, but I never did. I finally accepted I was bisexual at around 15-16 years old.

[Vanyauey]

I found out I was bi while pretending to be gay to annoy some friends. I said I had feelings for them then I actually did get feelings for them. Weird.

[JoshD]

I remember in elementary school I like both guys and girls but never really thought about it. I would get really turned on by multiple girls, but I also thought guys were really attractive too. I swim, and in the locker room I always tried to get a peak at other guys dick's. And because we were in elementary school, most of them changed naked, but I usually didn't because I didn't feel comfortable. Until one day I was at a swim meet and was with a bunch of boys I didn't know so I decided to go for it and I got completely naked. And remember I was still in elementary school-so around 9-10 years old. And I popped a huge boner the second I got naked. I was so turned on, and I didn't know why. I tried to hide it with my arm while putting my underwear on, but it didn't work and some people saw. But because we were young, no one really did or said anything, and they all just went on like normal.

I remember another time, I was in the locker room with this kid, and he would always get naked in front of me. So one time I went into the locker room and we were alone, and he got naked next to me and was talking, and I had just a shirt on. So I tried to put my boxers on, and pretended to lose balance and try to fall on him to try and feel his dick! He kinda freaked out a bit, but he still thought it was an accident! ;p I didn't get to feel it though.. haha.

It sounds so bad now that I think of it! :P

Anyways, my attraction for girls slowly started to fade throughout middle school, but I didn't want to accept it, and now I don't like girls at all, I think guys are so sexy!!! But I'm still in the closet... :/

[AndrewExists]

My first kiss was with a guy, and most of the times before, I had crushes on girls. I did have a crush on this other guy, but it never went anywhere and I thought it was just a phase thing. I didn't really know what gay or bi or straight REALLY was until after I made out with my first boyfriend.

I dated both guys and girls, but managed to keep it discrete and it's nothing bad at all to really not feel comfortable with the labels gay or bi. I just like attractive people :)

[Kaje 0898]

:-) i found out that i'm bi while watching porn. :-)

[anxiousb1tch]

Ok, I work with this girl who's pretty petite. She's athletic and has short hair and I never thought I'd be attracted to someone like this, especially when I'm in almost a 2 year relationship with a GUY and any girl I was attracted to before was girlier than her or was hardcore instead of sporty. I haven't known her long enough to say anything, but I have known her long enough to ask her to hangout, which is exactly what the plan is.
I've never experimented to the point where I felt comfortable with my sexuality and because of that, I think, I still don't feel comfortable. I feel stuck on the fence, when at the same time deep down I know what I prefer. My mother signed me out of english, grade 10, 'for an appointment' that actually turned out being her was of telling me she knew I'd been seeing my friend (let's call her B.). The same day she'd found out I smoked cigarettes and weed, but neither of those things mattered because she only brought me home to scream at me for being with a girl. Since then my mind has been clogged with confusion and unhappy thoughts and boredom with my life.

I have no idea what to do because every one of my friends has said they've known for a long time that I prefer women, I was the girl who'd rather make out with girls, hangout with dude friends and keep them as only dude friends. I guess the problem isn't me questioning my sexuality it's more me being unable to break my boyfriends heart again.
any advice would be appreciated, it's f*cking hard.

[kindofdepressed1]

I don't know if I am gay or just scared idk. I right now am only with guys idk what the future is.

[ForrestBri]

When I was in primary school I would have feelings for both girls and boys, but I guess I was more interested in my friends trampoline than I was with sex back then. It carried up until now so I guess I've always been attracted to both genders really.

[ally_____]

well, i guess it started a long time ago. i was probibly in 5th or 6th grade, when ever there was a really attractive girl on tv i'd get all nervous cuz i didn't want anyone to see that i thought she was hot, so i'd stare at the ground or something. my family always makes fun of gays and lesbians so i felt like i disapointing them or something, so i denied it for a long time, but recently i've started to remember and my attraction to other females is even stronger. i was always uncomfortable when ever there was a gay or lesbian on tv cuz my parents would always make coments about them, they still dont know that i'm bisexual, i've considered telling them a few times, but they are so unwilling to even think that its posible for me to like the same sex that they would either deny it, or disown me. :(

[JordanM]

Im not sure, maybe I always knew , still havent fully accepted it, but compared to how i would repress it a few years ago im much happier now that im more open about it

[scouse-emo-chick]

I allways knew my bi best mate was really pretty.. Then stunning...then cute...then hot... She told me she had feelings for me and I immediatly realised I loved her back n tryed to push down my feelings...didn't last long and we were soon going out. :D still never kissed a girl tho cause she thought it was funny to pretend to dump me so I dumped her instead.. <3 btw molly you sound epic!

[ApolloL]

i don't know. it just sort of happened. i didn't even like guys then. i mean as a kid, i was not attracted to guys. i even liked girls. i still like girls now, but not as much as guys.

[GothicChick7777]

I always knew I liked guys, but sometimes I would stare at other girls, and I liked it... I would come home from school, lay down and think, but I always denied myself by saying "there's no way I'm bi" or "what will my boyfriend think?" Then about a month later (I was now single and my ex was constantly texting me.. Like every day...) And he started asking questions, because while we dated he noticed that I sometimes stare at other girls.. I never thought he would notice.. He asked if i was a lesbian, I said no. Then he asked if I was bi... I hesitated to answer, and then I explained everything, but in the end i continued to deny it countless times, he wouldn't give up till i gave him an answer.. After about an hour of denying... I knew I was bi, and denying it wasnt going to get me anywhere.. I told him that I was.. And i was so relieves to finally get it off my chest.. Now I'm happily bi and loving it :P but he and my best friend are the only ones who know... My parents think bisexuals are gross, and I dont want to tell them and have them be disgusted by me... But I'm fine with hiding it, at least until I'm out of highschool...

