View Full Version : How did you first find out you were gay or bi?
boy15
June 3rd, 2010, 07:26 PM
i dont really now but some day onn the internet i saw a boy and i thought wow he is hot and then i looked for cute boys and googlet it and so on
Taylorxbox
June 3rd, 2010, 09:15 PM
I was playing with a guy last year on xbox Live, and he said he was bi.
I never guessed that I was, but then we started talking and hitting it off.
From then on we talked and I started liking boys.
Pretty soon I was starting too look at boys at school and thats how I figured it out.
ortmann123
June 4th, 2010, 06:51 PM
i just suddenly realised i had feeling for some guys and girls, it was strange at first but now im ok with it
LAdY LoCa
June 10th, 2010, 12:52 PM
well mine was in the 3rd grade when i couldnt stop checking out girls....... i bi and i like girls a lil more but i like guy to there is diffrent stuff i like from both sexes yo no what i mean so its a win win state........... but right now im single and looking and hate being single
Lights
June 12th, 2010, 03:51 PM
I realised I was mainly gay when I suddenly felt sexual feelings emotionally and physically to one boy. Since then, I've pretty much always looked at boys sexually.
CaliKid24
June 12th, 2010, 04:03 PM
I've always known. I've always been attracted to guys and girls
neenasen
June 14th, 2010, 07:02 AM
I fell in love with a friend from school...we were both around 15 yrs. old...it was awkward...back then it was "not" accepted...
Jordan
June 15th, 2010, 12:10 AM
well i me and these guys were talking and they were talking about masturbating and i started to fantasize about them, then i walked up to one wen we were alone and asked if he wanted to come to my house, we did then wen everybody left i asked did he wanna watch a porno and we did then i saw that he was getting really hory cuz he unwittingly was dry humping my pillow and i sed do u wanna masturbate, and we did then eventually we had sex 3 times normal and 5 times oral, it was magical but i still like girls, to be honest i love having sex with friends and other ppl, especially anal and oral
Jason Ruechel
June 24th, 2010, 09:05 PM
When I started masterbating to homosexual porn. And losing interest in heterosexual porn.
Also having Feelings for Males instead of Females.
imi_maurer
June 25th, 2010, 04:06 AM
so! whos gay???
The Redlight Bandit
June 25th, 2010, 04:26 AM
Not exactly sure. :/
taylorlimb
June 27th, 2010, 02:32 AM
I remember always trying to see other dudes naked like very early on, maybe 5 or 6. I knew I was gay because what male would hide in his bedroom and steal his mothers high heels and dance on a chair to MADONNA! Lmao, I remember one scene where I had learned the dance moves and I was so dedicated to be Madonna or like her it is so funny and somewhat cute (to me). My mother knew as soon as she found out she was pregnant that I was going to be a male. My whole family just knows what's going on before it actually happens or is explained. I've grown up to be somewhat calmed down and must I say I got out of the Madonna scene and yes, I still blush when I talk about this story because you wouldn't ever guess this motherfucker would pull off Madonna bullshit. If you feel different than the other kids you're around then chances are you're different. Whether it is your sexuality or just your personality you can't help but be yourself. It is really difficult to learn about who you exactly are inside. If you think you're gay, don't instantly flaunt it, chances are you'll be laughing stock for the next 20 years. Try it out first and go from there, I also remember signingup for the underwear books and hiding them under the couch, that is also a sign when someone hides underwear mags under any surface.
ZodiacKiller
June 27th, 2010, 11:06 AM
Uh, I haven't told anyone (but like two people) about this but...
In seventh grade we took a class trip to Lansing for Youth in Government. It was a 3 day trip and I spent most of the first night sucking a guy off. *blush*
mysterious
June 28th, 2010, 05:24 PM
I have always felt attracted to boys.
XxMurderedKissesxX
June 29th, 2010, 04:29 AM
Having a crush on sleeping beauty, then thinking that snow whites prince was a total sex bomb. lol. I was 5. Ive always had those feelings. I didnt understand what it meant until grade 4. I always thought that u were ethier gay or straight. Nothing inbetween. So when my older friend came out as bi, I was like; Oh. So...I roll both ways? Double win!
bubbles12392
July 1st, 2010, 03:05 AM
when i first found out i was bi was when i was in the 8th grade. i had a crush on my friend who is a lesbian.
Ryandel
July 1st, 2010, 07:48 AM
When I felt the crushing walls of a uterus squeezing me out I knew I'd like guys.
Seriously now, from ages 7- 14 i've always had a girlfriend or a girl playmate for those younger years. I thought I was completely heterosexual. Well I was until I met my friend Chris at school. We got to be great friends quickly after our first time hanging out. In the school field we'd always be hangin in the tree talking about random things. He also didn't live that far of from my place so he came over a lot or vice versa. One time I guess we were curious and we were 11 by the way. But we went to piss at the same time, Noe as a young kid I found this all to be innocent. So we did the whole I'll show mine if you show yours thing. Which then led us to masturbating each other, I've gotta say it was pretty fun. After that I guess I had an attraction for him and other guys, I built a thing for underwear too .... Remembering asking Chris for a pair of his.(still have them to this day) but basically me and Chris stayed friends till we were 14, by then we actually figured out he was gay and I was bi. We dated each other for a year , but I had to move away. And I knew I couldn't do the whole long distance thing with him. So after that and a few months after the break up I found a girl to date, and it's been switching between guys and girls.
There's my story.
The Joker
July 2nd, 2010, 01:27 AM
^That's cute.
ForgetMeNot
July 3rd, 2010, 01:50 AM
I've known I was bisexual for a long long time =) I would have to say my first vivid experience with a girl was in grade 5. (I think I had experiences with girls before that but I can't remember the past that well)
Anyways one night I slept over and we started masturbating together, then another night we were at my house having a sleep over and we ended up looking at porn and getting it on a bit (as well as two gr 5 with no sex experience could). Then I fell in love with my best friend, but first I dated this one girl (we only kissed I thought she was cute), I dated some guys (bad choices in some of the men but meh) then I cheated on my on girlfriend (Ashley my first girlfriend ever) with my best friend whom I fell in love with, we fooled around with each other for months, maybe a year on n off (there were a couple more girls after this), and yeah... I'm bisexual :3 I don't deny that I love Penis and Vagina (LOVE the boobie bongos) <3
DanielBoy
July 3rd, 2010, 12:47 PM
Okay, I first found out I was attracted to guys in 6th grade. I was watching an anime guy on girl porno. I found myself not attracted to the girl anymore, but the guy. I started out 100% strait and now I am either Bi or Curious, I have not had a relationship with a guy, so I don't know if I would have an emotional attraction to one.
It is okay to be gay. It really does not say in the bible a clear cut, NO GAYS!, that point was extrapolated out of a quote from the bible by the catholic church. God made us how we are, and no prise, or anybody else for that matter, has the right to say we can't go to heaven because we are not strait.
Hope this helps.