[DarkHorses]

I had this girl ask me out, and I thought I was straight, but for some reason I said yes. And ever since then I've been extremely interested in girls, not just emotionally but sexually too, more so than guys. So I don't know if I'm bi or a lesbian, but I know that I'm one of them.

[DreamerGirl]

I first found out I was Bi when I started having feelings for a girl in my class

[ApolloL]

it's a good thing that almost all of us here found out we're gay/bi while we're still young. i can't imagine how it would be like knowing you're gay/bi when you're way older. say, 40 or 50. i can't help thinking of all the things they would miss.

knowing is one thing. embracing it is another. and to make the knowing more meaningful, it should be embraced.

[OptimusPrime]

For me I've always somehow liked Emo guys or guys that are cute. It's weird because I've never done anything with a guy but I like them. O.o

[disassociation2016]

I have no idea on that one, but I've know since I was 12 or younger. I guess there was this boy... ;)

[sophierocks]

I found out many years ago back when I was pre-teen. Back when I was experimenting with my best friend, it felt right to both of us so we thought we were lesbian. but when we kept having crushes and such on guys we thought we couldnt be lesbian. so when we first started doing things with guys, and it felt right, we both knew we were bi.

[Rukua]

well i do like guys in a sexual way, but thats apart of being bi curious... i know in my heart i will never be with a guy... close friends yeah... but relationship wise no... but i knew i started to like guys this year... haha

[Aubrie]

I always thought that girls were pretty, too. I never thought too much of it because girls call each other pretty, gorgeous, sexy, etc. all the time. Then maybe last year I started noticing that I was actually sexually attracted to girls, too.

I lean towards guys more usually, though. No one irl knows I'm bi anyway.

[Kdude146]

I started to like both guys and girls in grade 8 but I like guys a bit more then girls

[ApolloL]

i totally like boys. but i would like to have to sex with a girl. serious.

[lisabuk]

Girls were just so pretty to look at when I was 8 and when I'd seen them naked I felt things I couldn't understand. By the time I was 11 I understood that I only wanted to be near a girl, never a boy.

[jessehs]

i was watching normal porn and found out i liked both people in the video

[Babydoll lover]

i.....dont....know

[ApolloL]

i think it starts deep within ourselves. we sort of already have it there, others easily embrace it. others ignore and delay the acceptance. then there's pornography.

[Tonebone88]

I always kinda suspected that I was gay becAuse when my friends would talk about girls they liked, I never liked anyone. I knew for sure when I showered with a friend after a workout and saw him naked. Plus I can only get hard for gay porn. I have crushes on like three of my friends and they are all straight. Life stinks.

[lydia.ann00]

I really didn't think about it until one of my friends got me into it. I didn't know she was bi but at a sleepover we were 'playing' around and she started kissing me. i was skocked inside but didnt show it so I went with the whole thing and I liked it. We did a lot of things n she wanted to do more but I didn't let her. Since then i've had 2 other '
gfs'

[holdendeman]

I was thinking about it at age nine, denied it since I had been grown up thinking i will like girls, I started to think guys are hot, not girls, and by 11 I finally excepted it. Now 2 of my best girl friends know!

[Surferchic2362]

I was watching a porn with a friend and a lesbian scene came on. At first I was like I don't know, but after a little while I started to get into it. I don't know why, but I started to get really turned on. The woman body is beautiful. Nothing compares.

[Carlyle]

I kinda realized at a younger age of 7-8 that I was gay, mostly because I always had "crushes" on guys and not once a girl.

[rockman1]

i have alwayes been between eversince i met my best freind whan i was 2

[rockman1]

i usally are more on the girls tho but some times the boys if friends

[WonderTastic]

I started to like both guys and girls in grade 8 but I like guys a bit more then girls

Lol the exact same for me

[Rusty101]

I found out I was bi when I went to my mates house, at the time I didn't realise he was Gay, and we had just come out of bad relationships.
So he was giving me english tutoring when I dropped my pen (story coming up), and when I sat back up on the chair, he turned to me, smiled and said "you've got a nice ass" so naturally, i returned the compliment. After about 5 minutes of silence and just writing, I felt his hand on my leg, And (at the time I didnt have a clue I was bi) and I got really turned on, we started kissing and yea, theres more to the story but I wont say it ;)

[imi_maurer]

i have this feel when my friend s**ck mine ;)

[blackpo]

i always had some attraction to guys but i told myself it was a phase at first and it would go away but it never did... but all at the same time i liked girls so i finally associated myself as being bi

[Life_On_The_Line]

Well, I'd always had some attraction to girls but i didn't think much of it, Then two years ago, I started falling for this girl, I tried to ignore my feeling but they kept getting stronger and stronger so, I told her i liked her... 2 years later, We're still together.. So i just kind'a accepted that i liked girls, It was easy for me really. Guys just don't turn me on :')

[lmlnomattawhat]

I found out by whenever I was sitting on a boys knee and he got a hard on I really liked it and later that day he asked me out XD He was soo cute :) lol. :) x

[towerscookie]

i found out bout 6 when me and this other kid gave each other blowjobs

[Menon]

i had sex with my best friend (a guy) and i was watching straight porn before that

[RoseyCadaver]

Hmm,I honestly am not gay,how ever I am pansexual(close to bisexual but I'm open to more).I had found out I was pan when I was 12,when I had two crushes.One on my best friend who had to be a girl,and another on this boy on my basketball team.All though my sexuailty has gone from hetero and homo back and forth,it seems it has now become a mix of both,but I'm also seeing people for more then their gender.