TyCrisp
July 8th, 2010, 10:25 AM
Ive recently been realizing I might not be entirely straight. I have had and have crushes on girls and Ive dated a couple times. I appreciate the beauty of the female body greatly and often fantasize over it. But more often lately, Ive been fantasizing over males and I wouldn't mind having a relationship with one. I'm a very liberal person and I am truly proud of people who are open about their not-so-straightness. Im a slightly introverted when it comes to expressing myself verbally. It would be very difficult for me to actually TALK to someone about my feelings. So I guess I'm in the process of discovering my true sexual orientation.
freeintel
July 18th, 2010, 12:47 PM
i always had this attraction to guys but i find girls to be beautiful i'm always thinking about guys sexually but in long term i think about girls what should i do an i gay
AnimeLover1991
July 18th, 2010, 02:34 PM
I've known that I was Gay since I was 5 and I had an attraction to a neighbor and I curiously said let's get married, and he said marriage is only between men & women then I never really thought of it again until High School, and I thought many of my friends were hot. I then came out between Junior & Senior year.
Josh_Rike
July 20th, 2010, 04:41 PM
When I was fourteen until very recently I thought I was bisexual but recently after having been with a guy I realized I was gay and that I was clinging on to my heterosexuality as a security blanket because I wasn't ready to face who I was.
oscarlichen
July 22nd, 2010, 04:41 PM
Well I originally thought i liked girls. But one day i got bored and searched up boys. then shirtless boys. then kissing boys. and eventually, naked boys. then, I became attracted to it and realized I had to be gay or bi.
jacob1
July 24th, 2010, 12:04 PM
couple of weekss ago when i started wnking other both sexes
Andrzej
July 27th, 2010, 12:34 AM
I first realized I was gay when I was 11 or 12, when I started to become sexually attracted to another boy in my class.
Alec Thomas
August 2nd, 2010, 02:15 AM
I was 9 years old. I was asked to suck my friends dick, as a joke. I though "hey why not give it a fucking try" So I did. I liked it. And That's just when I "knew" i was gay for sure :)
Tavi
August 3rd, 2010, 11:37 AM
I found out I was bi over the course of a few months. I slowly started noticing I watched guys about the same that i watched girls. Then after a few months of that I finally said to myself that I like both guys and girls.
smoothietime
August 12th, 2010, 04:44 AM
I started masturbating to straight porn in 6th grade. And I found that most of the time I would just watch blowjobs and start masturbating to the dick getting sucked. I sort of was in denial for a short period of time but then finally I thought my friend was really hot and one night I slept in a bed with him and he slept on his stomach I could see down his shorts and his ass was so hot and I wanted to have sex with him right there. Now I just masturbate to gay porn and want to come out to him.
atlf2856
August 14th, 2010, 11:45 PM
mb'n w/ friend
XxNickyxX
August 15th, 2010, 11:42 AM
Well i never had thought about it till i wa slike 10. I had seen a video on accident of these two boys kissing. And well I liked it so i kept watching more of them and then it led to gay porn and I realised im gay.
DanielBoy
August 15th, 2010, 04:51 PM
Well i never had thought about it till i wa slike 10. I had seen a video on accident of these two boys kissing. And well I liked it so i kept watching more of them and then it led to gay porn and I realised im gay.
Similar situation here. I started out straight, but then in 8th grade I watched some gay porn, and now I'm bi. I think I might like guys more though. :P
cody2
August 18th, 2010, 12:19 AM
in the 7th grade i started fooling around with my gf but when my gay friend would come over to do hw we would jerk off and then we just started having sex i still like girls but i like guys more
lukejbfan
August 18th, 2010, 02:35 PM
when i was 11 I broke with my girlfriend, and then I noticed all the hot boys around me and thought to myself boy I am gay. Now I;m 14 and I just told my parents about it 2 weeks ago and they were pretty happy about it. :)
I am willing to talk to you! btw
I LOVE BOYS hahaha
lukejbfan
August 18th, 2010, 02:38 PM
I started masturbating to straight porn in 6th grade. And I found that most of the time I would just watch blowjobs and start masturbating to the dick getting sucked. I sort of was in denial for a short period of time but then finally I thought my friend was really hot and one night I slept in a bed with him and he slept on his stomach I could see down his shorts and his ass was so hot and I wanted to have sex with him right there. Now I just masturbate to gay porn and want to come out to him.
I would tell him. He probably will be glad about it. I don;t know what I would have done if i was in your situation probably something random. :yes: ur cute btw
bestever
August 22nd, 2010, 08:21 PM
Its a little weird for me... i'm really into girls, but there are 2 guys who i really want to try stuff with, every other guy turns me off though. So im not sure if im gay/bi
The Joker
August 23rd, 2010, 05:24 AM
You really like girls, therefore you aren't gay.
It sounds like you are just physically attracted to them, and to be bi you'd have to be physically attracted, and also want to date that gender as well.
Husker
August 29th, 2010, 11:41 PM
I really don't know who to explain it. I just kind of knew I was bisexual. I guess I am this way because of what I went through when I was younger. My friend and I were talking about stuff and he brought up oral sex and asked if I wanted to try it and I said sure..every since then, I've always known I liked men more then ladies so yeah.
I have no hopes though of having relationships with guys, just girls. Only thing I'm interested in with men is sexual stuff.
DanielBoy
August 30th, 2010, 05:26 PM
I'm going to go ahead and reply to who ever thought it appropriate to post a reply to my comment in the form of negative rep. One, your sexuality is not as clear cut as your being born gay, bi or straight. You have to discover your sexuality, and until you figure out you like guys, you are STRAIGHT. So, technically, your sexuality can change, because how you view yourself can change. I was Attracted to girls until high school, and I figured out I liked guys. I don't see the point in saying something like that, if it isn't true. I mean what is the point if I'm openly bi?
Next, if you would like to express disagreement to one of my posts, just PM me.
Lostboy
September 1st, 2010, 12:30 PM
Not sure exacly when but i know in middle school i had the hot for this one boy.. i always fooled around with guys as much as i could i thought it was just hormones. but i liked it way to much.
Jonnyo
September 2nd, 2010, 06:22 PM
im bi and i dont think ill ever come out.
keeper01
September 5th, 2010, 12:10 AM
ive been with both and almost equally enjoy it. i like being with guys more tho
neil715
September 6th, 2010, 07:33 AM
I found out that I was bi when I was 11, when I first started looking at porn. I never understood it at that point and just thought it was normal. I didn't really understand what it was until I was in high school. I only started accepting it this year, and have yet to tell anyone as much as I want to.
StarryEyedSurprise
September 8th, 2010, 08:50 PM
When I had a crush on my best friend
Johupp
September 9th, 2010, 09:04 PM
I have finally come out to my parents!!!!!
Tell us how it went? :D
Johupp
September 9th, 2010, 09:47 PM
Ok, I have read alot of these posts (not all of them so far). So, heres my story. :P
When I 6, I used to play with the neighbors (1 guy, 1 girl)that were one year older than me. We used to play house and all that stuff. That's when I guess I had my first kiss with her. A year later I told my mom I liked her(which was weird enough saying it to my mom...). Then we grew older and kinda just ignored each other as I played with her brother(video games, not the.....Yeah). A year later my family moved about 30 mins away. We haven't really seen them in awhile. But then when I got settled into my new school I seen this girl. I really liked her all the way to about 4th grade. Then this is where I started to turn gay. I eventually kinda just "gave up" on trying to attract her. Then about half way through the year we get a new student. He was the same age as me, he was almost just like me at the time (always wearing denim jeans with a button up shirt and a cowboy hat). I started becoming friends with him.