[IAmMe15]

Started feeling 'different': I was about 8
Started liking guys/cock: About 13
Saying "Yep, I'm gay, get over it" to like 60 people: 15 (current year)

[musclecharles79]

I remeber always being straight and fucking the most busty womne around no matter how old or young amd then k started watching gay porn which is awesome and started messing around with my guy friends and we had a big orgy and jacked off a lot got lots of bjs and hjs and ass licking and we still do that every weekedn

[Haleyzmont]

I found out i was bi in grade 6, i though i only liked guys but then i saw a really hot teen girl andhad though then i watched lezbian porn and liked it but i also like guys

[teddybear]

I think the bi-feeling has always been in me, but there something which holds me back somehow... Therefore I have not come out to many people yet. I don't think I'll ever tell my mom. I guess she's homophobic. I'm afraid. It's hard. In my country, same-sex marriage is not allowed, so it kinda presses down harder on the prejudice against bisexuals/homosexuals. :( And I'm stuck in an all-girl school, except for playschool. I like guys, and girls, and I'm fine. I'm happy with myself. I'm just fed up with society. :)

[Shining Star]

when I had sexual feelings for both guys and girls....about age 13 :yeah:

[aleexax3]

i have feelings for boys and girls i can do anything with a boy but only kiss a giirli still think of me as bi forever

[xCreaturexx]

I pretty much always known I was bi.... Just needed to accept it

[littlegayboy]

i wish i had a guy. its totally normal to be gay i mean i wish i had one

[NHSoccerjock]

i always liked looking at guys.. my friends or older guys.. bulges.. so i kinda figured i liked guys more than girls even before i knew there was a things called being "gay". lol once i learned that, then i knew i was gay and just confirmed it by watching porn, both kinds, and finding that gay porn turns me oin

[fancy]

i am bi i found that out when me and my friend were seeing whos dick was the biggest i won then all of us started to like what we were seeing then we all started to suck each others dicks and then my ex girl friend came and showed off her stuff we liked it too

[Haleyzmont]

We each have diffrent stories

[HEN_iP]

Probably when I started mutually jacking off with a close friend.

[Alexis goes Rawr]

i guess i kind of always knew that gender didnt make a difference to me, even when i was little i never understood why i was supposed to like boys and only boys when everyday your being taught the things on the inside are all that should matter?
I never really put a name to it until 7th grade, and didnt tell everyone until 9th grade when i met this amazing outgoing sweet adorable gay girl, i never loved her as more then a friend but she pulled me out of my shell and made me realize it was okay for me to have feelings and be attracted to anyone i wanted to :)

[Hajara22]

never really took a big interest in girls.... denyed it as a phase for a while but more i denied it more i looked. lol so just got curious and went from there

[Lorraine]

For the last few months I've tried my best to convince myself that I'm straight, but last night I accepted that I am bi. :)

[Thomas01]

Well, in the 5th grade I sort of liked my guy classmates. Then in 6th I met this really cute guy, but he was straight. I questioned myself and then in 8th grade came to the conclusion, I <3 guys. I never liked girls, just as friends. Also I act really gay

[Dyl4n]

I kind of always knew I was bi. I mean girls are very pretty, have curves, and soft skin. And guys, they are handsome, they can wrap you in their arms, and you feel protected, and their rough skin, and body hair. I think of girls in a more relationship way, and guys in a more sexual way.

[shadman]

Like 2day lol it started around 8ish 9ish. Everytime Id see some guy one guy stuff, or a dude naked Id get arosed and feel funny. Like bit my lip funny lol

[SETTINGAFTERTAKING]

fisrt knew in 4th grade after we got into a converastion on the bus then one thing led to another and we played truth or dare and ended up rubbing each other and showing our undies we would hang out and play games and stuff(those kinds of games) but i always thought i was bi until a year or so ago then i really realized i was gay then a few months after that i told my one friends i was gay then to make a long story short once i came out to my school my life just got better and better but then again i live in a very accepting area but coming out is up to you and who you are is somthing you cant change so just wait and see

[Bobby45]

I knew i was bi because i just had that natural attraction to guys haha:p

[deion1018]

I knew in 5th grade, when I first started thinking a guy was cute. Then I came out as fully gay in 8th grade.

[sammy1996]

id allways wanted to try things with another girl just from videos and thoughts etc but when it finally happened i knew i was bi.

[Menon]

I found out when my sexy friend said he was bi and showed me his penis, then he grabbed mineetc

[Craig1995]

Is it weird to not be able to pin point an age where it hits you, i genuinely cant remember thinking shit im gay :L lol i guess 11 12ish

[Rachel.K]

Im bi. You just figure it out. :P it took me a while...

[AshleyH1996]

I'm Bi, kissed a boy and that's how I found out.