_-Jumping about 4 years-_
I finally admitted to myself that I liked guys. About 4 months after that, I told my sister that I was gay and who I had a crush on(at the time it was him and my sister's wanna be boyfriend). She accepted it just fine though. Nobody other than her and some people I've openly told on the internet has accepted me. As of today, I'm still crushing over my classmate. I know he's straight but he's sooooo cute! Yesterday I finally got in the shower room at school and wow is all I'll say. :P
Johupp
September 9th, 2010, 10:10 PM
I don't know if I'm gay cause I don't go to a lot of boys houses. Ps. does anybody get horny talking about this?
Your not the only one... :-/
Nicky97
September 10th, 2010, 05:30 PM
I never got this "sexual attraction" stuff. Fooling around is fun, and it feels good. Whoever I am with, if they are not mean and not ugly or anything, and if they might want to, then lets fool around. Its not like penetration or anything.
I guess I should feel a deep meaningful emotional attraction. Hopefully someday I will, though I hear that is full of pain and disappointment. It was quite a while before I realized that not everyone was bi.
irishboi102
September 20th, 2010, 12:05 AM
found out when i was jo and thoght of a guy, and dident stop jo
mmmark1985
September 20th, 2010, 08:38 PM
idk kinda happened growing up. my best friend and me started getting naked together and comparing dicks and stuff and then doign more and more and then thinking wow hes hot and i love it and i like girls to so maybe im bi? idk
NVerson
September 21st, 2010, 10:05 PM
One day I found myself dreaming of boys. That's all.
Jagster
September 22nd, 2010, 12:54 AM
Just to make a point, it's not a choice to be bi/gay. We're hit with it at birth. We have no option of it.
All The Small Things
September 23rd, 2010, 03:42 PM
i might be bi but if iam iam like girls 99%-97% and guys the other. by the way to bi and gay u know there gay/bi young guys and girls like 13-14 I do u know your fully bi/gay i think iam str8 but veary currios/or currios
rhsbandnerd24
September 24th, 2010, 12:28 PM
It took me a long time to realize that I was bi. I always assumed I was straight because it was the "right" way to be. I know I had feelings for guys in 7th grade but I never really thought anything of it. It was the summer after 8th grade and I was dating my best friends sister, we had dated for a while. Well I would spend the night at their house and their parents were fine with it if I stayed in his room. (cus you know how parents all assume if a guy and a girl are in the same room they've gotta be having sex -.-) I did this fairly often. But one night, me and him started talking about dicks and circumcision somehow, and he had never seen and uncut dick. so I showed him mine, after that he showed me his, and then stuff started happening.
This all happened while I was dating the guys sister. and the funny thing is, after all that I still didn't know I was bi. I just thought it was totally natural. It wasn't until about 1-2 years later after I had broken up with the girl. I was in 10th grade and I just thought about it........"wait....I did that? with a guy?" It was a strange thought for me because I had always assumed I was straight. but then again, it happened so naturally that I couldn't deny it. So I just calmly accepted it and over time people found out and were ok with it.
P.S.---His sister never found out what we did XD
Kris2
September 25th, 2010, 12:35 PM
same thing i guess i got gf bt reall atracted to this guy at school
Syvelocin
September 25th, 2010, 12:44 PM
I've always been very close-minded about being anything but heterosexual, just because of social acceptance. But when I admitted to myself that I liked the first girl I had a crush on, knowing how much I was attracted to her opened my eyes to other sexualities. I admitted it to myself about four months later, when I was 15.
Vonn
September 26th, 2010, 05:01 PM
I think I've always known. When I was six, my friend and I got into a tickle fight, and I couldn't help thinking that I loved touching his stomach. /nervous laugh/
And in fourth grade, I thought a guy in my class was really cute.
Present day. Now I think a lot of guys are cute. I'm actually trying to find out if this one guy I like is gay or just overly friendly.
(Never had any of these thoughts about girls. Ever. I never even realized it until now, lol.)
jassoonn
September 26th, 2010, 05:57 PM
well i found out i liked men in the 6th grade when i played truth or dare with friends and i had to hook up with a guy i liked it :) but still bad feeling for girls so later on in high school i started doing more iwth guys :) and i come to realise i was BI :)
phily08
September 28th, 2010, 05:22 PM
I first started to notice guys sexual in the 6th grade.I still liked girls and i still do,i'm still a little curious,but i think i'm bi.I still prefer girls a little more.:P
Heath
September 29th, 2010, 03:20 PM
I've been fooling around with guys since I was 11, but it was just for fun - no feelings or anything. Then just this year, first day of school, I saw this guy and bam, like a light switch. I can't stop thinking about him and looking at him. Now when I jo, I'm always thinking about him. Maybe it's possible I'm just gay for one guy, who knows.:what:
overlordmccoy
September 30th, 2010, 05:12 PM
Basically I sort of since 6th grade it became slightly happening... then by mid 7th, full blown homosexuality... Just "In the Closet" moreless...
Nobody
October 4th, 2010, 05:40 PM
When I was 4 :D Went to visit my cousin and there was this gorgeous girl, a friend of hers and I wouldn't stop thinking about her and talking about her... Funny thing is we really ended up together years later, haha. Well, of course I didn't understand it back then, but it just kept happening all the time, I like girls since ever, never really thought about guys that way, at all. When I started to realize it, I was trying to push myself into liking guys. It never worked though. And now I'm pretty happy about being a lesbian =]
mranderson
October 5th, 2010, 09:14 PM
idk, i htink i might be bi but not to sure
Brittany123
October 6th, 2010, 08:16 PM
Well at first I started to get strong feelings for two of my best-friends. I thought it was strange so I kept it to myself even though some of my friends were bi and lesbains. I continued to have strong feeling for one for them. I still liked both but, I felt closer to her, I could tell her anything her name is Jasmine. One day all three of us were at Jasmine's house. We played truth or dare (of course we are teenage girls). We had silly dares, untill I was dared to kiss one of them (it was my choice of who). I decided to chicken out, but after my other friend left me and Jasmine were talking. After another month or two, I was at Jasmine's house (I hung out with her alot) and I finally told her I liked her, she wasn't surprised that I was bi. She was dating someone and never said she liked me so I pretended like I didn't like her. I had gotten a boyfriend he knew that I had feelings for girls (he of course thought it was hot) then he cheated on me with one of my closest frineds. Jasmine was there to comfort me like always. After about a month I was at her house again, we were in her room talking like usual. I don't know why, but she kissed me. At that moment I knew I was bi (well actually lesbain but back then I still liked guys)
minicoopkart
October 6th, 2010, 10:16 PM
well the first things ive ever done have been with guys, and more recently like since i was 10, i was never trying to get with girls, only guys :) and well i've only been with 2 girls and i didn't like being with them. and when i told my best friend i was gay he says "ohh, so thats why you never tried getting with girls" lol
Blind
October 12th, 2010, 11:20 PM
I had always had feelings for girls but when I started having feelings for my best friend I realized I was Bi. Now im more attracted to boys
josh93
October 13th, 2010, 06:05 PM
I just one day said to my self that i like boys and girls and i told my self that i was bi.
Normie
October 16th, 2010, 11:50 PM
I've dated a few girls but I've always looked at guys In a different way so that's when I knew I was bi
TheAppleGeek
October 18th, 2010, 11:33 PM
this year, i started to find guys more and more attractive
dlexperto
October 23rd, 2010, 09:00 PM
i was at a party, and some guy was like hey come her i have a question and i walked over and he pulled me into a room and we started having sex. ever since then i knd of knew that i was gay
IMonfire
October 25th, 2010, 04:29 AM
I find boys more attractive than girls and I am already falling for my best friend (he's hot and cute. LOL). So I figure out that I'm BI. But I'm afraid to tell my friends because they will tease me. Being gay and BI is not that acceptable in our country. You will be the source of ridicule if you're gay/ bi. So it's better to stay inside your closet.
CoreyOx
October 27th, 2010, 10:56 PM
i just happen to LOVE being sexual with girls... i dont date girls... i only sleep with them... in most cases they are better then men in bed... in my opinion...
well in that case you are deffinatley either lesbian or bisexual, or just odd. :)
CoreyOx
October 27th, 2010, 10:56 PM
I find boys more attractive than girls and I am already falling for my best friend (he's hot and cute. LOL). So I figure out that I'm BI. But I'm afraid to tell my friends because they will tease me. Being gay and BI is not that acceptable in our country. You will be the source of ridicule if you're gay/ bi. So it's better to stay inside your closet.
Well I'm not so sure that broadcastin it on the fuckin internet is so good!
IMonfire
October 28th, 2010, 01:41 AM
Well I'm not so sure that broadcastin it on the fuckin internet is so good!
OK!!!! Cheers! LOL's :)
Zero Beat
October 28th, 2010, 01:51 AM
Watching Porn. Dicks all i looked at :D
biogirl67
November 6th, 2010, 03:13 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops: im just like you except with girls i was at my friends house and we were playing a game....i believe it was hide and seek and it was in the dark and i went into a closet to get changed and a girl didnt know i was in there walked in when i was nude and said whats up i said hey and then she said i like girls and then i said me too and then we started making out she stripped down and we did it hardcore :wub: :yummy:
biogirl67
November 6th, 2010, 03:25 PM
HEY EVERYONE........is anyone a bi
biogirl67
November 6th, 2010, 03:28 PM
I had always had feelings for girls but when I started having feelings for my best friend I realized I was Bi. Now im more attracted to boys
well thats fine with you cause i have a feeling for both genders :P ;) :whoops: :wub: :yeah: :D
Serendipity
November 10th, 2010, 09:07 PM
I started having feelings for a girl in my class and had a crush on her.
guil1214
November 17th, 2010, 07:06 PM
When in my head i was thinking about having sex with a guy and giving him head. But at the same time i was thinking about having sex with this really cute girl at my school. :)
Tristin.
November 18th, 2010, 12:04 PM
always have been, never had any feelings for girls ina sexual way, nothing past friends lol
then i had my first kiss with a guy and well it was electric :D
keidriantiger
November 18th, 2010, 01:31 PM
I just started realizing that I could be romantically involved with a guy as well as a girl. Later I realized that I prefer guys over girls but I'm still bisexual.
JuJu92
November 20th, 2010, 05:55 PM
Knew I was bi since I was a child, thought the male body was more appealing than the female body and to me personally men are just better at sex than women are, so there it was. Bi :P
Jstr
November 22nd, 2010, 11:04 PM
i always wonderd how it was to kiss a guy
Alexithymia
November 23rd, 2010, 07:14 AM
I wished I had a story that was perfect and amazing :(
Anyway, I found out I was gay over a long period of time. 4-7th grade. I've always noticed guys more, it was just something I did. I passed it off as just being jealous (I always noticed the super cute ones) and didn't let it bother me. Then, later, I started noticing this one guy more. It just kind of fell into place. Now I'm still waiting to find someone else that's gay in this entire school, and I have to yet to find someone that can just comfort me when I'm down.
I'm so jealous of some of you sometimes.
UpForAnything
November 24th, 2010, 11:04 AM
I first noticed it when I was about 10 and I used to fantasize a lot, but cuz I'm not openly bi I just have to desperately stere. But there is this boy in my year who is so fit and sexy, when we are getting changed for p.e I can't help but look at his massive bulge and his six pack!!!! So hot
Skorupski
November 25th, 2010, 11:17 PM
Well when I was in seventh grade I went on this art website because I was really into drawing. Deviantart.com. I accidently clicked on a picture of a naked man and I thought it was amazing! So I started looking and got into gay porn and so I thought I was gay. But then in ninth grade I went to homecoming with this girl to humor her and we ended up going out for eight months and she was my first love. And I was really confused after w broke up until yesterday when I realized that I was bi. :)
coleman8r 77
November 26th, 2010, 01:35 AM
HEY EVERYONE........is anyone a bi
i am i am mememe hahaha
Haru Taki
November 27th, 2010, 05:04 PM
I realized it when I had a crush on this guy that was my friend, I liked him when I met him, I wanted to do everything I could to be close to him I realized I wanted to be with him....so i realized I was bi...lulz only truly came out with it when he opened up to me and told me he was. xDD
gay_boy94
November 27th, 2010, 06:59 PM
I first started seeing guys as cute or hot in like 4th grade but didn't really understand it the I decided I was bi in 7th when I understood it more then I'd find myself trying to masturbate and think of my girlfriend and my thoughts would trail to hot guy friends and I denied I was gay for a while I just told myself I'm bi just with a weak attraction to girls and I have to overcome it and be with a girl then a few months ago I accepted I'm full out gay :-)
Tristin.
November 27th, 2010, 07:01 PM
congratulations :D
electricfeel
November 28th, 2010, 01:06 AM
Well i just found myself thinking that girls were cute, sooo then i just knew i was bisexual lol. (:
Freektown
December 4th, 2010, 05:50 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
I wish I was as lucky as you! I found out I was gay when I was about 8. I sucked a guys penis, but never thought it was bad until I was about 13, and now I'm 14, I've come out! :D
connorfla
December 4th, 2010, 08:06 PM
ive known i was bi since i was 12 when me and one of my friends sucked eachother and stuff,and i was confussed for a while bc i liked girls too,but i finnaly came to terms that i was bi
Brittany123
December 6th, 2010, 09:03 PM
I always had feelings for girls but I denied it since I was little because I was always told that gay people were evil. I am coompletely out now though
Black Eight
December 6th, 2010, 11:05 PM
I've always loved girls and I think I'll always love them more than guys, but I found out I was bi in 7th grade. Over Christmas Break I would hang out with my friend Sam everyday. One day we were watching a movie and I realized how attractive he was and I wanted to start a relationship with him. Sadly, he had a girlfriend at the time and now that they have broken up he wants to start dating me, but I have a girlfriend that I think I love more than him.
Aless1225
December 8th, 2010, 07:29 PM
I fell n love with my best guy friend
sophiebeachgirl
December 8th, 2010, 08:35 PM
I seem to have always like other girls and kinda interested in boys, but i love going to swim meets to watch the boys in their speedos
williamsalonzo123
December 8th, 2010, 11:40 PM
you just may not even be bi. i thought i was bi, i used to look at guys in awe then i dated a guy, it turned out i dont like the sight of another guys penis. so try dating a guy to really see if you are or not.
bluedreams
December 10th, 2010, 09:07 AM
I'm not sure when I really found out I was, I guess I always had a feeling as I found my self think some times god she cute or hot or something along those lines. I really found out when I was in year 9 though when I actully had a crush on a girl in my class.