[lausonfarleyii]

i felt for guys and had a crush but always stayed inside

ive never kissed the closest thing i did was look at one

its hard to just come out

i started finding out in 7th grade when i got hard to a guy that was in 8th had braces and was shy

[AmbaH55]

it was around christmas time and me and my bestfriend were sexually active with our fingers for quite some time by then but i never really thought much about it. to us it just felt good and thats all we really knew. i had some other friends that were bi and stuff so the thought of it wasnt really appaling or anything... but we were hanging out and i asked her what she wanted for christmas and she replied a kiss. i was scared as all get out and nervous. but after a few more nights spent at her house she laid one on me (my first kiss) and we dated eachother for 3 or 4 years on and off after that. but i am bi :)

[Mara-chan]

....removed....

[beebs]

I had always been atracted to boys, but this year actually i was thinking my girl mate was real HOT! and it turned out she is bi, and yeah shes the only person ive told, oh and my other bi friend, who i also find hot as!

[lausonfarleyii]

i started back in middle when i had a crush on this latino boy

[rpd453]

My first experience was with a porn magazine I found in my brothers room. I would always look at the guys rather than the girls (this was BEFORE i discovered masturbation). I remember being teased as school, in like 4th or 5th grade for being "gay" but I never really knew what that truely meant.

So to answer your question, I always knew that I liked guys, ALWAYS. As I got older, I really began to understand that I was what they called gay

[Dustin3]

i want girls for sex, looks, bed, etc :))) ... guys though, thats looks, bed, etc. but NO SEX! idk what i am... guys are fine to look at and sometimes get turned on by them, and girls are fine to look at and sometimes get turned on by them - but not as much as guys.. i dont ever see myself having a "relationship" with a guy, idk i just think it would be awkward..? idk but i want to do everything with girls, and i mean everything, but guys... theres just a wall - which is good because im religious and dont want to upset anyone^^^u/know/who. so i have no idea.. any answers?

[jzp706]

Wow, lucky

[esorgie]

It hit me one morning as I was lying in bed before a Forensics meet: I like guys.
I didn't know how much I liked guys, but I knew I liked them, and all the tension and stress that had been building up the past few weeks released in an AWESOME rush, and I proceeded to have a wondeful day.

[jzp706]

When i went to the phsyc hospital i met this guy, ok he was really cute, we kinda had a crush on eachother and on my last day there i snuck to his room and we made out. first kiss and the best one ever!

[meezyrmcrs4ever]

You are prbbly Bi-sexual,i first tought i was tr8 thn gay and then i Decided that i was bi and so am i,i think and i feel that i'm bi :)

[pridepancakes21]

When I saw a nice looking guy walking down the street at thought, "DAMN!"

[Lawrence P]

There wasn't a definite time i learned i was homosexual male, but it was gradually set on that i liked guys and not girls.

[hipster101]

I always had a sense...but it was confirmed last summer when I met a guy...but I like girls too, Ithought I wasconfused, and tried to deny the feelings, but one day I thought, embrace the fact im bi...and i did

[Race2mars]

When i was young i kissed a guy.. and we experimented blow job with each other that was in grade 1 though.. thinking back to that moment im like how did that even happen...

[danny7]

well at first i denied it for a really long time and then i gradually started to accept it. there was no real defining point where i woke up and was like "im gay"

I have been trying to denying it for a while now but now im kinda into it.
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-I found out I liked guys in 6th grade when i sat next to this guy and i think he's gay bcuz he gets really close to me but i wasen't into it because he bullied me and know i see that he bullied me trying to get close to me, and now im realllyyy considering that hes soooo hott!

[Dimentio]

Well i was always into girls, Then at 12 i started noticing in the few months of me watching P0rn i was mainly looking at the guys, And then my friend who slept in his boxers or woulf play fight with me and normally pull me inbetween his legs, I got turned on by it all.
But then i got confused as i started feeling feelings for this girl who was a VERY good friend of mine before, So good infact she was my frist ever freind, Then we had an on and off relationship but i never kissed her or anything, So then i decided to just end it, But on my third time going out with her, I met the guy i like still to this day, I just need him to know that, But yeah, I decided i am gay now ha ha :)

[VeryWell]

I was 12, and had a girl from class over. We suddenly kissed, and ended up making out on the couch.

Best memory ever. :)

[lausonfarleyii]

I found I was bi when I started looking at porn and when I look at the guy I started getting hard

[curious_boy_13]

not sure i am...but i get turned on around my guy friends too..

[Somebuddy]

I found out when I realized I tended to stare at boys in my class and get a boner over them at like the end of year 7

[redmonkey]

im bi and i always knew especially in year 4 or 5 when i kissed one of my male friends.

[foreverfree]

In third grade , i had my THEN bestfriend over . we made out on my bed for a long period of time over like the course of a year . I remember telling her one day that i " liked her like a girlfriend " after the fact that we did all that kissing . sigh , the good ole days . now i cant stand to be around her . sad, i know .

[shawty2hot]

I found out when I started fantasizing about this guy in my class, he was so hot. I got the biggest boners off of him :)

[Gandalf]

When I hit puberty, I really started checking girls out, then when I was 14 I just saw a guy and subconsciously thought "he's hot"
I must admit, after happening again I tried to block it out by correcting my thoughts; instead of thinking he's hot, I would say inside my head: No, he's smart or funny or whatever.

I eventually became more comfortable with my thoughts and feelings. Just makes certain pleasures even better...
Bi the way ;)

[Scraffy92]

Well ive always thought girls were pretty... but never really thought much about it... i mean i knew about lesbians and bisexuals but when i was about 13 or 14 i was talking to one of my best mates and she admitted to me that she was bi... and it sort of just clicked...

and ive dated guys and girls
but now i date blokes and sleep with girls ha
there better in bed in my experience..
LOL

[Abyssal Echo]

i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!! :P

I have to agree with you !

I have always leaned twards guys from as far back as I can remember

[caden048]

I found out when i was in 5th or 6th grade when me and a friend messed around and i kinda developed feelings for him....

[Swagamemmnon]

It was 5th grade and my best friend just kinda kissed me out of the blue, and I kissed back, because it felt pretty good. We also did some stuff, not all the way but I'm going to keep this PG-13. Sadly, it took me a long time to figure out I was gay. It wasn't really a denial sort of thing, I was just too dense to make the connection. Also, I had to move away from that best friend :(

[biboikyle]

Well i was always into girls, Then at 12 i started noticing in the few months of me watching P0rn i was mainly looking at the guys,

same, i started looking at porn and then realized i was only watching the guys... then i started to watch gay porn and really love it... but i still have feelings for girls, so that's how i found out i was bi! :)

[Coree]

OMG ! Im attracted to cute guys :))

[Menon]

Basically yeah, I found out I was bi when I was getting changed with by best mate for this swimming thing, just us. And he didn't cover up his willy while he was changing, I can remember thinking WOW. Anyway, I did the same with a huge erection and he suddenly grabbed my cock and said he was gay. I said I was bi and we ... You know....did it. So now whenever we go to eachothers house that is what we do 4 ages

[caden048]

ive pretty much accepted it the whole time but people dont suspect it because i act straight...

[Kilometers]

I guess it happened 2 years ago when i was at Boy Scout camp and it was 108 degrees out and everyone was going around with no shirts on. I noticed that one of my friends, that i have known since preschool, was very sexy. I couldn't take my eyes off him. So one of those nights we are going to the shower and he strips right in front of me. I nearly feinted. We took our showers, I was nude too because he was. I couldn't tell if he liked me in a way other than as a friend. I wanted to ask him but the week was over. He went to his school and I went to mine. It was torture every monday night i would see him at our meetings knowing what he actually looked like. I never approached him about my feelings until it was summer time again. I decided once we were at camp I would tell him. There was no real private time to tell him because Boy Scouts don't allow gays. So that night when we were taking a shower I was about to tell him when he comes over and kisses me. He said he always had feelings for me but didn't understand them until last year. He said that the whole school year had been torture for him because he never saw me. That night we left camp quietly and explored each other. That year has probably been the best in my life up to now.

[Abyssal Echo]

it was simple really...LOL a 4th grade boy ask me if I was Gay while I was watching my 11 yr friend jo.....I said yes ! Whats that make you for watching. he ran home and told his brother what I had said.

who was more than happy to spread the good word.....later that week some guy at school I did not know came up to me and asked if the story was true I said yes ! thats my comming out story. The condensed version

[caden048]

Experimented in 8th grade with a close friend and enjoyed it...thats how i knew...

[KarkatLuv]

when i was in primary i really liked one of my friends in that way, but unknowingly, i actually cried when he moved to a different school. Then i made friends with someone else and found myself asking a friend of us both who he would like if he was gay, we both said the other guy luckily he wasn't around. I also remember having a dream before i even knew how to have straight sex, i was chasing someone i hated around school and we were naked, he fell over and i fell on top and... yeah. But my brother came out about being gay not long ago and is married so im sorta in a closet locked with no key about being bi, but only around family not friends and that got awkward but that's a whole other story and this is long enough so wanna know about that story look at my blog.

[xLegendofLink096x]

I found out I wasn't straight about two years ago.
I've always commented about other girls being beautiful, which to me seemed normal.
Until I met my current best-friend.
Instantly, I thought that she was gorgeous.
We became close friends, eventually best-friends.
She stayed the night and everytime she would lay next to me, I would get all hot and bothered. I kissed a female one night, not my best-friend, and after that I realized that I wanted to much more than kiss other females, so I considered myself bisexual.
I was a closet bisexual until this summer, when I met my current girlfriend.
Ever since I've been with her, I've been open about everything.

I'm bisexual, and proud.

[DEADUSER]

I first realized in tenth grade when me and my bestie were getting changed that she was really hot and later that year we started dating, two years now, but i still like guys in bed

[Electra Heart]

I'm not sure really... The idea of anything sexual or even emotional with a girl isn't appealing to me. Simple as that.

[have_faith]

this may sound fake but one night i had a dream about kissing a guy and well when i woke up i just knew that is like guys not girls.

[kwinplano]

I just have always had a feeling I was Bi. When I was in 7th grade, I started having crushes on my friends, and at the time I thought it was just because they were cool and sweet and I was just more emotional. Then in 8th grade, I kissed my best friend, and she and I had a great talk about our feelings and I finally started really thinking about what attracted me to a person and it was the person and not their gender and since then I have just dated who I was attracted to.

[Gaybaby94]

I've never grown up from the "girls have cooties" phase. No just kidding. I've known for a while. Say 4th grade when I just didn't have interest in girls and instead interest in boys.

[xDarkness999x]

so well i recently realized I'm gay, I'm 15 and i never had a relationship with a guy or girl
from a young age i always had a crush on girls when i was watching movies for example Emma Watson from Harry Potter :P, and lately I'm fantasizing about girls and checking out my classmates so pretty much i would say i started liking girls around the age or 9-10 and realizing that I'm gay at the age of 15....