Vkid
December 10th, 2010, 10:48 PM
kind of just always known i like both
CMEBACH
December 13th, 2010, 11:06 PM
i found out about a mounth ago that i was bi when my friends who were going out asked me to have sex with them it was kinda weird but it ended up a good idea.
Severus Snape
December 14th, 2010, 12:02 AM
Found meself googling more lads than lassies.
bmr11
December 18th, 2010, 12:21 PM
omg me 2 except i kissed a boy in first grade
SosbanFach
December 22nd, 2010, 07:26 PM
I think , I'm gay, but it's too early for me to tell, emotionally I like girls, but sexually, i feel more attracted to boys. Where I live <---- teens don't accept homosexualism, so I can't reveal my feelings, or I would be bullied relentlessly, please help?!!
Darren1993
December 29th, 2010, 06:56 AM
i always knew i liked boys, when i was in year 2 i had a boyfriend, i always told my family i was gay, so it was never a shock when i came out
Craig1995
December 29th, 2010, 01:09 PM
I never thought about it till I was 11 I can't remember how I realised I was that way but for a long time it was just an attraction and I ignored it then I had a crush and it was like someone punching me in the face and screaming ur gay at me. It was that obvious for me.
Skrate
December 30th, 2010, 10:58 AM
i found out about a mounth ago that i was bi when my friends who were going out asked me to have sex with them it was kinda weird but it ended up a good idea.
Why can't this shit happen to meeeee
Fushigi
January 1st, 2011, 10:04 PM
when i started to feel different...... started to like same sex?? LOL
grstl
January 7th, 2011, 12:58 AM
At 11 had a wet dream about sex with boys.
At 11-13 I craved peeking at my friends, skinnydipping with them and touching and trying blowjobs.
Then at boarding school there were all those penises in the dorm showers. BUT I had to totally avoid hiding my intense interest--it was a religious school.
So I dated girls to be "good".
Now I have a kid--a boy and I am really afraid he will find out how gay I am inside.
My girlfriend thinks I am bi but I have sex with her just because it meets her needs. We are working well to raise the boy.
Nobody else knows.
I AM SO TRAPPED IN THE CLOSET.
Skeptical Bear
January 7th, 2011, 01:18 AM
Not sure exactly what age I knew I was Bi but I just found certain guys hot and had feelings for them. I love girls as well.
Infidelitas
January 12th, 2011, 06:25 AM
Ive always known. It gets awkward when you go to school with a set of identical twins two years younger than you, and all you can think about is shoving your penis up their assws, at the same time while talkin to them about normal day to day stuff. I AM GAY
Chatterbox
January 12th, 2011, 06:29 PM
Just reading all these comments, I can really define a moment, because even now I don't call myself gay or bi, but I know I have feelings for girls. My first kiss was with a girl and even then I still thought I was straight - actually cried myself to sleep because I thought Id done something horribly wrong.
Then when I was like 17, was watching Ellen Degeneres show and she was like "It's ok to be gay" and I always had a crush on her when she was younger and I think now, shes a lovely woman, and her wife Portia is beautiful and they are decent people and I realised theres nothing wrong with it - I think its then when you accept that its ok you gradually find out or "discover" your true sexuality as you aren't so scared to do what you want, even know im still in process, I probably won't bother coming out until im in a serious relationship either.
Hope this has been helpful. I know I sort of went off on one haha. Its a topic I feel quite strongly about and have suffered with for about 6 years.
All the best
CHATTERBOX <3
Chatterbox
January 12th, 2011, 06:34 PM
At 11 had a wet dream about sex with boys.
At 11-13 I craved peeking at my friends, skinnydipping with them and touching and trying blowjobs.
Then at boarding school there were all those penises in the dorm showers. BUT I had to totally avoid hiding my intense interest--it was a religious school.
So I dated girls to be "good".
Now I have a kid--a boy and I am really afraid he will find out how gay I am inside.
My girlfriend thinks I am bi but I have sex with her just because it meets her needs. We are working well to raise the boy.
Nobody else knows.
I AM SO TRAPPED IN THE CLOSET.
Sounds like you've had a pretty hard time with it. Does it get to you or is it something you've pushed to the back of your head?
I admire your strength, in being a good dad and keeping your girlfriend happy all the while struggling with this.
Do you think you'll ever be able to move on and pursue your interest in men?
All the best
CHATTERBOX <3
Benny.
January 13th, 2011, 01:28 PM
I've always knows I've liked guys, from since I was like 11 or so
korat97
January 19th, 2011, 05:49 PM
I suddenly got a crush on a boy in my class
ITSGUCCITIME
January 19th, 2011, 06:05 PM
One day I was play fighting with my bff ...
Lord C
January 21st, 2011, 07:54 PM
Prrrretty much, I can't remember a time when I liked girls...
rockrooster11
January 24th, 2011, 05:17 PM
A girl kissed me in year 8, I pulled away but soon after realised I liked her. By that time it was too late. We don't speak any more anyway :(
perry
January 24th, 2011, 07:27 PM
Well when i was 10 (yeah i know its sick) i went to a new school 20 mins away from my house in france , thair were lodes of english people in the school and i only new one boy thair David and he introduced be to this really good looking kid Don who was 12 and David was 11 (in france kids get held back if thay dont do well enuf in school) , and thay told be about this thing thay did called gay dares , or maby it was gross dares thay called it i cant remember what we called it back then , but anyway , doing gay dares was striping first , then slowly u would do worse dares , like wanking echother of and sucking echotherrs dicks and last having anal sex and other things , anyway i was at Davids house and thats when i first did the dares with David , iv only done it twice with Don but with David iv done this lodes of times , im 13 now and hes 14 and we are still doing the gay dares and im going round his house this saturday , but even after 3 years of dong the gay dares James still wont open up to me and admit hes gay and i still havent actualy told him , thow i know im gay and e must know that hes gay or bi to , but we have never kissed , we have done everything exept kiss... (fake names true story)
perry
January 24th, 2011, 07:31 PM
[QUOTE=perry;1161277]Well when i was 10 (yeah i know its sick) i went to a new school 20 mins away from my house in france , thair were lodes of english people in the school and i only new one boy thair David and he introduced be to this really good looking kid Don who was 12 and David was 11 (in france kids get held back if thay dont do well enuf in school) , and thay told be about this thing thay did called gay dares , or maby it was gross dares thay called it i cant remember what we called it back then , but anyway , doing gay dares was striping first , then slowly u would do worse dares , like wanking echother of and sucking echotherrs dicks and last having anal sex and other things , anyway i was at Davids house and thats when i first did the dares with David , iv only done it twice with Don but with David iv done this lodes of times , im 13 now and hes 14 and we are still doing the gay dares and im going round his house this saturday , but even after 3 years of dong the gay dares James still wont open up to me and admit hes gay and i still havent actualy told him , thow i know im gay and e must know that hes gay or bi to , but we have never kissed , we have done everything exept kiss... (fake names true story) (i have denied being bi till 4 mothes ago and finaly exepted that i was gay 1 month ago even no i have been doing the dares for years)
josh93
January 24th, 2011, 08:48 PM
Iam bi. Oh when i started to have affection for boys and girls.