[Frankie66]

Well, I had feelings for girls until this one guy came into my life and i have obssessed over him but theres no chance so yah bi and happy

[DirtyDog78]

I like girls a lot. But then i saw this guy and thougth he was hot. i like him a lot. I like girls better than guys

[prodigy1996]

I'm bi, but I like guys better. I guess I would have to say that I first knew when I was watching porn? haha, lol, irdk.

[randomme]

i just started to think guys were hot im bi so i also liked girls

[Teensensation32]

I found out at the beginning of secondary school when I was like 12 that I was bi ..I thought girls west beautiful and so more understanding, nice and caring than men...I have only told one of my bestfriends and sheis totally cool with it but some of my other friends wouldn't bee so understanding ....what shouldi do?

[the.one.and.only]

I didn't really like guys when I was in elementary school, but then in middle school I had a crush on this one guy. But even before that I drew pictures of naked ladies (though I'm admittedly NOT a good artist) without knowing what that meant. Only recently have I started to figure out that girls turn me on, but so do boys. Boys more than girls, but I'm definitely bi. Now all that's left is coming out, which is seriously scary - my parents would be totally cool with it, but I don't know about my friends. I'm not the most social person so I'm afraid it would wreck the few relationships I have, especially because I tend to make friends who have different views than I do...


Huh. I shall have to think about this.

[Shamwow_Me]

i was in 5th grade and this girl name randy lived up stairs from me and i thought she was really, really cute and when ever she talked to me i could'nt stop stareing at her boobs lol. But i did'nt fully accept it intill i was like 14

[JuJu92]

I grew increasingly interested in men when I got to secondary school, just found the male physique to be alluring and so it went from there before that I was into girls and still am but it’s not always constant sometimes I like one above the other.

[Caver]

Not sure yet; just 13 :)

[jockstrapman]

I first found out I was gay when my friend who was straight snuck up behind me and tied me up on my bed, I was 13 when I bought a sportsheets under bed bondage kinky sex kit. I got hard, and he took off my pants and breifs, and started to suck me. I loved it. I wanna tell people I am gay but I am too afraid of their reaction.

[Life_is_meh]

At first I thought maybe I'm bi and then I realized that I was just lying to myself so I could pretend to be normal. But what does normal mean? Acting like everyone else. Yeah real fun,
So I just finally told myself that I'm Gay and there is nothing wrong with that. And it's not that you just find out your gay it's you are taught and force-feed the idea that you have to like girls and this builds a shell around you which makes you think your straight until you just find out that you don't have to be and then your freak flag flys and you realize you are who you are. That is just my thought on how you find out you're gay or bi

[Princess Ariel]

I found out when I was experimenting with my best friend at the time (Female), I quite enjoyed it, But I still love guys. At the time I didn't really know that I would be attracted to both, But as days went on, I realized later on, how much I enjoyed it.
Now, being in high school.
I have come to realize that it's okay to be different, I was always told it was a crime..
But I'm Bi and happy! But more into Girls..

[ScotlandBoi]

I first realised at 11 when i got a raging erection at a male underwear guy on a catwalk:L:L I'd always had a fascination of the male body before that though, so I guess it was just a "penny dropping" moment for me:))

[Riku16]

Well, i first knew when i began having crushes on my guy friends when i was like 12 (just starting puberty) and my first boyfriend actually confirmed it.

[Abnormal]

Basically, I can't even tell you. It kind of just happened to me. One day I began to notice girls in different ways and paying less and less attention to guys. It was scary at first but over time I have made friends with lesbian and bisexual women and they've sort of helped me think a little more openly so I could discover I was bisexual.

[randomme]

im not sure i just started to like guys in that way more

[obvious]

I had heaps of girlfriends and thought i wa straight until i started jacking off with my mate (just as friends) and found myself thinking about him in that way. Now i'm gay

[secondsight800]

It was Spring of the 8th grade and everyone was talking about this kid I used to be friends with and how he was gay and what not.. I started getting really interested in the story and all the attention he was getting. I eventually became friends with him again and saw how people were treating him differently and how his name was on everyone's lips.. I wanted this for myself, this popularity and attention, so I began talking more and more to him and ended up falling for the kid. But I was never really attracted to men in general, just him. He seemed to be the only guy I noticed, until things ended with him years later and I started noticing other guys.

[chancebest]

I found that I'm bi by just thinking. I can imagine being with a boy and a girl. When I thought who I wanna be with, I couldn't really say I liked one more superior to the other. I do like the same sex a bit more but I still am attracted to girls.

[nicnicolas1]

i just started looking at guys in a while new way

[MyRedHeadWorld]

I think I'm bi..I purfure men personally, and havnt had a relationship with a girl, but I would like one and I have kissed a girl before and I enjoyed it:')

[ZzKingz]

I've literally always felt different. The stereotypes are true. I'm gay and they're definitely true.

[russsh]

i guess when i firt experimented with my friend

[KarkatLuv]

i remember when i was about ten, i had a dream that i was chasing a boy i disliked around school, and we were in the nude. He tripped over and i fell right on top of him, i didn't even know how two stright people had sex, but i remember having sex with him. After that i thought about guys and girls, that's when i discovered it, but i only came to the conclusion when i was about 12.

[Teensensation32]

I firt found out when I was 11 ...the female body was so amazing ...I find my self day dreaming...about me and another girl and I think woah is this normal! ...as the feelings grew stronger I grew to exempt that I just like guys and girls and I couldn't talk myself out of it.n:)

[hidden]

Well I've always been a bit curious but it wasn't until about a year ago that I started to fool around with my good freind (who is openly gay) but I never really thought I was "bi" until I slept with my gay roommate at a party and thought to myself "hmmm... I like this" lol :)

[Moka]

Well Ive always been kinda into girls. Lol I was into girls way before i got interested in guys. Girls are just...more fun.

[canadaski]

Girls are just...more fun.

Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.

[Moka]

Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.

Oh yeah of course. Imo. Sorry bout that.

[nicholas79]

I found out because I have been attracted to a lot of guys, and I decided that I was bi

[Spike7]

I first found out i was gay when i got really turn on by guys

[TheultimatesmilyXD]

It was at a party and a bi guy asked me to suck him off i was drunk and said yes and since then i have been sleeping with both boys and girls

[canadaski]

Oh yeah of course. Imo. Sorry bout that.

Haha, no worries. I was just quoting a movie anyway.

[charliep]

I sort of always knew but the actual part is realizing it and coming to terms with it. Mine was at Boy Scout Camp (this isn't going where you think it is :D) and this really hot guy asked me and I said no. One month later I came out, but don't make the same mistake I did. I came out on FB because I was afraid to tell my parents and I didn't know what to do. If I move somewhere, I'll definitely start over.

[NotYourSombrero]

Dudes are easier to hang with. But sleeping with is a hole other thing (pun intended)

[Weber_Swagg]

I was just always that way. I'm not embarrased or ashamed thats just who I am. I was never attracted to a single gender, thats just how I am. :D

[Coolboi]

I'm bi an I'm happy . it was hard to face it now it's cool
see a guy an ok see a girl ok maybe as I get older it may change

[CatFS]

I had had crushes on guys all through middle school, so while i enjoyed looking at girls, i though it was just in some kinda abstract way. Then when i was 14 i met my bff Rachel. We became best friends within like a week of meeting each other, and i thought i just admired her body because she was so pretty, not because i liked her. Then one night when i was sleeping over, were talking about boys, and i accidentally caught her touching herself. One thing led to another and... i discovered i am bi :D She's the only girl i ever done more than kiss, but i want to do stuff with more.

I still like guys too!

[Tyryham]

I got friends with a boy and a girl and developed a crush on both of them and discovered I was bisexual

[djcard]

Well...when I was little I would watch tv and subconsiously stop myself from looking at womans boobs cuz it was "wrong". Then I had a dream where I was being fingered by a girl(which really scared me), but I figured it was just a dream. Then there was this girl...in my class. God she had a wonderful body..clear skin, huge ass, big boobs, long black hair..she was my exact definition of beautiful at that point. And well...I wanted her and it, really bothered me. The way I came out was I asked my best friend
me:hey I'm your best friend right
her:yeah
me:*has to choke out the words* would you still be friends with me if I was bi?
her: of course

I was real lucky. Course then I started liking my best friend and it went downhill from there but...omg rambling too much, hope that answered the question

[Jupiter]

i just decided i can't deny a part of me anymore.

[sammyb88]

i always thought i was straight.. for like two years gay porn turned me off completely. one day when i was scrolling through redtube, i saw the gay gategory preview picture.. and i kinda liked it.. so then i watched a gay porno and it turned me on even more than straight/lesbian porn did. still love girls, but i have started to watch gay porn more!!

[smd11451]

I fantasized about guys in my class more than girls. Then when I discovered/started watching porn, I loved gay porn. I kinda just put two and two together. I still find girls hot and would probably have sex with one, but I much prefer guys.

[TraceOfExistance]

I always had a bit of a feeling I was attracted to girls since middle school. As cliche as it sounds, I had to force myself not to look at the other girls while we were changing out for gym. Then in 8th grade one of my friends invited me over to her house and when everyone went to sleep we started "experimenting". That solidified my being bisexual. Then in 9th grade there was this guy that I thought I really liked. We texted back and forth for a while, flirting and such. One day he decided it would be a good idea to send me a picture of his "manly bits". I was completely grossed out, and we stopped talking ever since. Since that day I've never looked at a guy the same way again. Plus, lesbian porn turns me on while straight porn does nothing for me. And that is the story of how I became a lesbian :D

[thisisben]

I wasnt sure if i was gay or bi , or straight , im still not ! im 14 years old , so i guess thats why. I started thinking it was weird , when i always think that im going to end up making out with my old best friend , thinking that he will appreciate it , but in real life , he would probable hate me forever !

[MaximumR]

When I was like 5 I realized the way I felt for guys was really unusual. Then I grew up and started fantasizing about guys and other gay stuff and slowly came to terms that I liked boys

[morganwillamson]

I was in the girls locker room and a girl came in i think is hot so i told her i think ur hot and she told me she thinks im hot so then we talked and then we started rubbing each others bodys and then i took off her shorts and all her clothes and she took off mine and i started licking her pussy and sucking her breast and she fingerd me and ate me out and then were both lesbos now

[imgayandimproud]

i relized i was gay from having five dreams in a row of kissing guys, i liked it

[ashlynchristine]

well at first i denied it for a really long time and then i gradually started to accept it. there was no real defining point where i woke up and was like "im gay"

lol.

[ashlynchristine]

omg this is dumb, you are what you are!

[maqabim]

when I was in 10th grade there was this one guy in my class that I thought was really cute. I've only seen like 3 or 4 guys in real life that I had a big crush on but when i jack off i cum so much faster when i think about guys and not girls. i'm 16 now and i'm bi.