EvilDeathMist
January 24th, 2011, 11:12 PM
Bi.... And i found out well i guess with experimenting......uhm ive had crushes on girls and i was always like uh... Is this just a stage until i fell like in love with her and guys well i have like major crushes on em'
& dont call me weird for saying this publicly but ive had very embarrising dreams about both sexes.........
sky anna
January 27th, 2011, 04:55 PM
Well I've always liked girls ever since I can remember. My mom pressured me into trying and dating a guy in the 6th grade. I did and it lasted about a month, but I did figure out that I was attracted to guys also from that experience. I still enjoy sex with most women more than I do with most men, but am currently in a relationship with a guy who is amazing!
Mxio
January 28th, 2011, 07:17 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
you are the luckiest kid ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:eek:
ps im gay:D
sdude
January 30th, 2011, 08:22 PM
I think when I was 11 or so, changing for swimming, I just couldn't stop staring at guys with pubes or armpit hair....
TheSleepingInsomniac
February 4th, 2011, 04:19 PM
Same way you know your straight.
PAfarmerkid
February 4th, 2011, 08:18 PM
I started to have feelings for a guy, making me realise Im bi.
beag_amhain
February 6th, 2011, 06:20 PM
id always had a best friend n she was bi n then she told me she thought she was gay by text, then she came over the next day cuz it was a friday n it was like a tradition n we wer watchin the exorcist of emily rose (OMG scariest movie EVER!!!!!) that night wen we went to bed i started kindin freakin out n cudn sleep so she jus turned round n kissed me...i was like n shockfor a few moments before i realised i really liked it...im still kinda attracted ta lads, but more so girls, im bi cuz i love kissing guys n messing around with them bu i dont think i could ever be in a proper relationship with one, its probably bad ta say but it jus feels wrong even just thinkin bout it...
Ryunosuke
February 8th, 2011, 03:05 PM
I found out when my friend spent the night at my house. I"d always loved looking at girl.I thought they were so beautiful..... Males kinda grossed me out. My best friend and I decided to kiss and then we dated for a while. I was devastated when we broke up, but I knew from then on I wasn't straight................
Infidelitas
February 9th, 2011, 10:31 PM
the earliest memory was probably age 9 when a friend and i were watching naked news and i thought, i think i prefer boys. Im out now :P
cpuguy18
February 12th, 2011, 03:40 AM
Masterbaited to gay porn and developed an attraction to guys
kevinjk
February 13th, 2011, 08:19 PM
i guess when me and my friend who has a HUGE dong sarted doing it and it was really fun, btw im in 8th grade
TravM
February 13th, 2011, 08:24 PM
Of course I knew I was attracted to guys before but couldn't admit it, so I really think it was self-reassurance and a little advice that made me realize I'm gay. :)
sdude
February 13th, 2011, 08:52 PM
I think it was when I felt jealous over my best friend and his first gf...I felt really bad, and was kind of mean to her...I realized then I needed to be honest with myself and not blame others for their choices and attractions.
cheergurl
February 17th, 2011, 12:03 AM
i always wanted to kiss my bff when we were growing up, more than any boy lol
thebige
February 18th, 2011, 03:28 PM
i was looking at jocks online and then i realized it.
thatweirdguy
February 18th, 2011, 08:38 PM
always thought i was straight untill i was about 13 and i just saw a guy and found myself attracted to him. that was when i realised i was bi.
Izzybella
February 19th, 2011, 03:05 AM
Thinking back I should have always known but I guess I didnt start to realize until I started middle school
blackout123123
March 1st, 2011, 10:26 PM
Well, I think I realized I was bi during the 6th grade, when I met this AMAZINGLY attractive guy, at first I didn't know if it was really an attraction, but over the years I finally accepted it to myself.
DramaKid13
March 2nd, 2011, 12:23 AM
I'm still questioning a bit, but I'm starting to accept that I'm bi. It sort of started last year in 7th grade when I realized i was staring at boys and thinking stuff like, "he's hot" and then over the summer during a play that our school put on to keep us busy, I met a guy a year younger than me and I got a crush on him. And for the past 6 or 7 months I've been staring at him and lately I've been having fantasies about him and whenever I see him I get butterflies. So, of course, I like him. However I do still crush on girls, but now I crush on guys more often. And that's my story :P
eric whittington
March 19th, 2011, 11:29 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
PLEASE ELABORATE PLZ:eek:
guyfromnowhere
March 23rd, 2011, 12:59 PM
I liked boys in an inappropriate way when I was really young. I didn't realize having these sexual feelings meant anything until I was 9 years old. I had the largest crush on my bff when I was 9 he turned out to be straight.
Spook
March 23rd, 2011, 01:09 PM
I found out I was bi when I felt an attraction to girls. Idk...it wasn't sexual...it was...future-wise. I mean, I thought guys were sexy, but I could see myself getting along and having fun better with girls because they can connect with me. Make sense?
Emiil
April 1st, 2011, 12:12 PM
Same as many other said, first I denied it but now I've accepted it :D.. kinda
KittyCat
April 2nd, 2011, 06:32 PM
Ive known all along. I never really had any guy friends Ive always been around girls more and all my crushes were on girls.
JuJu92
April 2nd, 2011, 08:33 PM
Bi.
Just always been attracted to both from an early age, been noticing guys more lately though.
davisbr2
April 2nd, 2011, 09:59 PM
i have girl freind but when i mastrabte to gay porn
purplehaze
April 6th, 2011, 02:56 AM
I found out when I had a crush on my best friend( a girl) in 6th grade.. I still liked guys but I liked girls too
Tagg
April 10th, 2011, 03:27 AM
Well, when I was 11, me and my best friend, who lives on a farm (yay cow country) were camping in his field and long story short wound up sleeping naked holding each other (don't think dirty, we were 11). From then on, we experimented every once and a while, etc.
However, my family and I are pretty religous so I absolutely refused to think I was gay, and I was pretty torn up about it worrying that I might be. Then, like 6 months ago I worked up the courage to talk to my priest about it and he said there is nothing wrong with it. I realized that it was okay that I like guys.
kaitlyn.killsyou
April 17th, 2011, 12:03 AM
When I was 8 i was searching google for a really cute animated picture of a girl kissing a guy, I put in the search bar girl kissing... and the sugestion box came up girl kissing girl, [now i knew what being gay was, but my family is catholic and it waz looked down on so NO ONE talked about it] verry curious i clicked it and found a video of two girls making out, i could not stop starring, i was only 8 but it made me feel different. after I got into 6th grade the feelings just started coming naturally, I had crushes on girls, i loved cuddling next to them during sleep overs and laying on the stomachs, then finally during new years I made out with another girl, all tounge, and I relized it wasnt gonna o away, and i accepted i was bi(:
mylifeisadrama
April 26th, 2011, 02:51 PM
i feel like im a retard because: im gay, i am sure of that BUT i still like a girl i know and im really confused...
anonymous53
April 26th, 2011, 03:03 PM
Well, I really always was interested in guys. I didn't understand why. Then in ninth grade I was put in a mental facility....where I got a raging crush on my room mate :)
Matt R
April 29th, 2011, 10:52 PM
Well, I think I realized I was bi during the 6th grade, when I met this AMAZINGLY attractive guy, at first I didn't know if it was really an attraction, but over the years I finally accepted it to myself.