[swagga]

I Met this guy in the 6th grade and i saw him i was like hmm hes kinda cute but i wad dating a girl at the time and then i broke up with her cuase me and her got in a fight and i was staring at his last year in class and this year and i was like DAMN hes hott and then i went into the locker room and i saw him changing and i went up to him and said ur hot and then he said thnks ur hot to and the i felt his dick and it all went from there and we still do stuff today at school and out of school:)

[Tina36DD]

Don't kno exactly when I realized I was bi, maybe when i first made out with my BFF Kori. We were kissing and making out and she made the first move into my pants. The best O ive evr had, but I do kno I like both equally. My Mom and aunt kno (her younger sister), but my Dad or brother don't kno. I prefer girls to guys, but girls are more tuned to each other and guys just want to get in your pants or up your shirt.

Girls are more gentle, but i like giving HJ's and BJ's tho. Still a virgin with guys, but not with a girl! LOL;)

[Unknown-Data]

I use to sit next to this really hot girl and really hot guy, but I couldn't decide which one I liked I was emotionally torn in half,

[boosterboy1]

I've just always known I like guys as well as girls lool

[Cognizant]

Well, when I realized that me finding both guys and girls attractive wasn't a phase, because these "phases" have stuck.

[OregonStateDude]

I started to have a crush on the Suite Life boys, Zack & Cody. Then when my best friend entered puberty, he became totally hot (to me, anyways). The first time I gave him a BJ, I knew for sure that I was gay.

[Drew5]

I don't know if retarded people pay attention to this as much as the rest

[kitkat]

a girl who im close friends with wore a really tight shirt and all i could stare at was her boobs and i kissed her and she slapped me but totally worth it and then a year after another girl said she would try stuff with me and i liked it to much so she cussed at me and said im a creature of hell and stuff

[Magenta]

I don't think I've ever posted here so hey, I'll just add my few cents.

I think I only realized it recently. I've dated guys in the past and it made me think I was asexual because I would genuinely really like the guy but not... I don't know. Not enough to count as a real relationship. Oh and kissing was a huge problem for me, I was grossed out.

Now I'm dating a girl and it's a lot different. I've always viewed girls a lot differently and knew I liked them but hadn't had the chance to have a relationship with one. I can kiss my girlfriend and not be freaked out like it was something wrong. I think there's still a tiny appeal in guys but... not much at all. So I just say I'm gay now.

The asexual thing is a bit more personal so I've started letting it just come up in conversation rather than announcing it. I'm not really sure how accurate it is or not.

[Apollo FX oG]

I really found out in the beginning of 8th grade (6 months ago). My friend was staying the night at my house and we were laying down when I looked over and we kissed. One thing led to another and I ended up losing my virginity that night.

[knightmare]

I found out when I was about 13 and started to realize that I liked boys as much as I liked girls. It was really traumatic to me when I first found out, I remember staying up at night crying and asking myself, "Why me?" over and over again. I think as time progressed I got more comfortable with myself and my self image. I'm 17 now and just recently started coming out to some of the girls in my neighborhood. It's a slow and painful process, but I'm starting to realize that there really isn't any I can do about me being bisexual other than accepting it.

[CodyFox13]

Wow, I dont remember when I realized im gay. Ages, I guess. I just have a flash-back memory ..5 y.o or 6 idk...with a best friend touching our dicks...idk..cuz after that...i got my first BJ at 12...I got a hard wood ...was awesome..thats it, i gave it to him ones 2. I dont like chicks at all...THAT 4 sure. BUT im not a girly boy...I like 2 peek in the locker rooms..I luv naked boys so badly..

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Well when I started experimenting with my friend, I really enjoyed it and when I gave him a bj it felt good. When he gave me one it felt way better than a girl doing it. At the moment I'd say I'm bi but I am 60% sure I will go on to be gay

[Green Arrow]

I always found myself being attracted to guys and I worked it out 100% with no doubts a couple of weeks ago. Next step... I need to tell someone. :P

[jjsmitty]

I've always clicked more with guys than girls and have generally had more "sex" with girls than relationships which I find easier with guys (I sound bad now don't I). I first figured something was a bit different in Year 6 (UK schooling), about age 12, when I was going up to an all boys secondary school and found myself looking forward to seeing more boys and the changing rooms. When I got up to secondary school (age 13 ish) I immediately fancied and clicked with a really straight acting Greek guy and we became best friends, probably more so because I had a massive crush on him throughout secondary school up until at age 15 I came out to him as Bi, then he came out to me as Bi in the next sentence! We have been in a relationship ever since :D

[Zammeer]

I'm a little bi from when i was 8 years old showing penis to friend :O
Add me on skype dxbo404

[IAmTheLizardQueen]

I was just curious for awhile, messed around with friends, nothing public. I dated this girl for awhile who was my BEST friend before hand, and things were going okay, i still wasnt sure though. Not untill one day she hugged me from behind and whispered "i love you" in my ear. Completely melted. Like, to the point where i could speak, but it certainly wasn't English.

Fell in love, and learned i was deffinately bi at that exact moment.

[norcaldude18]

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[Devonb97]

:3 hey

[gayprideguy12]

i found out in the 5th grade with a couple of guys, do i need to say more.......:p

[Joshy1305]

Uhm.. I got raped in a bathroom at the movie the theaters... and didnt realize I kind of enjoyed it untill like a year later