Pretty much this...I was actually pretty terrified for a while about me being like one of the only kids in the school who hadn't ever gone out with a girl (which wasn't even true at all). Then I slowly started to realize the crush I'd had on this really good looking guy since 6th grade, and by 8th grade, I was completely obsessed with going out with him, knew I was gay, and didn't really care about getting a girlfriend any more. Still like the guy a lot. Don't know if he's bi or not, even though he kind of seems like it...man I want to ask him out so bad...
Love.Hate
May 4th, 2011, 04:53 PM
I had always been questioning my sexuality from a early age. But never thought much of it, until i developed a huge crush on a girl i know. So i guess i realise im bi, i just love girls and guys. Always have, always will :)
peaceloverugby
May 4th, 2011, 09:40 PM
So I'm not quite sure when I connected the dots and realized that being attracted to guys in every way possible and having zero attraction to girls (sorry ladies) meant I was gay.
But looking back, I've always been attracted to guys. My earliest memory of it is this: I grew up in Texas, and if you don't know, they are obsessed with American football down there. We lived in a pretty small town, and the quarterback of the high school football team lived across the street. His younger sister would babysit me sometimes. Anyways, I remember one day when I was 5 or 6 years old, Jake was mowing his lawn shirtless. And I just stood there in the dining room, staring out the window at him. That's when I realized that I liked boys. xD
HunterXZ
May 5th, 2011, 01:47 AM
I'm still unsure about myself, since I find myself capable of being sexually and romantically attracted to guys, but just romantically attracted to girls. I'm not sure if it's gay or bi, but I tell myself that I'm bi, but I feel like I might just be gay.
I found out when this one dude in 8th grade had his locker above mine (I had a bottom) and he would uh...do stuff...to my back. I first, I thought it was the gayest thing in the world, but after a while, I grew to like it. Also, I got exposed to porn at an early age, and been watching ever since O_O
yang
May 6th, 2011, 12:18 AM
I think it was like 2 years ago when I figured out I was bi. I blame that guy for exciting me showing me his peen!
Vanyauey
May 6th, 2011, 07:47 AM
I am bi I only admitted it this year and everyone says my being bi is the missing piece of the puzzle of my life.
Starlight Blaze
May 8th, 2011, 12:29 AM
well i started to realize a long time ago, can't remember exactly when, sometime in middle school. however, i hadnt accepted til a few weeks ago, when i met an amzing person named Tommy (refer to sig) and together we truly accepted that we are gay it was actually really nice, and now im starting to come out :D
Shred96
May 8th, 2011, 01:45 PM
I knew about beying bi and all before i realized it. One day i was masturbating and i realized i loved my own dick to the extent that i like other dicks too, dont get me wrong i get hard ons thinking about girls all the time but beying with guys sis so much easier, chicks are pains, especially when you have the only blue/yellow eyes in the school and when your built like a teenage football player. any body else has this problem?
Jimmyjohn14
May 8th, 2011, 10:44 PM
Right now, I think i am gay but I dont think I am gay. I'm just confused. I may have looked at another guys ass and jacked off with another guy no touching though. But I am attracted to girls too. Maybe I'm bi, I don't know.
Mewp
May 9th, 2011, 12:17 AM
I got pretty trashed at a party when I was 17 and ended up sleeping with a cute guy I previously knew (from the gym, of all places). Really enjoyed it, went through a stage of thinking I was bi-sexual before realising I just liked being with men so much more.
*Edited to add the age.
Jimmyjohn14
May 11th, 2011, 07:39 PM
I think I am bi or else im just bi curious...... so anyways here is my story..
So me and my best friend wanted to hang out on a weekend.. We hung out that day did whatever played xbox. Then he wanted me to sleep over, and i was fine with that.. He has 2 couches in his living room and I slept on the one and he slept on the other. He wanted to play truth or dare out of know were. So I started with truth and he kept on saying dare. then he asked if he can give me a hand job, which this is my first time and i was attracted to girls. I said yes for some reason, well i was very horny. And he gave me a hj. it accutally felt really good. :)
I know he is gay but then the next week i got a girlfriend. im pretty sure im bi.
theatregeek
May 11th, 2011, 10:29 PM
I came out freshman year of high school, realized I was gay in seventh grade, but I always kinda crushed on guys thinking thats how friends were supposed to feel. My dad knew before me though...he told me I asked for ruby slippers like Dorothy when I was five. That was the rainbow point of no return I imagine.
Joshuagoesrawr2
May 14th, 2011, 01:34 PM
I have always had feelings for guys. Then when I started middle school, things got worse. I started liking guys and I was fantasizing over them. I still do but not as much. Most of my fens are girls, and they are so popular. They date all these HAWT boys and I get so jealous. I have two particular frens that are guys. They know my sexuality and are ok with it. I get so jealous when i see them with girls. One of them says he isnt bi but everyone thinks so. He is my best fren va and is someone i can relate too. He recently got his first girlfren who is my fren. Im so jealous. She knows and doesnt care about me liking him. But he doesnt know. Me and him go to the movies every friday night and we sometimes tlk on the phone while we are watchin the same show. Even though I know we arent going out, in my mind, our friday nights are like dates. Middle school is usually when you find out your sexuality. So i know how it is.
Drew7
May 15th, 2011, 02:10 PM
i really like some of my guy friends, not sure if i'm gay or not. i admire some of the older guys, idk, it's part of why i joined this thing.
youngboy22
May 17th, 2011, 10:19 AM
i was born gay, i think everyone has dna being one or theother i knew i was gay or different when i was 6
bhoyS
May 21st, 2011, 05:27 AM
I realised I was gay/bi after a school trip to france and i was about 12/13.....I then started to find it hard to get hard over girls....I still can but it takes sooooo long whereas when I look at a boy its up straight away and it feels so right
MustangRacer35
May 22nd, 2011, 01:16 AM
In middle school there were some people who called me gay and made fun of me so that's something that tipped me off but it wasn't until high school that I noticed that I was looking at some guys the same way as girls. It wasn't until the end of my sophomore year/beginning of my junior year that I figured I was possibly bi but to this day I'm unsure. I'm somewhere from curious to bi.
Ashleigh
May 23rd, 2011, 12:37 PM
well in year five i would always find myself being attracted to my best mate and then when i moved up to high school i met another girl and started really liking her...... i denied it for years but i decided it was pointless avoiding the truth and i came out about a month or so ago. xx
Crocbait230
May 27th, 2011, 12:00 PM
Sleepover in 8 grade (girls only)
we were playing truth or dare and i got dared to get in my underwear
another girl was told to feel me up
3rd girl was told to kiss me
then that was it we all got horny and kind of had an exploring time
wala instantly bisexual
LifeisLife
May 28th, 2011, 08:19 AM
I found out quiet early... I knew I was different from the rest in 4th grade, when I started having a little crush on a guy I knew it was weird and different and out of the ordinary...
Zebra143
June 1st, 2011, 01:37 AM
I'm still not 100% sure if I'm bi... I try to deny it, but I don't know what I'm even trying to deny. I love my girlfriend, but I also love my best guy friend who just admitted to liking me. My girlfriend is SO much better to me than he is, but I think I only like him to prove I'm not gay. I'm so confused.
Tony223
June 4th, 2011, 12:19 PM
it happend at starbucks lol...i saw this cute guy serving us and i got a weird feeling in my stomach (butterflies) and i couldnt stop starring at him. i thought i was gay at first but then i saw this hot girl and i couldnt stop looking at her body.
Parlement
June 5th, 2011, 03:35 PM
It just came to me. I didn't come to conclusions fast, and just waited to see what I really did like without paying much thought to it.
TheDoctor
June 5th, 2011, 11:51 PM
For me it was around grade six when I really started to think about guys. I remember catching my self looking at other guys in the change room or just staring at guys in class. But then my ex GF came around and she was one of the best things that happened to my life because she showed me that I like both :D
Parlement
June 5th, 2011, 11:56 PM
Well put TheDoctor. I've had somewhat of the same experience. It also happened in grade 6, and much like you, I was in a relationship with a girl that is now my ex. Gosh I miss her so much...
nonexistant
June 6th, 2011, 09:48 PM
when i was in middle school
Parlement
June 7th, 2011, 02:25 PM
It seems to happen to a lot of people in middle school. Although I don't think kids should label themselves till later in life.
AllThatYouDreamed
June 7th, 2011, 04:48 PM
The complete and utter lack of attraction to men kinda gave it away.
asnboy
June 7th, 2011, 07:59 PM
I have feelings for both boys and girls so i think i m bi
EscapeTheFate
June 14th, 2011, 08:37 PM
Iv never done anything with a guy before, only girls. But iv always thought guys were cute/hot. And iv always wanted to experiment.. :p
joeyjorulz
June 15th, 2011, 12:54 AM
revulsion after kissing a boy in grade 5
Nicci
June 17th, 2011, 02:09 AM
I never really thought about liking 'only' guys or 'only girls', I only knew when I liked someone. I didn't think about it until a few years ago when I was...12 or 13? I started to actually fall in love with my best friend. That is when 'sexuality' was brought to my attention and I was in a stir/frenzy thinking 'Am I a lesbian?' Or "Am I straight?" I had a constant dread that I had to choose one, and if I choose wrong I would regret it. When I was about 14 I fooled around with a girl (sexual tension I guess? my best friend said she liked me but things didn't go well...LONG story). I liked it, but never went to far. That same year I was on the internet since the 'straight or lesbian' thought was constantly in my head. That is when I found out about 'bi-sexual'. I also read an interview of my favorite artist, MIKA, who said he just didn't care who he loved and didn;t want to label himself. That is when I had my 'revelation'. A peace spread throughout my body when I excepted that I was the same way.
JField
June 17th, 2011, 01:10 PM
I never really thought about liking 'only' guys or 'only girls', I only knew when I liked someone. I didn't think about it until a few years ago when I was...12 or 13? I started to actually fall in love with my best friend. That is when 'sexuality' was brought to my attention and I was in a stir/frenzy thinking 'Am I a lesbian?' Or "Am I straight?" I had a constant dread that I had to choose one, and if I choose wrong I would regret it. When I was about 14 I fooled around with a girl (sexual tension I guess? my best friend said she liked me but things didn't go well...LONG story). I liked it, but never went to far. That same year I was on the internet since the 'straight or lesbian' thought was constantly in my head. That is when I found out about 'bi-sexual'. I also read an interview of my favorite artist, MIKA, who said he just didn't care who he loved and didn;t want to label himself. That is when I had my 'revelation'. A peace spread throughout my body when I excepted that I was the same way.
Same Thing here basically. Im actually glad i read this seeing as i thought i was one of few who didnt want to be labled and its just a matter of who not what kind or race or anything else. That doesnt count to me.
poocsl
June 18th, 2011, 07:57 AM
Well to be honest I pretty much knew I liked boys and such since like prechool, just didn't know what to call it. I reliezed this when me and this neighbor boy had this "secret naked handshake". Plus I've always found girls as more so companions. I finally in 7th grade was like, "Guess what people?!". :yeah:
winston19x
June 19th, 2011, 12:02 AM
Hmm okay so I was about 7 or 8 years old and my mom went over a friends house and I went with her and my moms friend has a son and so we went in the room and started playing and for some reason we started kissing , I guess curious ? Idunno . I can't remember that well and then my mom some hosed figured out and BEAT THE BREAKS OFF ME :'( ! Right then and there I knew she don't Like gays or would accept me if I'm gay (I'm bi , by the way) and ever since then Ive had attraction to males , it kinda hurts thinking about it because of what my mom said and did , but the last is the past and i like myself or who I am . ! Lol but I love girls too.
Fishes
June 21st, 2011, 07:32 AM
the firsst kind of porn i ever saw was gay porn and ive just been considering my self straight but curious cause im attracted to girls too. but this year there was a guy i had in gym and he was reeaaally hot. then we started hanging out and i realised i had feeelings for him that werent just sexual so i am now bi
Gleeboy1995
June 21st, 2011, 08:35 PM
When I was laying next to my best friend after spending the night at his house and the had the urge to take off his boxers and suck on his dick
CyanideGoodnight
June 23rd, 2011, 04:29 PM
Well I realized because I fell in love with my best friend, who is in a relationship with her best friend. Long story short, I realized that I think I've always had some feelings for girls too, but didn't really realize it until I actually fell in love with my friend. I don't really label myself as anything though, and so far only a nice safe number (two, me and my other best gay guy "brother") know as of yet.
Unsolvedmind
June 23rd, 2011, 11:53 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont
laugh.... :oops: THis is the BEST story ever!!!!!
Default
June 25th, 2011, 11:35 PM
Having no attraction whatsoever to the opposite sex gave it away for me.
Sentimental-Girl
June 26th, 2011, 11:55 AM
I'm still trying to work that one out LOL
I guess the first memory of me liking girls was when I thought my pe teacher was hot. We were really close, we would hang out at before school, during lunch, and after school. At first I thought it wasn't a attraction but maybe I just looked up to her. Then we had a school trip and we were away together for a month by the time we got back I was like yeaaap I fancy her....Two years later I realised I loved her and there was nothing I could do about it :( which made me hate her even more lol...but it wasn't until I was 17 that I finally accepted that I liked girls. I wouldn't say I'm a lesbian because I still don't know if I'd date a guy, but all I know is I like the girlies hehe :p
hotasian95
June 29th, 2011, 05:39 PM
I found out I was bi when I started making out with my girl friend when I was 12. I knew I would always be attracted to men, but I also understood was sexually attracted to girls.
Levi scott
July 1st, 2011, 05:54 AM
i had always just thought men to be more attractive than women, so im gay and i love me :P
Luka
July 3rd, 2011, 11:43 PM
Almost everyone in middelschool-highschool at some-point feels a sexual tension with the same sex. I do, my guy friends are fucking hot. im not gay, although i do think their super hot. My town is just small,i know everyone so we know when someone is joking
death_to_my_heart
July 8th, 2011, 11:21 PM
i first found out last year
ChrisG
July 10th, 2011, 02:34 AM
I stumbled across gay porn, found out that I felt the same sexually towards men as I do women. :D
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